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-single but not really
-california
-longest relationship = 2 years, second place = 6 months (over a year if you count the new unofficial developments)
-has had a one night stand
-outgoing to the point of extremism
-well known party girl
-quite popular (humbly stated)
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I want to tell him my feelings, but don't know how
Q. Hello! I met this boy, Brad, a couple of years ago and over the past several months we've become really great friends. We talk on instant messenger for at least 2 hours a day, some times as much as 7 hours. A good amount of the time our convers...
A. 26 March 2009: I think you shouldn't tell him.
You asked him how he felt about you and he said plain as day that you are just a really good friend to him. Also, although you have hung out together, that really doesn't mean much... Guys and girls hang out one-... (read in full...)
He gets a lot of pleasure but I get nothing
Q. I'm 17, and I have a question about sex. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex, but we do other things and while he gets a lot of pleasure out of everything I get nothing. He tries and it upsets him that he can't please me. I suppose I'm being selfish, ...
A. 26 March 2009: No advice from me, just total and complete understanding. I was in a relationship where it was the exact same way. He would always get off, I would never, he would feel frustrated, and I would feel resentful... All in all a bad combination. ... (read in full...)
Being hit on is flattering and disgusting at the same time
Q. I'm almost 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm not socially awkward, I actually have a lot of friends. I just keep my male friends at a safe distance. The way I was raised, combined with some bad experiences in the past, taught me that men are ...
A. 26 March 2009: Honestly, this may sound strange but the best way I can describe my advice for you is... You have to think about being friends with guys the way I think about being friends with lesbians or bisexual girls.
You can't assume that they are all into... (read in full...)
I don't want to move with him
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now. I love him very much and things are going well. The only big problem is that he swears I'm going to move out of state with him when I get done with school. I have a daughter so that would me...
A. 26 March 2009: 3 months is not a long time at all, and I'm afraid you may be rushing things if you move in with him so soon. If he wants to move, let him... Try LDR for a while. If that works out, anything will.
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Never had sex and my period is late
Q. I'm 20 years old. I have never had sex before. My period is late. What do you think?...
A. 26 March 2009: Stress, bad diet, sleep schedule is off... Happens to me all the time. Don't worry and don't complain! It's one less thing to bother with :)
There are some more serious things that could be going wrong, like hormones are off, or your body thinks i... (read in full...)
Am I gay because I watch lesbian porn?
Q. Hi. So I posted a question before, but I am still feeling very uncomfortable and frustrated with myself. Here's the whole story. I am 18 years old and go to an all women's college. I chose to come here because I knew I would never have to worry ab...
A. 26 March 2009: If anything you're bi-curious. I'm straight, I've never even kissed a girl, but I went to an all-girls high school for the exact same reason and I have found girls extremely attractive. Being surrounded with people who have different lifestyles from ... (read in full...)
1 of 2 guys could be the daddy
Q. Ok im 15 years old im goin to be 16 in november. My boyfriend is 24 whom will be 25 in october. Come to find out im pregnant. The thing is, is that im not so sure who the father is...It can be one out of two people.... my boyfriend that i have been ...
A. 26 March 2009: First, you need to tell someone you're pregnant. Then, you need to tell both guys you are pregnant. I would think you would want to get a paternity test, but that would mean telling your boyfriend that you cheated on him...
BY THE WAY, YOUR REL... (read in full...)
I was told that I have camel toe!
Q. One day I was at shool I notice people looking between my legs and I ask my friend what was going on with people looking between my legs and she said I have a camel toe I bein tring to hide it but I dont know how to please help....
A. 26 March 2009: Yikes. I think people get camel toe from wearing their bottoms too high. Try wearing them a little lower, wearing tighter undies, or getting bigger sized pants/shorts. Or, wear dresses and skirts more!
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She deleted messages to other guys "by mistake!!!" Hmmmmmm...
Q. I am getting married in a few months, I have been with her for over 4 years and love her with all of my heart but the other day I was on her computer and found some messages that she had sent to other guys and I decided to read what they had talked ...
A. 26 March 2009: That seems pretty sketch to me!!! I highly, highly, highly doubt she deleted them by accident. People know how to use computers these days, and while deleting one message is easy, several is hard to do without intention.
I'm thinking she either d... (read in full...)
What would a guy do that would make a girl think he's sweet?
Q. hi well I'm just curious but girls what does and guy have to do for you to consider him sweet or nice or whatever is the best adjective out there. thanks bye....
A. 26 March 2009: Boys just need to show that they care, that they want the girl to be happy, that he is listening. This can be anything from little compliments (my boy doesn't tell me I'm beautiful often enough because he thinks I know it when it's just nice to ... (read in full...)
Done the right thing or am I pushing him right to her?
Q. I have just been married for ten years. We have been having some problems. Nothing I did not think we could not work through. I just found out he has been talking to an old girlfriend from 20 years ago. He hid it from me. Of course I live in a ...
A. 26 March 2009: I think you did the right thing in asking him to move out because he has not been honest with you. Secrets don't make friends, so they especially don't make spouses. Living with him might have made things worse between the two of you.
I suggest ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to get over him once and for all?
Q. I've dated a guy on and off since the beginning of the school year and I really love him. He's the guy that I lost my virginity to, that's how involved I was with him. We usually break up and get back together a few weeks later, but we broke up ...
A. 26 March 2009: Advice: STAY AWAY FROM YOUR EX. Cut him off completely. That means no talking beyond the necessary polite greetings (if you go past that you are adding to emotional intimacy which you do NOT want!!), no hanging out, AND ESPECIALLY NO FOOLING ... (read in full...)
I like my long distance friend but I still have feelings for my ex!
Q. Ok my current boyfriend is my long distance relationship, and my ex lives right down the street. I like both of them a lot and my ex was my first love. We still have a lot of feelings for each other after so long and it's hard because I miss him a ...
A. 26 March 2009: You are going to need to choose between them. You can't be with your current boyfriend if old feelings are keeping you from having a real relationship with him. And you can't be with your ex if you have a boyfriend. You need to figure out who you ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's fat!
Q. hi :) well i have a bf and i really love him but he is fat nd i am too but not big he little bigger than me nd like i dnt date fat boyz nd sometimes i think to myself should i even be with him but i love him! or do i just love him beacuse he said he ...
A. 26 March 2009: Do you really love him? The fact that you are judging him by his physical appearances makes me think you don't care as much about him as you do BEING with him. Love is blind, after all.
And I was a little confused, you are talking to the boy who ... (read in full...)
He proposed too soon!
Q. This is a bit long and I apologize, but I do need some help. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was a junior and he was a senior in high school. I'm now a junior in college and he's a senior in college (we go to the same university)...
A. 26 March 2009: Your gut instinct is that he proposed too soon and you aren't ready to make that huge commitment just yet, and I say follow that. Don't feel guilty! He is understanding and isn't going anywhere, why rush things? You two are in love, that should be ... (read in full...)
Meeting my boyfriends father
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 18, and I'm meeting my boyfriends Dad for the first time in a few days. (my boyfriend is my age too) I'm actually staying with them for 2 weeks, so I just wondered whether anyone could give me some advice on how to act,...
A. 26 March 2009: Be on your best behavior, but because of your relationship don't act too stiff! Dad's going to want to see how the two of you get along. Be yourself, just a well-mannered version of yourself.
And yes, bring a small gift. Something the dad may like... (read in full...)
Can I make it not so sensitive?
Q. i am 22 years old and the tip of my penis is really sensitive. and around the bottom of the tip. like the bottom ring part of a mushroom. :). but i was just wanting to know if there is anyway to make it not so sensitive. ...
A. 26 March 2009: Haha I'm a girl so I really wouldn't know too well, but I thought there were creams for that? Temporary desensitization, but...
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Can you get pregnant if a guy touches your vagina with his erect penis?
Q. I've looked everywhere but I cannot find the answer to this question. Can you get pregnant if a guy does not get an erection but touches your vagina with his penis? ...
A. 26 March 2009: It could be all in your head... My friend scared herself into thinking she was pregnant. But take the test!!!!!
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Do I just like sloppy seconds or what?
Q. I just found out my girlfriend lost her virginity to a player, and this same guy has had sex with all 3 girlfriends I've ever had. I don't care that she has a past, thats her business. What is bothering me is that this guy, A.J. had had ...
A. 25 March 2009: Girls make mistakes... And every once in a while there's that one guy that every girl just wants to claim and/or sex it up with. Sounds like AJ is that guy, and your girls have been those girls.
I know it must be bothering you, but just try and ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with a friends' wife
Q. I have fallen in love with a friends wife. The problem is she has fallen in love with me. From the very beginning we both knew the attraction was ther. After 8 months of nothing but talking we finally got together for passionate love. This ...
A. 25 March 2009: I agree with 1605.
Your situation definitely stinks because we never really choose who we fall for... But at the same time you don't really have the right to morn her loss. She was never yours to begin with, and you need to acknowledge that fac... (read in full...)
How can I relax and enjoy myself??
Q. I have been single for 4 years and now I have a special someone i have met. We want to have sex but its been so long since ive been intimate with somebody its like I'm starting all over again. i don't know what to do , say, how to act. my mind race...
A. 25 March 2009: Oh God, story of my life.
I haven't had sex with someone in the longest time, and I feel the exact same way. It's like you're a virgin all over again, and all the same worries come up!
Just explain to the special someone how you feel, that y... (read in full...)
To go or not to go?
Q. My ex boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. But it was all very unexpected, I never expected him to break up with me, because everything was going great. And then one day he calls me and tells me he was not feeling it any more, and that we s...
A. 25 March 2009: If you think you can go, smile, and not have your gaze linger in his direction, go.
I think you might not want to go... The fact that you are asking this question hints that you might not be ready!
You could always just stop by to say hi to you... (read in full...)
Am I ready to let go? Or do I want it all back again?
Q. it's been 3 months since i left him, i couldn't take it and i already left nc to start my life in texas when that happened the feelings were "i can do better and better". he came down in december for my birthday, and we got engaged [we were tog...
A. 25 March 2009: It's the hurting process. It will take you around a year or more to get over him, based on my proven 1/2 relationship time rule. You were together for around 2 years, so it should take you a year to get over him. But add a couple months because of ... (read in full...)
Should I sit down and talk to him?
Q. Well tonight he said "we need to stop this because I am starting to get to attached to you, and I'm afraid what will happen if I actually do get attached." SO now what I think I need to sit down and talk to him, what do you think? To all those wh...
A. 25 March 2009: Yes, talk to him. Sounds like you two need to get some things off your chests!... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if a guy touches your vagina with his erect penis?
Q. I've looked everywhere but I cannot find the answer to this question. Can you get pregnant if a guy does not get an erection but touches your vagina with his penis? ...
A. 25 March 2009: It's pretty unlikely, but it can still happen. I've heard all sorts of freak accidents where girls have gotten pregnant from the slightest touches. Girls getting pregnant from giving hand jobs to boyfriends in hot tubs (the water spread the semen), ... (read in full...)
Why does my friend have 2 boyfriends when I cant even get 1??
Q. My friend has had 2 boyfriends for over a year now and its really not fair because I cant even get one. I've been told that I'm really attractive but guys just want to sleep with me and nothing else. And I dont sleep around, I make the guy wait a wh...
A. 25 March 2009: I agree with Mr Me. Guys are super immature at that age. They want to hit it and quit it, and most are not ready to be in a serious relationship.
My advice is to keep your mind busy and off of the topic of relationships. Date around for fun, be ... (read in full...)
I like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with
Q. i am scared of something friends ....i have been committed to my girlfriend since a year but i dont love her !! i really dont know what i found in her but i like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with. probably the ...
A. 25 March 2009: You are doing both yourself and your girlfriend a disservice by pretending to love her and by staying together. My advice is to tell her your feelings have changed, that you feel the need to date around, etcetc. Then, after you two have broken up, ... (read in full...)
Please help me show a way out of this self-caused misery.
Q. I am giving her time, what should I do now? My long distance girl friend says that she is super busy with her program and full time job. She was previously married but got divorced last year and we met during her divorce. I used to date her abo...
A. 25 March 2009: Honestly, I feel like the two of you shouldn't be in an official relationship if she cannot give you the full commitment you deserve. I think that the way she is behaving is not equivalent with that of a good girlfriend, and it is closer to someone ... (read in full...)
Can you tell me why she would be acting like this?
Q. Well my best friend has a boyfriend that she's been with for awhile. When we met everything was fine. But lately it just seems like she finds something wrong with every person i date or have feelings for. And it doesn't seem like she's even int...
A. 25 March 2009: 1. Maybe she's blown her relationship out of proportion in her mind, so she looks down on any relationship or man other than her own.
2. Maybe she is just very preoccupied and focused on her own life.
Just give her a little time, I guess. Y... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think now? Does she like me?
Q. I am in grade nine and friends with this girl, Bree. She is also in grade nine and is in every single one of my classes. I live in a small town and just started going to her school, in a small town close to mine, this year. At the beginning of the ...
A. 11 February 2009: It doesn't seem like she's given you any really concrete hints that she likes you. Sometimes girls are hard to read and sometimes boys are troublemakers and just start rumors. She may have been confused over her feelings about you once Seth shouted ... (read in full...)
How do I let go of my ex and stop being so picky?
Q. I broke up with my bf because it wasn't meant to be. I am trying to get over this but obbviously it's difficult. I have stopped seeing him and he doesnt have my new number. I speak to him once a week now (its only been 2 weeks since the breakup) ...
A. 13 September 2008: i think it will take at least 6 months to fully get over him.
please do not cheaper the choice you made in breaking up with him by trying to go back to him. let the past stay where it lies.
just remember, you are one guy closer to finding the r... (read in full...)
I don't want to get to like him any more, but I don't want to stop talking to him. What do I do?
Q. Hi, Im 17 (male), soon to be 18, at college doing my a-levels, got a good part time job etc, but I havent been in love since I was 15, had a boyfriend since February or had any form of sex since April. I'm quite goodlooking but Im a warm person t...
A. 11 September 2008: keep talking to him but tell him you don't want a long distance relationship! keep the close friendship going so that in the future if there is way the two of you could potentially give it a go (if you move closer or get transferred for work or ... (read in full...)
He was talking to his ex and other girls on the dating site so we broke up. Now we'd like to try again but I'm not sure I can trust him.
Q. Ok, So, I met this guy online and we started talking. He was 5 or 600 miles away so I never thought it would amount to anything, it was just someone to talk to. After talking for several months, it grew into something more and we decided to meet. We ...
A. 11 September 2008: he sounds confused about what and who he wants. and you need time to forgive him for lying. be very open to him about how you feel and consider taking a break from him. then if he is still who you want and if he still wants you slowly consider ... (read in full...)
Can't deal with this ex- boyrfriend drama!
Q. Ok well about a year ago i wrote on this too an di think it really helped me. i was talking about my boyfrend who had pictures of other girls on his phone. i carried on going out with him but we broke up about 7 months ago. we broke up about the ...
A. 11 September 2008: guys are stupid. that's the only reason haha. and i might get crap for saying that, but it's true. i've been through the exact same thing.
he wanted to have a cake and eat it too. he wanted to keep you but date another girl at the same time.
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I am in a class with this girl who I am in love with, I think she is attracted to me, but she has a boyfriend, she overtly flirted with me, and I am now confused, what do I do now?
Q. Hi, I'm 22 years old and she's 20. We're both taking a Chef course. Ever since the first day I saw her I fell in love with her. And I never truly felt this way before. Earlier this year I tried approaching her, we talked for a bit and then she...
A. 11 September 2008: i would just keep going on in the same fashion that you are. be a good friend to her, keep her close, but don't cross the line. don't ask about her feelings. she needs to figure things out on her own. she very likely might have feelings for you, but ... (read in full...)
How can I let go?
Q. I know this may sound strange, considering all I have seen and that I now know after less then a week she moved on with another guy than I caught her with I sill find it hard to let go. How can someone after eight months of being together mve ont...
A. 11 September 2008: honestly, some girls can just be bitches who don't know better. and i'm sorry for saying that word, but i have so many incredible guy friends who have been hurt by girls who could care less!
just remember, she didn't deserve you. be glad you didn... (read in full...)
How do I let go of my ex and stop being so picky?
Q. I broke up with my bf because it wasn't meant to be. I am trying to get over this but obbviously it's difficult. I have stopped seeing him and he doesnt have my new number. I speak to him once a week now (its only been 2 weeks since the breakup) ...
A. 11 September 2008: honestly, i have been in that exact same position. and i highly recommend a clean break from him for a couple weeks to a couple months... however long it takes. otherwise we girls tend to linger and it HURTS.
cutting him off will hurt a lot in t... (read in full...)
He wants it less. I want it more. Is it him or is it me?
Q. i just dont understand.my husband sometimes gets hard and cums quick. sometimes he stays hard and doesnt cum at all. sometimes hell fall asleep on the couch i want it all the time. we have went with out it for 4days and the longest was 6 i need ...
A. 11 September 2008: is what just you? his reactions to sex? or your craving to have it more? =]... (read in full...)
Why do you think my ex wants to stay friends with me?
Q. hey i recently split up from my boyfriend that i was living with 4 2 years. we were not getting on and he thought that i was cheating on him when i wasnt. he was very paranoid about me speaking to another bloke. he says that he is not ready to take ...
A. 11 September 2008: he wants to rebuild the relationship by easing into it. by talking, then becoming friends, best friends... and if that all works out, by dating again.
i completely understand how hard it is. that was my ex boyfriend's plan as well. needless... (read in full...)
I want to write a letter to his family so they will accept our relationship. Any tips?
Q. Well, I'm from the West indies, but my boyfriend is an Indian Jatt Sikh. We are very much in love and have been for almost two years. The trouble is, his family are strict and don't know of our love just yet, but we plan to tell them next year, by ...
A. 11 September 2008: has he introduced you to them as just a friend yet? instead of writing them a letter out of the blue claiming to be his long-term girlfriend and soul mate, i think it might be smarter to take things step by step! have him invite you over for dinner ... (read in full...)
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