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... Send *lackjack a private message | | | *lackjack's profile:I am a 24 year old male, who recently has gone through a break up with my girlfriend of roughly a year. I am stuggling to find out what to do and how to try and remain friends, or not to or pretty much anything at this point. I am no Dr. Phil but I do understand some of how the world works and recently what pain and loss can do and make you think and I am trying to apply that to other people who have similar issues as me on this site.
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29 January 2009: So I am hoping for some guidance or advice from some of the people on here. I have this girl who I have liked for a few years and we went to college together and still keep in touch and hang out every couple of weeks or so. Two years ago we got ...
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I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 25 September 2008: I am a 24 year old guy living in the Pacific Northwest, born and raised here and not sure I really want to leave. I graduated with a Business Degree and two majors in Marketing and Finance. I love marketing but finance is paying the bills as I am a ... (read in full...)
I need a major pep talk! This break up means I can't sleep, can't eat, can't concentrate. Help me PLEASE!
Q. Well, I haven't heard from my ex since Sunday night when she called looking for her things. She drunk dialed me the night before, but I didn't answer it. When I dropped off her things Sunday evening I asked her if she had called me the night be...
A. 28 August 2008: After reading your post I can see alot of similarities with what I am going through with my Ex and the break up. I tried After reading your post I can see a lot of similarities with what I am going through with my Ex and the break up. I tried I ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me to figure out who I am and what I want... but I know who I am and what I want is HER!
Q. She broke up with me saying that she did not feel the love like she used to and she wanted me to figure out who I was and what really makes me happy before I try and pursue a relationship with anyone. Then she still wanted to see me and sleep in e...
A. 23 July 2008: haha ok easy enough, I know I do have some clue about the world but I like alot of people like to shut my mind off and let all the pretty lights lull me to a sense of happiness or brain deficiency but hey whatever.
Current Prez is GEORGE BUSH, Day ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me to figure out who I am and what I want... but I know who I am and what I want is HER!
Q. She broke up with me saying that she did not feel the love like she used to and she wanted me to figure out who I was and what really makes me happy before I try and pursue a relationship with anyone. Then she still wanted to see me and sleep in e...
A. 23 July 2008: Ok well you guys are on a whole other level with some of your back and forth. Yes I am young I admit that and I am inexperienced in the ways of love and girls for the most part. I am only 24 and this is the first real relationship I have had. I am ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me to figure out who I am and what I want... but I know who I am and what I want is HER!
Q. She broke up with me saying that she did not feel the love like she used to and she wanted me to figure out who I was and what really makes me happy before I try and pursue a relationship with anyone. Then she still wanted to see me and sleep in e...
A. 23 July 2008: OK well I am not sure what is going on between the two of you but here is a little more information on how things were. I moved in w her for about a month in April and by the end of it she was fed up with me being around too much and not having a ... (read in full...)
My ex wants me to figure out who I am and what I want... but I know who I am and what I want is HER!
Q. She broke up with me saying that she did not feel the love like she used to and she wanted me to figure out who I was and what really makes me happy before I try and pursue a relationship with anyone. Then she still wanted to see me and sleep in e...
A. 23 July 2008: Sorry I did not make it clear she did not insturct me in what to do, She was making a statement that I should try and figure out who I am and what I want first to be a whole person... whatever that is first before I try and throw myself into a ... (read in full...)
What do you do when ex loses respect for you? Its causing worse depression
Q. I believe my ex has lost all respect for me. After she tactfully broke up with me saying she needs space and needs to find herself, I kept finding signs of hope that she still wanted to be with me. I have been back and forth through emails saying ...
A. 19 July 2008: First off the internet is a pretty unique place and the fact that soo many other people are going through the same stuff I am is astounding to me. I guess I hope this site is a help to you in finding some answers and advice. My Ex just broke up with ... (read in full...)
Will giving him space help him love me?
Q. help me plse my boyfriend and i had been ating for 10 months from the start he wanted mearound all the time, abot 1 month in he told me he loved me. we were together all the time his choice. no he says he needs space to do what ever he wants when ...
A. 19 July 2008: Well being a guy who was told that was a reason for the break up with my now EX, I can understand the being around each other and then wanting space and then an hour later wanting to see each other, well I learned the hard way that if you keep up a ... (read in full...)
How can I lose a large amount of weight without it being unsafe?
Q. Hi, this is my 1st time on this website and i'm asking for help... I'm classed as obese (BMI = 31.2) and i don't want to be anymore. All i want to know is how can i get into the 'normal' weight section on BMI... i would prefer it to be fast as i ...
A. 19 July 2008: As a guy who has struggle with my own weight issues in life I can understand some of where you coming from. Some of the advice I would have is to eat 5-6 small meals a day. For example I eat oatmeal for breakfast, a protein shake, a pack of vitamins ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the "dragging time" after a break up?
Q. Hi Dearcupid Members, thanks for clicking this post and for any feedback. I am 20yrs old and finding life really difficult at the moment. I had been with my ex-girlfriend for about 10 months and we both said we were in love. However we brok...
A. 19 July 2008: Honestly I understand where you are coming from with the reading all the blogs on the internet telling you different things, and one day feeling fine and the next feeling like crap. I am going thorough all of it right now. As for how to get through ... (read in full...)
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