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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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My boyfriend has a micro-penis condition and I don't know what to do.
Q. I've just come across this site because I've been researching the 'micropenis' condition. I hadn't ever heard of this up until a few hours ago. I've been going out with this amazing guy for three months now and have never been happier. As ...
A. 24 July 2012: I have to agree with Cerberus here. He doesn't have a medical condition. He has a small penis.
After all your research on this, what is it you've learned that makes you think a visit to the doctor is going to "cure" this?
The real question should b... (read in full...)
I got dumped for going to a strip club!
Q. Ok I have a girl friend and she broke up with me because I went to a strip club with my friends on a company trip is she over reacting we been dating for 9 months...
A. 22 July 2012: She doesn't think she's overreacting. You think she is..... What would you say to your mum if she was in this position?
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How to keep a guy?
Q. I'll try to make this as short as possible. My question is more how to keep a guy. My problem is, I never seem to be able to stay in a relationship, or even let it get to a serious relationship. The thing is, it's me that breaks it, not them. I just ...
A. 22 July 2012: Oh, and don't sleep with anyone for now.
If that's too difficult, well..... time for qualified professional counseling! It's all good!
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How to keep a guy?
Q. I'll try to make this as short as possible. My question is more how to keep a guy. My problem is, I never seem to be able to stay in a relationship, or even let it get to a serious relationship. The thing is, it's me that breaks it, not them. I just ...
A. 22 July 2012: How to keep a guy? Have you tried not breaking up with him?
I'm not trying to be sarcastic, I am basing this answer on your post.
Just enjoy being with him.
Enjoy his company.
Silence that busy body in your head that is creating drama.
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My Marriage is slowly disintegrating;
Q. I separated from husband 4months ago. We're married for 5months. I found an excuse to get out since i felt emotionally abused. He made every discussion and living very difficult and we just never saw eye to eye,(finances, household chores, living ...
A. 22 July 2012: You were married for one month and then separated? I think a reasonable solution is to seek an annulment, as you haven't really been husband and wife and now you are 6000 miles apart?
I think the really wise solution for you would be to have an atto... (read in full...)
He has orgasms regularly and I have almost none... any tips? I'm feeling very jealous!
Q. My current sex life is great apart from one fact - my boyfriend gets a lot more pleasure than i do. I get a lot of pleasure from sex and foreplay but almost never climax from anything, and when i do, it takes a looong time. We have already tried the ...
A. 22 July 2012: I think what's really sad is that some people never get to enjoy orgasm. Either because they have partners who don't take the time or they themselves never take the time to learn what works for them.
We women aren't trying to avoid or hide an orga... (read in full...)
Is is possible to find only one person beautiful?
Q. My friend told me that he only finds his wife beautiful.Is it possible? I've searched on the net a bit about it and found 7 men and 10 women who says they only find their gfs or bfs beautiful. Are there these kind of people?...
A. 22 July 2012: It's kind of sad, isn't it, to think that someone finds beauty in only one person in the entire world, when there is so much beauty all around us.... :/
So limiting and so tightly closed in, it doesn't actually sound healthy to me....
If your fri... (read in full...)
I think I am always going to be second best.
Q. Dear Cupid Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months now and i'm a little worried. Around a year ago he had just broken up with his last serious girlfriend of 2 and a half years and it really affected him and i know he's still a bit...
A. 21 July 2012: I would definitely give him the time and space he needs to heal on his own. The drinking thing would concern me too, especially considering the violence he exhibited with that.
"Babe, get a therapist, a counselor, a psychologist, as soon as poss... (read in full...)
He is willing to give me up if I want a more secure relationship ...
Q. A person who doesn't like expectations and commitment in a relationship but tells you he is in love with you and the love is real and pure. Is this love or just playing games? I am in love with a person who tells me this and my relationship wit...
A. 21 July 2012: He's happy to be with you as long as you are willing to accept his terms. Funny, he says he dislikes commitment, yet he remains married. Now THERE'S an obvious clue he says one thing and acts in another way.
Do you need someone to make a thou... (read in full...)
Is is possible to find only one person beautiful?
Q. My friend told me that he only finds his wife beautiful.Is it possible? I've searched on the net a bit about it and found 7 men and 10 women who says they only find their gfs or bfs beautiful. Are there these kind of people?...
A. 21 July 2012: There's beauty as seen through the eyes and retinas and there is beauty as seen from the heart and spirit.
I know very handsome men and beautiful women, by the physical standards of society today, who are really ugly as people, because of the cont... (read in full...)
He has orgasms regularly and I have almost none... any tips? I'm feeling very jealous!
Q. My current sex life is great apart from one fact - my boyfriend gets a lot more pleasure than i do. I get a lot of pleasure from sex and foreplay but almost never climax from anything, and when i do, it takes a looong time. We have already tried the ...
A. 21 July 2012: Buy a vibrator and introduce that into your mutual sex play. First though, I would recommend some time alone with it, so you can see what it can do for you. If you know how to reach orgasm now, the vibrator will make it easier and faster. If you ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to look "girly" during sex
Q. okay here goes! I want my boyfriend to wear black eyeliner (around the entire eye) and have sex with me. just once. maybe very occasionally since it's very weird but it's a fantasy i want fufilled! i don't know how he's going to feel about this, ...
A. 20 July 2012: Good luck! O_O (practicing eyeliner.... ;) )... (read in full...)
I'm getting scared of my online BF. How do I tell him that fact?
Q. I broke up with my bf C and now dating him...lets call him King. We both met on an online free publishing site. Anyways, I was on another chat site, a chat with strangers (i was bored), and I keep getting men and women on there wanting to bed me, ...
A. 20 July 2012: I'm happy to hear you have met him in real life, and that your family knows him as well. However, this doesn't mean you must continue to date him. Just tell him that this isn't working for you and say goodbye. I would focus on your personal safety ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend WANTS to perform oral on me. However, I DON'T want it!
Q. Hi. As the title suggests, my girlfriend does want to perform oral sex on me. She keeps asking, every, single, time that I'm alone with her. I tell her, "No. I'm not ready for that. I am, however, ready for intercourse.", and she tells me she doe...
A. 20 July 2012: It may be time to work up enough nerve to ask for help. This sort of thinking may ruin a healthy sex life.... It sounds as though you saw a therapist, once and are not in active treatment or taking any meds. Sometimes the brave and sensible thing to ... (read in full...)
To cut or not to cut? (Hair)
Q. This may be a stupid question to ask but should i cut my hair or no? I have been going through some changes as far as my confidence level and decided that I need to start doing more for myself as far as what makes me feel good. I dyed my hair thi...
A. 20 July 2012: Try shorter hair without the shaved side thing; that's a pretty dramatic look and you need the right shape of face. Also, if it doesn't work, it'll take longer to grow out.
Hair grows back, why not give it a try? You may regret it but it'll only... (read in full...)
Girlfriend WANTS to perform oral on me. However, I DON'T want it!
Q. Hi. As the title suggests, my girlfriend does want to perform oral sex on me. She keeps asking, every, single, time that I'm alone with her. I tell her, "No. I'm not ready for that. I am, however, ready for intercourse.", and she tells me she doe...
A. 20 July 2012: Are you being treated for your OCD?... (read in full...)
Were my mum's actions to pull out the house sale justified?
Q. I have been renting a room in a house share for about 5 years. I am living with 5 other people and at times i didn't like it but i didn't have a choice. I have always worked full time. All my friends were getting on the property ladder and getti...
A. 20 July 2012: There are other flats for sale out there and it sounds as though you really hadn't worked through the details properly with your mother.
If you are saving to buy a flat, things like holidays may not be possible, you do realize that, don't you? Perh... (read in full...)
Could you girls explain to me the feelings behind a crush on a celebrity and the feelings you have for your bf?
Q. Im curious to know what the difference is between your celebrity crushes and the feeling you have for your boyfriend. I know everyone is attracted to other people, but to what extent? I mean, you'll gush over whomever the actor may be, be it orlan...
A. 20 July 2012: The crush is based on a projection of what you hope the celeb is like. Let's take George Cluny. He's handsome, successful, seems suave and polished and appears to be living a jetsetter life with whatever he needs at his fingertips. He looks like he ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend WANTS to perform oral on me. However, I DON'T want it!
Q. Hi. As the title suggests, my girlfriend does want to perform oral sex on me. She keeps asking, every, single, time that I'm alone with her. I tell her, "No. I'm not ready for that. I am, however, ready for intercourse.", and she tells me she doe...
A. 20 July 2012: You are aware that your cells are being eaten by other creatures already, right? "Dust mites like to eat dead skin from pets and humans. Since flakes of skin normally fall off humans unnoticed every day, mites aren't likely to starve. An average ... (read in full...)
Husband insists on going clubbing without wife - why
Q. So here's my problem in a nutshell I believe my husband is having a midlife crisis and I don't see a way back from this - so any advice will be appreciated. We are both in our forties and some months ago he started going out with his friends on ...
A. 20 July 2012: The gym and the counselor is good. Still go get a lawyer and get a game plan. Have plan B ready. Birdynumnums gave you excellent advice.
Going out with your girlfriends is a nice idea but does not alter the fact that you need to continue to plan... (read in full...)
I'm confused does this guy like me or not?
Q. I recently met this cute guy on a cruise, he talks about his gf, a lot and stuff. But he always asks to give me massages and asked me a lot of sexual questions. he says he likes tall girls like me and that his gf isn't super hot and wishes he was ...
A. 20 July 2012: He likes his penis A LOT, I'm certain. You, and possibly his girlfriend, are merely convenient toys for the amusement of his penis. Even if you never touched it or saw it, you provided his penis a lot of happy stimulation.
I'd say he likes his peni... (read in full...)
Does this married man love me?
Q. Is this love or not,This man i'm seeing never has said he loves me,but do these actions say otherwise, he texts me every morning and nite calls me everyday some times more than once 7 day a week,tells me he misses me heaps,calls me sweet names,like ...
A. 20 July 2012: His main action is this: he stays married. That pretty much tells you, at the end of the day, where his heart lies.
The rest is easy-peasy, little gestures that at the end of the day, mean nothing, because they don't change the main action.
You c... (read in full...)
I want gentle sex!
Q. My boyfriend likes rough sex. i do enjoy it sometimes but sometimes i want gentle and sweet. im too scared to ask him though. we tried going gentle before. he just gets overwhelmed and starts going fast and hard. i don't mind the speed but the ...
A. 20 July 2012: Stop having sex with him until you feel comfortable enough to talk to him about it. If you are 'too scared' to talk about your needs and wants, there's something wrong. It could be that you are too shy or it could be that this is a very controlling ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to look "girly" during sex
Q. okay here goes! I want my boyfriend to wear black eyeliner (around the entire eye) and have sex with me. just once. maybe very occasionally since it's very weird but it's a fantasy i want fufilled! i don't know how he's going to feel about this, ...
A. 19 July 2012: Do you actually want him to look 'girly' or is this about him looking a bit Goth, or like Captain Jack Sparrow?
Is he into fantasy and sexual play? Or is he strictly a" do it in the approved manner or not at all" kind of guy? Has he asked you to w... (read in full...)
I'm having to chose between the gym to keep my body or my girlfriend!
Q. Here' s the thing. My girlfriend has been complaining of lately that I don't spend enough time with her. I can totally understand her argument because I simply have too much going on to devote a large majority of my time to her. I work full time, ...
A. 19 July 2012: How much time are you spending at the gym? How much time are you spending with her? You didn't elaborate on that.
From a woman's perspective, there's no point in having a boyfriend with huge muscles if he's not around. If the only time you want... (read in full...)
I'm getting scared of my online BF. How do I tell him that fact?
Q. I broke up with my bf C and now dating him...lets call him King. We both met on an online free publishing site. Anyways, I was on another chat site, a chat with strangers (i was bored), and I keep getting men and women on there wanting to bed me, ...
A. 19 July 2012: I think it's time to turn off the computer, put down the smartphone, stay out of chat rooms and focus on real life and real people in your life.
Tell King that you've decided you don't want to date anyone for the time being and that you are sign... (read in full...)
Unprotected oral sex risky?
Q. Divorced, and having casual sex for first time in life, use condoms. Realistically, what are the chances of getting a disease from giving a man unprotected oral sex? Not swallowing. I know that HIV is difficult to pass that way. And the two ...
A. 19 July 2012: http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/4-things-you-didnt-know-about-oral-sex
HIV, HPV, herpes are all spread this way. It is not a myth. And the herpes virus doesn't really care if it's a mouth or genitals, it is a non-discrimatory viru... (read in full...)
Two questions I'd like help with please...
Q. Question 1: Why would a girl frequently ask for a guy to post photos of himself, on Facebook? Is it like, some sort of hint of secret attraction, or something? Question 2: Why would you rub your thighs around a younger man? (For simplicit...
A. 19 July 2012: I get poison ivy sometimes. I rub the affected area instead of scratching, when I become aware of the itch. I try to make sure no one is around but I expect sometimes I do it without even realizing it. It's like a reflex. Get an itch, you scratch. ... (read in full...)
Is this behavior OK?
Q. Is is ok for my boyfriend to sit on his porch and have beers with his female neighbor without me, possibly go inside if the weather is too hot and have drinks with her in there?...
A. 18 July 2012: If you are here asking the question, it sounds like you don't think it is.
Are YOU friends with this neighbor? Does she invite you over for beers and visits too?... (read in full...)
He wants oral from me, but wont return the favor. Is it because of my body?
Q. hi, i am having alot of confussions about my relationship. sence i met my boyfriend he was always the quite one and shy in the group but smart about anything , and he loves things that i love , such as racing, mechanicing, etc.. i have been with my ...
A. 18 July 2012: What does he do for you, exactly? Anything at all, or are you just a masturbatory aid for him?
If he's this demanding and boring in bed, I would leave, honestly, why stick around with a selfish guy? This type of attitude usually plays out in the ... (read in full...)
Are cold sores herpes?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit stupid but please bare with me. I'm 20 years old and I've just found out I have herpes simplex type 1. I haven't been tested, I've been told that cold sores are herpes? I've had cold sores since I was a baby and I didn'...
A. 17 July 2012: Your country has a great resource in the NHS's website which offers very valuable medical information on a great variety of conditions, diseases and illnesses.
Here are the relevant links:
http:... (read in full...)
Should I listen to my dad or should I just marry this awesome guy and relax?
Q. Hi! I'm getting married next month. My beloved fiancé has just found out that he's gonna have to move abroad for the next 7 months and I'm devastated. I've talked about this to my dad (who never supported this marriage in the first place)and he said ...
A. 17 July 2012: Talk to your dad about his concerns about your fiancee. He has a reason as to why he doesn't support this relationship and you may as well set his mind at ease. I'd include your fiancée in these discussions with dad.
You're old enough to decide what... (read in full...)
If this online guy has lied about simple stuff like this, I don't know what more he could lie about!
Q. I'm a 18 year old girl. Im pretty mature, not kiddish at all. I met a guy on a penpal site around 3 years ago and he introduced himself as just John (name obviously changed). He told me he was 24 then (should be 27 now) We eventually lost touch ...
A. 17 July 2012: You met this guy when you were 15. He's been grooming you ever since. Of course he lied about his age. You were 15, gullible and naive, and he didn't want to lose the chance with you.
Men who pick up 15 year olds in chat rooms have something wron... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want to have a wedding but not get married legally?
Q. I'm talking to my ex again and things are heading in the right direction. However, I recently inherited a lot of money so my life is going to be very different. I'm planning to travel a lot and I'm not planning to have a "real" job. I just want to ...
A. 17 July 2012:
As you seem very concerned to preserve your fortune, it would be a very good idea for you to consult with an attorney and a financial planner. I believe there are precedents for 'galimony' even if there isn't an official wedding, so you may need... (read in full...)
I'm not wet enough for sex and I'm unsure why
Q. I'm having trouble getting wet with my bf. We pretty much have to use lube every time we have sex. We've been together for a year and before him I've never had to do that. I can't say that I get super wet anyway (for instance, i hear that some women ...
A. 17 July 2012: You're probably now so focused on this as a problem that you are having trouble relaxing and just letting go and enjoying the sex.
Some women do not produce a great deal of lubrication. Maybe your glands aren't as cooperative or as present as you ... (read in full...)
Do you think women have a more difficult time letting go?
Q. This is just a general question, but do you agony aunts find that girls have a harder time getting over exes than guys? Every girl I know has an ex who they still have a thing for if even in just a small way. I admit to still being attracte...
A. 17 July 2012: I think women and men process breakups differently. Like going to the doctor. I think more men die from stubbornness each year than women. Women go see their gynos, get their mammograms, and seem to pay more attention to their physical symptoms. ... (read in full...)
Am I doing these Kegels correctly?
Q. Hi all! I've been trying to do my kegel exercises, not because I feel as though I'm loose down there or anything but I would like to be able to grip my boyfriend harder during sex as he finds its really pleasureable, I've never done kegels before s...
A. 17 July 2012: Keep on trying. When you first start an exercise regime, which is what this is, you'll find your muscles don't cooperate as you'd like. Keep on trying and you'll find that over time, you'll be able to do those things.
I'd bring it up with your gyno... (read in full...)
My husband ogles other women, flirts with other women in front of me, and is mean about my body since I had our baby.
Q. I had our baby 5 months ago. During my pregnancy, I was on serious bed rest, and meds, for 3 months, then after, I had to recover from Caesarean for another few months. I was approx 110lbs when I got pregnant, and gained quite a bit of weight due ...
A. 17 July 2012: I wholeheartedly agree with Aunty BimBim. Print off this letter and share it with your doctor as well as your husband. I think that will give you the best possible way to deal with your anger and your pain. You are hurting and deserve to be heard.
B... (read in full...)
I want to invite my friend over for a meal but don't really have the room!
Q. Dear Aunts (and Uncles), I'm not sure what to do about this dilemna and really need help! I have decided that I REALLY must invite a close friend of mine over to my place and I want to prepare a nice meal for him. The trouble is, I rent a r...
A. 17 July 2012: We were once invited over to the small apartment (flat) friends of ours own. Their kitchen is so tiny it's difficult for them to cook a meal to entertain. So they made some simple hors d'oeuvres, offered us a glass of wine or a cocktail, and we ... (read in full...)
Am I the problem... or her?
Q. Is it me or her ? Ok my gf and I been dating for a while now. We started out fine till when she started acting sneaky i call it. I cant see her every time we plan on seeing each other. She always makes up an excuse, the first time was she had to ...
A. 17 July 2012: A nurse who has a bad tumor and cancer undergoing chemotherapy feels well enough to go to an amusement park? She's a nurse who works evenings but has a curfew set by her brothers? And before that she worked nights?
I'd say move on. Someone is bein... (read in full...)
I found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way.
Q. Found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way. Its a shock. I like him a lot but I feel like running and fast. He already has two! I have no kids and though I love them I have no desire to have them now or to be a stepmom honestly. I know ...
A. 17 July 2012: You're not being a coward. The guy who has twins on the way and two children already is the guy who is shirking his responsibility. At the very least, to wear a condom.
I think you can do better than a guy who has so much trouble with cont... (read in full...)
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