Why do always have to pee after sex? Sometimes there's blood in it...
Q. so i was just wondering, everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i have to pee after. but i dont actually have to pee like when i do pee after its not a lot. it just feels like i have to pee really bad. like today it was so bad i actually peed my ...
A. 19 August 2008: it really sounds like you have a urinary tract infection and when you have sex it irritates it. does it hurt a bit when you pee? or when you hold it for a while? you should really go get checked out hun cause blood in your urine is not good and a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he is a virgin, but then I found an old condom box and a condom wrapper in his closet. Could he be lying?
Q. Hi there. I have a kind of wierd question, but I'm looking for some opinions. Alright, so i was with my boyfriend a few nights ago, and we were trying to find some movie in his closet. So we're looking and all of a sudden i find this box. Its ...
A. 19 August 2008: he probably told you its his brothers cause hes embarressed to tell you why he uses them. he could be masterbating with them. you never know. but he could be lying. but give him the benefit of the doubt. just ask him what you said here. see what he ... (read in full...)
How can I keep my boobs perky?
Q. Hi there. I have a weird question, maybe some women can help.I am 30 and attractive with a good body and very firm breasts.In fact I have an obssession with them, i.e. I don't like saggy breasts, so I ALWAYS wear a bra, I avoid dresses and blouses, ...
A. 19 August 2008: my breast started sagging when i was 16 so i really think it depends on the person and your genetic background. just always wear an extremely supportive bra like a victoria secret bra. dont ever wear a $10 cheapie. support is key. but i have to tell ... (read in full...)
Contraceptive injection-how long it takes for the body to get back to normal??
Q. I was on the contraceptive injection from December 2007 to April 2008, I still haven't started my periods again after 4 months, do you know how long it takes for the body to get back to normal??...
A. 17 August 2008: It took me a full year to get back to normal.... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant, or are my hormones still messed up?
Q. Hello, i have a problem, i was on the birth control ingection for 5 years non stop. My ginacologist told me i must go of for a while, to make a long story short. My hormones are very unstable and my period was also unregular. Now its totaly gone. ...
A. 15 August 2008: well it actually takes about a year for you to be able to get pregnant after going off of that shot. so i am willing to bet the stuff you are experiencing is your period coming on. it's just extreme cause you have been on the shot for so long. i ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but I'm concerned about giving it a good life. I'm thinking maybe we should live off state benefits. Am I being naive?
Q. Hello, I am 22, and happily married. Been married for a year, We both work full time, rent a lovely house and love each other very much. My problem is that at the moment, i can't stop thinking about having a baby! At the moment, we could afford a...
A. 14 August 2008: I cant even believe that some of you people are telling this woman to use the system.. That is just wrong. The system was put into place to provide for single mother's and people with low education. If you can work then you should and not leach off ... (read in full...)
How can I better connect with other people, especially women?
Q. I am a healthy active 39 year old male.I have not been in a serious relationship for over 15 years,truth be told I have not had a date with a women during this period of time.I have some issues with being social and desire to connect with people on ...
A. 14 August 2008: People are always looking for an influence, someone to look up to, someone to emulate. You can set the example, be the person that people want to be like. You can help change the world by changing yourself. If there is someone that works or lives ... (read in full...)
Does my vagina smell fishy because I eat lots of fish?
Q. Dear ? I am wondering why my vagina smells? My boyfriend says it is because i eat lots of fish and I would like to know if this is true?? In anticiapaitonm, T...
A. 14 August 2008: yeah you deffinetly need a doctor. it shouldnt smell like that unless there is an infection down there. fishy smell is a sign of an std so go see a doc please.... (read in full...)
I need tips on positions to spice up our sex life.
Q. I want to try new sexual positions with my boyfriend. Does anyone have any suggestions that have worked out well with your own partners? Please no links to websites, etc. I just want suggestions. ...
A. 14 August 2008: ok. ther are litterally hundreds of them. i will give you as many as i can. we will start with man on top positions. there is the from behind doggie style. him on top with your legs straight up in the air. put your feet down and elevate your butt. ... (read in full...)
How does a woman know when a man is in love with her?
Q. I have a question for a male. How does a woman know when a man is in love with her? Thank u. ...
A. 14 August 2008: I am not a male but I really wanted to give my imput on this one. You can always tell if a man really loves you or not, if you are in tune with him. True love gets expressed in many ways and a woman must be observant of the vibe she gets from the ... (read in full...)
Our sex life has petered off a bit, how can I make him think I'm a sex goddess?
Q. Im 20yrs old, and I have been with my bf for 4 years now. We started our sex life 3 years ago when I turned 18. I have no complaints, I love it! He pleases me and I please him as well. Ok so we have INCREDIBLE sex, well we used to. Here's the pro...
A. 14 August 2008: your very welcome. and your right, he never is off of me. :) have fun.... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex with an ex, how likely is it that I am pregnant?
Q. im 18 years old. i had sex a month ago with my ex bf which is 19 we had unprotected sex like 3 times and 2 weeks later i got a soar throat and went to the doctor and they thought it was strept throat but it wasnt she thought it was either mono or ...
A. 13 August 2008: well it sounds like you might be preganant. sometimes tests dont work until a week or so after your missed perioed. as the signs you describe can mean pregnancy they also can mean something else like an infection so i would go to the doc and get a ... (read in full...)
Our sex life has petered off a bit, how can I make him think I'm a sex goddess?
Q. Im 20yrs old, and I have been with my bf for 4 years now. We started our sex life 3 years ago when I turned 18. I have no complaints, I love it! He pleases me and I please him as well. Ok so we have INCREDIBLE sex, well we used to. Here's the pro...
A. 13 August 2008: After I wrote I had so many more that I could tell you and I just have to cause that way you will have lots of ideas. ok...Trim your bikini line just a little bit more than usual. Trust me, he'll notice. Next time you're making love in the ... (read in full...)
Our sex life has petered off a bit, how can I make him think I'm a sex goddess?
Q. Im 20yrs old, and I have been with my bf for 4 years now. We started our sex life 3 years ago when I turned 18. I have no complaints, I love it! He pleases me and I please him as well. Ok so we have INCREDIBLE sex, well we used to. Here's the pro...
A. 13 August 2008: There are so many things that you can do but I want to tell you some things that are not sex per say but sexual that will make him crazy wanting you every second of every day. :) I love this stuff. ok. Take an orange wedge and slick the juice onto ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any good 6 month anniversary ideas?
Q. just wondering if i can get some ideas... its mine and my partners 6 month anniversary and i have no idea what i should do for him...any suggestionss????...
A. 13 August 2008: i gave my man a homemade coupon book. it was a love book and i made it real pretty. each card inside said like one head job anywhere anytime, shower together, just really sexy ones and on the back of each one i wrote in a little remmberance of a ... (read in full...)
Should I participate in an orgy with my boyfriend and his 2 best friends?
Q. well i recently turned 16, so i wouldnt be doin anything illegal, and ive been sexually active with my boyfriend for over a year now, so i have nothing to lose, exept my pride? maybe? i just dunno!! my boyfriends friends and me were out in town on ...
A. 13 August 2008: wait a minute. your boyfriend wants you to have sex with him and two other men? what kind of a man is he? does he not respect you at all? i would tell him to go screw them and leave his ass. who wants a relationship like that? not me that's for ... (read in full...)
I only like him as a friend. I don't want to hurt him!
Q. I've been texting this lad for quite some time now, and i've developed trust in him, and we were getting real good mates. the other week he told me he liked me and has done for quite some time. he also liked my best mate not so long ago, they ga...
A. 12 August 2008: Don't lead him to believe you may be interested. Be polite and smile.Get to the point quickly. Tell him you appreciate his interest in you but your feelings toward him aren't the same. Be nice, don't say you'd rather be friends if you have no ... (read in full...)
Does it make a clicking sound?
Q. i have to settle a disagreement with one of my friends. me and my friend got on the subject about oral sex. I told him that when you "deep throat" it makes a clicking sound in the back of your throat. Him having no experience and watching to much ...
A. 12 August 2008: just so you know too. most porno is not made up or fake. how can you fake penetration? do you even watch real porno's?... (read in full...)
How do you know how long you'll last in bed?
Q. well im 14 and i still havent went through full puberty. ( i got pubes and the parts are beggining to grow) so how can i know i can last in sexual intercourse? i mean i want to know because i dont want to last 5 minutes with my 1st time. sincerly ...
A. 12 August 2008: masterbate. that will tell ya how ong you can last.... (read in full...)
Am I getting too intimate with my cousin?
Q. My cousin is 15 years old and I am 16 and she moved right by me about 2 years ago. Ever since I always have an urge to have sex with her are just even fool around. I know its weird, and I am not a mentaly challenged person . We always flirt ...
A. 12 August 2008: please dont have sex with your family memeber if thats what you are thinking. you are an american and it isnt legal there to do those things with your cousin. its incest hunny and if you did have sex with her, what would your family say if she fell ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cheat and 'have fun' while you are young?
Q. im a 15 yr old young man, and lots of my friends say its fine to cheat on girls at my age and just be with girls to "have fun", personally i disagree with this because i disagree with cheating and i dont think its right to cheat at any age ...
A. 12 August 2008: you are one smart cookie. you are right here. never ever cheat. it will only label you in the end and women will think that they can never trust you. i wish everybody thought like you do.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks I'm a liar and a faker but I have good intentions. How do I win her back?
Q. When the relationship with my gf getting better, I wanted to change myself for her. I asked her about my bad behaviors. She said none but I can see from her action she tried so hard to accept everything about me. Because that I love her so much...
A. 12 August 2008: There are ways to win her back without you needing to say a word. You might not have seen your ex in months or years, but you can waltz into their life and recapture their heart again. If she ever loved you, trust that love is still there, waiting ... (read in full...)
How can I show more different and passionate affection towards my boyfriend?
Q. i love my boyfriend and i love showing affection to him. but i want to show him some affection that i never shown him before. i hold his hand, kiss him, kiss his cheek, lips, and rub his leg. but i want to do something different. we go to a movi...
A. 12 August 2008: affection doesnt always have to be sexual. you really show a man you love him when you compliment him all the time. not with how he looks but the way he thinks. let him know you love the man inside that he is. show him lots of respect. thats a big ... (read in full...)
I am 14 years old and I really want to have a baby, I think I would make a great mom, I take care of my brother and sister all the time, please tell me what you honestly think??
Q. iam 14.and i'll be 15 in about 6 months.i want a baby so bad.my om never around so i take care of my brother and sister all the time.grew up rough no dad you know...i would be a amazing momma.people are costanly telling me im already mommy and i ...
A. 12 August 2008: i was pregnant at your age and because my body was still not mature enough i lost the child. they told me to wait years before trying again and i didnt. not intentionally but got pregnant and lost it again. because of this happening it screwed up my ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbated on webcam to my friend, not knowing I was with her at the time!
Q. well ive been with my boyfriend now for over a year! i love him and we have a fantastic sex life. but i slept at my friends house on saturday night, and my boyfriend added her on msn. he asked her if she was horny, he doesnt know her but she knew of ...
A. 12 August 2008: of course its not normal. i mean its normal for guys to be horny and play around with women when they are single. but this guy is supposed to be your man. he obviously has no love or respect for you to want to show what should belong to only you ... (read in full...)
Does it make a clicking sound?
Q. i have to settle a disagreement with one of my friends. me and my friend got on the subject about oral sex. I told him that when you "deep throat" it makes a clicking sound in the back of your throat. Him having no experience and watching to much ...
A. 11 August 2008: why would it make a clicking sound? it doesnt do that to me.... (read in full...)
She's ready and I'm not!
Q. she is ready for us to lose our virginity but im not. im 15 n she is 3 years older what do i do??...
A. 1 August 2008: tell her your not ready and if she cant wait and respect that then she is not worth it. you dont want to lose your virginity to someone who doesnt appreciate or respect you. you will always regret it. trust me.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to conceive, but his cum doesn't stay in there! I also just had a odd discharge.
Q. ok this is very personal question so please dont make fun or say mean things. My boyfriend and i are trying to concive and i always get so wet and i try to lay there like how they say to help the sperm swim up.anyways his cum seem to like slip out ...
A. 1 August 2008: you get spotting and brown colored discharge when the egg implants cause it burrows into the uterus thus causing beeding. but it wont last long. a day at the most so if it does last longer than that then it is just your period unfortunatly. look for ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex or should I wait???
Q. hi im 14 yearz old and i ive been talkin to a guy i known for 6 months the bad thing iz that he iz onli 18 years old and im scared that its not rite but i lke him so i dont care but he asked me if i would have sex with him and i said i maybe wu...
A. 1 August 2008: of course you shouldnt. first of all he is an adult and you are still young. shame on him for even asking you for sex. if you feel that its not right then it isnt. the first time is the time you want to be special with someone that loves and ... (read in full...)
I had no periods at all for over five months, then a very unusual and painful spotting, what could be the problem?
Q. ive been lookin around this site and although there are a lot of questions on periods, there isnt one with the answers im looking for. so here goes.. i started my period when i was 12, im not 16 so it was 4 years ago, nearly 5. they have been r...
A. 1 August 2008: geez. you really need to go to a better doctor i think. not that i think you have a serious health issue but there is deffinetly something going on there. skipping periods is normal but they way you are describing doesnt seem very normal to me. but ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to conceive, but his cum doesn't stay in there! I also just had a odd discharge.
Q. ok this is very personal question so please dont make fun or say mean things. My boyfriend and i are trying to concive and i always get so wet and i try to lay there like how they say to help the sperm swim up.anyways his cum seem to like slip out ...
A. 1 August 2008: ok. when he cums make sure he is thrusting inward at the time not outward and the best way to do it is doggie style because it makes the deepest enetration. the farther he can go the beter. and believe it or not, if you cum at the same time it will ... (read in full...)
I really like my new boyfriend, but I keep thinking of my ex.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and i really like him, we both get along brilliantly. But recently i have been thinking about my ex boyfriend alot and miss being with him.Am i being silly or what should I do ? ...
A. 1 August 2008: i hate to say this but if you cant stop thinking about your ex and miss being with him then you cant say that your current relationship is getting along brilliantly. if it was then you would not still have feelings to be with your ex... (read in full...)
Why do I have vivid dreams of cheating on my boyfriend?
Q. I love my boyrfriend so much and have been with him for over a year. Recently however I've started having reocurring dreams in which I cheat on him. In all the dreams I've never been the one to initiate it, it's always been some other guy (one w...
A. 1 August 2008: go here. http://www.dreammoods.com/dreaminformation/dreamtypes/recurringdreams.htm
dreams always mean something else than what yu are dreaming about.... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm bisexual?
Q. Hey I'm a bit confused about my sexuality i mean I'm getting married in 5wks to the most fantastic bloke I could wish for but I fantasize about having sex with women when I watch porn it has to involve at least 2 women I've had 3 somes with women ...
A. 1 August 2008: if you have had a threesome with women and enjoyed it and still feel that you would do it again, then i think it is pretty safe to say you are bi. at your age you are pretty in tune with your body and what makes you feel good and happy. if both ... (read in full...)
Even if I tell her cheating is not my intention, she insists that I am lying and that I ought to just "confess" and she'll forgive me!?!!
Q. I'm seeing a woman whom I feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the problem is, she doesnt trust me as far as she can throw me. If I contact any other women whom she isn't familiar with, she accuses me of cheating on her, and she won't ...
A. 1 August 2008: you shouldnt have done that. telling her you cheated when you didnt to shut her up. she will never know if she can fully trust you or not and the relationship will go on like this forver. she clearly has some big insecurity issues. someone burnt her ... (read in full...)
Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!
Q. I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been ...
A. 1 August 2008: you know what? i would leave your ass if i was her. how can you put someone you don't even really know before your wife. you have no respect for the woman you are supposed to love and i feel so sorry for her for that. if i was your woman, i would ... (read in full...)
I really need to understand what his fascination to 'let loose' all over me is all about!
Q. What is with the male fascination with porn and cumshots? I guess I don't understand the appeal of it. Maybe some of the guys can explain it. I can always tell when my b/f has been looking at porn because he will pull out during sex and let loos...
A. 1 August 2008: it is a dominance thing. my boyfriend is extremely dominant and when he gets really going he will do that. it's just something he enjoys watching. he also enjoy's watching himself penetrate me. don't let it bother you. it's actually a turn on for me ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's flatmates hate me - how do I change that?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been going out with my girlfriend for a few months...and already there's a problem; her flatmates hate me. We are both 22, and she lives with a group of girls who seriously have it in for me! They constantly jibe at me, tell...
A. 31 July 2008: not only be a good flatmate but be a good boyfriend. compliment your girlfriend every day and do everything you possibly can for her. make her feel like she is the only woman for you and make her feel special. these other women will see this and ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend's best friend. I am confused.
Q. ok. so i have beem going out with this girl for over 3 years now. but recentley, she made a new friend (a girl), me and her got talking and became good friends. But in the past few dasy i have started to realy hate my gf but dont have the gu...
A. 31 July 2008: that's right. don't you ever cheat on her with this girl. always end a relationship fully first. and if you do decide to try and date this other girl you should give it a long time first so it can give your girlfriend a chance to not care about you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know what he wants, I keep being dumped and picked up again.
Q. My boyfriend have been on and off for years. After 5 years i asked him are you sure you really want me?Because lately id been feeling like im more than a nuisance in his life. He spends time going places and doing things with his mates sayin im not ...
A. 31 July 2008: i agree completly with dr. pete. this will never ever change. find someone that is going to love and respect you forever and not when it just suits him.... (read in full...)
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