I love my boyfriend but am looking elsewhere
Q. My situation.. I met my boyfriend a year ago while while I was living overseas, he is from that country. We ended up getting into a relationship quite fast. Our parents met each other and everything was great. A week later or so, he had to g...
A. 17 September 2017: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-in-a-relationship-yet-i-find-myself.html How old are you really!?!
Just break up with the poor guy already. The LDR one I mean. Then you can flirt and date and talk to guys all you want. You don't really want... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship yet I find myself attracted to a friend. What to do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I love him to death and I can't imagine life without him. When I was living overseas for some time, my elder brother had some room mates and every time we came back to see the house, I obviousl...
A. 10 September 2017: Well if you can imagine things, then imagine yourself without this guy in your life. And imagine yourself staying in love with your boyfriend. If that is a real big struggle for you, then you're with the wrong boyfriend. No matter how much you ... (read in full...)
My crush is being weird!
Q. last week I ended pulling a gorgeous female while I was out with my friends, and we seem to have a lot in common with each other, she always liked me at school, but for some reason we didn't end up getting together, now we are, she sent me a friend ...
A. 10 September 2017: I'm wondering what pulling means, did you get her phone number or did you go to bed with her or somewhere in between? That comment you made "I ended up pulling a gorgeous female, " if that's the way you have been talking on social media about her, ... (read in full...)
How can I make my husband feel better about our sex life?
Q. I am a woman of 50 years, I married 10 years ago. I was single for 40 years and naturally I had several sexual partners (26 men more precisely). The problem is that I have never had orgasms with my current husband. He is very dedicated in bed, not ...
A. 12 August 2017: Color me skeptical but your avatar picture shows your face quite clearly and also your large breasts. Suggests you are seeking male attention. Starting to see why your husband doubts your fidelity. Code Warrior gave you good advice. Follow it. And ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried by his behaviour?
Q. Hello. I need your help to figure out if you think my boyfriend cheated. Let me begin by saying that he is in touch with me several times a day. But yesterday he behaved unlike the norm. We talked before bed on Saturday night. All was fine. I ...
A. 25 July 2017: Cut him a break. If he doesn't do this ever then he gets a pass.
Why are you flipping out on the idea that he's cheating? Has he cheated before? ... (read in full...)
I'm very puzzled by my boyfriend's giantess fetish. Can someone explain?
Q. Hello, i'm very open about porn and sexual things and nothing really phases me, however I found out my boyfriend has a foot fetish, it's not something that really did it for me, but seeing how turned on he gets by using my feet etc, i'm starting to ...
A. 25 July 2017: Prince Charles wanted to be Camilla's tampon. Google it!
He just wants to give himself over to being completely sexual. It's his thing and your nice to want to get in his skull but don't stress too much.... (read in full...)
I forgave him after his betrayal, but how can I warm this love up again?
Q. I am 27, yet still so naive in love. I will try to make this as short as possible. Both times when being betrayed, I never had a doubt because he was still treating me as good as we used to be. 6 months ago, my bf had feelings for a gir...
A. 25 July 2017: Watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, a film about erasing bad memories. That's what your asking here
How about remembering every time he effing lied to you. Every time he came on to this other girl.
This pondscum you say you love will kee... (read in full...)
We split up 5 years ago but I still have feelings for him
Q. Hi I split up with a ex 5 years ago I know it's a long time ago but the problem is I still have feelings for him and I don't know why the relationship was very intense we fell in love straight away but he suddenly started treating me horribly I ...
A. 25 July 2017: You like panic attacks? Your having them. Natural response to a traumatic relationship . You have any reason you want more mistreatment? You think lowly of yourself? You think your not worth decent treatment?
What should you do? Run like f--k away... (read in full...)
Is it normal for eyes to wander in long term relationships?
Q. I have been with my gf 5 years now and over that time things have never been smooth sailing but lately and this is something I feel guilty about my eyes have begun to wonder i would love to say I would never cheat and I am 99% sure I wouldn't but I ...
A. 9 July 2017: And you are staying in a relationship with her becauuuuussee why? Long distance -- no sex -- rockie -- never easy -- don't click It's over you just need to call the funeral home to hold the service ... (read in full...)
My friend seems keen for me to have sex with his wife
Q. I am single guy....... A friend of mine and his wife who I have both known for years,went over my apartment last night, after drinking at a local bar,and we ended up having a threesome, after he encouraged her... afterwards it was a little...
A. 9 July 2017: God that sounds like a divorcing couple I know. Come to find out they are well known for being swingers. All the playtime and swinging and what not involving stripper poles resulted in 2 of the most unhappy people I've ever met. One of their kids ... (read in full...)
What does all this interaction with him mean?
Q. Hello, in recent months I have become close to a male friend of whom I knew in grade in junior high in 2002. He added me on FB which was a surprise, as I rejected him in junior high when he showed interest in me. He ended up moving to another state ...
A. 9 July 2017: Are you single? Ask him out!
Are you in a relationship with someone? Have you told your SO about your online chats and coffee meet ups? No? Why not?
If you're trying to hedge your bets and only cut free from current bf before chasing the shiny ne... (read in full...)
Advice on how women feel about orgasms please?
Q. My question is for the ladies out there - do you need an orgasm to enjoy sex? Most women I've ever been with have said they don't so I always took that to be true, but the one I'm with now says she does want and expect an O every time... Now I fee...
A. 1 May 2017: Are you saying you want to have intercourse with a woman whose vagina is dry and unaroused and unprepared for it? Really? Is that the kind of lover you've been all your life? No wonder you've had so many partners--they don't stay with you because ... (read in full...)
I'm now taller than my former boyfriend and feel uncomfortable about it!
Q. Hi I used to date a guy in school (we were young and it wasn't really serious.) He was taller than me back then and often teased me about being shorter than him. I didn't really mind because it was always meant jokingly. After 10th grade he we...
A. 1 May 2017: Say hello, be polite and don't worry about it. So you're tall, be tall. I mean what are your options, hide yourself from him? That's crazy. You don't need to do that. Live your life.... (read in full...)
We broke up because she's emotionally disturbed and would have sex with random people!
Q. So i started this new relationship about 3 months ago with a girl. Things went fast between us, but at times she was still emotionally disturbed and attached to her ex who was a complete ass to her. But she had 2 kids together with him, so it was ...
A. 1 May 2017: This woman needs professional help. Thank God you're out of there, count your blessings, walk away and don't look back. Yes it's sad she's had terrible coping skills, but she's the one that needs to get the help not you.... (read in full...)
What do you do when your bridal party and family cannot get along while making plans for your wedding shower and bachelorette party?
Q. What do you do when your bridal party and family cannot get along while making plans for your wedding shower and bachelorette party? I have a Pinterest board setup and shared it with my bridal party and they are having opposing views on what they ...
A. 1 May 2017: Stick up for your bridesmaid and for your ideas. Don't let them bully her. You're the bride, it's your wedding, you get to decide how it's going, as long as you're the one paying for it. By your age range, it looks like you probably are, so do what ... (read in full...)
I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?
Q. Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustw...
A. 28 March 2017: Confused about what? You don't like him--period end of story. Bye bye wrong guy.
Decide if you're living your life or your parents life. Then go from there.... (read in full...)
I ratted out my friends for cheating. Did I do the wrong thing?
Q. I'm in college and recently we had our finals exam for calculus, I studied my absolute hardest and I know I still get didn't enough right answers to pass, after the exam I find out that some of my classmates were using a facebook group chat to share ...
A. 28 March 2017: How can they be using devices during a final exam? Lax school rules? No proctors? That's crazy.
Don't hang with cheaters--they'll bring you down to their sad low level.
The college must have rules about this. Did you follow them too, are you alwa... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's insecurity is chipping away at our relationship
Q. So I am having some serious issues in my relationship and I don't know how to deal with them. I am coming here for some much needed perspective. To start, I'm a gay female. 33 years old. My girlfriend is 27. We have what I would normally conside...
A. 28 March 2017: You put with with a lot. More than I could handle. Tell her what you wrote here, give her a chance to check herself -- maybe suggest she get help. Then say bye bye if she can't deal with this unhealthy damaging problem. You don't have to stay and ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't make any real effort to lose weight despite wanting to
Q. I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I liked her for her personality and character but her weight had always bothered me right from the start. She was actually slim just under 2 year back(she looked amazing) but gai...
A. 28 March 2017: Your BMI shows you as underweight (interesting you used metric when most Americans would use inches and pounds) and her as in the normal weight. Her BMI before shows her as underweight.
Do you have an eating disorder? The only persons health you ... (read in full...)
I think having sex with another girl will get these crazy depressing thoughts out of my head!
Q. well, im in a relationship for about a year with this girl and we both love each other a lot. While she is my first gf, im not her first bf, she had one before me who she really loved as well (i know this because a knew her back then) it was a long ...
A. 16 March 2017: Umm yeah well no. Cheating or trying to open the relationship isn't going to fix things. Have you tried not thinking so much about the past? Or are you unable to control or manage your busy mind? Get cbt (google it) asap and see your doctor asap... (read in full...)
Am I justified to break up with him?
Q. I'm going through a mixed phase right now with my bf. Recently, I've been reflecting on our relationship for the past 5 years, and I'm wondering whether I should just move on because I just don't feel happy anymore. We have been dating for 5 yea...
A. 16 March 2017: You are completely justified in ending the dead-end relationship. It's ok. It will be uncomfortable at times and a bit of an upheaval. You'll experience some sorrow and loss. You'll also find yourself relieved. And surprisingly, likely you'll fe... (read in full...)
I feel miserable and our relationship lacks excitement!
Q. Hi I've been with my fiance for 3 years now the problem is it feels like we've been together forever we never go anywhere together birthdays Christmas,s valentines day all get forgotten about by him he has a very easy job he works Monday/Friday ...
A. 6 March 2017: Get out
You're dating a loser
You know it everyone who knows you knows ut... (read in full...)
Can I trust him is he a cheat
Q. I did something bad...... I catfished my boyfriends ex and found out some horrible things. They used to have group sex Go to sex parties He use to be on drugs all the time He was kicked out of his old house cause he stole drugs from his ...
A. 6 March 2017: Obv you don't trust him or you wouldn't of catfish the ex
You basically cheated on him not trusting him so why you even still with him
Get out now
Or you like drama?... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to use him for sex?
Q. So there's this guy that fancied me. I sleep with him but don't have no feelings. Is it wrong of me using him for sex when he wants more ...
A. 6 March 2017: yeah, pretty much
You're using him
There are lots of people you can get off with
No need to add to misery in this world... (read in full...)
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