How to play hard to get BUT at the same time be nice to him?
Q. Hi, so there is a guy who obviously likes me. He talks with me for hours, flirts, asks me lots of personal questions etc. He asked for my number in a flirty way. I kind of refused in a cold indirect way. Do you think I should have gave him my...
A. 12 July 2015: Hello I am not sure what you are hoping to achieve occurs very often. To think that you can refuse your phone number and he still runs towards you is a bit far stretched to me. Any honourable man would think that either you are not interest... (read in full...)
Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !
Q. I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...
A. 2 June 2015: All the very best of luck !... (read in full...)
Am I trapped in this relationship with his Ex-wife a factor? Now he wants to move closer to his Ex !
Q. I will try to make this as short as possible. I am 60 yrs old, live with my boyfriend (AND his grumpy Mother) for 3 yrs...who has been divorced for over 20 years, he has a 30yr old daughter who is married with kids of her own. My boyfriend ha...
A. 6 April 2015: I think he doesn't treat you well enough and I'm supposing this is because of you thinking you got no where to go and thus keep up with him. I am afraid , once a person knows how far we can get away with something, and in this case mistreating... (read in full...)
3 messages in 3 days..is he blowing me off?
Q. Hi For the past week I have been texting this guy I really like. He was the one that sought me out. He asks me to meet him I say ye and we will sort a day to meet cos we both hav busy jobs. We stayed up till 3 talking on Tuesday night Wednesday ...
A. 24 January 2015: Hey
Well, I suggest you meet up for a coffee and try to meet more in person than talking over texts. I know it's tough to meet often but my experience always had been bad with texting unless the girl was too much interested. (Moderately inte... (read in full...)
How can I be COOL when starting a new relationship? I think I act too eager at the start, and that results in problems
Q. Hey there, I need help regarding a pattern I have seen while I'm dating anyone really. I just get attached very quickly and too deeply to the point where I'm waiting for their texts, meeting them, calls and thinking about how to please them...
A. 19 January 2015: Great advice both of you.
@WiseOwl
Thank you for the deep insight. It is really helpful. Read it a few times ,it's great.
Now the girl I'm dating is nice but I sort of messed up by lying to her (that I take drugs/I have tattoos which I don... (read in full...)
I played a prank on my girlfriend.. Should I break up with her because I can't handle the guilt?
Q. Hey Cupid I think I have messed up. I played a prank on a girl I was dating and sort of felt guilty by doing so. My plan was to make her doubt me because she trusted everything from the beginning which I found a bit naïve so I thought I'd just ac...
A. 18 January 2015: Cheers everyone again.
One question to anonymous, you said you liked poems and your ex lied about writing poems. I on the other hand, lied about tattoos and drugs which I absolutely don't.(it started as playful jokes which I took too far.)I t... (read in full...)
I played a prank on my girlfriend.. Should I break up with her because I can't handle the guilt?
Q. Hey Cupid I think I have messed up. I played a prank on a girl I was dating and sort of felt guilty by doing so. My plan was to make her doubt me because she trusted everything from the beginning which I found a bit naïve so I thought I'd just ac...
A. 17 January 2015: Hey, everything is going on fine. Thanks to you all the guys for your amazing help and guidance.
I have a problem, now my girl friend is more treating me like a friend and more acting careless towards me. Does this mean, it's over?
Is there ... (read in full...)
I played a prank on my girlfriend.. Should I break up with her because I can't handle the guilt?
Q. Hey Cupid I think I have messed up. I played a prank on a girl I was dating and sort of felt guilty by doing so. My plan was to make her doubt me because she trusted everything from the beginning which I found a bit naïve so I thought I'd just ac...
A. 17 January 2015: I met her almost every except yesterday!... (read in full...)
I played a prank on my girlfriend.. Should I break up with her because I can't handle the guilt?
Q. Hey Cupid I think I have messed up. I played a prank on a girl I was dating and sort of felt guilty by doing so. My plan was to make her doubt me because she trusted everything from the beginning which I found a bit naïve so I thought I'd just ac...
A. 16 January 2015: Well, I don't think I had been pretending to be the perfect boyfriend. I had been myself but just this instance got over the line by far. I have never cheated in relationship before and I don't plan on doing so. I just lied to her about few things... (read in full...)
Is my Boyfriend more likely to cheat because 4 of his friends are cheaters?
Q. Four of my boyfriend's friends (both females and males) have cheated on their partner. Does that mean he is more likely to cheat?...
A. 29 October 2014: As a lad, I won't agree that he would cheat.
It depends how much peer pressure is forced by his friends and coax him, it's all right to cheat vs how much he loves you and how strongly he feels about cheating/morals.
I hang out with friends who... (read in full...)
My crush made a fake ID, talked to me and then blocked me!
Q. Hi everyone.. I am very depressed these days. I m going to discuss it rite now and would like your help. I had a huge crush on a girl when I was in 11th standard. But was very shy to approach to her and tell her how much I felt about her. I a...
A. 2 September 2014: That was all part of the game !
She wanted you to believe that she likes you and really wants to be with you so she could hurt you! Seems like her plan worked but trust me you'd find a lot of girls who'd actually like you for who you are!
Goo... (read in full...)
My crush made a fake ID, talked to me and then blocked me!
Q. Hi everyone.. I am very depressed these days. I m going to discuss it rite now and would like your help. I had a huge crush on a girl when I was in 11th standard. But was very shy to approach to her and tell her how much I felt about her. I a...
A. 2 September 2014: You blocked her and removed her, that was taken personal because of her ego issues!
She took time to get even with you by blocking you afterwards!
It was all ego game done in rage!
Move on, not worth it at all!
Good luck... (read in full...)
I am married but I feel abused badly by another woman I like
Q. I'm married and I was having problems with my wife and currently we live in different cities but somehow we have stable life and I visit her 2-3 times per month. I knew an ex-coworker since 2008 and in the same city I work (I work now in a differe...
A. 4 August 2014: Well, I would say I don't approve of having another girl in your life if you are married/committed. Either you end it or both of you get a divorce from your partners before thinking of anything more than being friends.
I suppose you should f... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant
Q. i would like to ask about my boyfriend of six years. he got another girl pregnant. i saw them dating through the pictures in facebook. i ask my boyfriend first but he refuse to answer. thats why i directly ask the girl. she said that my boyfriend is ...
A. 8 July 2014: Well, you can not ask the question, why in many instances!
Like why me, why my girlfriend died?
Or why he left when I loved him dearly?
Sometimes we don't have answers and we can't blame anyone but to FOCUS ON OURSELVES and be more stronger... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant
Q. i would like to ask about my boyfriend of six years. he got another girl pregnant. i saw them dating through the pictures in facebook. i ask my boyfriend first but he refuse to answer. thats why i directly ask the girl. she said that my boyfriend is ...
A. 6 July 2014: I am sorry to hear about your ordeal!
I think he is double crossing you and the other girl!
I think you should break up with him because he can not be trusted! He is telling the other girl that he wants to marry her and telling you, he ... (read in full...)
Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?
Q. I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...
A. 23 June 2014: Oh dear me !!!
I am speechless!!
You prefer a man whom you recently met, and I'll like to think about if "three weeks" is long enough !
He just might be feeding you what he wants you to believe ! You don't know the real him !!!
A man wh... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes fun of me, my family and my culture in front of others!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been officially together for about 2 years now, but it seems as if we have been for 4 years when we first met. I am muslim and he is not inclined towards any one religion. I finally met his family in FL. We stayed at his ...
A. 21 June 2014: I'm sorry to say this but I smell the stench of NO RESPECT all over. I am not sure how you can laugh to something so disrespectful and hide your real emotions! Are you desperate to be with him, I apologise for saying this but this is what it looks ... (read in full...)
I feel suffocated by my girlfriend and have lost all my friends!
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year. I am a uni graduate, where she is didn't study after school. She is currently in part time employment and I'm studying. Is it normal to give your girlfriend first priority for eve...
A. 25 May 2014: I'm sorry to say this but I had a similar experience !
My ex was a lot like her and it didn't end well!
She would blame you for everything and manipulate you even when it is HER fault! In the end, I felt it wasnot worth it and there are more mat... (read in full...)
Should I tell my neighbour I had sex with his wife
Q. The other night I was having beers with a few mates, on my back deck .Being a single male there is always people at my house they come and go as they please pretty relax and social atmosphere My neighbour came over with a drink as her husband ...
A. 20 May 2014: Change the neighbourhood if possible !
Or tell her strictly she isn't welcome or you'd tell her husband !... (read in full...)
I want to move on from a girl I fell for. Is it OK to ignore her if she texts me?
Q. Last year a girl joined my college course and straight away I fell for her. We became friends and then I asked her out at the end of the year and she turned me down. After that nothing changed, we were still friends although she did move into the ...
A. 12 May 2014: I will tell you from experience! I have come across few of such women and it would always leave you hurt while they would carry on with life like nothing happened! Such girls aren't worth the time and trouble. They just want some attention ... (read in full...)
What's worse? Being in a relationship with a cheating coward or an arrogant know-it-all?
Q. What's worse? - Being in a relationshpip with a cheating coward or a arrogant know-it-all? Or are both types equally undesirable? Any related comments or thoughts would be very helpful. Thank you ...
A. 15 April 2014:
In my opinion BOTH are extremely undesirable and you can not live happily or comfortably if involved with either !
Cheating shows quirks of lying, dishonesty, disloyalty, unfaithfulness. Even one of the trait is a big NO in my opinion! Cow... (read in full...)
A difference in values and attitudes about money. Was I right to be honest about my feelings re his attitude to money?
Q. My boyfriend (of 4.5 years) and I were talking today about the fact I'm doing a postgrad at uni as well as working full time. He said he doesn't understand why, because it's not going to increase the amount of money I earn, and I told him I enjoy...
A. 12 April 2014: I suppose you were right to be honest and personally I believe that money to live a comfortable life is understandable and I'll call it necessity as long as its enough to live a comfortable life but to live for money isn't justified in my eyes!
S... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 7 April 2014: I'm not sure why are you wondering about too much unrelated stuff which I didn't even write !
you learnt few new things about her so I guess if you still aren't sure of her bf/ex ; just sit back... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 7 April 2014: You got hold of some new information , how are you using it to make a difference ?... (read in full...)
Men: is this a real belief?
Q. Question for the gentlemen only please :) This doesn't actually relate to me as such, but it's something that I heard and thought was ridiculous. I was talking to my male friend and we were discussing girlfriends and things and I ask...
A. 6 April 2014: Absolutely gibberish ! Where did he get the idea?... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 4 April 2014: Tell me if there's an update !... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 2 April 2014: Well, understandable she needed to be reached but you shouldn't have ! What I mean to say is : the point is to give her space and not reach her at all even if there's now way! Else, she will distance more from you ! It might take a while so just be ... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 31 March 2014: Seems like a plan!
Remember every time you think of texting or writing her ; either write it here , talk to a friend to stop you from doing it or do something to grasp your attention!
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 31 March 2014: Hello I can comepletely understand your position and I know it is really hard to concentrate on anything ; your heart isn't in you and you keep on wondering ! Little things cause alot of stress on your side because you really like her and you real... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 30 March 2014: I hope you read my message clearly which I wrote down below for you ! Women will tell you how cute and adorable it is to be all upfront and honest with the girl you like/ pursuing and indeed it is according to them but when it comes to an individu... (read in full...)
Didn't know I was pregnant so missed out on the early pregnancy care
Q. ive just found out im pregnant. thing is, I could highly possibly be around 26 weeks gone. I say this as months ago I missed a couple of periods but then they came back, pretty normal so I didn't think anything of it. recently have been getting ...
A. 28 March 2014: Hello, I understand your position and I have seen such cases where the mother of the prenatal isn't sure that she is pregnant! To get rid of your worries, see if you have been doing any of the following which could have been harmful ... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 23 March 2014: And I forget to mention : the girl you are pursuing isn't dating you let alone involved with you in anything for now! I think get to know her better and be her friends and see where it goes!
If you hurry now for relationship, you might just e... (read in full...)
Do I keep my feelings to myself? Or tell her that I like her?
Q. There is a girl that I really like. She is kind, caring, extremely intelligent, very hard working. I had asked her out when I first met her to get to know her but she turned me down because she had a boyfriend. The reason I wanted to get to...
A. 23 March 2014: Well, in my experience/observation usually if you tell any 'young woman' that you like her; 85 percent will start to play games with you even if they are interested!They would suddenly try to test waters to the extreme to know how much you like ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm blowing "hot and cold," but that isn't my intent!
Q. Hi everyone, im hoping someone can give me some good advice. i have been seeing a man for 4 months now and i think ive fallen for him.however he thinks i blow hot and cold on him but i dont kniw what to do about it.i dont want to do the cold spells ...
A. 15 March 2014: Hi I will give you a guy's perspective on it and you can see what you can do differently to show you are interested. I have been recently in a similar situation as you are and I gave up on the girl thinking she is not interested or maybe she ... (read in full...)
How should I ask this guy for his number?
Q. How should I ask this guy for his number? I'm on a course at the moment. It finishes this week. I like a guy on the course. He doesn't know that I like him though. I want to ask him for his number so that we can keep in touch after the course h...
A. 12 March 2014:
I suppose the best way is to be honest about it to yourself, him and be clear about your intentions !
I am not sure if you want to be more than friends or not !
If you like to , just go ahead and ask him when you see him , I'll like to stay ... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear that I don't want more than friendship from this guy?
Q. Okay, so I have a slight issue with understanding what this boy's intentions and motives are. I met this boy when I first arrived at university in September and he's lovely, bless him. From September until January we only ever said hello to ea...
A. 9 March 2014: The same thing happened to a friend of mine! All the time, it seemed they were dating but in the end, she said she only saw him as a good friend !
They were flirting, spending a lot of time together, having fun around, kissing here and there. H... (read in full...)
I can only get turned on by my girlfriend?!
Q. Hi My problem isnt terrible but I'm worried about it Is it normal to only get turned on by my girlfriend? I can only Masterbate to her. If I watch porn it wouldn't do anything for me it's weird , it took me 2 years of convincng but got her to...
A. 7 March 2014: Well, I suppose you are very lucky and it's not a problem at all. You seem to me a deep thinker and visualise things a lot differently . I very much share the same phenomenon as you, I can not find anyone sexually attractive unless I have co... (read in full...)
Does he have a crush on me too?
Q. This guy has been initiating conversation with me over IM the last few days. He starts the conversation saying things such as 'Merry Christmas missy', 'Forgot to say, I'm glad you enjoyed the movie, you should also watch _. --- [name of another ...
A. 1 January 2014: Hello I believe he is interested and he wants to know you better. According to my experience, If I'm interested in a lass, I tend to initiate conversations with her or try to bump into her with intention of finding her whenever possible so I c... (read in full...)
I said and then she said ..... so whose opinion matters?
Q. Hi, Basically me and my GF had a big arguement over something really pathetic. However I believe her comments towards myself were personal and hating. The arguement was over the tiny statement that I made regarding " I would never include reciepts ...
A. 26 December 2013: I have a similar opinion as CindyCares!
I also believe that it is okay to have a difference of opinion but it's not okay at all to belittle other person by calling names or going aggressive. there's always a mature way to just talk and if you c... (read in full...)
How can I get a girl I'm dating to initiate our contact sometimes?
Q. Hi there I like a girl and we are kind of dating. We hang out and talk for hours on text even. The only thing I was wondering was that I always have to text her in order to start conversations. It's about 10 days since I know her. She always r...
A. 15 December 2013: well, it's about two days and I haven't heard from her after I told her she can contact me freely when she wants to?
how long should I wait?
... (read in full...)
How can I get a girl I'm dating to initiate our contact sometimes?
Q. Hi there I like a girl and we are kind of dating. We hang out and talk for hours on text even. The only thing I was wondering was that I always have to text her in order to start conversations. It's about 10 days since I know her. She always r...
A. 15 December 2013: Thank you everyone for your answers. I really appreciate them. Well, I have left the ball in her court by saying,contact me when she wants to talk(she replied certainly :) ) and yet she hasn't tried to contact me yet after almost 1.5 days.
How long... (read in full...)
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