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I have a wonderful husband/best friend who supports me in all my life goals and helps me strive for excellence
My passion and love is in animals my life revolves around my 4 year old pug Freddie and my 2 year old tortie cat Abbigail
I currently quit my job in retail management to go back to school to become a bio technologist
I LOVE this site,I have had my own ups and downs in life and struggled through a lot of the issues mentioned on this site.I love to influence people to make the right decisions and go in the right direction.
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If you make a mistake get up and try it again,
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He didn't orgasm on the fourth time we had sex, how come?
Q. Okay everybody, so Friday night at my boyfriends we had sex like 4 times during the night but on the 4th time he didn't cum, he said he was really enjoying it but it just wasn't happening, he had cum the other 3 times, so how come he never the 4th?...
A. 19 August 2012: This Happens to my husband all the time
do you know what he says? He says it happens because he doesn't have anything left!!!!!
He still enjoys it but he just can't orgasm
Your sex life sounds pretty normal to me so don't worry about it... (read in full...)
Preferably guys' opinions- Friendship between guys and girls, What do you think?
Q. I know a lot of experts on dearcupid.org think men normally don't befriend girls unless they want something more from the girls - either sex or romance. So what do you guys think about this?Do you agree that a lot of the time, guys and girls b...
A. 13 August 2012: And another thing..i used to have crushes on some of my guy friends and they still don't know to this day i had a thing for them! ... (read in full...)
Preferably guys' opinions- Friendship between guys and girls, What do you think?
Q. I know a lot of experts on dearcupid.org think men normally don't befriend girls unless they want something more from the girls - either sex or romance. So what do you guys think about this?Do you agree that a lot of the time, guys and girls b...
A. 13 August 2012: And another thing..i used to have crushes on some of my guy friends and they still don't know to this day i had a thing for them! ... (read in full...)
Preferably guys' opinions- Friendship between guys and girls, What do you think?
Q. I know a lot of experts on dearcupid.org think men normally don't befriend girls unless they want something more from the girls - either sex or romance. So what do you guys think about this?Do you agree that a lot of the time, guys and girls b...
A. 13 August 2012: I know I'm not a guy and this is just my own personal opinion but I have never been friends with a guy that did not like me physically or emotionally or vice versa
My husband(friend at the time) he straight up started hanging around me and want... (read in full...)
Can seeing someone too often break the relationship? Is this too often?
Q. I have a question, Its always been something I've wondered myself in the past and also when looking and the whole concept of a relationship in general. However recently I feel im loosing my best friend whos a male because he now has a girlfriend as ...
A. 13 August 2012: person12345 is right on this one
this is normal and in fact at this stage in the relationship I'm surprised they don't see each even more!
one of my ex's and I pretty much dropped all our friends just to spend all our time together at the ... (read in full...)
Can a woman be impregnated by precum?
Q. hello just wanted to get a few opinions on my situation...I slept with both my bf of 3 years and some other guy around the time i got pregnant. just to be clear i hooked up with the other when i was single and we didnt use a condom he also said he ...
A. 13 August 2012: Yes you can but like misstellall said it's really unlikely
I have been off birth control for 4 years and my husband and i don't use condoms and i have never once gotten pregnant during this time and i know he is capable of making babies and so a... (read in full...)
I need to lose weight but I cant afford the gym
Q. Me and my partner of six years have recently split up it was both our choice. And I knew the years I have been with him I had put on weight slowly but yesturday I stepped on the scales and the number I saw was shocking! 15 stone, I felt like crying. ...
A. 11 August 2012: It may not be the fastest way but how I lost 20 pounds in 4 months by counting my calories
the bigger you are the more weight you will loose and smaller you are it will take a little while depending on how much you want to loose
i use www.liv... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't ejaculate during sex but can masturbate
Q. My boyfriend can't ejaculate when we have sex - I know it sounds weird because every other guy I've been with has come pretty quickly... and he can come when he masturbates, it's just when we have intercourse. He tells me he enjoys making love with ...
A. 10 August 2012: sounds exactly like person12345 said..over masturbation
I would honestly tell him to try not to masturbate at all for a few days and then have sex and see if that helps
if it doesn't then maybe it's nerves my husband sometimes wants ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't ejaculate during sex but can masturbate
Q. My boyfriend can't ejaculate when we have sex - I know it sounds weird because every other guy I've been with has come pretty quickly... and he can come when he masturbates, it's just when we have intercourse. He tells me he enjoys making love with ...
A. 10 August 2012: sounds exactly like person12345 said..over masturbation
I would honestly tell him to try not to masturbate at all for a few days and then have sex and see if that helps
if it doesn't then maybe it's nerves my husband sometimes wants ... (read in full...)
I need some advice about having sex while on my period.
Q. For the guys out there; Recently me and the guy I'm dating had sex and he knew I just got off my period (literally the last day of my period, going to his place I was off my period) and its been a little while so we took the opportunity and went for ...
A. 10 August 2012: depends on the guy i guess..my ex was fine with period sex but my husband is not a huge fan..he will do it if i want to do it but if i don't want to do anything he stays pretty far away
i find period sex kinda hurts and it's messy during the heav... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my uncle, what do I do?
Q. Hi everyone i need some advice, ok first of all i have been married for 12 years to a dead beat, ass hole, that only cares bout himself.. ok now heres the thing, I have been in love with a man since i was 17 years old. We lost contact for 17 years ...
A. 10 August 2012: Again the heart wants what the heart wants and if you really think you want to be in a relationship with this man as you stated he isn't blood..then wrap up your divorce and go be happy with this man..no one deserves to be treated like trash... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my uncle, what do I do?
Q. Hi everyone i need some advice, ok first of all i have been married for 12 years to a dead beat, ass hole, that only cares bout himself.. ok now heres the thing, I have been in love with a man since i was 17 years old. We lost contact for 17 years ...
A. 9 August 2012: First things first..before you even think about getting involved with someone regardless if it's with your uncle or not GET A DIVORCE!!!!!
second of all you need to seriously think about the consequences on this one
and I agree with every... (read in full...)
I don't know who the father is, should I terminate or give it up for adoption?
Q. Heya, i just found out I'm pregant but I dont know who the father is, I went to butlins about four weeks ago and I sleet with 3 boys, ( I didn't know them or talk any numbers or anything) a week later I slept with two more boys, ( I know these b...
A. 9 August 2012: There is going to be so many opinions on this question and now I am going to give you my opinion and experience
I was in the EXACT situation you are in now 5 years ago! except i had taken plan b and i still got pregnant so the risks were tha... (read in full...)
Is it enough to want a divorce because my husband won't be intimate with me?
Q. Is it enough to want a divorce because my husband won't be intimate with me? It has been this way throughout our 25 years of marriage. He is a wonderful man and every one loves him, my friends, family, our two 20 something children. He would do ...
A. 6 August 2012: It sounds like you still love your husband and it sounds like he still loves you so you have to ask yourself is this love worth throwing away because the sex is not their any more?
Honestly in my opinion no it's not worth throwing away..se... (read in full...)
Going through rough times right now and my husband will not talk to me!
Q. I just don't know what to do : (. My husband and I have been married for about 4yrs. We are going through some rough times right now between us both losing our jobs,being evicted,both cars being repoed and the death of 3 famliy members with in the ...
A. 5 August 2012: I find a lot of men do this they don't like to show their emotion and seems like your husband is one of those men
my best advice if like AuntyEm said tell him you are their for him when he wants to talk and just let him do his thing for now BUT ... (read in full...)
I told him I wasn't a virgin but I really am! Should I tell him the truth or just keep going along with it?
Q. I've started seeing this guy whom I really really like. We have been friends for a long time and lately it has grew into something more and we decided that we would start dating. But the thing is that a while back when we were still just friends we ...
A. 5 August 2012: In my opinion your best off in the long run telling him the truth and why you said it if you even know why
and if you don't tell him I'm pretty sure he will find out sooner or later because loosing your virginity isn't a walk in the park! it's mes... (read in full...)
I just hate it because I feel like I found my dream girl, but she has a bratty daughter! advice please?
Q. i met an amazing girl a few months ago. hit it off and asked her to be my girlfriend. everything has been great. perfect. no fights, no disagreements, we always have a great time together, sex is phenomenal. only one problem: her five year old ...
A. 4 August 2012: Sometimes children do this because of changes in their lives and some children do these things because that's the only way they know how to behave
In this situation the only advice i can really give you is that this relationship needs time and... (read in full...)
Any advice for a 44 year old virgin? I tried an escourt but had Erectile Dysfunction so she suggested a longer visit next time.
Q. I recently visited an escort agency to have sex for the first time at 44yrs of age but was unable to obtain an erection and nothing happened. Of course i was nervous even though the lady was very attractive, i booked for an hour. She suggeste...
A. 4 August 2012: if you have never had past erectile dysfunction then It's anxiety and you will eventually get over this in time
you wouldn't believe how many men can't get it up their first time being with someone this is not uncommon and don't feel like you... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's dad walked in on us!
Q. im 16, my girlfriend is also 16, she is 7 months older than me. i was at her house today in the garage and her dad walked in on us going at it and our pants had just pulled up before he could see anything and said to his daughter, "what are you ...
A. 2 August 2012: I wouldn't even worry about talking to her right now, you need to have respect for her parents by giving them distance and time to cool off, your both 16 years old and you had sex under her parents roof. if you make a mature decision by having sex ... (read in full...)
Advantages and disadvantages of dating a younger man?
Q. Ladies, what do you think about dating a younger man? One of my friends recently broke up with her ex and began dating her current boyfriend one month later. He ex is 1 year younger than her and her boyfriend is 2 years younger than her. I know the ...
A. 1 August 2012: I have dated men younger then me and that experience i would never like to experience again! woman mature a lot faster then men so having the maturity level i had at the time it literally felt like i was dating a little brother or something..it was ... (read in full...)
How did you pick you wedding bands?
Q. Hi! This is a very shallow question but here it is. So, I'm getting married soon. Fiancé and I are going to pick up wedding bands this weekend. We both agreed we like them platinum, but I think I'd rather have it gold, you know, real yellow gold ...
A. 1 August 2012: My husband and i have nightmare before Christmas matching bands..we did this because we wanted cheap and unique we put all our money into the ceremony and reception and everything else just didn't matter. We don't wear our NBC bands because we don't ... (read in full...)
Can thrush delay your period?
Q. can thrush delay your period?? My periods were due 20/21 July and haven't gotten them yet. But I have had a yeast infection???...
A. 1 August 2012: No it doesn't delay your period..or at least it shouldn't if anything it just makes having your period that much worse!
if you late then id suggest getting a pregnancy test your hormones may be out of balance causing the trush... (read in full...)
A life without sex?
Q. I'm 35 years old and I have been married for 8 years. My wife says she only wants to be friends and nothing more. We haven't had sex in a year. I love my wife and I dont want to leave her but its very hard to live without sex. I workout 3 days a ...
A. 4 August 2011: completely agree with the last post i couldn't of said it any better ..she has made it clear that there is no relationship between you two anymore so now is the time to get out and save your self from having any longer despair
your obviousl... (read in full...)
Baby dreams at the age of 16?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and i really want a baby I'm an honour student and I'm responsible.I have thought about this so many times before, about how am i going to work with school. My friends say that I would make a great mother because I'm caring and sweet ...
A. 1 August 2011:
ahhh! no! when i was 16 i wanted a baby too and i even went ahead and got myself pregnant ,I miscarried and i hate to say it but THANK GOD!!!
i'm 22 now married and i am not with the same guy i got pregnant with when i was 15 i matured sin... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt when having sex? Or is to big?
Q. Well every time me and my husband have sex and he puts all his penis in it hurts alot I feel like if he's touching something that it hurts why is that? Does somebody have that, Or what is it?...
A. 3 October 2010: I had the same problem a while back
he is hitting your cervix..
easy fix tell him not to go to deep because it is hurting you or making you uncomfortable
this can also cause bladder infections if he is pressing on it too much
(i had man... (read in full...)
Is porn cheating?
Q. I don't no weather porn is cheating but every time I find out he is doing it he lies to me and says am inscure but when he promess he wouldt haw does he excpect me to react ????...
A. 2 October 2010: my man did put a ring on my finger and he does watch porn but i don't care because i watch porn too
it goes both ways..the thing is my fiance doesn't lie to me about it
some woman think it is ok to watch porn and some are not ok with it
yo... (read in full...)
Is porn cheating?
Q. I don't no weather porn is cheating but every time I find out he is doing it he lies to me and says am inscure but when he promess he wouldt haw does he excpect me to react ????...
A. 1 October 2010: if you are ok with him watching it tell him you are ok with him watching it and he has no need to lie
if you don't want him watching it and you have told him you don't want him watching it that's why is he lying
... (read in full...)
Is porn cheating?
Q. I don't no weather porn is cheating but every time I find out he is doing it he lies to me and says am inscure but when he promess he wouldt haw does he excpect me to react ????...
A. 1 October 2010: porn is not cheating cheating is when you go out looking for sex and actually doing it with someone else
when you watch porn those woman/men on those videos are not physically touching your spouse your spouse is touching themselves not those wo... (read in full...)
How can you justify looking at violent or rape porn?
Q. I don't just mean like being beaten and screaming, I mean the stuff where the woman gets her head shoved in a toilet, where the guy does anything until she cries or gags, etc... Why is that OK to get off on so long as it's not child porn or ...
A. 1 October 2010: A lot of that is set up meaning it is fake
men get off on it because it's very dominant
I must admit i have watched it
not to get off on but to just see what all the talk was about
you can even tell most of it is fake
but some men like t... (read in full...)
What's more important ?
Q. Ladies! what's more important to you a man or money? Gentlemen! what's more important to you love or hanging out with your friends? :) thinks carefully ladies and gentlemen!...
A. 30 September 2010: a man with lots of money haha
no seriously though in my opinion i would rather a good man a man who knows how to treat a lady a man who knows how to have fun WITHOUT money
... (read in full...)
Should I shave to have my first pap smear?
Q. Ok, I know this is a really stupid question but I'm going for my first pap smear soon and I was wondering if I should be clean shaven or neatly trimmed down there. Any advice? I'm kind of nervous about this.....
A. 30 September 2010: Oooh this one is a tricky one i was nervous too for my first pap smear thinking what if my doctor thinks hair is gross..but then i got thinking no way doctors have seen worse stuff down there
do what makes you feel more comfortable
doctors... (read in full...)
What would you change if you had a time machine?
Q. Hi, Just a general question. What would you change if you had a Time Machine? Hypothetically, if you could go back in time armed with this knowledge and understanding of mistakes you both made in a relationship and start all over, what would...
A. 27 September 2010: My relationship is the way i want it to be i wouldn't change it my fiance is perfect and i'm blessed he is in my life and i wouldn't bugger it up by going back in time
maybe if i could relive when i met him and be in that dating someone new blis... (read in full...)
What would you change if you had a time machine?
Q. Hi, Just a general question. What would you change if you had a Time Machine? Hypothetically, if you could go back in time armed with this knowledge and understanding of mistakes you both made in a relationship and start all over, what would...
A. 25 September 2010: absolutly nothing! i have the life i have now because of all the past stuff that happened in my life good and bad..i would do it over again in a second
... (read in full...)
My girlfriends super jealous of my best friend who is a girl!
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything for the most part has been great (we have our wedding colors picked out lol) but i just started my senior year of college 3 weeks ago and a problem has surfaced. last year, i realized that all...
A. 23 September 2010: This girl seems to be trying to control your life and being a hypocrite at the same time
anybody who tries to control anyones life needs to be ditched out of your life
maybe letting this one go would be your best option
your friend see... (read in full...)
Are women satisfied with average size penis or do they fantasize about bigger penises?
Q. hello everybody, thanks for the time i would spend in order to answer my question :D mu question is mostly for women who are married to men with average penis size, i just wanna know are the women in this situation really satisfied with their hu...
A. 21 September 2010: nope nope nope! i would rather prefer an average sized penis i see porn videos were girls are taking huge penises and i just cringe
I'm sorry but im sure it would hurt like heck!!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend takes ages to cum!
Q. My boyfriend takes ages to cum. We are 16 and lost our virginities to each other. I've heard guys first times last like.. 30 seconds, he was more like 30 minutes! And now he lasts up to 2 hours inside me! I enjoy the sex, but Im just VERY ...
A. 21 September 2010: unlike UNcircumsized men** excuse my spelling i just woke up hehe... (read in full...)
My boyfriend takes ages to cum!
Q. My boyfriend takes ages to cum. We are 16 and lost our virginities to each other. I've heard guys first times last like.. 30 seconds, he was more like 30 minutes! And now he lasts up to 2 hours inside me! I enjoy the sex, but Im just VERY ...
A. 21 September 2010: When i first started seeing my fiance we didn't cum at all and it was because he was nervous it took a good solid 2 months for him to start feeling comfortable with it
even now it stills takes him awhile
if he circumsized?
men who are ... (read in full...)
He's a one minute man! how can I make it last longer?
Q. So I've been talking to this guy for some months now. We met in March and we've made out a couple of times, etc. So this past weekend, one thing led to another and we had sex. It was embarrassing. For the guy. So he's pretty well-endowed, bu...
A. 21 September 2010: lubed condoms will desensitize him making him numb down there so he will last longer
extra lube will also most likly make him last longer
how many times has he had sex in general?
is he circumsized? men who are not cut are very sensiti... (read in full...)
Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?
Q. hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking ...
A. 21 September 2010: I'm straight and prefer to watch lesbian porn
i think it has something to do with "thats what you want done to you" maybe not from a girl but in general ... (read in full...)
What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?
Q. Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...
A. 21 September 2010: well.. seeing he is a guy flowers would probably mean nothing to him no offence
try a teddy bear (make sure it's boyish though)
chocolate everyone likes chocolate!!!
a funny t shirt
a card with a picture of yourself or you and him in it... (read in full...)
My girlfriends super jealous of my best friend who is a girl!
Q. ive been with my girlfriend for 7 months, and everything for the most part has been great (we have our wedding colors picked out lol) but i just started my senior year of college 3 weeks ago and a problem has surfaced. last year, i realized that all...
A. 17 September 2010: You have two options..
tell your girlfriend relationships are based on trust and if you wanted your bestfriend "that way" you would have been with her a LONG ago and if she can't accept that that this relationship will NOT last
OR
You dit... (read in full...)
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