How do I handle this unwanted breakup? And yet he still says he wants to be my 'friend.' Help!
Q. Hi i have had terrible times with my guy friend. we have been really good friends ever since 2011. We have been very close and had intimate sex. But every-time he tells me he doesnt feel for me more than a friend. So finally in the month of Nov...
A. 2 July 2013: Current Update - I have become a verbal abuser to him. I abuse him everyday without fail via text message. I am trying to control his life by abusing him. I know it sounds disturbing. But i am loving every minute of it. He didnt want to meet me ... (read in full...)
A guy told me the other day . If I really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??
Q. A guy told me the other day . If i really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??...
A. 5 July 2012: ok, To all of you who helped me in this question. Actually I am very overweight. So When i see myself in the mirror. I surely am not looking good with the body type I have now. So basically I guess the guy said was right. He wants me to look ... (read in full...)
How should FWB relationships operate? Do guys get jealous if she sleeps with other guys in a FWB?
Q. I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships. The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other. W...
A. 2 July 2012: He never proposed me FWB relationship. I doubt he even knows such things exist.... (read in full...)
How should FWB relationships operate? Do guys get jealous if she sleeps with other guys in a FWB?
Q. I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships. The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other. W...
A. 2 July 2012: I agree this will not end well. But we both like each other a lot. So no point in staying away from each other. All we want is to enjoy the present moment and see each other getting married to someone else.... (read in full...)
How should FWB relationships operate? Do guys get jealous if she sleeps with other guys in a FWB?
Q. I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships. The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other. W...
A. 2 July 2012: I am sorry , I don't think we are friends with benefits. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?
Q. why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together....
A. 30 June 2012: We do keep certain amount of distance. At the beginning we would meet rarely but now a days we meet quite often. What to do ? I really want to spend incredible amount of time with him . I have my friends who hate the fact I am with him . Cause they ... (read in full...)
Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?
Q. why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together....
A. 30 June 2012: No, his family is very orthodox and he can't talk freely with them. Moreover I am a Christian and he is a Hindu. So lot of difference between us.... (read in full...)
Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?
Q. why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together....
A. 29 June 2012: I am extremely sorry . Its just that I am taking a little slow in understanding what you're trying to tell me. Could you please explain to me what you mean ... "Has any guy you might have gotten with been good enough in his eyes? No, and as long ... (read in full...)
Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?
Q. why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together....
A. 29 June 2012: I am not sure about whether he really hates the idea , cause he is being very kind to me , and said I would help you get a better guy to be in a relationship. What you say about this ?... (read in full...)
Why do guys get mad when we girls have sex with other men?
Q. why do guys gets upset if we sleep with other men , even though we aren't in dating period. My guy friend get paranoid if by mistake or any chance I sleep with another guy . We both love each other a lot but we have no future together....
A. 29 June 2012: yup.. its due to difference in our religion. He did tells me I am an amazing women , And I will find the best guy. But due to certain circumstances he can't marry me. He comes from a very orthodox family. So, all we do is enjoy each other company ... (read in full...)
Why do guys keep talking about their ex girlfriends?
Q. why do guys just keep talking about their ex gf ? it seriously hurts me a lot. I have a very good guy friend , i have feelings for him . but he doesnt want to date me. And he keeps talking about his ex gf. ...
A. 29 June 2012: I Spoke to him about it. All i can say is we both love each other a lot. He comes from a very Indian Orthodox family. So no chance for us to marry due to our religion difference. I love him , he loves me too, We have great compatibility. He will ... (read in full...)
Why do guys keep talking about their ex girlfriends?
Q. why do guys just keep talking about their ex gf ? it seriously hurts me a lot. I have a very good guy friend , i have feelings for him . but he doesnt want to date me. And he keeps talking about his ex gf. ...
A. 27 June 2012: well , its been after an year he has told me he loves me , but surely we both don't have a future due to certain circumstances. So , basically even after having said he loves me , he still at times brings up his ex gf in between.... (read in full...)
We want to get married, but I'm afraid the process wont be easy!
Q. Hiiiii dera cupid.....i m 18 yrs old indian muslim girl nd i m in love with a pakistani guy of age 21....we both r planning to get marry after 1 yr...we both met online..i dont know how i fallen in love with him i really dont know..he is a great ...
A. 19 June 2012: I have some Questions to ask you :
1) have you met the guy face to face ?
2) Does his mom know about you ?
3) Has he ever been to India.
Unless you meet a guy face to face never ever believe something good will take place. Maybe he loves yo... (read in full...)
A guy told me the other day . If I really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??
Q. A guy told me the other day . If i really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??...
A. 13 June 2012: guy's age - 30 years old .... (read in full...)
What should I do about this friend with benefits, after what he said to me?
Q. i met this guy last year in the month of may , so within few weeks he chucked me out of his life , saying he is not attracted to me . so he contacts me again after 6 months . well before that he was in a relationship with a girl for 7 yrs , things ...
A. 10 June 2012: ok so well , I did punch him on his face ( ironically) . he got so shocked that he wants to meet me tomorrow and resolve the situation. he has told me I have misunderstood him . And he didnt say anything bad to his friends.... (read in full...)
What should I do about this friend with benefits, after what he said to me?
Q. i met this guy last year in the month of may , so within few weeks he chucked me out of his life , saying he is not attracted to me . so he contacts me again after 6 months . well before that he was in a relationship with a girl for 7 yrs , things ...
A. 10 June 2012: Additional Information _ He has even told his friends that we are in a physical relationship . Cause he is scared what his friends will think about us. ... (read in full...)
I'm not getting responses from my ad on dating site. Help?
Q. I have joined a dating site, being an Indian girl I am not getting much response from American and canadian guys. I really dont have any problem dating a guy other than my race. Could you guys please help me in some way. Any suggestion will be ...
A. 5 January 2012: I really tried my best to express myself well in the site. But nothing seem to work. Well, most probably they aren't attracted to my picture.... (read in full...)
Are we ready for a threesome?
Q. Hi! Want to know if you think we are ready for a threesome. We have been married for 6 years and have children. We both come from a conservative Middle Eastern background, we are not fully liberal but both are relatively open minded. W...
A. 4 January 2012: I agree with SO VERY CONFUSED , You shouldnt be doing this with your beloved wife.... (read in full...)
I don't know what to make of him and I'm worried he might be playing me....what do you think?
Q. I met this guy on an online dating site. We seemed to have an instant connection and decided to meet up. The first date went great and I know I shouldn't have but we slept together. After that we talked for a few weeks over text and then our ...
A. 4 January 2012: I am very much into dating sites for long time. All I can say is guys have spoken to me their heart out of how much they long to be with me. How much they wish we were living closer or together. But, by the end of the day they VANISH. And then ... (read in full...)
Why don't some girls realise they're being cheated on?
Q. There's this guy who I know from high school. He used to be a geek and didn't really get the girls. Now he's different, he works out and looks pretty good. I really liked him at one point and never would have guessed the kind of person he'd turned ...
A. 4 January 2012: Why are you so concerned about her ?? Are you girls best friends. If she wants to be with the guy , well thats her choice. Moreover, If he is a popular guy in school or college. I am sure she would love to be the limelight of having him as a bf. ... (read in full...)
He's shy. Should I ask him what is going on with us, find out once and for all how he feels?
Q. Hi everyone thanks in advance for your help and for listening. I really like this guy, but I'm not sure if he likes me. We text each other from morning to night and also talk on the phone. We have been for lunch etc and bought each other Chris...
A. 4 January 2012: Yes, of course!! you should ask him whats going on. And the best would be to ask him upfront about where is your friendship leading into. I did ask one of guy friends. I asked him what kind of relationship are we into ? He gave me his opinion. There ... (read in full...)
He flirts with other girls too, so what do I do from here?
Q. When i say i have bad luck when it comes to guys, "bad luck" doesn't even begin to cover it. I recently asked out this guy who i thought liked me to only to realize he thought of me as just a friend. but when i backed off he started flirting even ...
A. 4 January 2012: He is a flirt. And he will go on flirting with girls till he gets what he wants. If you have what it takes to deal with such kind of guys. No problem!!! Go ahead, otherwise be prepared to hurt yourself at the end.... (read in full...)
Is he just a touchy feely person in general or is he flirting with different girls?
Q. this is about a guy I met in Spanish classes (something I do for fun it's not at school or something, just a hobby). After classes, he's asked me out for a drink 2 times. We really had a nice time. After the Spanish course ended he said to me that ...
A. 4 January 2012: Guys at this age are very fickle minded. Same goes to Girls too. I think the best would be to ask him out. Only if you have got the guts to do. Otherwise, you will be going on wondering whether he likes me or not. And concerning the fact whether he ... (read in full...)
Getting pangs of insecurity in a relationship
Q. I have been seeing a girl for about 5 months and had been going out for her for two weeks, before I broke up for Christmas at Uni, her and I broke up over an incident which involved me being very very drunk and a girl trying to kiss me, I know this ...
A. 3 January 2012: I guess you ended the question details well by saying
"I need to stop doubting her feelings for me and I need to trust her. I think if I was in person with her this wouldn’t be the case because I could see her in person and text messagin... (read in full...)
I want him to feel like it's his loss...
Q. Hi guys, please don't tell me not to bother or there is no point doing this. Because I really want to, so just any advice on how to do this will be helpful! I met this guy about a week ago, he is so very confident in himself and sure that he can...
A. 3 January 2012: Alrite!!! Even I had tried the same thing when i was in college. lol being an emotional girl I fell for the guy. Eventually hurting myself. Hope it doesn't happen to you.... (read in full...)
We dated, we broke up, he kept in contact, I said wait, now he has gone
Q. I was seeing a guy I really like for about 6 months. but we had to break up because my parents found out that I was seeing a boy which is not allowed in our religion. although he is the same religion as me. but since we broke up just recently like ...
A. 3 January 2012: Just because he stopped text-in and calling you all of a sudden. Doesn't mean you should assume he has lost interest.Not until he tells you so. Please make an effort to call him. And let him know your ready to take things further.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does really crazy things to be entertaining. I'm not sure if I want to be with him!
Q. I just don't understand my boyfriend. He enjoys drinking, but when I am not around he does crazy things when people are around. Its like he needs to be the entertainment. People always look to him for the entertainment and whatever idea they come up ...
A. 3 January 2012: OMG!!! I would run away. And call myself an IDIOT to love such a guy. Its obvious people hear will tell you to move on. But, will you able to love and forgive him? You got to take the decision. I was about to puke after having read his way of ... (read in full...)
I just want our spark back!
Q. Ladies, do you ever want to try to make your husband/b.f feel loved? Or appreciated? If he were to tell you that he didn't feel it, and let's say you have been together for a couple of years, would you you try harder to please him? What about ...
A. 3 January 2012: The best would be talk to her about it. That being said, you too should make an effort to make her feel wanted. I think she is feeling bored in the relationship. You should think of something you did at the beginning of the relationship which will ... (read in full...)
I want to have a baby but it's not happening!
Q. So I'm 19 and me and my fiance live together..everything is perfect! I am beyond in love with this man.the problem is,I want to share more with him..I bet you're thinking "what more could she want?" this may sound crazy but I want to have his ...
A. 3 January 2012: Don't worry it will happen . We have sex at your age an think " I don't want a baby". Just be calm and relaxed. Moreover, I did read an article saying women become more fertile at 22 to 26 years age. Now that doesn't mean, you wont get pregnant till ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend suddenly being nice?
Q. So this guy im seein for six months now, and him and I have small fights once and a while, but this time I did not talk to him for over 2 weeks, and he was the one for the first time to cave and call me. So we had a viste and talked about everything ...
A. 3 January 2012: There is nothing so suspicious about it. I think he understood his mistake of always having arguments. Which is upsetting you the most. I think you should feel happy now . For the fact he is making an extra effort to keep you happy.I don't think ... (read in full...)
I have trust issues and pushed him away... I love him , what should I do?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with this guy and i dont know what to do anymore. i'm young and afraid of love and have trust issues and i dont know why i have broken up with him so much. I am so confused, he used to call me and would always ...
A. 3 January 2012: Did he or you say anything which led to no trust issue ? Even I am in a LDR with a guy . And usually if any argument takes place. We try our best to solve it ASAP via emails. And whenever he is out of his city or busy for the day. He always makes ... (read in full...)
I didn't mean to, but now I'm stuck faking orgasms for my boyfriend!
Q. The first time me and my boyfriend did anything sexual, which was just fingering, I faked it. I dont know why, but I could tell he was getting tired, and frustrated, because i've never actually orgasmed before, and although it felt really good, I ...
A. 2 January 2012: The best would be guiding his fingers on how to pleasure you. And drink plenty of water. It will help you orgasm better and faster. ... (read in full...)
My friend is becoming a slut and its worrying me!
Q. Recently, my best friend who I have been friends with for 10 years is becoming a real slut, she's 14 and doing things with 20 year olds and turning to drink more and more frequently. I myself have never drunk or done any of these things, but I'm ...
A. 2 January 2012: Give her as much advice a Best friend can give. You surely cannot control or dominate over her. Maybe one day just sit with her and talk things out. Hopefully she will understand!!!... (read in full...)
Should I stop being in contact with my ex? Or break up with my boyfriend? CONFUSED!
Q. ive been dating a guy named matthew for over two months now.my best guy friend,andrew , who is also my ex, tried to kiss me on new years knowing that i have a boyfriend.that night he txt me.and he never txts me.hardly ever at all.i was surprised.he ...
A. 2 January 2012: Please concentrate on you're current bf Mathew. I guess Andrew hasn't able to move on. Please take it slow and think before you break up with Mathew. I surely should say. It Ain't fair to break up with Mathew for Andrew. Andrew has been your past. ... (read in full...)
Sex turned into love with my boss 20 years older than me
Q. im 20 i started texting my boss after a few months of working for him, hes 20 years older than me and things started to get steamy he wanted things to move on but i wouldnt because of the age the whole work thing. but we kept.texting then i agreed ...
A. 2 January 2012: I was in the same situation. All I can say is he has made his choice. And the guy whom i have been with was a workaholic. Even he wouldn't give me time and support. I am sorry, the only thing which could make you happy and him is by having sex. ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a girl who isn't a Christian?
Q. Dear Cupids, I am a very strong Believer and follower of Jesus Christ (in other words, I'm a Christian) and I think I'm in love with a girl that isn't Christian. Is this alright? Should I go for this girl and ask her out? Sincerely, ...
A. 2 January 2012: There is no harm in dating with her, letting her know you love her. It will be better if you could convert her into your religion. That will surely solve things out. But that's later. Now, you're young have fun and lover her wholeheartedly!!!... (read in full...)
He is always accusing me! Does this mean he's upto no good? help!
Q. Hello, I have been with my bf 4 yrs now and he's had trust issues from the beginning. For starters I've always been loyal and I show him how much I love him. At first I chalked things off to insecurites, he's very jealous as well. He can be very h...
A. 2 January 2012: OMG!! how could you keep him in you're life for four years. I really don't understand what you want and what is that thing you don't want. Either you should talk things out or chuck him off your life.... (read in full...)
We've been friends for years, should we not try to date again?
Q. ok so I started dating this guy about 2 weeks ago. But he's not just any guy .. he has been one of my closest friends for like 8 years... I've known the guy since we were in junior high and we've actually tried dating in the past but it has never ...
A. 2 January 2012: The best advice would be to settle the matter amicably.Now, He has been your friend for 8 years. I am sure you can talk to him about you're feeling insecure about the relationship. Ask him how could both of you manage to spend some amount of time ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my body is strange and a guy won't like it
Q. I'm 15 and my vagina lips and labia hang farther down than most girls. I've read about this online because of my insecurities... And so far, most of the results say that it's normal. But i'm still scared that I will be judged for it (I refuse to ...
A. 2 January 2012: There is nothing to worry about . Even my right side lip is fleshy and longer than the left hand side . I have been with guys they didn't even take note of it. And even if they have , they didn't say anything about it. Never spoke anything about it. ... (read in full...)
My cousin kissed me. Now what?
Q. I was in my cousins garage and it was just the two of us she asked me if i wanted to dance or pingpong and i chose dance then she decided to kiss me on the neck what should i do...
A. 1 January 2012: I do feel sexual attractions towards my cousin brothers at times , Especially when we are somewhat close to each other. I guess you should just chuck it off your mind. And dont think much about it. I guess hormones are playing their role here.... (read in full...)
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