My older BF said "I could be your dad...". What's going on??
Q. I'm 18, my bf is 34. We've been seeing each other for six months. I'm happy with him and he seems happy too. Lately though, we never seem to go out anymore. We cook at his place, read, watch movies and go to sleep and he clings to me like crazy and ...
A. 27 August 2010: "he said : I could be your dad... I'm doing something unforgivable with you." Now that could be his issue. and that statement is true. he feels guilty about being with you. Some people can do the big age gap relationship... but it sounds like he ... (read in full...)
My husband wont explain about these unusual phone calls and is trying to turn the argument around on me!
Q. While paying our phone bill I noticed some calls at odd times (2:30, 5:00 am) from a weekend my husband was away with the boys. The calls were to and from the friends he was supposedly with. He previously told me they went out, got home around 2:30, ...
A. 26 August 2010: Sounds like you don't trust him at all. Why were you checking the bill in the first place? has he done things in the past? ... (read in full...)
Masturbation and women.
Q. It has been written and surveys have been done that men and women do masturbate.It came out clear that men are likely to admit to having masturbated rather than women.So it begs the question why do they deny having done it.In my opinion i think it ...
A. 25 August 2010: Because society has always tought us that men are "dirty" and women are "clean". Not in the literal sense ofcourse. Masterbation is seen as something that "dirty" and females are expect to be conservative and pure other wise that are looked on as ... (read in full...)
Threesome with my boyfriend?
Q. My Boyfriend of 1 year told me his fantasy would be to sleep with 2 girls at the same time. i would like to fulfill his fantasy, but at the same time, i dont want to watch him have sex with another girl. and i know i will probably get jealous if ...
A. 25 August 2010: You don't sound like the threesome kind of girl. Even if it was with someone you'd never have to see again it probably still wouldn't be enjoyable for you. All sexual experiences should be good for everybody involved. Besides 9 times out of 10 a ... (read in full...)
He locks up his PORN!!
Q. My lover lives abroad but we see each other as often as possible. However there is something that bothers me about him, he keeps his porn actually locked in a drawer and wont let me see it (although he did once ask if I wanted to watch a porn film ...
A. 25 August 2010: I don't know why you'd assume that it's that type of porn. He offered to watch it with you so I doubt it. He probably locks it up just because it's a personal thing since you obviously didn't show any intrest in it. And the mere fact that you ... (read in full...)
How can I make this relationship work?
Q. I have been in an intense relationship for 5 months. We met the day he was released from prison after 2 years. Before he was my bf he seemed a little standoffish but I thought it was just b/c of everything he had been thru. Now however, since we ...
A. 25 August 2010: Sounds like you need to have a conversation with him. There's really no way that we can tell you what's on his mind.
I'm just curious to know why are you soooo invested after 5 months? toward the end when you said "I should mention that I am crazy... (read in full...)
How do I choose between two men?
Q. How do i choose between two men? I have strong feelings for both of them and one of them is my ex that i lived with. they both say they love me and i dont want to hurt nay of them. help!...
A. 25 August 2010: Choose whom ever you....(1) can see your self having a future with, (2) wants the same thing you want, (3) treats you good, (4) makes you feel special... what ever you do don't lead them both on when you feel more of rone over the other. ... (read in full...)
I Want to date my bestfriend, we are both girls.
Q. So over the past week I have been hanging out a lot with my best friend. But not like friends. We have been having sex with each other. She and I have known each other for about 4 yrs and never did any of this til recently. I like it and don't ...
A. 24 August 2010: Depending on the part of the country you live in most people don't see it as a huge deal since it's so common. However I wouldn't call it dating just because you're having sex. You need to have a conversation with her just to see if you're both on ... (read in full...)
Do women settle?
Q. I'm obsessed over the fact my girlfriends ex was very well hung and I'm average. She keeps telling me he hurt and there s such a thing as too big. They could not do every position because it often hurt, and he never reciprocated, gave her oral or ...
A. 24 August 2010: First of all women 9 times out of 10 don't cheat for something physical. We usually cheat because you don't treat us right.
Yes sometimes we (women) get together and talk about the man parts and it's just that... TALK!!( kind of like when me get t... (read in full...)
Is it too early to start talking Marriage??
Q. Hey everyone i have a dilemma when i was in the 5th grade i met my first love we broke up in sixth grade and started back talking in high school about 3years ago but he was very conceited and stuck up now we are both 20 and now he have a daughter ...
A. 24 August 2010: Waaaaaaaay too early hun. You have no idea who this person is. people change into different things when you're that young.
There's nothing wrong with being together. just no need to rush and get married so quickly. Next year he might be a totall... (read in full...)
Seeing 2 guys and want to tell one of them I just want to be friends, how do I do this?
Q. I'am in such a stuck situation please help. Ive been single now for a while and ive been seeing these two guys. They both really attracted to me both are really sweet and seem like the really know how to treat a girl. The problem is out of the two ...
A. 24 August 2010: I don't think there is a way to do it without hurting his feelings if he really likes you. just be honest with him and tell him that friendship is all you want.... (read in full...)
If I swim will it get all the left over sperm out of me?
Q. Hi. I'm just very curious. I just had sex with my bf few weeks ago.A day after having sex, i went swimming for hours.Can this actually helps to wash away those sperm left inside me? ...
A. 23 August 2010: CaringGuy is right. you need to stop having sex and grab a book. Your body doesn't work that way.... (read in full...)
Did I overreact about my boyfriend's drinking?
Q. I'm very staunchly against drinking and doing drugs. To make a long story short, I am the only sober person in my family. I'm proud of that. Alcoholism runs in my family, and I hate how people change when they get drunk. I hate how people make ...
A. 23 August 2010: I don't think you've over reacted because drinking is clearly something that you dont want in your life.
it's not that he doesn't respect you... he is just a grown man and wants to be able to do what ever he wants.
I don't really think that i... (read in full...)
I've never told anyone that I was molested and I feel like its too late!!
Q. i was molested by my step father from te ages of 9 to 15. i have mixed feelings torward this situation. i was adopted and hes basically married to my adopted mother(mom). ive never tld anyone and i feel like its to late to. im now 17. the one thing ...
A. 20 August 2010: It's never too late to tell someone!! Call the police if your mother doesn't respond to you. This man needs to be put in jail so he can know how it feels to be forced to give somebody oral sex.
None of this is your fault. He is a grown man taki... (read in full...)
Am I being too uptight about this?
Q. I need some advice. My husbands parents go to these bike rallies where all the women walk around completely naked and you can see ppl getting blow jobs and having sex and stuff. Anything you can think of goes on at this place. Well they keep asking ...
A. 20 August 2010: I agree that it's not place for a married man to be however you have to trust your husband...
so in a way you bother are right. but since you feel so strongly about it then you have to put you foot down. And I think his parents are starting... (read in full...)
I want a serious relationship not a long term booty call?!
Q. I was seeing a guy off and on for the last 4yrs. We were friends only friends the first 6 months then we slept together. I wanted a serious relationship u know I'm ur man ur my woman type of relationship. But when it came to putting a title on it we ...
A. 20 August 2010: I don't see anything wrong with you dating if he doesn't want to be your BF.
He's probably just mad because he wants you all to himself... but then he can keep telling the rest of the chicks he's meeting that he's single and it wouldn't be a lie... (read in full...)
He asked me to have sex, should I tell his girlfriend?
Q. A friend of mine has been flirting with me a lot lately, and i don't just mean casual flirting, i mean things like talking about what we used to do in bed etc... we used to have a casual thing going on last year. He has a girlfriend, and i feel bad ...
A. 20 August 2010: Stay out of it. Since she doesn't know you she probably won't believe you. Then if she asks him about it he can always hit her with this Classic line...
"Don't believe her baby. She's crazy! She just wants to break us up because she wants to be wi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is attracted to another girl!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend is attracted to another girl. Ever since I found out, it's been making me extremely unhappy. He said that he won't do anything about it, and that I'm obsessing over it. I've been asking him (probably once every day) if he still...
A. 20 August 2010: You are being a little obsessive in this situation. I mean is he hanging out with this girl? How does he know her? He sees it as you not trusting him. And no trust = not realtionship. You are pushing him away.... (read in full...)
Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i ...
A. 20 August 2010: Yep it's time for you to leave. It's not your fault that he couldn't keep it in his pants!! There is no way that you can be in a healthy realationship with somebody who says... "And if you don't act how I want you to I'll cheat again!!" to your ... (read in full...)
How to talk dirty with a man?
Q. How to talk dirty with a man? I love and respect him; I just need sth different. I need some erotic expressions ( not silly but serious and sensual to drive him crazy and wild). Something unusual and interesting! By the way to say that online,,, I ...
A. 19 August 2010: when giving oral sex my BF likes it when I say stuff like...
-Can I pleeeease suck you D**k!? (like begging him)
-You taste so good
-Cum in my mouth
... blah blah blah lol... (read in full...)
Is 13 too young for sex?
Q. I like sex but i am only 13 years old am i too young?...
A. 19 August 2010: Yes... you are. however since you "like" it, I guess you've been doing it. stop doing it until you can handle it. enjoy your childhood. there'll be plenty of time for that later in life.... (read in full...)
Is she planning on taking a vacation without me?
Q. i saw on my gf's computer last night that she was looking at vacationing in st. thomas. the date she was looking at is sept 22-27. now, she hasn't mentioned it to me, so am i to assume she's thinking of taking someone else, or could it be a su...
A. 19 August 2010: It could be a surprise... or she could be going away with girlfriends... or she could be booking it for someone else. any number fo things could be true. however if that date comes and she doesn't mention anything AND she's avoiding you (like she ... (read in full...)
Before she met me she sent a picture of herself to another guy, should I be mad at her for this?
Q. Should i be mad at my girlfriend for something she did in the past? Me and her were not together at this time but she did something that really bothers me. She sent a pic(nothing dirty) to a guy because he kept asking and asking, he kept bugging her ...
A. 19 August 2010: Nope it's just a picture. not like you guys were together. and be mad for what? you soound like an overly jealous person to me. All she did was send a pic... not even sexual. Get over it.... (read in full...)
Do I break it off or hold on and see what happens???
Q. My boyfriend of over a year has recently lost his brother. Those two were tied at the hips and it's really taken a tole on him. His brother left behind a wife and two children. Him and his brother are the only two siblings. It's really a tragity. ...
A. 18 August 2010: Try to be a friend to him in his time of need. but also take a step back. his whole world was just rocked from his brother's death. let him be and kind of phase yourself out until he's ready to resume his relationship with you... if indeed that's ... (read in full...)
I have a bump on my lip what is it?
Q. Hi hope someone can help!!! I found that I have just one bump close to the top of my lips. Is it an in grown hair? Its red and hurts if you touch it! and I'm a little scared. Hope someone can help me thanksss!!! ...
A. 18 August 2010: There's really no way for us to tell you. go to your doctor and have it checked out.... (read in full...)
Any I normal?
Q. Hi guys! My penis is a little bit curved to the right hand side. Is that normal? It doesnt look straight! Do u guys get what i mean? For instant, a straight penis is 90 degree angle, right? Mine is about 75 to 80 degree (from the right to left). I...
A. 18 August 2010: I'm not sure if i've ever seen a penis without a curve. It just means that one side of your muscles are a little stronger than the other. nothing freakish about it... very normal.... (read in full...)
I can see he won't be a good husband!
Q. I want 2 dump my bf because we always fighting, but the problem is that, i love him so much and i can see that he wont be a good husband 2 me,and i dont knw wt can i do 2 dump him plz help?...
A. 18 August 2010: Just tell him that it's not working out. No need in beating around the bush.... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking of him? He has a girlfriend!
Q. so i liked this guy, n he liked me too. we were together for a few months. But things happen and he got a girlfriend a couple days later. it hurted really bad but i now i feel better. He has a girlfriend now and i dont care but i cant stop thinking ...
A. 18 August 2010: He has a girlfriend so step back. If he wants to be with you he'll end it and start things back up with you properly.... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to take a "step back" and now I don't hear from him at all
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. He said that he has a lot to deal with right now and that he's in a stressed/depressed mood and will be for a couple weeks. He doesn't want to drag me along with his problems and stress, because that won't ...
A. 18 August 2010: Everything he's telling you might be true so I wouldn't keep texting and calling him. Let him "take a break" and sort things out. When he's ready to talk to you again he will. ... (read in full...)
She gave him a hand job but said it wasn't cheating
Q. I have been married for eight years now, recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was stay...
A. 17 August 2010: If you think it's ok then I guess it's not cheating. I mean the man is staying in your home and you knew all of this stuff happened... so I guess you like sharing her.... (read in full...)
She has a Boyfriend, but I can't stop thinking about her!!
Q. I have liked this girl for a while and she has a boyfriend and the other day she came to a party at my place on a Sat. At the end of the night we got together and on the Monday she said that it was a mistake and she just wanted to forget it. i felt ...
A. 17 August 2010: Don't DO anything. She said that it was a mistake so she obviously doesn't feel the same way you do. Find a woman who is avaliable.... (read in full...)
5 months pregnant and still having sex daily??
Q. Hi. I had my last mc on 4th march 2010. I'm pregnant by more than 5 months. My husband and me were enjoying sex daily. When I became pregnant, I asked him not to have sex daily. But he wont stop. Till now we are having sex daily. But I am nervous. ...
A. 16 August 2010: Your doctor will tell you when it's not safe to have sex. Don't be nervous it's fine.... (read in full...)
Girls, how often do you think about sex?
Q. I was talking to a male friend the other day. We were talking about sex and he mentioned to me how men think about sex practically all day. He asked me whether women think about sex and I said yes. He asked me how often. I told him I didn't know, ...
A. 16 August 2010: I think about it a lot... especially that time of the month for some reason.... (read in full...)
Does having sex while on my period pose a health risk?
Q. Dear folks. Is sex during periods(w/out a condom)a health risk?...
A. 16 August 2010: it'll only be a health risk if one of you has an STD.... (read in full...)
Is my partner's behaviour regarding my sexual past normal?
Q. is it normal for my partner of eight years to need to know every gory detail of past sexual relationships when asked a question and given an answer ,they may repeat the question months or years later if the answer is not exactly the same as before i ...
A. 16 August 2010: I don't think it's "normal" however to each his own. I personally wouldn't want to know every detail of anything. If you feel uncomfortable talking about your past tell him so. if he doesn't understand that you want it to stay private then you may ... (read in full...)
She's 15, I'm 21, I know its wrong but I like her!
Q. Hey im 21 im a guy...im not a retard i dont do crap that isnt wrong...i work im just a good guy but the problem is that i really like a girl and the thing is she is 15 we click so well and i know its illegal and to me its wrong but the fact that i ...
A. 13 August 2010: the bottom line is she's a CHILD and you're a grown ass man. as this point in her life she is still going through puberty and she's very immature. find a mature WOMAN to "click" with. girls that age change and grow every other minute. wait until she ... (read in full...)
Sex while on her period?
Q. izit okay to have sex with my gf while shes on her periods? most of my friends do, and im not sure i would do that couse i think she might get hurt or something. izit okay and what bad thing could happen if we did? thanx ...
A. 13 August 2010: it's fine. i personally don't know of any females who would actually want to. but do it in the shower because it could get messy.... (read in full...)
He initiated the relationship, and now he's telling me he updated his dating profile. wtf?
Q. I signed up for eHarmony just over a month ago and about two weeks in, went on my first date. It went well, and we've been seeing each other ever since. It seemed to me like he was moving really, really, really fast but I figured "to hell with ...
A. 13 August 2010: well sounds like he wants you to be exclusive to him and not the other way around. he's still hunting on the web probably for someone a bit closer than you are. he may still like you but that's a clear sign that he's still going to meet people from ... (read in full...)
Guy threatening to give my boyfriend proof that I cheated!
Q. I had an affair with A, a guy from work. And I called it off after 2 weeks, no more texts, phone calls, email, facebook. I felt really bad and guilty towards to my bf, because deep inside me i know it is not his fault that he has to work long hou...
A. 13 August 2010: TimmD is right.tell the truth. nothing really anybody can do for you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to meet his ex
Q. my boyfriend likes to talk about his past sexual relationships, and he has also remained friends with several of his ex-girlfriends. now he wants me to meet one of them because of his friendship with her. i must admit that this really makes me feel ...
A. 13 August 2010: Those are perfectly normal feelings. I'd feel strange as well if my partner just couldn't let go of his past. that doesn't really mean you're insecure. however it's all about trust. he might actually be just friends with them so it's all about ... (read in full...)
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