I think I'm falling for a much younger girl
Q. Hello all. I have a very confusing situation that I need help with. I am currently married but we have been living together but separated for years. We stay together because of our kids and the lifestyle for them; but neither of us are happy. We ...
A. 2 September 2008: You probably can't change her mind about what she wants in a relationship. She obviously knows how you feel, so I suggest you don't make her more uncomfortable. Just relax and let your friendship grow. If you refuse to change your lifestyle you ... (read in full...)
I'm incredibly afraid of my abusive husband...
Q. I have a problem i'm 22 years old and have been married for over 2 year. I have recently become awary of my husband abusive nature. We fight alot and i dont know what to do i have told my family and they are trying to help but it seem to be getting ...
A. 2 September 2008: Leave. He is not willing to take responsibility for his actions so it's obvious he won't change. Get out now. Right now. It's only going to get worse, and in the mean time your daughter will be going through exactally what you did. And who is to say ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if this guy likes me?
Q. so there's this guy in my science class that asked if i could help him with a worksheet after class the next day and i obviously said yes. well come to find out, he already had just about all of it done and didnt really need help. then as we were ...
A. 2 September 2008: Just ask him out if you like him. What's the worst that could happen? He says no? That's just part of life. At least you won't look back and wonder "What if..." He acted like he was interested, maybe he's waiting for you to take the initative? ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to conceive with no results. Is there something wrong with us?
Q. I Recently got married and me and my Husband have been trying to concive for the past 3 months and we've had no luck. Im a little worried that maybe theres something wrong with me or him, I was checked out not to long ago and told everything was ...
A. 2 September 2008: Time to buy yourself some ovulation tests. Some other things that help: get your husband to put an ice pack on his junk for a while before having sex (lower temperatures are better for sperms' development and mobility), putting your feet up after ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my girlfriend is pregnant?
Q. I have a slight problem. I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is 17. we just started having sex about two and a half weeks ago. the second time we had sex my condom broke and i didnt know it until we were done. then i told her what happened. she has ...
A. 2 September 2008: Urge her to take a pregnancy test. That's the only way you'll know for sure. If you're really admant about it, go buy one for her. For future reference, though, this is what the morning after pill is for.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that if I tell him the whole truth about my past that he will not want me anymore!
Q. I have a special guy in my life that i have dated for a year now and i am so in love as he is with me...at least for now anyway. i have told him all about my past, guys i have kissed and slept with (all of whom i have dated) and other miscellaneous ...
A. 2 September 2008: Look, everyone has some things in their past that they're ashamed of. You don't have to tell him every single detail of every single fling you've ever had. Him being upset by this doesn't make him a jealous person, that's a normal reaction. You'll ... (read in full...)
I want to stop taking the pill so I can get pregnant with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?
Q. hey i wanna know why i feel like i want a baby... im only 18 an i live with my mum an dad an ive got a boyfriend of 3 yrs. I just feel like i really want a baby, im on the pill and sometimes ive felt close 2 missing my pill an having sex with my ...
A. 1 September 2008: Yes. It is VERY wrong to just stop taking your birth control to manipulate your boyfriend into getting you pregnant. Feeling like you want a child is normal, but from what you say it sounds like you've got a bigger underlying issue that you need to ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me and got the other woman pregnant! Why am I made out to be the villain?
Q. My husband and I have been married for three years and we have no children together. We are both 24 years old. His parents never approved of our marriage due to racial factors, he is white and I am asian. A week ago, for the first time, I fo...
A. 1 September 2008: No the one who is the villian in all of this is your husband. A dog is going to be a dog no matter who he is with. The girl is probably confused too. You are not stupid for wanting to be with your husband, you are just a faithful person who takes ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?
Q. okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but...
A. 1 September 2008: Get yourself on the pill either way, but don't hide it. It's your body. If he "won't ever leave you" then he won't leave you if you do this. If you insist on staying with him, even though you obviously don't trust him then tell him that you WILL ... (read in full...)
I am 2 months pregnant and I find out he has another girl! What now?
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend has another girl...... he told me this right after I told him I am 2 months pregnant. I really don't know what to do. We were "high school sweet hearts" and now that I found out im pregnant, with his baby makes ...
A. 1 September 2008: Grab some self-respect and hold on tight. Then get yourself out of there. I know it hurts now, but can you imagine the pain you'd not only put yourself but your baby through if you ended up saying with that guy? Get indignant. It's much more ... (read in full...)
I'm very upset about my partner's online profile! Why would he do this to me?
Q. Hello, everyone. I need some advice. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship for the past 5 years. He has two kids from his first marriage and we're getting ready to have a second child. I am tired, frustrated, worn...
A. 1 September 2008: Hunny, you need to drop that piece of shit like he's on fire. NOBODY deserves that. Don't put your kids through any more of his disgustingness. It's FAR better to raise them alone than have that worthless excuse for a human destroy their lives with ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend keeps kicking me out! Is this normal?
Q. My girlfriend is pregnant and she is always kicking me out. Last week we she said she had the ump and although she said it wasnt my fault she told me I had to stay at my mums that night. I didnt call her that evening because she said she didnt want ...
A. 1 September 2008: As a woman who has had a baby, I can tell you I've threatened my husband with a knife while washing dishes because he mentioned that I looked like I "needed more sleep". Women react in different ways to being pregnant, and mostly we don't take it ... (read in full...)
He's not the same now that I'm pregnant.
Q. I'm 7 months pregnant and feel like my relationship is falling down around my ears. My parents didn't react to well when then heard the news, but they are looking forward to meeting their new grandchild, even offering to buy the pram. When I told ...
A. 1 September 2008: Men get like this when they're facing fatherhood. It's a veritable cauldron of ridiclous and conflicting emotions. I'm sure he's excited and happy, but he's also terrified. That being said, make it clear that you're not going to put up with his ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?
Q. hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...
A. 1 September 2008: I've been in similar shoes before, and trust me when I say that you should most definately get your diploma first. Not just for him, but for you. Love is an unpredictable thing, and you relationships change darastically when you share living space. ... (read in full...)
Is it jealousy that is clouding my judgment?
Q. Hi. Last January I started talking to this girl in my math class. We started to get really close and we had a sort of unofficial relationship. But we talked almost every night for months. We got really really close and she eventually was comfortable ...
A. 1 September 2008: Reading this reminds me how lucky I am that I got old =D. It's normal to miss someone and mourn the loss of their presence when you break up, but it does go away with time. It sounds like your ex needs to take care of herself before she tries to ... (read in full...)
I'm 5 weeks late, could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 i am 5 weeks late on my periods .. i have done stuff in the past and have been on my periods since then but a just cant sp beeing worrried and can u get pregnant if the boyfirends like has sperm on his hand and then poked you and you didnt ...
A. 1 September 2008: I suggest you discuss getting on birth control with your parents. If you're going to do something stupid, at least be smart about it, yes? Always ALWAYS use a condom, and do not allow his bodily fluids anywhere near your vagina. Not only do you have ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex and my period came but it was very light. Does this mean pregnancy?
Q. I had unsafe sex on the 19. i had light spotting 6 days after. it was light brown. i have all of the pregnacy signs. i was going to buy a test but today i started bleeding. not alot and its light brown. i'm a week late. is this light bleeding my ...
A. 1 September 2008: That very well could be what is called "implantation bleeding" (a bit of your uterine lining slughing off where the zygote attached). Get yourself tested as soon as possible.... (read in full...)
My best friends boyfriend kissed me, I have no idea how to tell her.
Q. Sooo, I need some advice. The other night I got drunk with my best friend and her boyfriend. Me and her boyfriend have always had this unspoken tension between us. Well it finally came out when he kissed me. And then he kissed me again the next ...
A. 26 August 2008: Whatever you do, make sure that you're the one that tells her so that she doesn't have to hear it from someone else because that'll make the blow even worse. Tell her the whole truth, because (believe me) it WILL come out eventually. It's best ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to talk?
Q. I am actually a kind of person that loves to share. I don't normally do it with everyone but only to ones that are close to me. I talk quite a bit about my family, past, friends etc with my boy friend. He does talk to me about these too but very ...
A. 26 August 2008: I totally understand what you're going through. I'm the same way. The "problem" (though I wouldn't call it that) is with you. You can't expect everyone to be as open as you are. Some people just have a hard time discussing things. I don't ... (read in full...)
How can I get my man to have another baby with me?
Q. How can i get my man to have another baby with me. We have been married for 7 years have two great kids boy an girl. But i have something inside of me i cant explain that i need another baby.He say's he doesn't want another and thats it.any tips on ...
A. 26 August 2008: One of the most important lessons people should learn in life is that we can't control others, we can only control ourselves. In other words if your husband has made up his mind, there is nothing you can do to change it. I suggest that you do ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex giving me the could shoulder? We ended on good terms.
Q. my ex and i were together for 2 years and recently split about 4 months ago. it was NOT on bad terms. i did the breaking up after realising that it was going no where - he was not able to committ to anything and enjoyed being with his friends more ...
A. 26 August 2008: It's hard to say what another person is thinking. That being said, how are you so sure he's "moved on"? It's one thing to agree that a relationship needs to end, but that doesn't mean he's done mourning the loss. Just like you said: you spent so ... (read in full...)
Why does she keep defending her abusive ex?
Q. I have been with the women for a lil over year and it alredy feels like its been for ever. i meen we were friends a bit befor i asked her out. the night i asked her out she said i dont know because t (her x boyfriend) is really good in bed. but then ...
A. 26 August 2008: You need to decide if it's worth the time and effort to put up with her behaviour. People don't generally change. You need to ask yourself "Can I maintain a relationship with a person who acts the way she does for the rest of my life?"
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