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My girlfriend is insatiable!! How do I cope?

Q.   how many times realisticly can i have sex in one night.my girlfriends need for penatrive sex is insatiable.is 3 times nearly everynight sufficient?please let me know honestly....

A.   16 July 2008: hey,your girlfriend is normal, I look for it as much as I can get it too & a lot of the time my fiance isn't up to sex but I respect his wishes & wait until he is ready for it. but I find if you do it 3 times a night it isn't as exighting as getting ... (read in full...)

Any help on making my Curriculum Vitae?

Q.   i know this isnt to do with relationships but ive seen that this site is just soo helpful!! i really need a bit of help with writing a CV ive just left school and am looking round for jobs as im bored stupid and also need a litle cash before goin...

A.   25 June 2008: Don't get you're self in a twist all CV's arent the same heres a brief list of whats on my cv it mite help. Start off with CURRICULUM VITAE as your heading.. Then put in your personal details such as name address & contact number email or wha... (read in full...)

I date my cousin somtimes but also cheat on him, but can't stand seeing him with anyone else!

Q.   I've had this huge crush on him ever since i could remember, he always makes me happy. we have kissed before and dated but sometimes i cheat on him with someone else, i hate seeing him with another person. are my feelings only like a cousin or more?...

A.   25 June 2008: Honey sounds to me like your "lusting" or have a "crush" on you're cousin it can happen so I wouldn't worry too much. Is it right for you to "go out" with your cousin in the first place. Your caring about him like a cousin but fancy him at... (read in full...)

My bf gets anoyed, angry and upset with me because when I'm around his friends I am quiet and shy.

Q.   My bf gets anoyed, angry and upset with me because when I'm around his friends I am quiet and shy. I find this to be really unfair because I do make an effort and he knows that Im shy so its really hard for me to talk to people who I havent seen ...

A.   25 June 2008: Darling, you're boyfriend should respect you for the way you are, Lots of people are shy & find it hard to mingle or chat to people they don't know. He should give you space & let u join in on your own time & who's this about anyway is it for ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world for a few months... Any suggestions on how to make this time go a bit faster and better for me?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world to work for a few months. Where he is gone is pretty remote so he will only be able to ring me maybe once a week. I'm feeling very down about this, he only left yesterday..I am desperatley ...

A.   25 June 2008: sorry to hear that you'll be parted from your other half its hard to try pass the time without thinkin of them all the time..try keep as busy as possible that will help pass the time. It probably seems like the time will go realy slow but you'll be ... (read in full...)

What is he trying to tell me??

Q.   HI Lovely Aunts, So I've posted on here a lot lately and still need advice. My ex called me last night before he went to bed and we talked about going to a wedding I have to attend in August and then he invited me out to see a concert with him...

A.   24 June 2008: ok, well he phoned you? If he didn't like you he wouldn't phone you also going to a wedding together in Aug? thats nice he's interested in that & more to the point he wants to Bring you to a concert??..Thats a sure sign he's interested if he wasn't ... (read in full...)

I've not had a period for 2 months! What can I do?

Q.   hi im nearly 16 and ive already lost my vaginity to a older lad, he's 18 and we've known each other since i was 3, his mam and my mam are really good friends too. i've now had sex with him over 5 times and the last time was 2 months ago and ive not ...

A.   24 June 2008: sometimes panik & stress can cause our periods to stop if you're test was negitave I'd try not to worry. If you calm yourself & relax a bit more your periods should return to nomal. don't have unprotected sex,wait for your periods if they havent ... (read in full...)

Which movie should I suggest for my first date with the guy I like?

Q.   heyy ok so here it goes...im 14 and im going to the movies with this guyy tht ive liked for a while and i need some advice as to which movie i should suggest like i kno in most cases a chick flick is totally off limits...but i dont wanna end up ...

A.   24 June 2008: Why don't you both sit down somewhere & go through the list of movies that are showing maybe in the local paper & try decide together, comedys are always good for dates:)... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is begging me to have sex with him, What should I do?

Q.   I am 13 years old, my boyfriend and I have known each other since we were 4 but we only started dating last year. My b/f and i are really close, but he keeps begging me to have sex with him. I trust him alot, but i'm not sure what to do. Please h...

A.   24 June 2008: well, you've gained a lot of answers there & all of them are pointing in the same direction. at the end of the day you are a teenager & you're probably going to go do it anyway. If you do go ahead & have sex with him you'd be only doing it to please ... (read in full...)

Why do straight people develop romantic feelings for a friend of the same gender?

Q.   Does anyone have a psychological insight into why one can easily develop sexual/romantic feelings for a friend of your own gender even if you are usually straight? ...

A.   24 June 2008: I agree with the first answer therem, it would be a lot to do with hormones but then at some stages in our lives we like to experiment & its absolutely no harm.either you like or you don't like. I always wondered what it would be like with another ... (read in full...)

We were having a great time...but I have discovered that he was cheating and lying to me...he hurt me, but I just can't seem to stop caring about him...

Q.   I've recently found out that the guy who I was seeing is actually married and has been seeing a whole host of other girls as well as myself. I'm finding it really hard to cope with. I haven't exactly told him I've found out, but have cut all ...

A.   20 June 2008: hi there, sounds like you're in shock & I don't blame you one bit. Is very hard on you right now & you probably feel like you'll never get over him but the worst thing you could do is take him back he's a liar,a cheat, a love rat you're way too ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks badly of me... how do I make things right?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have a good relationship till recently. theres a few things from my past that bother him. he feels as though im a slut. there were only two guys i had done things with, i never slept with anyone until him. i love him so much but ...

A.   18 June 2008: hey, if your boyfriend thinks of you in that way then he isn't worth the relationship, I mean, your right,I'm sure he had girlfriends in the past as you've had boyfriends in the past. I don't see a big deal with that. Relationships should be built ... (read in full...)

Did he feel guilty or is he just not interested in her anymore?

Q.   ok so this may be a bit confusing but here it goes My fiancee and i have been dating for 10 and 1/2 months and we've hit this "rut" and we are always fighting ALOT and hes wanted to end it or a while but he wont and he says he cant because he ...

A.   18 June 2008: hey when boys hit a certain age they get hormonal like us too...the guy is probably very confused. try giving him a bit of space then talk to him at a level that you both acutally listen to eachother because if you don't communicate properly you'll ... (read in full...)

Can men please tell me why they watch porn? Is it because of disatisfaction with you partner?

Q.   i have a question and i wish that most of the man can answer this. is woman or girl friend or wife needs to be jealous or angry or be mad or upset to their man when they are watching porn. do we woman needs to worry about it? what is you man ...

A.   18 June 2008: I think there is absolutely nothing wrong with any one watchin porn neither male or female, My fiance & I watch it together & sometimes when hes at work I watch it alone & he watches it alone when I'm not about so I don't see a problem with it as ... (read in full...)

My friend told me I was ugly and we haven't talked since, what's going on?

Q.   my friend just told me i was ugly! now i dont know what to do she just said it so randomly and shes my best friend. we were just walking home and she said it and then walked off. i think she was ditching me? we havent tlaked for 2 weeks whats going ...

A.   18 June 2008: That wasn't very nice of you're friend & I can see why you are upset friends can be so mean sometimes but hey could she be jelous of you? maybe your pretty & she wants to be like you, Leave her to it, don't get in touch with her give her time & ... (read in full...)

How the heck are you supposed to insert this thing?

Q.   i tried to put in a tampon and i followeds the instructions i made sure i was relaxed but it wouldnt go in! i am 14 and i dont know, do i have to try it again or what?? any tips?? thx xxxooo...

A.   18 June 2008: don't worry, you'll get it, everything in this life takes practise & you know what they say, Practise makes perfect so yes love, try it again.. here's a little tip..try putting one leg up on a toilet seat, this will give u space to insert it & ... (read in full...)

I'm sixteen and I think I'm a sexual deviant!!

Q.   I'm sixteen and I think I'm a sexual deviant. A masochist to be exact. When I masturbate, I like to pretend that reino nordin, a Finnish actor is a sexual deviant and he does all the things i imagine. I shouldn't be this way. I mean, when I look at ...

A.   18 June 2008: hey,its ok to fantisise about anything you want to everybody is different & therefore we all have different fantasies. you are perfectly normal just enjoy it. I fantisise about other women when I masterbate It doesnt make me lesbian as Ive had ... (read in full...)

Are there other girls out there like me?

Q.   This is going to be a strange one. Im a 19yr old female. Im what my bf calls borderline nympho. I'm able to have multiple orgasms very quickly (within minutes). I've really truly squirted as well, not pee, but a strange fluid. Is this norm...

A.   18 June 2008: Congratulations sweety, Your one in very few who has the unique power to "squirt" Happens to me every time i make love to my fiance & he love's it..Its perfectly normal theres absolutely nothin wrong with you most woman can't orgasm so they'd be ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and worried my pubic hair will put her off. What can I do about it?

Q.   hi, I'm just 17 I'm a virgin and i feel like i have too much pubic hair. I'm scared that when the moment is right she will see me and be grossed out. my question is, is this a problem? and is there anything i can do about it?...

A.   18 June 2008: Don't get urself all worked up over something thats naturally there for a reason, we ALL have pubic hair so thank your lucky stars your normal.. I know it will be your first time & you're nervous enough as it it without having to be self concious... (read in full...)

How do I help my shy love feel comfortable with me (we met online)?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend online, WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MuCH it was love at first talk, and we are going to meet each other finally, this friday. He said that he thinks he's going to be shy when we met. How do i help him to feel comfortable...

A.   17 June 2008: Firstly,U've never actually met this guy so it mite be a good idea to meet in a public place, its very hard to know who to trust so be very careful. If on the otherhand, you know & trust this guy meet in public anyway maybe ice skating or somethin... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slept with my sister the morning our son was born! How do I deal w/ this?

Q.   My boyfriend slept with my sister the morning our son was born. He hasnt talked to her since I found out about the two of them and he hasnt been with anyone else. But how do I deal with this?...

A.   17 June 2008: hey,you're not alone..I myself went through the same thing my so called "boyfriend" slept with my "sister" when I was in hospital heavily pregnant carrying his beautiful twin son's.. I didn't find out until the twins were about 6 months old.He b... (read in full...)

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