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Lack of contact from b/f is making me question everything!

Q.   Here is a little bit of what has been going on I lost contact with my boyfriend for month in November and I was trying to get back into contact with him we never broke up but he lives 2 hours away and his phone was messed up then his boss ran it o...

A.   7 January 2012: This guy is trying to make you feel guilty when he was attempting to get you to do more for him. And he is sheeting the blame on to you when really it is he who did not contact you. This hints at some unreliability on his part. When I guy does... (read in full...)

He says he is too tired to have sex.

Q.   i have be with my boyfriend for 2 years we are both older and have kids from other parnters we both work long hours on the farm sometime 12 hours a day. We use to have sex all the time but now it maybe once a month sometime I ask if he want to make ...

A.   7 January 2012: Maybe it is time you both had a thorough health check at the Doctor with blood and urine tests? Hormones can play havoc with health, though I suspect the two of you are just plain physically exhausted. Because 12 hours a day (probably 7 days a week) ... (read in full...)

Help. Tips please. How can I sit opposite her at dinner and act as if nothing has happened between her and my BF? I want to be dignified.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am very much in love with him, and we are really very committed to each other. However, a few months ago, I kissed a random guy whilst on a night out (I was very, very drunk) I felt terrible. Really...

A.   6 January 2012: Before you go to the dinner have a sit down discussion with your boyfriend to ensure that both of you are on the same page and singing from the same book. Go in there and wipe the slate clean. Say nothing about the event. Be pleasant. Act nice... (read in full...)

Confident when drunk and flirting...shy when we're intimate...How do I gain confidence?

Q.   I've been in my current job now for the last 6 months and moved departments 3 months ago. That was where I met this guy who isnt quite in my department but is close by...close enough that I see him daily. Well if im being honest Im rather popula...

A.   6 January 2012: This is a tough bit of advice that I need to give you. And it is to never get super personal with a guy you work with. Because GUYS do talk to each other and compare notes. If you come across as too eager and too friendly and forward then a guy ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel angry after breaking up with a loser?

Q.   About a month ago I broke up with my then-boyfriend. We had been together for a year and a half at that point (it was an online relationship), but he was not good for me for a number of reasons, most obviously because he is 31 years older than me. ...

A.   6 January 2012: it is normal to feel duped by a manipulative confidence trickster. I always feel that those closest to you know you very well. His own children have had enough of him. He monopolized your time and cheated you out of time when you should have been... (read in full...)

We were on a break but he withheld information. Do I have the right to be upset about it?

Q.   My boyfriend is 12 years older than me, we were together for about a year and then on/off for another year, i.e. we didn't talk very often while I was away at university but would see each other, go to the movies etc whenever i was back home. ...

A.   6 January 2012: it sounds like he needed some space and maybe wanted to think about a few issues. Yes you do have a right to be upset. It is a betrayal of trust in the relationship. Trust though is central to any relationship and he clearly did not fully tr... (read in full...)

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