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Im just me, Im 24, I live in the South-East of England

I think my younger g/f's best friend like her.

Q.   I'm a forty-seven year old male who's been married four times before and has five children (wih only two of the women). I am also currently dating a twenty-one year old woman. We've been together since last Christmas and yes, we have had sex. But ...

A.   18 April 2009: Talk to the kid, tell him how you feel, maybe between you and him you can find a way to sort this out... (read in full...)

When I left the room I heard her kissing another guy--what do I do?

Q.   Iv recently split from a long-term relationship and have been getting to know a girl who lives in my building, she used to smile at me and Id always catch her looking at me when I was with my girlfriend, then after I split with my girlfriend she ...

A.   30 January 2009: Yes that is as far as its gone, she is still a virgin from what i know. Thank you for you reply, I do agree with that.... (read in full...)

We broke up but I can't function without her

Q.   My Girlfriend and I broke up back in october. She told me she wanted a break but when i asked her how long she said we should just be friends right now. The reason is because she said she had school and work to deal with and didn't want to put me on ...

A.   30 January 2009: i think its natural to feel like that when somebody has been such a big part of your life for so long. Just give it time, try and keep yourself busy and not think about her, go out with friends, etc... (read in full...)

Whenever we're socialising my girlfriend always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me!

Q.   I'm Steve, 23 years old from South Yorkshire and my girlfriend is 22 and lives in nearby Nottinghamshire. Whenever we're socialising she always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me - not in a jealous way, but rather about...

A.   29 December 2008: I think she needs to realise how bizarre it is to take pictures of mens legs in the first place before she's going to understand the problems it causes... (read in full...)

Married for 7 months and husband is spitting, slapping and verbally abusing me...

Q.   well, long story short, i have been married now for 7 months, really a civil marriage because in my husband's theory i needed a marriege license to live aboard with him, anyways, we met in 2005 on the internet, he was the perfect man, we talk online ...

A.   11 October 2008: Wether you get anything or not you should get the hell out of there, dont put up with that kind of abuse.... (read in full...)

He seems a bit intense. Should I end it?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for a few weeks and by his own admission we aren't technically boyfriend and girlfriend. I'm not even sure if I like him. But I think I could. The problem is that he always wants to be around and says things like, you kept ...

A.   29 September 2008: Personally I think you should end it, if the comments and calls are getting too much now imagine what its gonna be like in 6 months time, I myself like my own private time and theres nothing worse than dating somebody who cant understand that.... (read in full...)

Should just tell him to drop dead?

Q.   I desperately need help before I lose the plot! My boyfriend cheated on me, and when I say cheat I mean he had a full blown relationship with another woman. We broke up for ages talked and finally decided to get back together. But since this ...

A.   29 September 2008: Once something like this has happened once, it usually messes up all future relationships, your always gonna be suspicious and paranoid with your future boyfriends... (read in full...)

In a bad marriage, but have a "male" friend

Q.   I am in a bad marriage and recently met this single guy and we have become "friends". We seem to be drawn to each other.He always praises me to my colleagues and we talk a lot. Recently we went to a business meeting and afterwards we sat in our ...

A.   27 September 2008: But if you explain that now it might seem a bit weird, and if he didnt think that it might seem even weirder. ... (read in full...)

Men and multiple orgasms?

Q.   i have a question one of my friends claimed to have given head to some guy and got him to cum 3 times in the same session. she said she just swallows and keeps going. she told me it was longest about 50 mins. im wondering if that is possible beca...

A.   14 September 2008: I wouldnt believe everything your told. Not saying it isnt true but I doubt it very much.... (read in full...)

Is my mental health damaging my relationship?

Q.   I'm worried that my mental health issues are affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. He's very, very supportive, loving and kind, and he encourages me to talk about my feelings - he's even told me to phone him, no matter what time of day or n...

A.   14 September 2008: If he likes you for you he will like you no matter what. No matter how rocky my relationship has been my girlfriend has always made sure I take my medication and said that if I ever end up in hospital again she will visit me everyday, even i... (read in full...)

Am I the ugliest fattest stupid cow in the world for trying to do it with him but for him only doing it when hes drunk? What would you do?

Q.   Right .. Well I don't really know where to start this, basically my boyfriend of 2 and a bit years and I have been going through, well a very argumentative stage. All we ever seem to do is argue and to be honest I really hate it. When we are like ...

A.   11 September 2008: He obviously doesn't care about your feelings so why waste them on him? I dont know you but Im sure you could do better... (read in full...)

I can only get about a third of the way in. We've tried everything. Any advice?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years now, we are both virgins and have tried to have sex many times, but whenever we do try i can only get my penis in about a third of the way before it starts to hurt her, she says its like a sharp pain in ...

A.   11 September 2008: Maybe her hymen isnt broken yet, that could be the pain although I dont know why she would feel it in her side. Try using your fingers first, one, then two if its not too painful. ... (read in full...)

I cheated on him and we broke up. How do I get him back?

Q.   hi i recently broke up from a 2 year relationship with my bf. he was 12 years older then me, and i was seeing another bloke, but we never slept together and he found out about it. i really want to get back with him but he keeps saying that he thinks ...

A.   10 September 2008: You say you love him but if you really did would you have been seeing somebody else behind his back?... (read in full...)

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