My online girlfriend always wanted to fight with me
Q. Hi This may be a long one, but I will try to keep it simple. Basically I met a girl (online because of the pandemic) and we have been chatting, everything was going fine at first until recently when she wants to fight with me every 2-3 days. ...
A. 5 February 2021: OP, as much as it pains me to say it.
Honeypie said it... You have to let her go. Just gonna part a few words of my own...
Relationships are built on mutual respect and love.
Youre not getting all that in the moment. She clearly has ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to rekindle a relationship with an ex?
Q. Does anyone have any advice on winning back an ex boyfriend? I truly loved him and we both had minor bumps throughout the relationship but ultimately parted ways. At first he seemed hesitant about the possibility of it working in the future but then ...
A. 5 February 2021: Fixing Relationships is like fixing a broken cup. You can glue it together but the cracks are still gonna be there. To accept if things will ever be okay again. It really depends on the reason of the breakup. Why? How serious wad it? Did it... (read in full...)
LDR wants someone local
Q. The past few years after stepping away from DC. I started finally getting over my ex...and started dating again. I met this amazing 22 year old girl last April, and even though its different country long distance she agreed to start seeing eac...
A. 2 February 2021: You know what WiseOwlE. I really do appreciate the brutal honesty.
I have a lot of growing up to do.
You want to hear something stupid? I've sent her flowers, we talked last night...she thanked me for it, said they were beautiful.
I ... (read in full...)
LDR wants someone local
Q. The past few years after stepping away from DC. I started finally getting over my ex...and started dating again. I met this amazing 22 year old girl last April, and even though its different country long distance she agreed to start seeing eac...
A. 1 February 2021: Thanks, WiseOwlE...
I appreciate the honest answers and don't worry it didn't hurt, to be honest the past few years when I was dating, everything was just meh and normal...you know? then this girl came along and it was turbulent and unique a... (read in full...)
LDR wants someone local
Q. The past few years after stepping away from DC. I started finally getting over my ex...and started dating again. I met this amazing 22 year old girl last April, and even though its different country long distance she agreed to start seeing eac...
A. 31 January 2021: Don't INVEST more than you receive. Don't try and "FIX" their lives. Don't "treat a woman like a princess. Ill keep this to heart. She was just next woman to think the world of me you know... So I just had to give my world to her. Its just I... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want specific things out a person you are dating?
Q. Hello Aunt's and Uncle, I havent been on the site for a long time, and for a long time I thought I was content. Its been 2 years or maybe even more since I broke up with my Long Term College Girlfriend, I dated a bit after but havent found a g...
A. 16 April 2020: Thank you everyone, Im sorry for reacting a bit late, and I thank you all for the words. Honestly isolation put me in a bad place recently, kinda like exposing the wizard behind the curtain... Without all the distractions of life all I could see ... (read in full...)
Do I let people set me up for dates?
Q. So its been quite sometime since I left DC.And I really wish I came back with some better news, but hey life is life and it doesnt always go your way. So on with it. Its been over 6 months since I said to myself that I wanted to start dating aga...
A. 2 June 2019: Well I have an update if any of you are interested. I didnt go through with the set up and just asked the girl I had a crush on for coffee. I had a nice time, Im not totally into her yet but willing to see if somethings there if shes also in... (read in full...)
Do I let people set me up for dates?
Q. So its been quite sometime since I left DC.And I really wish I came back with some better news, but hey life is life and it doesnt always go your way. So on with it. Its been over 6 months since I said to myself that I wanted to start dating aga...
A. 26 May 2019: Thank you Honeypie and WiseOwl for answering my question.
Believe it or not Wiseowl Im in that exact same scenario as you've describe....minus the gay part.
I dont have much work friends zero honestly and a lot of so called busy bodies do k... (read in full...)
I’m shy and don’t like to upset anyone, so how do I let the one friend with a crush on me down, whilst keeping our friendship?
Q. Hi everyone I've found myself in a tough situation recently and feel I need some advice. Firstly I think its important to understand a few things about me. I'm quite shy, I find it hard to express my interest in someone directly and I also reall...
A. 23 February 2019: I doubt I'll add things that haven't been said but I'll try and give my opinion
As sad as it is, I agree with what everyones trying to say.
It's quite possible that they talk and their feelings about you is quite known to each of them, for the... (read in full...)
Both of us are married and planned a future together, but then she chose him! How can I heal?
Q. A co-worker of mine and I started talking/flirting. Both married but unhappy for our different reasons. We wanted to help each other with the attention we werent getting at home and made promises to not fall in love. Well we did.. we kept a ...
A. 18 February 2019: A relationship without honesty is dead like any partnership. Whenever feelings of doubt and insecurities arise you should always tell it to your wife and not another woman. I'm genuinely sorry for what happened to you but it's basically your ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to ask out a girl from my workplace just for the fact that I find her beautiful?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles. I’ve recently broke up with a girlfriend (if you can call 1 year as recent). I’m not used to the whole dating game and being single thing but I’m thinking of asking out this girl. I’ve never dated anyone since my break ...
A. 4 October 2018: Thank you Honeypie and WiseOwl, I actually stopped falling head over heels for anygirl who gives me a bit of attention when I stopped dating for a while...but when I decided to get into dating I cant help myself idealizing prospective women.
I apo... (read in full...)
Is it okay to ask out a girl from my workplace just for the fact that I find her beautiful?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles. I’ve recently broke up with a girlfriend (if you can call 1 year as recent). I’m not used to the whole dating game and being single thing but I’m thinking of asking out this girl. I’ve never dated anyone since my break ...
A. 3 October 2018: Update. So I introduced myself, we had a little chatter. But I feel no connection...the feeling of walking by her down the hall and smiling back at her when she smiles at me was more "magical" than actually meeting her. Once again I have to stress ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to ask out a girl from my workplace just for the fact that I find her beautiful?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles. I’ve recently broke up with a girlfriend (if you can call 1 year as recent). I’m not used to the whole dating game and being single thing but I’m thinking of asking out this girl. I’ve never dated anyone since my break ...
A. 29 September 2018: Sorry for sounding dumb, but I really dont have much experience with women. All my relationships started out miraculously easy and I really dont know how to meet women "tradionally".
Previous girlfriends were simple...we meet (uninten... (read in full...)
I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.
Q. Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...
A. 20 June 2018: Okay thank you Honeypie. I am actually socializing more now but as Ive said I feel these girls couldnt compare and just didnt follow through on their advances. But knowing now that getting over someone does take time...it really took some pressure ... (read in full...)
I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.
Q. Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...
A. 19 June 2018: Thank you N91,
You dont know how much it means to me, getting advice like these.My mind I feel is in the right track wanting me to forget her but I feel somethings yet holding me back.
Actually she was my second girlfriend and the one I lost m... (read in full...)
I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.
Q. Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...
A. 19 June 2018: Thanks FA, I actually feel very confused and conflicted right now. Its like my mind knows its about time to move on but my heart still beats for her. And like Ive said I have next to no experience in dating casually. Ive only been in 2 rel... (read in full...)
Every relationship ends the same way ....
Q. Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel ...
A. 23 April 2018: Dear OP Im sorry to hear about your problem. I know that everyone of us has a unique set of problems, and that I cant even understand the anxiety you may be feeling right now. But please trust me when I say that you have to let life take its course, ... (read in full...)
Any advice on Dear Cupid burn-out?
Q. I know I'm not the most active poster here and I'm not hoping that anyone would recognize me but I'm just gonna post this here for a message and maybe some advice. I'm thinking of leaving DearCupid for some time, all this posts about cheating...
A. 3 December 2017: Thank you aunt honesty, chigirl, wise owlE, and Anonymous 123. I know its something that I have to work on though I hate to say that dearcupid is affecting me negatively because it certainly hasnt, everyone helps everyone here...and it pains me to ... (read in full...)
I've worshipped this girl since I was 16! Do I tell her?
Q. Basically, I've reconnected with a girl I had a relationship with in school. I was 16, she was 15 and we went out for about a year. She was my first love and in the end we mutually broke up for a number of reasons but it was not on bad or bitter ...
A. 23 November 2017: Its really nice to hear that. Im proud and happy for you dude, you knew what your heart wants and you went for it. Its good that your having fun, just emjoy her company and the experiences. Things may rise or they may fall, so cherished these times ... (read in full...)
Any advice on Dear Cupid burn-out?
Q. I know I'm not the most active poster here and I'm not hoping that anyone would recognize me but I'm just gonna post this here for a message and maybe some advice. I'm thinking of leaving DearCupid for some time, all this posts about cheating...
A. 23 November 2017: Thanks for the advice everyone, and yes Been there Now over it; I am thankful for DearCupid for a lot of things. I no longer see myself as the same 19 year old boy who got devastated by the end of his 4 year relationship, I’m no longer the guy who ... (read in full...)
I asked my co-worker out but she said she would think about it. How long before I ask her again?
Q. Ok so I asked a girl I work with out to have dinner with me. We have been working together for around 6--8 months. I know her pretty well, but not really well, but in the end I just thought "who cares, go for it". So I asked her and she said it ...
A. 22 November 2017: Dating co-workers really is a big No and is highly inadvisable so I think you should really give her some time to think about it about, a few weeks...in the meantime talk to her more in work try to get to know her more and let her opinion on the ... (read in full...)
I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with
Q. Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even ...
A. 22 November 2017: I'm sorry but I agree with HoneyPie, I just want to add a few things, nothing a spouse ever does in a marriage can ever justify the other person to cheat. You made a solemn vow to be together and if you think you can sneak out every time you want ... (read in full...)
My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!
Q. My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...
A. 22 November 2017: kevin19861 you don't have to live by the preconceived notion of the life that men should live. And I'm sorry that your wife doesnt believe you, but how would she know what a great sexual encounter is if she was inexperienced as well. If she truly ... (read in full...)
My confidence issues are stopping me asking for a date.
Q. Started messaging a girl I knew from school a few years younger than me around 3 months ago but she'd just gone travelling. It was fun and kept it up throughout her trip and her interactions with me on social media increased so thought she might be ...
A. 20 November 2017: Sorry to hear that Bro, but yeah everything we said here still remains. If you think a girl is worth it, just do it. Sometimes all shyness and fear needs to get out of the way is a single push.On the meantime I suggest working on your confidence.
I... (read in full...)
My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!
Q. My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...
A. 20 November 2017: Hi kevin19861! Let me start of by saying two wrongs don't make a right. I feel that the quick response to an action is reacting the same way but sometimes you just have to suck it up and move on. I get your trouble, being cheated on can make you ... (read in full...)
I've worshipped this girl since I was 16! Do I tell her?
Q. Basically, I've reconnected with a girl I had a relationship with in school. I was 16, she was 15 and we went out for about a year. She was my first love and in the end we mutually broke up for a number of reasons but it was not on bad or bitter ...
A. 9 November 2017: To be honest,if you want to be with her or continue being with her I'd wont make any drastic changes or confessions just yet. She seems to be afraid of commitment and is fine with how things are the way now. Keep cool, ask her out more frequently ... (read in full...)
My confidence issues are stopping me asking for a date.
Q. Started messaging a girl I knew from school a few years younger than me around 3 months ago but she'd just gone travelling. It was fun and kept it up throughout her trip and her interactions with me on social media increased so thought she might be ...
A. 8 November 2017: Sorry bro but Im saying this as sincere and nice as humanly possible...you have missed your shot and Im sure we are all very sorry for you. With her being far away, seeing someone (event though they arent bf/gf yet), and you starting out approach... (read in full...)
How can I show him that I'm into him?
Q. okay so, i'm 18 and i went out into town the other night, a couple of people tagged along who i haven't seen since secondary school which is like two years ago. anyway, a guy was there who used to go to my school but i never really used to speak to ...
A. 8 November 2017: Nice to see everything is going well. Good Luck and once again Im very glad to help.... (read in full...)
Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?
Q. Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willi...
A. 23 September 2017: We see each other twice a month, and we are planning to change it to once a week but the thing is, if we're both feeling lonely wont that eventually drive us apart. I am just trying to see where this will go long term, we were practically living ... (read in full...)
Should we jump right in or take it slowly?
Q. Hi there. I've been talking to a wonderful guy for a month or two now, things are going really well. It started as just friendly conversation, banter via text message and talking about everything we have in common, but the conversations went on ...
A. 15 September 2017: Dear Poster, This guy sounds nice on paper, but I really suggest that you get to know this guy better, with 3 dates or so. Declaring the relationship is ultimately up to the two of you. Afterall premarital relationships are just labels, if you f... (read in full...)
I like girl A but am dating girl B
Q. I became really good friends with these two girls who are best friends. I liked them both but had a crush on girl lets say girl A. I never told girl A this. We had different styles and the few convos we did have she always talked about dating this ...
A. 12 September 2017: Hello Poster, Ive always been the boy looking through with rose colored glasses and I have to say there is no easy way out of this. Tell the truth, be the honest man and treat B like the friend she was. Tell her that you are not feeling it with ... (read in full...)
I still like him but I think I will end up hurt.
Q. Hi, I'm a year 10 girl and I've liked a guy (K) for 4 years. He moved to study abroad last year for a year and he came back about a month ago. When I found out that he was leaving, I really didn’t want to go as I was afraid we would lose our ...
A. 11 September 2017: Dear Poster, Ive been there, face all covered, tears behind my pillow,praying to God that something may change and that one girl would look my way, come see me,and talk to me. I'll spare you the the long story and just cut to the part where I tel... (read in full...)
I'm on the verge of having an affair
Q. Dear Cupid, I am about to start an affair, I'm 30 year old woman, in along term relationship. I've been married for so many years and we have 2 children. I have a stable life, extremely loving husband, too loving he doesn't get the concept ...
A. 11 September 2017: Dear Anonymous Poster, Let me start by saying that I get your situation and what you are going through. But please consider a few points and reflect on your situations. You are married with the man who fathers your children. A marriage is a tw... (read in full...)
Why did it hurt so much seeing him with another girl if we are just friends and I don't have feelings for him?
Q. Why did it hurt so much seeing him with another girl if we are just friends and I don't have feelings for him? I'm talking about my guy friend. I don't know if friend is the right word, we've known eachother forward nearly two years and always...
A. 8 September 2017: Greetings Poster, I agree with Honeypie, we can care a lot for a person even if we don't have feelings for them and or love them. We are humans, we are raised to be caring and compassionate and with him being your friend its only fair for you to f... (read in full...)
Job not how I thought, girlfriend dumping me
Q. I'm having problem at work and I'm not enjoying it currently, ive had time off because of the stress it's caused and my assistant boss doesn't seem to want to leave me alone and he's up my backside every five minutes. I work for a sports company and ...
A. 8 September 2017: Dear Poster, I am sorry to hear about your problem, and before you read my answer please not that I am a lot younger than you so please take my advice with a pinch of salt. Being down, drinking, and fighting with people isn't doing you any favors. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has just confessed that he slept with someone else
Q. I'm after some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I have never doubted our trust or believe he has ever done anything to jeopardise our relationship. Well that's what I thought until this Wednesday he called me down the...
A. 5 September 2017: Hi Poster, First of all Im sorry your boyfriend cheated on you, its heart wrenching to read that and I hope youre doing fine. People ( both in and out of the relationship ) tend to think that when a someone cheats, that its a deal breaker its over... (read in full...)
How can I show him that I'm into him?
Q. okay so, i'm 18 and i went out into town the other night, a couple of people tagged along who i haven't seen since secondary school which is like two years ago. anyway, a guy was there who used to go to my school but i never really used to speak to ...
A. 5 September 2017: Glad I could help. You could always exchange cellphone numbers the next time you see him, he's bound to have a phone number.
Take care and Best of luck.... (read in full...)
How can I show him that I'm into him?
Q. okay so, i'm 18 and i went out into town the other night, a couple of people tagged along who i haven't seen since secondary school which is like two years ago. anyway, a guy was there who used to go to my school but i never really used to speak to ...
A. 4 September 2017: Greetings WishingStars, Coming from a boy's perspective he maybe just taking his time, taking it slow and not rushing the progression of things. But it seams that you make really want to progress your relationship with this boy Reading your q... (read in full...)
Should I expect a solid promise or allow things to work out on their own?
Q. Hi guys! I am back again with another question. Some back info: I was with my now ex for 6 years. I just turned 25 and he will be 25 in a few months. After being in the same city for about 3 years, then a few long distance moments (lasting...
A. 3 September 2017: Well, Hello. I am sorry that your questions has been unanswered for quite some time and I'll try to voice my opinion and maybe give my advice from a guy's point of view of the matter. To put it bluntly one cannot put RESERVATIONS on relation... (read in full...)
We're on an experimental break for two weeks given the LDR and my gf seems fine but I'm miserable and paranoid that I'm going to lose her
Q. Sorry for asking again so soon, I just have nobody to talk to anymore and my problems are bothering me a bit. My life's in a focal point right now and I need blunt non friend and family advice.Thanks. Long story short my Girlfriend for over 1 and a ...
A. 3 September 2017: Well thank you, CindyCares , Billy Bathgates, and Anonymous female.
ME and MY GIRLFRIEND met each other again and really found everything was not quite working out and as of this moment we are still in a relationship.
Due to realizing that long dis... (read in full...)
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