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27 May 2011: She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get Rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look...
Advice on Dating For Guys
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24 May 2011: I would like to share advice when dating. I am a life coach and most of my clients always want me to help them in this area. Opening Conversation: Women dont like feeling like they are being hit on. And will reject you if they feel like the...
How to build a relationship
No replies yet... 24 May 2011: Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have what we call a relationship. So that means its down to management and people skills. Most people don’t possess these skills. They let their emotions drive their decisions an...
A relationship is like building a house!!!
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28 May 2008: Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have what we call a relationship. So that means its down to management and people skills. Most people don’t possess these skills. They let their emotions drive their decisions a...
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What should my next move be here?
Q. Basically, I've been very antisocial for the bulk of university, and I just graduated. This started when I had a massive falling out with my high school friends during the summer between high school and uni, with my girlfriend breaking up with me ...
A. 28 May 2011: I think you need to go back to building attraction. negging her, bieng cheeky,, making her laugh... then you need to get her used to your touch. palm reads, getting her link arms as you walk, then on your command you must isolate her so your both ... (read in full...)
I told my husband about my affair and now I know he will never be with me again
Q. So I told my separated husband the truth about the affair I was having during the split. I believe that it help but I know I lost him for good. There is a pregnancy involved that happen from the affair.i dont know exactly how I feel about my husband ...
A. 28 May 2011: I would advise that you just sit back and dont make any contact with him. he will come back if he wants. nothing you can do to try and fight for him will make a difference. now you must wait to be forgiven.... (read in full...)
I feel like telling this older woman I work with that I like her, just to get it off my chest!
Q. Hi Im 23 and have a girlfriend that I've had for the past 5 years. Now there is a new older woman (who is single) at work who i get along with great with, now i can't sleep at night or concentrate on anything because i keep thinking about t...
A. 28 May 2011: Ok you need to ask her if she wants to go and see her fave comedian live. or book tickets for you and a guy friend. but before you ask him to go. mention to her tht you have these tickets and see if she wants to come.
then message me for instruct... (read in full...)
My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce
Q. I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on ...
A. 28 May 2011: Consider the following before breaking the news oof a possible divorce. and then once your confident you know all the facts. you can decide if your feelings are the same Assess Your Legal Options Consult and Hire an Attorney Know Your Spou... (read in full...)
I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?
Q. So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am ...
A. 28 May 2011: Men I speak to dont like it when girls just lie there and do not move.
you need to be a good at making the man feel good. in your case this is more important than your own feelings..
you you need to decide who is in control. if it you then you ... (read in full...)
I still have a bedwetting problem at my age. What can I do?
Q. HELLO AUNTS I have an issue of burns in my inner thighs, yesterday my girlfriend noticed the burns while have some oral fun with her, she asked me how did u get burns near your penis balls and inner thighs, I did not mention about it at firs...
A. 28 May 2011: Hypnotherapy is very effective!... (read in full...)
After her miscarriage and being diagnosed with cancer, she somehow seems less interested in me. Why is that?
Q. hey agony aunts, im in a pickle and need some advice. Ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a month now, and the first few weeks went great, but then she started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out she was 6 weeks pregnant f...
A. 28 May 2011: Like I said pal. Let her come to you. dont smother. when someone is diagnosed with a life threatening illness. there are a series of phases a person goes through. denial...anger....Numbness/depression.....then acceptance.
what ever you do wont be ... (read in full...)
Why is so grossed out by what is natural during sex?
Q. My boyfriend takes forever to bust and I cannot last long in bed. IS there any way for me to be able to last longer than just 5 minutes? Also, he gets disgusted when my cum is on his cock, why is that? Hes also grosed out by his own cum. Why?...
A. 28 May 2011: Its just him, the feeling of the substances maybe remind him of a past experience that disgusted him.
The substances are quite gooey.
To last longer than 5 minuites you need to practice controlling the orgasm. get a vibrator and practice get... (read in full...)
What is this beautiful girl doing with me?
Q. After a night of her crying on my shoulder over the last douche bag to cheat on her, my best friend of over a decade and I slept together. Believe me, I've been totally in love with her since we pretty much met and believe me, it was totally not how ...
A. 28 May 2011: You will scare her off if you get too intense. enjoy every bit of attention you can and aim to make her feel good around you so you natrually transition into what you want. if your spending more time together and your having sex then es... (read in full...)
Boyfriend stubborn, never makes the effort to say he is sorry
Q. i have been with my partner for 6 years now, i got with him at a very young age, i was 17 and he was 21, i have always had the same problem with him, his stubborness. Everytime we have an argument, he will NEVER make the effort to come after me and ...
A. 28 May 2011: I do this to my gf. To manipulate her. to turn the blame on to her for starting an arguement. maybe next time she will think twice about stepping a foot out of line and she will natrually avoid feeling unvalued.
He is excersizing this form of ... (read in full...)
I don't believe a word he says but I still love him
Q. I need help!!! I have been datin my bf for one year now, 2 months ago i checkd his fone randomly n saw his bbm chats wif some chic n she was talkin about takin pills n being careful n he was saying he ddnt want to be a father, meanin they had sex, ...
A. 28 May 2011: What would you like help with?
Trusting him again? Because that will be hard as he is obviously untrustworthy.
There is something in your relationship wrong because he wants to speak to other chicks. he isnt getting everything he needs from yo... (read in full...)
Please help me get my lover back!
Q. I am married with 2 teenage children. For the last 3 years I have been having an affair with. Beautiful woman 20 years younger - I'm 44. This woman is the most amazing person Ive ever met. She turns heads were ever she goes, her personality shines ...
A. 27 May 2011: Its going to be very hard! you really screwed up there.
if you try and contact her she will still be in pain. so you wont succeed with buying her flowers or bieng to mushy. you need to wait until she has got over you.. and then start from s... (read in full...)
I feel as though only one of my friends cares about me!
Q. I recently realized that I think I only have one friend that cares about me. Nobody else seems to be bothered about me. I had about 4 people I could class as friends but I think, truly think only one of those is actually bothered about me. I w...
A. 27 May 2011: Build a life for yourself and people will be attracted to be involved. or take the easy way out and get a popular boyfriend you can build a life by involving yourself in as many activities and meeting people and progressing those meets into iso... (read in full...)
Question about anal sex.
Q. My boyfriend and I have tried anal sex a few times throughout our one year (and counting!) relationship. I currently work in the medical field as a CNA in a nursing home and I see almost everyday what bowel incontinence can do to a person's dignity. ...
A. 27 May 2011: the longer you do it the more the muscels get used to the stretching. when your older you will experience the problems more. but if you dont do anal sex at all then your still at risk of suffering problems. so i guess its best to live your life in ... (read in full...)
Baby Blues.
Q. I've been really getting down lately a lot of friends have been having kids lately, I'm 23 and I've been broody for over 2 years. I just haven't been in a place to have them, I know have a lovely partner, but he isn't ready for them. I've got ...
A. 27 May 2011: Think about weather you are both wanting the same things. Having a baby is an instinct your born with and its your body telling you that to be happy you need a baby. you must act on this. dont suppress it. Tell him you want children or you will ... (read in full...)
Little blood in urine - please help!
Q. I'm 19. Today, I went down on my girlfriend and licked her vagina a little bit. I also rubbed my fingers outside of her vagina. Everything was alright. I didn't put any of my finger inside of her. And we didn't have sex. Then she got home and told...
A. 27 May 2011: Could be cystitis or water infection. could cause a little pain when she urinates. nothing serious. if its her first time she has experienced this then tell her to see a doctor and he will prescribe anti biotics but drinking plenty of cranberry ... (read in full...)
Do you tell your partner when you get hit on, find someone attractive, or have a crush?
Q. Do you tend to tell your partner when someone has hit on you or find them attractive? Does the situation make a difference? For example, if your coworker is hitting on you versus the girl in line with you at the checkout? My girlfriend ...
A. 27 May 2011: I wouldnt tell anyone anything they didnt NEED to know. but if you feel she needs to appreciate you more then she needs to know how other women appreciate you. if she is jealous then good.she might not take you for granted anymore... (read in full...)
After asking me if I had an STD he called me a ho and untrustworthy, but I still really like him. Should I talk to him again?
Q. i have always had bad luck with the dating thing, until i went to college i met the guy of my dreams, i wanted him so bad. So one day he hit me up and gave me his number and i was so happy, we started texting daily and hanging out and then we ...
A. 27 May 2011: Wait until he comes to you an apologises. if you go to him you will validate to him that you accept bieng called those things and open up yourself to an abusive relationship. only talk to him if he apologises prefusely. make him work!... (read in full...)
How do I stop hating her?
Q. I used to have a "thing" with a guy. That ended a while ago then he got a girlfriend who lives in the same town as him. He lives hours away from me. So, he's been with her nearly two years but for nearly a year and a half of that he's been coming on ...
A. 27 May 2011: You need to fight fire with fire. you need to start saying yes girl!.
you are going to have to seem better than her. more sexy, more adventurous.
Listen to pussycat dolls- doncha wish your girlfriend was hot like me.
Make him want you mor... (read in full...)
After her miscarriage and being diagnosed with cancer, she somehow seems less interested in me. Why is that?
Q. hey agony aunts, im in a pickle and need some advice. Ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a month now, and the first few weeks went great, but then she started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out she was 6 weeks pregnant f...
A. 27 May 2011: Hey,
try this,
back of completely, dont text or call or anything, let her have her space and wait for her to contact you. she wont miss you until your gone.
trust me. this will work. my advice to any man is to ignore women as much as ... (read in full...)
Should I accept the little communication I get from my friend? She doesn't call me, doesn't follow through. I need friends though!
Q. I have this long time friend, when I call her she either doesn't answer the phone, or she answers the phone like she is annoyed, like I am bothering her. So I stopped calling her because it makes me feel bad. She asked me why I don't call her and I ...
A. 27 May 2011: Be selfish on this one. expect less. get what you can from her. dont give up. she is the sort of person that will come when she needs you. she sounds like she smokes weed. or has a lazy selfish streak to her. not nice and i can feel your heartache ... (read in full...)
Why do I like getting attention from guys but then never following through on it?
Q. Is it bad that when i go on a night out i like the idea of meeting guys and getting the attention from them? I want to make out with them, but not so that it leads to sleeping together cause i couldn't do that with a stranger! But I don't understand ...
A. 27 May 2011: Your someone who needs validation from others before you can feel good about yourself. And when A guy gives you attention it gives you a buzz and a feeling of self gratification.
You also want to be in control. If the guy was attractive to you b... (read in full...)
I feel like telling this older woman I work with that I like her, just to get it off my chest!
Q. Hi Im 23 and have a girlfriend that I've had for the past 5 years. Now there is a new older woman (who is single) at work who i get along with great with, now i can't sleep at night or concentrate on anything because i keep thinking about t...
A. 27 May 2011: You need to build attraction. if you tell her how you feel your putting yourself on the line and you stand to lose. You need to start building attraction. First gather me some situations that you think indicate that she likes you. you must ha... (read in full...)
I need to stop feeling anxious and appear more confident and sociable! Tips, please!
Q. Hi. I'm going to start a work placement next week, that i have to do for one month. If i don't go, my benefits will be stopped for a few months. I am on benefits while i look for work. The benefits i am on are called Jobseeker's Allowance. However, ...
A. 27 May 2011: Hey,
I have my own confidence clinic in cumbria but i will be able to teach you real confidence. its a serious issue and it cant be resolved on here. if you private message me i can pass on some pschology knowledge to you which will help you see ... (read in full...)
Give me tips on how I will know if she likes me!
Q. there is this girl, i just started talking to. She show signs of liking me, but i am not sure she does. So can u pls give tips that i will use and know she likes me....
A. 27 May 2011: She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get Rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look... (read in full...)
Sex with him leaves me unsatisfied.
Q. I came to my current partner as a virgin although, I had experienced oral sex before with my ex of four years. I didn't want to have sex with my partner but it happened anyway and after a while, I learned to like it. But now, I don't feel the same. ...
A. 27 May 2011: Do you think that its magically going to get better once he talks to you. your young and you want more adventure and want to be swept of your feet. your body is tryin to send you a message. take the message and leave him. and find someone who ... (read in full...)
I really like both these guys. My ex is now ignoring me. I need some clarity please? What should I do?
Q. I really like this guy. I will call him Y. And I really like my my ex, who im still in love with. I will call him X So X and i broke up in june last year...8 months later after a different girlfriend, he came back begging for me to take him back tha...
A. 26 May 2011: Imagine that something above yourself, not god, but time itself provided you with Y because it knew that you were going to end up happy. Time and fate wants you to choose Y. But on the other hand time provided you with X. but it didnt work out... (read in full...)
Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I stil...
A. 26 May 2011: She is acting this way because she has sensed you have moved on. she is a control freak and loves playing with you and she knows what she is doing. 1. At the moment she says "this doesnt change anything were still friends right?" You need to say ... (read in full...)
I overheard my BF telling his cousin he doesn't really love me. Now I'm not sure how much to trust him or how to feel when he says anything to me...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we were old friends along time ago and when we ran into each other, we got along great! We have a great time together. He has always been very independant and has never "needed" a women and when we ...
A. 26 May 2011: I act the same way in an arguement. I act like i dont care. The reason guys do this is because of a emotional problem. the inability to let yourself love someone. but most of this time i'm happy and feel love for my gf. but when anyone asks if ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he look at me when we have sex?
Q. Ok here goes. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now going onto 3. There is one problem: when we have sex he closes his eyes, turns his head away, and bearly makes a sound besides breathing and a rare grunt or gasp. He's a really nice ...
A. 25 May 2011: In my honest opinion I would say this means he is trying to imagine he is having sex with someone he finds more attractive. I do it when i am with someone not so attractive!... (read in full...)
I queef, therefore I blush. Make it stop?
Q. Here's an embarassing question... So, when I get turned on, my vagina seems to open up and suck in some air. The result is queefing. This doesn't happen if something penis sized is inserted (except once with a very small penis), but if something...
A. 25 May 2011: Dont worry. every girl i have been with does it. it doesnt put us guys off or we dont think differently of you. its normal and cannot be stopped. try change positions until you find one that stops it.
hope that helps... (read in full...)
Just how likely is my penis size going to be a problem when I do become sexually active?
Q. This will seem like it's verging on a question I've seen asked a hundred or more times across the net, but bear with. Does size matter? I've read up on it enough to have my own thoughts on this, but it's still playing on my mind a lot. I've rece...
A. 25 May 2011: I would add to the good advice given above that women also have varying vagina depths. the average is 5 inches. that is the measurement from the vaginal entrance to the cervix (entrance to womb) but touching the cervix wont give a woman any ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to reject someone nicely?
Q. Hi, This is just a short question but is there any way to reject a guy nicely? this guy keeps asking me out and I haven't ever given him a straight answer because I just dont want to offend him, any ideas? We are quite good friends, but he is ...
A. 25 May 2011: dont say that because if you find your perfect ideal partner then ure going to have questions to answer if you said your not interested in a romantic relationship.
Tell him that you only will ever see him as a friend. if we would have just met... (read in full...)
Why do women date the bad boys but marry the nice guys?
Q. Dear cupid, i was wondering why women date and sleep with bad boys through out there youth but run to marry nice guys in there 30's when there less attractive and are looking for stability and safety for a guy who has worked hard, being dumped for ...
A. 24 May 2011: its scientific. its because the front cortex of the brain is undeveloped until about 20. then starts to mature from 20 to about 25ish varying with some women...
this part of the brain appears under a brain scan as bight yellow or orange which re... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always breaking our plans for his friends, I'm sick of it and told him so. He hasn't listened. What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend for 1 year plus always abandoned me last minute for our dating to go out with his friends. This has happened several times like during count downs and even on christmas eve. I am sick of it... Told him several times and he is ...
A. 24 May 2011: nooo ignore the above. dont talk the issue. do this back at him before he gets chance to. wait for ure opertunity. get your own back, tht way he will stop doing it because he will see that as the way to get you to stop doing it...
if you ever hav... (read in full...)
Is he serious about changing his ways or is he just talking?
Q. Hello Cupid! Me and this guy met seven months ago through a mutual friend and instantly clicked. We both graduated from the same college, have alot in common and are relatively known for what we do. I'm a journalist and he's a filmmaker/journa...
A. 24 May 2011: if i were you I would have shown the boy who is cleverer by doing exactly what he does to girls and fire it back at him... that will make him like you even more and then its safe to trust him.......
my advice to all girls reading this.. if your ... (read in full...)
My ex has moved on but I cant seem to!!
Q. So me and my ex have been broken up for about two or three months. I have not spoken a word to her since I left her house after saying it was over. She told me she had feeling for a friend of hers and they have now been dating for a while now. I ...
A. 24 May 2011: theres a chance that her current relationship might go wrong at some point and she will probably come and contact you. then you can ask her how she is getting on then. your in the position of power there. if u contact her now. then she will be in ... (read in full...)
Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...
Q. My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 yea...
A. 24 May 2011: If you know what women are like then you will know that a man showing he cares is exactly what she wants. it feeds her ego.... if i was in your situation i would act calm and relaxed and act like you are not bothered. make jokes about it and seem ... (read in full...)
What constitutes a pedophile?
Q. Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?...
A. 24 May 2011: In my opinion it is anyone who has sexual thoughts towards a child that has not entered puberty yet. because once they have they have breasts and wide hips which are prehistoric in build attraction switches for men. some 14 year olds look about 21 ... (read in full...)
How can I make him listen to me?
Q. hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he ...
A. 24 May 2011: It wont be a quick solution but I have the same problem. im just like you in the respect i am passive and let things go. i didnt put my foot down in the first place and now i am i get into alot of arguements but i am slowly winning back my power in ... (read in full...)
How can I make him listen to me?
Q. hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he ...
A. 13 May 2011: he has the common personality train that exists in only child men, mothers boys.
you would need to be a psycologist to change that.
dont give your opinion on his purchases. just push your opinion strongly on your own purchases. repli... (read in full...)
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