Why did my husband leave me for another woman? I'm trying to understand....
Q. hi well its been the worst 5 weeks of my life my husband has left me and im so sad angry hurt god too many feelings to say i love him very much and just want to talk to him hes been gone 5 weeks it was a shock we had only just been back off holiday ...
A. 17 April 2008: You poor thing, you sound absolutely distraught. It's anybody's guess why he left you but obviously you didn't see it coming. You might find this other woman has been on the scene a little longer than you thought. Some married men do this only to ... (read in full...)
What is going on? Is he cheating?
Q. About 4 months ago I was checking his phone for someone's phone number and noticed a message. I checked his messages and it was a women that he works with telling him that she missed him and wants him to come visit her again. She ended the message ...
A. 15 April 2008: I think your gut feeling is telling you something. It's interesting your husband becomes angry with you when questioned, asks your children to lie and doesn't wear his wedding ring anymore. As hard as it might be to face this I think you need to. I ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering from really bad period pains! Any tips on how to obviate them?
Q. Hi, i'm suffering from really bad period pains! And when i'm in classes at school I don't know what to do because the pain becomes unbearable - and its not like I can just take a paracetemol because some teachers are quite strict about it! ...
A. 15 April 2008: Have you been to see a doctor to discuss. It's normal to have some pain but not a lot of pain. I had the same problem when I was your age but went undiagnosed for years. Turns out I had endometrisosis which is very treatable but causes incredible ... (read in full...)
Is he being sincere? Could be possibly be more?
Q. A year ago, I met an Air force guy with whom I felt incredibly attractive to. We met only for 2 occasions in a business meeting. He flirted with me but that was it, cuz he had to left shortly after that. I decided to email him 2 months after an...
A. 15 April 2008: I agree with previous responses. If you want to maintain contact on the basis of a friendship that's fine but if your "waiting in the wings" for him you might be very disappointed. The question is can you genuinely go on with your life allowing ... (read in full...)
Feeling clueless as to what to do about my partner's smoking!
Q. I am at odds on what to do about my smoking partner. Is it wrong to ask him to stop? I've read some of the other posts here and some seem to be strongly of the opinion that it is wrong to expect them to quit as you entered the relationship kno...
A. 15 April 2008: My husband continues to smoke on and off and it drives me mad. The man has lost both parents already due to lung and heart issues. I know how you feel it is frustrating. Our daughter and I tell him to stop smoking and he just lies when he does now. ... (read in full...)
My wife 'claims' to be interested in sex - but her actions do not at all reflect that claim...help : )
Q. I have been with my wife for 8 years (married for four of them) and until recently she was almost never interested in sex. In fact, it was a source of great tension and naturally moved into the shadows due to her apparent lack of interest. Now she ...
A. 15 April 2008: It sounds like she's having some difficulty accepting the lack of sex interest within herself, let alone sharing it with others. She may feel that she has no excuse to have these feelings given the life she lives but never the less she does. If ... (read in full...)
In love with a Capricorn Male, Is this someone who might care for me and is scared or do I need to give up on him?
Q. I am in love with a capricorn male. I am a cancer female who is separated and will soon be divorced. I left my huband for this capricorn male. He has flirted with me, sends text messages and says he would go out with me but has cancelled all date...
A. 10 April 2008: I'm really surprised you left your husband based on some fairly non committal behaviours. I think this guy is terrified you could be a fatal attraction. I think it would be wise to explain to him that you didn't leave your marriage for him but ... (read in full...)
How long does you wait to have sex in a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! I was wondering if any of you could tell me how long one should wait to have sex in a relationship. For those who are wondering it's been around 6 months and we're both virgins! thanks in advance!...
A. 10 April 2008: It depends on a few things. Firstly, how old you are. Whether you are male or female and what are you expecting from the experience and the relationship. If you deeply care about someone I'd say wait long enough to establish a good relationship with ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher that I love him?
Q. i dont know if i love my teacher, its probably just a crush but i cant stop thinking about him. i think he knows by now i like him, because i sent him an email and said i think you're amazing and the best teacher i've ever had, and then yesterday he ...
A. 10 April 2008: You are experiencing what we have all been through at school. I know your feelings are very strong but believe me this will pass with time. You'll look back on this in years to come and remember fondly your lovely teacher, who is a grown man, in a ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of waiting for him. I want to give up on him and find some one else!
Q. Hi. I have been talkn to this guy for 5 years know. We started off as good friends. In the beginning, about 3 years ago, he had a friend but she stayed out of town. Now its been like 1 year since he ''broke it off'' now this year which makes 5, he ...
A. 10 April 2008: Frustrated,
I think it's sometimes hard to hear what a person we care about is saying but we must so we can grow in ourselves and our relationships. He's been in a relationship for a long time and wants some down time. If you can't wait don't, beca... (read in full...)
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