I feel lonely being single
Q. Hi, I am feeling confused right now and not sure what I should do. I have been rejected every time I have asked someone out so far, and have been in one relationship in the past. It was a short relationship, she left me to be with another guy...
A. 23 February 2022: Man you gotta start with changing your mindset, that should be the first thing you change, that whole poor me routine, dude chicks and dudes can pick up on that in seconds, there's only one way to avoid that, and that's actually changing your ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and want a dildo
Q. I have an ongoing issue. I am longing for a dildo, and I am only 14! I really want to ask my mom for one but don't know how to confront her about it. Am I too young? If not, how should I ask her?...
A. 23 February 2022: Just save up your money, go get a card, then just order your own, or get on the bus or catch a ride and go buy one, I don't think it's illegal, I don't see why they wouldn't sell you one, i absolutely would not ask your parents for one, unless you ... (read in full...)
I am considering contacting my train wreck of a dad!
Q. Hi everyone, thoughts, insights and advice please! I'm swiftly approaching a landmark birthday, the sort where you might stop and consider your life to that point. Well, I've been doing that and am considering making contact with my father. I'...
A. 21 March 2017: Having struggled with addiction in my life so far, and it's never really effected me and my daughter's relation ship to the extremes u say, not more then her mom has interfered with us, I mean I was over the edge buying her thing, giving her stuff, ... (read in full...)
Should I explain to my ex? Or just let him think what he wants?
Q. Well, It all started when the guy I was seeing for a 1 1/2 years dumped me out of the blue... I moved on and met someone else who was going out of town for 2 months.. (New dating by this time) This new guy is nothing like my ex.. he's sucessful, ...
A. 16 February 2017: Sounds like u might just wanna cut bait and start over all together, you probably led your ex on, of course hes upset, wouldn't you be? But I'll tell u right now if you were as into this new guy as u say, your ex wouldn't even be a factor, u may ... (read in full...)
Is it a red flag if a woman has been 3 or 4 times and says all the marriages were abusive?
Q. well asking a question, if a woman, a man started dating, tells you they been married three or four times, is that a big red flag, my own opinion is that they all couldn't be bad,one or two maybe,an if they say all three men were abusive ...
A. 16 February 2017: This sounds a little in the pig Dept. But it's what my grandpa told me as a little boy about these situations, he said a man comes home from a back breaking day at work, to dinner on the table, and a clean house, to a wife who loves him and is glad ... (read in full...)
I don't want to make the wrong move!
Q. A friend of mine, who happens to be a girl, has been hanging out with me a lot more, lately she even fell asleep in my bed, and when I woke up she had her arms around me and her head on my chest, she claimed to be shocked waking up in this ...
A. 20 August 2012: Thank you everybody, it seemed all she was after was loving, im not bitching, just a bit shocked, it's not to often I get used for some ass, one half of me is pissed off about it and a little hurt, but I guess the prominent feelings in me want to ... (read in full...)
Should I forget my hopes and dreams for a man who might never get his act together?
Q. I am planning on going overseas in a month in order to continue my chosen career as there are no opportunities in my country at the moment. I am also going because I want to explore the world and travel. My bf is aware of my future plans but not ...
A. 23 July 2012: Absolutely not, do not give up anything for him, tell him what your doing, when he sees your serious, I think you will see a very dramatic change in his attitude, one way or the other, im sure he believes all is well and your not going anywhere, let ... (read in full...)
I left my husband and now my boyfriend is not interested in me anymore.
Q. I left my husband because I fell in love with another man. I no longer loved my husband. The other man led me to believe he loved me, too and would be there for me when I left my husband. It turns out that he is not. Now I am all alone without ei...
A. 18 July 2012: Well you speak of the feeling of betrayal by this so called friend you left everything for, maybe that is the same feeling your husband was forced to feel at your hands, it is very hard to feel sorry for you, because you basically werent happy, but ... (read in full...)
Should I express my concerns? Or just go along with her excitement? She has already accepted a job in Porn industry
Q. My girlfriend, 20 years lost her job last year and hasnt been able to find consistent work since. She came up to me a few weeks ago after talking to one of her friends about joining the porn industry. She is very interested and actually determin...
A. 11 July 2012: Hurry!! you need to hurry and tie the knot bro!! like QUICKLY!! as possible, that way if she does bare down and decide to kick you to the curb, you can get some alimony out of your encouragement and your standing beside her and telling her she can ... (read in full...)
Should I express my concerns? Or just go along with her excitement? She has already accepted a job in Porn industry
Q. My girlfriend, 20 years lost her job last year and hasnt been able to find consistent work since. She came up to me a few weeks ago after talking to one of her friends about joining the porn industry. She is very interested and actually determin...
A. 9 July 2012: Bro are you bullshitting us? so how does your old lady just go out job hunting one day, and in between Old Navy and Olive Garden land a full time job as an adult entertainment actress, not having any prior knowledge, or experience? sounds a little ... (read in full...)
I don't want my ex to hate me for the rest of our lives. Can I get her to forgive me?
Q. K this is kind of hard, my daughters mom, who was my girlfriend of 10 years, well 2 years ago, she got into it with her boss, your typical one person falls out of love with the other story, well I never saw it coming, had no clue how to handle it, ...
A. 8 July 2012: I really appreciate your insight, both of you, I guess I was hoping for some magic answer, or trick to try, but sadly it all just fizzles into reality, and that reality from what i feel is that she never really liked me as a person, which is ... (read in full...)
Should I express my concerns? Or just go along with her excitement? She has already accepted a job in Porn industry
Q. My girlfriend, 20 years lost her job last year and hasnt been able to find consistent work since. She came up to me a few weeks ago after talking to one of her friends about joining the porn industry. She is very interested and actually determin...
A. 8 July 2012: well bro, this is something you can only answer, why are you asking us? can you handle knowing your girlfriend is getting turned inside out by guys that are 5 times bigger then average, then on top of that it is being filmed, so everyone you know ... (read in full...)
I'm here because I need some friendly help ....
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for four year, five in December... And I just idk our first year was so horrible, when I think back Idk why or how I kept up with his bs. I didn't get to have fun in high school because he was controlling, ...
A. 8 July 2012: Well i'll tell you right now, the resentment part is the deal breaker, if you cannot figure out a way to get over the resentment, and he cannot figure out a way to act like a grown up, then your just extending the already finished relationship your ... (read in full...)
Recognizing female friends that will let you go further then friends.
Q. Ok this is a dumb question, but one ive honestly began to ponder upon lately, and i thought what better place to take this question, I hang out with a lot of girls, not by any preference, it just happens that way, i never really even noticed until ...
A. 5 July 2012: Sorry it took so long to update this, I decided you all made alot of sense, I guess I was just starting to realize, I had never had so many friends that were female, it all just kind of shook me, and im not talking about having a few more girls then ... (read in full...)
What are the top reasons for cheating?
Q. hello, thanks for ansewering me... i appreciate all advices. one question. Why girls/woman cheat? What are top reasons? Thank you....
A. 25 April 2012: Top Reasons? like the top 10 reasons? what are the best reasons? it depends I think on the person, some people are just garbage and have no feelings, and cheat merely because they are selfish, I actually believe this is the only reason for cheating, ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a girl could be potentially checking me out?
Q. Hey aunts. I need some SERIOUS help. I'm having trouble telling if a girl likes me or not. I've only had two girlfriends in my 24 years of living. I think the reason for that is because I never step out of my comfort zone. When I see a girl I like, ...
A. 27 March 2012: Sounds like your just scared, maybe you should try doing everything EXACTLY!! the opposite of what your doing now, no matter how hard it is, make yourself do it, see what happens, then since your already there, just make small chit chat, then every ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken and lost
Q. I have been dating this girl for about 6 months (I am 32, she is 25). When we 1st met, it was love at 1st sight. She had a tough life growing up and got in lots of trouble but with the help of a very supportive family, she was able to get back on ...
A. 4 January 2012: Hey bro, Ive had girls from troubled past's, everything from incest rape, to molestation, to drug use and etc. they will never just be normal, because what they were raised in, and what we were raised in are 2 different things, many of them have had ... (read in full...)
Why does he seem so up for being together but still there's something putting him off?
Q. hey aunts and uncles, for my question the boy is called A and his girlfriend is called B just so things don't get confusing. 3years ago i had an amazing relationship with A for 13months and then i started to have feelings for someone else s...
A. 4 January 2012: How do you expect him to be anything but cautious? you bounced on him for another dude, do you expect him to just act like nothing ever happened? and act like all is well? im sure you would like that, and probably expect he do just that, but once ... (read in full...)
To please him I am seeking any tips to ensure fellatio is more enjoyable please? And anything to make it taste better too, please?
Q. My partner really enjoys oral sex. And is always asking for it. I don't mind doing it but he always wants to be able to come inside my mouth. It's something he finds really attractive. I let it happen once but I really didn't like it. I've told him...
A. 4 January 2012: Okay, this is very simple, I have had oral sex a few times, maybe 4? LOL, there are 2 types of women in the world, those who love sucking dick, and those who hate it, there is NO!! grey area, and you should never try making someone do it who doesn't ... (read in full...)
To men dating? What puts you off pursuing a women who has children from her past relationship/s? How many pre-existing children represent "too many" for you to consider pursuing her?
Q. This is aimed at all the men. When you reach your mid 30's and you are looking for a long term partner, we know most women will have at least one child. Do men have a maximum number of step children they will take on board? What number of children ...
A. 4 January 2012: It depends, is the father in the child's life? is the father not cool with his kid having a new father figure, is he supporting the kid or kids financially? then can you stand the kid? are they heathens? have they been properly rewarded and ... (read in full...)
Am I being petty?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He had a messy break up with his ex when him and I started dating. This ex of his caused both of us a lot of trouble. I felt especially affected by this because she would go around saying ...
A. 4 January 2012: You sound very double sided, you just want her to be gone, and to forget about it, on the other side your infuriated that you were not brought to the table for these moving on talks, look, sounds like she got dumped for you, or something to that ... (read in full...)
Found videos of my girlfriend on the internet...should I tell her I've seen them?
Q. I have been dating a girl for about 3 months and things are starting to get serious. We just started referring to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. A few days ago, I was looking at an adult video site and noticed a newly uploaded video was ...
A. 4 January 2012: Hey bro, you should absolutely tell her, especially if you truly do like her, she might have no clue some ex-boyfriend, that was jealous cause she dumped him or whatever the reason, got pissed and posted private videos they had made of making love, ... (read in full...)
My Bf and I constantly fight over unwanted attention I receive from other men. What can I do to fix this?
Q. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. My problem is that we constantly fight over unwanted attention I receive from other men. I am naturally a very friendly person to any individual regardless of age or looks. My career is in ...
A. 15 December 2011: I don't know about him, but I have a taste for hot women, and by some good grace of genetics, I manage to find some pretty good looking women who for whatever reason are attracted to me??? I bask in the stares walking through the mall with a ... (read in full...)
I unfriended an ex on Facebook, and I just added him again. Now its awkward!
Q. I dated Mr T for a short time and he ended things. We were friends first through work. I've carried a torch for years btw it hurt a lot when he ended it so I defriended him in FB not to hurt him but for the following reasons, to: Keep me from spy...
A. 15 December 2011: So unfriend him again!! are you serious? really what other option do you have? you do not need him as a friend, until you feel 100% alright with him being your friend. pretty simple and easy answer to this question.... (read in full...)
He's frustrated. I'm unhappy. What could be causing my Bf to suddenly get erectile dysfunction? It's never happened before.
Q. My and I boyfriend have been together for 4 months now, and recently we've had a problem with him staying hard during sex. I'm on birth control so we never use condoms but it's just so weird because during foreplay or oral sex he stays full on hard...
A. 15 December 2011: I'll tell you from personal experience, and this is short, simple, and will kill your boner dead, STRESS!!! of any sort, stress about bills, about life, or Ive even been stressed cause I was worried I wouldn't be able to get it up, which made me ... (read in full...)
Did I lower my image and my standards?
Q. I dont know if what I did was wrong. I dont like this girl at all. not even a little bit. I just wanted to have sex. I know that sounds kinda the guy image but it was kinda already understood that we were going too.. but now i feel like shit ...
A. 15 December 2011: This is the exact reason I had only been with 5 women by age 30, because the first 2 were chicks I met, and banged, I felt so horrible, and shallow afterwards that I have never had sex with another girl again, that wasn't my girlfriend, and I had ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being bitchy?
Q. I've been really bitchy lately and its really making my boyfriend upset..its all because I've been unhappy about the place that we live in. I'm sooo fed up with our roomates! Their so filthy and lazy and they have nasty animal that they won't clean ...
A. 15 December 2011: It sounds like a funny topic, and maybe it is to an extent, but my stepsister is honestly no lie, in therapy, and has been now for going on 6 months, why? because she's a bitch! there's really no way to sugar coat it, or disguise it, she has a ... (read in full...)
Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!
Q. Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is ...
A. 30 November 2011: PerhapsNot, you make a lot of sense, I am almost embarrassed that I posted this, as I guess it is jealousy more then anything, I'm not really in a spot right now where I have a whole lot of female interaction in my life. I got out of a 10 year rela... (read in full...)
Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!
Q. Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is ...
A. 24 November 2011: Well PerhapsNot, one thing that would be different would be that I would care, I guess I wasn't really clear on a couple things, I have given into her many attempts at bedding me, I blew her off, and turned her down for damn near 7 months before one ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my family that I'm bi-sexual?
Q. hi im bisexual and i want tell my family but there really old fashioned and they would reject me in seconds what should i do...
A. 25 September 2011: Do you really think it's any of their business? I mean doesnt seem like something you really need to tell them, or benefit by telling them, just my opinion.... (read in full...)
The girl next door.....
Q. Got myself into a BIG TIME JAM! even by my standards, I started seeing my next door neighbor, well, Ive just recently started to find out she thinks more of her then she will ever think of me, and my gut is just telling me to jump ship, well easier ...
A. 29 June 2011: ha ha ha, the threesome thing is great, and i just might try it, only with my luck she would accept, we would do it, then she would go psycho on me! Ive sure painted myself into a corner on this one, and as I see people aren't jumping at the chance ... (read in full...)
First love or soul mate? Which one is more devastating to lose?
Q. Is losing your first love comparable to the feelings experienced when losing a 'soul mate'?...
A. 28 June 2011: Soul mates are fairy tale bullshit chicks make up, I got told by my first love all about soul mates, hell I never even heard of them before her, and I was hers, you know what her answer was when she was dumping me about us being soul mates, her ... (read in full...)
Had an affair and now I'm trying to work on things with my wife but the thought of anything intimate disgusts me.
Q. Ok agony aunts i need your help in the worst way! Heres my problem. My wife and i have been going thru some major issues that have been causing a rift between us. Just know that regardless of my actions i do love her and i do regret what ive ...
A. 28 June 2011: What are you waiting for, leave your wife, and go with this person your a match with, but remember the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side, what are you gonna do when you get down the line and realize shit is not as great as you thought it ... (read in full...)
I finally left my husband of 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but I don't know how to deal with the pain
Q. how do you survive after the cheating..? i finally left my husband for 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but i don't know how to deal with the pain ...
A. 28 June 2011: Obviously you do know how to deal with the pain, you took the hardest first step you could take, you left, now the most important thing is that you don't go back, DO NOT SIT AROUND AND THINK ABOUT IT! how could it hurt any worse then having someone ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to try again, but take things slowly this time. Should I give a shot?
Q. I split with my ex around 7 months ago, as i didn't feel the same... like I didn't feel the love I did before. I've recently started talking to him again and he said he wants us to try again, but take it slowly. What do you think? Should I try ...
A. 31 January 2011: I think you should try again, don't you think you should try again? I haven't heard you give me one good reason why you shouldn't try again! so I believe it was meant to be, don't you?... (read in full...)
3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?
Q. Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...
A. 31 January 2011: 32 Years is a helluva long time, that's as long as I am old, I can only use my common perception and common sense to try and help you out, you never mentioned if you were still in love with him? or are you more scared and hurt at the fact it was an ... (read in full...)
How do you forgive yourself?
Q. How do you come to grips with regret and guilt? say you had the love of your life, and you knew it, but you were either immature, ignorant, or just not wired to be a good partner at the time, and after being with many other people, trying out many ...
A. 30 January 2011: I appreciate all your help, and insight, I really do, I was with this girl for 10 years and have a daughter with her, I am the poster boy for pure guy! I was raised by a single mom, so I do kind of understand women,(lol) you know what I mean, but I ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Am I addicted... to sex?
Q. okay so i lost my virginity to a guy i honestly felt great feelings for at the time. we stayed together for 2 and a half years until i decided that something was missing. I broke it off then I found myself starting to like a guy three years older ...
A. 26 November 2010: In my opinion, I really dig girls who make it difficult, but not overly difficult, if I go out with a chick, and try to get some action the first date, and she lets me, I don't for a second believe im some different better guy, that she's made this ... (read in full...)
After 5 years into the relationship, and don't know what to do..
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years now. We were only 18 when we started going out. At the beginning i was completely crazy about him. For the last 6 months things have been going a bit strange for me. I really thought i wanted to get ...
A. 20 October 2010: Cant help you on the part of not wanting to even touch him anymore, this is some weird phenomenon, that ive noticed chicks(probably guys, just not me) seem to go through, but as far as thinking about being with other guys, sounds like your a normal ... (read in full...)
Ex started texting me last night and it hurts because I miss her so much
Q. My former girlfriend of five years broke up with me several months ago. I was devastated for a long time as I'd always thought we would spend our lives together and it was completely out of the blue. We have seen each other at various social ...
A. 20 October 2010: Hey bro, your asking what we think, so I hope you really want answers, sounds like she either got interested in someone else, or was already pursuing someone else and before it went to far she broke it off with you, so she wouldnt hurt you, im sure ... (read in full...)
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