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... Send *untie Goddess a private message | | | *untie Goddess's profile:Soon-to-be divorced (after 15 years) mom of 2. Young lady (14) and Lil Man (10). Living single 2-3 years (first year was on again off again) Learned a lot of lessons in those times. and found out I'm pretty good at giving advice - just not taking my own! I feel i have some great insight when it comes to divorce, coparenting, and rediscovering yourself in your new role.
Before the demise of my marriage I was a stay at home mom I love baking/cooking from scratch, mastered the art of playful desserts to accommodate every occasion.. I love arts and crafts and encourage anyone to express themselves through this method, My friends often refer to me as "martha Crocker" a cross between martha stewart/betty crocker. I entertain whenever the opportunity arises. Being a SAHM with these hobbies taught me how to be frugal and I have advice to pass along. I suffer from social anxiety and depression and while i like to embrace the social settings and host events. I have many friends, some of whom do not get along. i hate conflict and have skills I've picked up along the way toward keeping the peace..
My children are old enough that I can answer almost any question pertaining to the early years, and have extensive knowledge of developmental issues and disorders.
I have been on my own since i was 15 - supported myself while working 2 jobs and going to school.. I met a lot of troubled teens, I myself, went through a drug/alcohol stage and can offer insight/advice in that department as well.. I had my oldest at 18 and was married shortly after. I have advice to offer the teen stages as well.
My life has been an unusual one with many trials and tribulations - if it wasn't for bad luck I wouldn't have any luck at all, but i approach every situation with humour and grace. and take away a lesson from everything I've endured.
I love to talk behind the security of a screen.; It has turned into an outlet for me to express myself and feel less alone while navigating through my journey of the 'new me'.; I'm a great listener and always seem to have an answer to everyone's issues but my own.. I look forward to meeting you all. Delighted to make your acquaintance :) |
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