Did she lie about being pregnant?
Q. I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago. A few weeks later she told me she was pregnant. I was shocked but happy at the same time and we decided to give things another go. At the time I did think it was a bit convenient for her to be pregnant a few ...
A. 13 September 2010: I would move on.
There is no physical proof she was ever pregnant or had a miscarriage, she is playing on your emotions. Bit of a psycho really! You can do better than this.... (read in full...)
I don't want to eat but I have to. How to lose weight?
Q. I want to lose weight. I exercise every day but I eat a lot. I don't want to eat but I just have to. I don't know what to do! Help!...
A. 13 September 2010: Diets DON'T work. You can have a diet as a short term fix to lose weight but once you come off the diet you will pile the weight back on which is very unhealthy.
The best way to lose weight is to exercise regularly. Try exercising for 40 minu... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell whether I will bleed the first time I have sex?
Q. okay... i masturbate quite alot. but i guess its just something us girls dont admit to lol! anyway ive been with this guy now for a little under 7 months, and im not stupid i know sex will happen pretty soon! but we've not rushed anything.. my que...
A. 21 July 2009: Yeah Emilyanswers is right! You need to build it up, stretch it out a bit, get used to it, else it will absolutely murder!! I had my first time after an hour of foreplay and no previous foreplay, ever, and trust me it absolutely murdered and i bled! ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too
Q. I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking ...
A. 21 July 2009: I'm on pregnacare now. I've been having the nausea for the past three weeks but since i started taking them i've actually been vomiting. Could it be the vitamins or just my hormones?? ... (read in full...)
Now that we live together there's no "alone time"
Q. I have an amazing boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and have been living together for a year. However, ever since we moved it, i realised that my boyfriend slowly slowly seems to lose the need to spend alone time with me or go on a "date...
A. 15 July 2009: Well this naturally happens, he feels as though your always there and there's no need for much "alone time" because your always by his side anyway, regardless of who is there. Tell him when he next says a friends coming round that you were thinking ... (read in full...)
Could a minor argument really spell the end of the relationship?
Q. Dear cupid I've been dating a girl for over a year now. Everything has been going very well up until yesterday. We've had some small issues of course, but have generally worked things out well. Yesterday, however, we had an argument, and sh...
A. 15 July 2009: I hate to use examples, but look at Jordan and Pete, she claims he DIVORCED her because she went on a night out without him, that to me is a little thing, but to him it was a massive thing. Im using this an example because something that may seem a ... (read in full...)
I want to feel independent again, but he's begging me to stay together
Q. Hi my BF and I have been together for 2 years and just a few months back we are having lots of conflicts and resentment. Most of the resentment I have, I assumed is caused by my dependence on him. I havent been dependent on him from the start, ...
A. 15 July 2009: Whats happened here is you've fallen out of love with him and been with him through habit, which is wrong wrong wrong and no relationship should be like that, well it isn't a relationship anyway. You've done right to take a break, i would advice you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that I'm pregnant from this?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I did oral sex yesterday. We didn't *** or orgasm at all but before he fingered me He rubbed his penis (I doubt he had pre-*** because before that gave a hand job and it wasn't wet or anything) then I gave him a ******** but ...
A. 15 July 2009: No you cannot be pregnant from that.... (read in full...)
How do I ease my insecurities during pregnancy?
Q. Hello, this will seem like silly question to some, but I just cant take my own advice. I'm 14 weeks pregnant, and in a stable loving relationship. However I feel like I'm gaining too much weight. My doctor says that everything I'm gaining is ...
A. 15 July 2009: Godd! You're likely to gain between 1 and a half to three stone during pregnancy, i think the average is about 2 stones. You must have not that when you found out you were pregnant, you cant have a pregnancy without the horrible weight gain and ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too
Q. I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking ...
A. 15 July 2009: Thanks alot you've eased my mind alot! I have SOO many questions! Are the odd little sharp pains here and there and everywhere just my ligaments stretching? Thats what my mum told me, and are the odd dull pains just my tummy stretching?? I'm not ... (read in full...)
Hairy? Or non hairy?
Q. I happen to think women with at least a little bit of pubes down there is good..i mean no offense to anyone who shaves it completely off but who would want it completely bald..i mean i would feel like a little girl..and i kno it might make oral sex ...
A. 15 July 2009: I always thought men preferred it bald but on every film and model where the girls got it out its got a bit of hair! Although asking the men i know, all of them prefer it bald, as they like their women to be nice and smooth all over :) It is a lot ... (read in full...)
What protection should I use to avoid getting pregant?
Q. to avoid pregnancy...should condoms and pills both be used.....or only condom can avoid pregnancy...
A. 15 July 2009: Its best to use both but if you really don't like condoms and are with a loving partner that you know is clean, and you are, then the pill or the implant, theres many others but they're the best two. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Condom split and her mom would kill me if she's pregnant!
Q. Hello there, Me and my GF are both 18 and we had sex the other day and the condom split and I 'cummed' in her. She is worried now and so am I about her being pregnant. She tells me that she is bleeding downstairrs and she always feels sick in th...
A. 15 July 2009: My morning sickness didn't occur til the sixth week, and is it bleeding like a period or spotting? I have heard some women feel symptoms from the moment of conception, every woman is completely different. You cant expect the test to give an accurate ... (read in full...)
Guy is 27 and she is 15, is this really going to work?
Q. one of my best friends is 15 and a guy that's 27 likes her, do you think she should go out with him ? yes or no and why ? help me by the way he has two kids. ...
A. 15 July 2009: Well until she's 16 she can't legally do anything sexual with him. I don't know the guy and i'm not about to judge, all my boyfriends have been older than myself, my boyfriend that i live with and am expecting a baby with is twelve years older than ... (read in full...)
Did she just use me???
Q. Hello im 14 and i have a dilemma. Well my really good freind.. lets call her christina, just broke up with her boyfriend..so she's been really down lately. and she's been hanging around e for a while, we're always together but alot more now. well ...
A. 13 July 2009: Rebound yes. She was feeling down, you comforted her and she made a move on you through mixed emotions. Although the girls moved on within days? Doesn't sound like a classy bird to me, i wouldn't worry about it too much. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for him over the internet...
Q. Actually, I met an English boy 2 months ago on the Internet, and I think all the time about him, I've become addicted to him, to talk to him. I think i'm falling in love. He makes my day... But, i think he doesn't really care about me...'Cause, ...
A. 12 July 2009: I don't want to be a cynic but i've had two internet romances. Both of which i felt the way you do about them. One lived in the US and one lived a couple of hours away from me. I fell for them both, and both ended in tears. I met the guy from a ... (read in full...)
What are the chances I could be pregnant?
Q. Ok so I have an implant but I had sex 2 times of times with my boyfriend rougly a couple of weeks ago.. (we usually do it with a condom just to be safe but we didnt have any at that time) so I thought it would be ok since I'm on the implant but I ...
A. 12 July 2009: Well with any contraceptive there's always a risk, they haven't yet found a contraceptive that is 100% effective. I'd advice you to get a test, that's the only way you'll know for certain. It could just be a period irregularity, they're pretty ... (read in full...)
My eyes are too dark....
Q. I have always been a tough girl. I don't mind being girly. I love love love bows and color, but I am not sure about something. My boyfriend says he likes blue eyes, he says it a lot. I have brown eyes... I am asian so they are sorta dark. How can I ...
A. 11 July 2009: You dont have to change for anyone, especially a stupid man who decides to date Asian girls but digs blue eyes?? If you really wanna please this arsehole then get blue contacts, but personally id stay as you are. Its his issue not yours.... (read in full...)
How to get this 13-year-old to want to kiss me?
Q. ok, so im going out with this AMAZING girl. im 13 and i just dont know how to get her to want to kiss me. ...
A. 11 July 2009: Try it, just walk on up to her and go ahead. Or get her next to you in a private place and make the move. If she pushes away you get the picture.... (read in full...)
What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?
Q. hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...
A. 11 July 2009: black mascara and black eyeliner. Do one strip across the top lid of eyeliner, with maybe a flick in the corner if you wish. ... (read in full...)
When a guy says, while holding a girl's hand that he caught a big fish, what does he mean?
Q. Just curious.. What does it mean when you're planning a fishing trip and the gal says, 'Let's get up early enough to go out and catch some big fish.' Then the guy looks over, holds her hand and says, 'I already did catch a big fish.' Oh, an...
A. 11 July 2009: He means he caught you im guessing. ... (read in full...)
Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?
Q. I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty ...
A. 10 July 2009: I think the blame always seems to lie with the parents, but i disagree. As a parent you dont expect your child to be thinking about sex, drugs and alcohol at such a young age as 12 and feel no need to teach them about it. I blame the media, making ... (read in full...)
Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?
Q. I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty ...
A. 10 July 2009: NO blow jobs are not a part of making out. Blow jobs are what is classed as third base i believe? Oral sex is not as innocent as kissing and cuddling like 12 year olds should purely be doing. Hell at that age i wasnt even thinking about sex, the ... (read in full...)
How do I give myself a Beauty Makeover?
Q. Hi i dunno if dis is a valid question but could i get tips on how to get good skin-lik totally pimple free n glowin?? n also my hair is neither curly nor straight-its wavy n quite frizzy! how do i make it look sleek n shiny without makin it look ...
A. 10 July 2009: Use a good shampoo and conditioner, i personally love treseme, and get a good pair of hair straighteners, the best are of course GHDs but if theyre not in your price range, then theres some other good brands out there. Use a styling spray along with ... (read in full...)
Best friend's boyfriend is coming on to me!
Q. i think my best friends boyfriend keeps coming on to me! He will say things like, i wish she was more like you, i think your gorgeous, can i pop round and see you etc! They have been together for 3 years and they have a little boy together, i know ...
A. 10 July 2009: Tell him to bugger off. Telling her isnt going to do anything for her self esteem and trust issues, so unless he actually does anything, leave that one out. Stay away from him when shes not around. ... (read in full...)
Can a person totally change their personality?
Q. Can people change personalities over 10 years; like be different in personality and not the same person? can people ?...
A. 10 July 2009: Erm well this is a matter of opinion. Some people believe that everyone stays the same and some people believe that time changes people. I think a mixture of the two. I believe that if someone was born with humour, theyll die with humour, if someone ... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt when he fingers me?
Q. It never really feels good when my boyfriend fingers me, it feels great when he rubs/plays with my clit but no feelings but pain with the fingering, (pain cuz i'm really tight). Is something wrong with me?...
A. 10 July 2009: Im guessing your still a virgin? Its bound to hurt at first, wait til you go the full hog! Your vagina needs well lubricating and you need to go slow. Maybe stick with the clit for now. ... (read in full...)
What if teachers had crushes on their students?
Q. Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers (female/male) out there or anyone.... Anyway... I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students declaring their love for teachers. What about if it was the other way ro...
A. 10 July 2009: Yeah well i believe they do, its hard for teachers. Sometimes theyre only a few years older than the students, and if they were outside of the school area, and these werent their students, im sure that something could easily occur. I actually know ... (read in full...)
He kissed me and only got a semi-erect penis?
Q. So last night my male friend gave me a smooch on the lips goodbye. Although we are just friends he always plants one on my lips. So i asked him last night why he kisses me on my lips instead of my cheek and he said I ask for it. Ok...yes I secretly ...
A. 10 July 2009: No it means the exact opposite, he got a semi, realised he had one and shot off, probably embarrassed. ... (read in full...)
Why do men want to get me into bed, then forget about me??
Q. I am hoping to get some input on my dating situation. I am 33 mother of 2 boys that live with me, 10 and 12. I have been single for a few years now. I started dating about 6 months ago. I have met two guys that I really liked. Seems like ...
A. 10 July 2009: If youre giving in straight away then it doesnt matter how much of a pretence they put up before meeting, they only were in it for one thing, they had their cake and eat it. You shouldnt give in to any man straight away, good things come to those ... (read in full...)
Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be ...
A. 10 July 2009: I know more than one girl who has fallen pregnant using the withdrawal method, its not true that you cant fall pregnant from pre-cum, if that is true why do you think so many catholics fall pregnant? DONT stress out, this can prevent your period ... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!
Q. Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...
A. 10 July 2009: Oh and it doesnt class as statutory rape, shes 16. ... (read in full...)
How do you keep a guy without sleeping with him at the beginning?
Q. How can you keep a guy without sleeping with him in the beginning? and where do you draw the line when making contact? ...
A. 10 July 2009: You will find a guy actually wants you more when you dont give him what he wants on the first night, and if he doesnt and he leaves then you knew that his intentions were only for one thing and youve had a lucky escape. Dont fret it girl, never give ... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!
Q. Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...
A. 10 July 2009: It wasnt rape was it? ... (read in full...)
I want to get rid of my stepdad, he's making our lives a misery!
Q. AHH!, i need help on this one, my stepdad is becoming uncontrolable, well he and my mum got married about 3 years ago now, they dont have any kids together but he has ruined my ife so far. wen i was just 12 he strangled my brother and he got arre...
A. 10 July 2009: Well i was in the same situation, i was six when my stepdad started hitting me and it was a pretty regular thing. I called the police on him one night at your age and thats when my mum left him, then and there, and didnt turn back. I tried talking ... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!
Q. Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...
A. 10 July 2009: O-OH!! Im not gonna proceed to lecture you because im pretty sure that what youve done is VERY wrong indeeed. Well get her to test and if she is, then its her decision what she does. But you will have to tell your wife and you will HAVE to stand by ... (read in full...)
Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: In reply to anonymous. If thats true why do so many girls get pregnant when using the pull out method then?... (read in full...)
Hours since I lost my virginity and still bleeding! I'm really scared, what should I do?
Q. okay so, i just lost my virginity today, and, it really didnt last long because we were both scared. but it kinda hurt a lot. and, it bled. and it still is. and its been about 2-3 hours, am i okay? i cant tell my parents, or his, they'll kill me. ...
A. 1 July 2009: Yeah thats perfectly normal. I bled for a few hours after my first time and bled for three days after my second! Dont worry about it, its perfectly normal. ... (read in full...)
She loves me but is not sexually attracted to me - what does she mean by this?
Q. I dated this girl for 2 years in college but towards the end of our relationship we started fighting a lot and kinda fell out of love. We broke up in feb 2009 and continued to remain friends. In May we started hanging out a lot and started acting ...
A. 1 July 2009: It means that she still loves you, loves your company and loves who you are but isnt attracted to you anymore. This happens, people grow out of others, types change. Id advice you either remain friends and try forgetting your feelings, or if its too ... (read in full...)
Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: Yes precum can lead to pregnancy, entering the penis into the vagina without a condom is dangeous at any time.... (read in full...)
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