LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?
Q. I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...
A. 23 January 2014: Thanks all. Been a while. Just it update, she did finally cheat on me :(... (read in full...)
I don't like how I feel around former crush!
Q. Has anyone ever had a similar awkward situation like this?.. I've known this attractive charismatic guy over 5 years. Our conversations started off warm and friendly. I once asked him his name when I ran into him at a store. I will admit to ha...
A. 22 January 2014: Although you're older than I am, I have seen these cases quite often. There is no problem with fidgeting around former crushes, the problem comes when you become sexually attracted to them. Trust me, that's a very grave mistake and you shouldn't let ... (read in full...)
Her training to fight makes me feel insecure.
Q. I'm in a fairly new relationship with a woman I adore. Our courtship lasted a bit long but we didn't want to get into a relationship just after a few weeks of admitting we liked each other. After a little over a year, we became happily official. T...
A. 22 January 2014: As serious as this is I couldn't help laughing. Just look beyond sentiments and see it's a good thing. If she loves you, she wouldn't try to ride on you (except on the bed of course).
However, if you still feel insecure the you should join a m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont let go of my past!
Q. Please, I need help with this. In the beginning of my relationship I made the treacherous mistake of telling my boyfriend about me giving oral to another guy, as I took it not very seriously and told him lots of details, it really got to him. ...
A. 22 January 2014: Alright, I think your boyfriend needs a reality check! Everyone has done something in their past and I think it's no mistake if you told him yours. Judging by your age, I'd assume he's around your age category hence the immature action. You both ... (read in full...)
LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?
Q. I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...
A. 31 December 2012: Thanks aunts and uncles... I really appreciate your help. All is well now... (read in full...)
LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?
Q. I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...
A. 28 December 2012: SVC, it's very nice of u to help me out here. I joined u in helping someone out earlier. The LD isn't a problem.
1. The fact that she's cheated on both her exs means I may not be treated differently.
2. I don't complain about the menstrual pa... (read in full...)
Should a person confess to cheating if it was a one time thing?
Q. I'm just curious for your opinions. It certainly is the moral thing to do. But I recall reading once that if it was a one time thing that would never happen again, it's better not to admit to cheating. Seek to fix whatever it was that led you to ...
A. 28 December 2012: You know, some lies do more good than the truth... Like when Abraham lied Sarah was his sister.
My take on this is that if u know and u are sure this won't repeat itself then u can keep the secret in Pandora's box.
However if ur babe isn't cl... (read in full...)
How long should we wait before having sex?
Q. It seems to be the biggest dilemma in dating today. With no hard-and-fast social rules, men and women are on their own to determine when is the best time to introduce a physical component to their budding love relationship. The good news is tha...
A. 28 December 2012: First of all, I'm pleased a male is having some resistance to sex. To answer this classic question of yours, there's definitely no emperical data that can provide an answer for u. What I'm saying is, it's all in the mind. Whenever you and... (read in full...)
He needs to accept that NO is an answer. Surely, if he cared, he's stop asking for anal?
Q. So I've been with my partner 2 years. He wanted to try anal since we got together but until a few months ago I said no. Well a few months ago I let him try and I hated it. Add to this I was in pain for 3 days. I thought to let him try twice mo...
A. 28 December 2012: I totally agree with everyone here. Let that man knows you are not his to use. And as YouWish rightly wrote, ask him how he'd feel if it happened to him... (read in full...)
Am I being used for money, sex, and transportation or am I seriously being paranoid and over-reactive?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost five months. At first everything was great he announced us being together on Facebook and all that. But one day he suddenly set his status to single. I didn't make a big deal out of it because I ...
A. 2 October 2011: I think he liked you and may just don't anymore. Blocking you from his facebook is too much of a prank. Although, I'd advise you stick around a little more but this time boss the relationship... (read in full...)
We've been out to dinner and she likes that I call her, but she doesn't want to see me?
Q. Hello friends am 20 and have never had a gf ( btw i'm not the ugliest of guys!). There's this girl i really like, quite friendly and pretty. Ok, we have gone out for dinner once, and she is always happy when i call her, but the problem is she doesnt ...
A. 20 December 2010: thanks, i think u are right... (read in full...)
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