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Question - (18 July 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2012)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Question 1:

Why would a girl frequently ask for a guy to post photos of himself, on Facebook? Is it like, some sort of hint of secret attraction, or something?

Question 2:

Why would you rub your thighs around a younger man? (For simplicity, his age is higher than 18). Is the behavior very subtle, but, if you see him notice you doing it, that you continue? I've seen a woman do that in an empty grocery store, and, I saw her doing it, when there was nobody else around.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2012):

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About the photo thing : I don't put photos of myself, as I don't like the idea of being seen on the Internet. What if a gay friend of any of my female contacts sees me, and masturbates to the sight of just a photo of me? I wouldn't be too happy about that, that's fer sure!

And, over here, Poison Ivy is highly unlikely. There's none around where I live. She lives nearby (Leg rubbing lady).

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (19 July 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntI get poison ivy sometimes. I rub the affected area instead of scratching, when I become aware of the itch. I try to make sure no one is around but I expect sometimes I do it without even realizing it. It's like a reflex. Get an itch, you scratch. It's almost impossible not to scratch.

Have you ever spoken with this woman in person?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 July 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIf she’s asking for more pictures it’s not a secret.. she’s telling you she wants to see more.

As for thigh rubbing.. it’s summer maybe they have heat rash….

if you are thinking it's a signal for sex, you think wrong. even if it's unconscious flirting, thigh rubbing would not be what they do,... face touching, body positioning, playing with hair... those things would be unconscious flirting...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2012):

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1) Very probable.

2) I don't think it's too much reading into it.... see, I think it's something to do with me, as a few women have tried to, uh, let's just say, make me relax.

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A female reader, Daisy_Daisy United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2012):

Daisy_Daisy agony aunt1) maybe she's interested but your photos are a bit vague so she'd like to see more before making any moves. Possibly she's trying to decide whether or not she is attracted - but be aware that regardless of the number of photos you post, she won't really know until she meets you in person.

2) I think you're reading too much into this thigh rubbing, unless you're omitting something important. I don't think you should over interpret things. Maybe she has sore thighs and she didn't realise you were paying so much attention.

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