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I really enjoy being part of this website because i like to think not everybody is perfect and that by helping each other out this world would make so much more sense.
I know i'm probably not as professional and experienced as some of the agony aunts on here but i try to give out help anyway i can through unbiased perception or maybe through the experience i've actually gone through.
I like to give and ask for answers because like i said not everybody's perfect and every little advice helps! I do try and say it as it is but sometimes i find it hard to say it gently. Some people may find this annoying but others might find it more useful. Anways what i'm trying to say is i can only be truthful and sometimes the truth does hurt. cliche much. but you get my drift :)
Please feel free to ask questions so that i don't feel as useless in this world hahaa
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22 July 2011: ... haha sorry about the title. Lame i know :). I also know that this may sound dramatic, emo, cliche, cheesy, etc etc etc... BUT I had a momentary moment of absolute peace when i thought of this... When you're in a situation that just t...
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A. 6 June 2011: Thank you for responding to my question :)
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