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... Send *earner.uk a private message | | | *earner.uk's profile:Hi, I am 28yrs old guy, single and living in the south east of the uk, I came across the site as I was feeling down and bad after my girlfriend split up and have checked out lots of the posts which helped me fix myself quite some time ago.
I have had my fair share of trouble with relationships and have learned alot from them been through hell and back, my friends say I give good advise on relationship probs to them so I thought I would do my best to help people on here make their mind up.
Best advice from a mate of mine was:
"It really isn't as bad as it all seems,honestly, it really isn't. Think of others in worst spots, the people who are diseased in fly-ridden starving countrys who dont have anything! That really is a bad place to be in, you have your Health, Friend's and Family and the bad stuff really is not worth the trouble concentrate on the good things in life and look after number 1, YOU!"
And he was right about it all! If you are that important to someone and they want to be part of your Life, dont let them control you, be compromiseing if they or you cant compromise then what is the point of being together? You have to beable to talk things through you cant keep giving or taking with no return? Allways be your self, feel positive, believe in your self and be happy, you dont have to look happy all the time but make sure inside you are!
I am searching for my sole mate if there really such things lol
I have learned alot from my mistakes in the past and what people are like so can relate to alot of issues people have.
What makes me tick: cheaters, lier's and people who cant just be them self's and prob some other things as well lol.
Thanks for reading.
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A. 12 January 2011: Hi,
Been in the same position in the past, Best thing to do is to leave her and get on with your life, you are worth more!
Whats the point in thinking your going to be cheated on and staying with her only for it to happen again, Trust me ... (read in full...)
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A. 12 January 2011: Hi, hope this helps you out...Just write to him and say: you agree with what he said and you understand (even if you dont)
1) It's hard but let him go!
2) DOnt phone text or drunk call.
3) keep away from him and go out with friends family ... (read in full...)
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A. 12 January 2011: Hi,
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