Ladies--If you have sex without orgasm, does it satisfy you anyways?
Q. This question is for the women: If you're in the mood, and you have sex but don't have an orgasm, does it satisfy the urge anyway? In other words, if you're in the mood and you have sex, are you more likely to want to have sex again soon if the sex ...
A. 20 December 2011: I haven't actually ever orgasmed with someone, but it doesn't bother me. I still enjoy sex, I like it when he is satisfied and I like the closeness. How I feel about the guy is much more important to me than wanting to have an orgasm.
As for good... (read in full...)
Is this the way that guys joke around?
Q. Hi My bf of two years often talks about how cute his coworkers are and how could he like to spend time with them. Whenver i call, he says if he knows that i am gonna call then he would hv switched off his mobile. If i ask why he is doing this, h...
A. 20 December 2011: Talk to him about it. Does he still compliment you and make you feel appreciated when you're together? You mightn't mind his jokes as much as long as he still lets you know how much he loves you. Say to him that you are starting to feel insecure and ... (read in full...)
I don't feel the attraction to my new b/f like I felt with my old boyfriend
Q. Hi I have been dating a guy for 2 months, he is a really good guy, he is outgoing, positive and caring. But i still think of my ex. My ex was the only guy that I felt so attracted to in my life. This happened only once in my life, thats why ...
A. 15 December 2011: How does your current boyfriend feel?
If you're both open for something casual, then you might be able to get over your ex with this new guy. But ONLY if he knows you don't want anything serious.
If not, then break up with him, maybe give your ex ... (read in full...)
I love my 40 year old teacher
Q. I am 19 years old..and I love my teacher how has 40 years old..I love him so much and I don't know if he loves me or not..what can I do?? help me please....
A. 15 December 2011: Don't go for it. He is a teacher, you are a student. Just, don't. I really liked my teacher and I was convinced that we were going to run away together. What happened was that I met someone, moved on but continued to idolise my teacher. I suggest ... (read in full...)
How do I get the confidence to be on top during sex?
Q. I hope my question goes up I really need help on this one. My boyfriend and I have started having sex and he is my FIRST! He's had a lot more experience and he's very pateint. The thing is I,m afraid to be on top because of my weight and also ...
A. 9 December 2011: Personally I disagree with what person12345 said about the sitting position not feeling great. When I first had sex it was with someone who was a lot more experienced as well, so I was really worried about disappointing him. The first time I was on ... (read in full...)
No christmas or birthday card from my boyfriend, is it OK for me to be upset?
Q. I wrote on here a few weeks ago about how my boyfriend of 5 months didn't get me even a card for Christmas after I got him a $200 gift. My birthday was a week later and I did not get even a card for that either. Am I being a baby or do I have a r...
A. 14 January 2011: You're SO not being a baby about this. You deserve SOMETHING. Ask him about it, I can understand that sometimes it's a little difficult to confront somebody, but you need to keep communication open and honest in a relationship.
He might not like... (read in full...)
Nightmares every night!
Q. I have nightmares basically every night. Most involve someone/something I love dying, or running away from something or my LT bf cheating on me. Is there something wrong with me? It's getting ridiculous. ...
A. 11 January 2011: How long have they been going on for? It could just be a phase, it happens to me, but it passes after a week or two.
Maybe you're feeling stressed, but if the dreams bother you quite a bit, you should go to a counsellor, or at least talk about it w... (read in full...)
How do I make a kiss happen?
Q. How do you get around to the situation when you kiss a boy? im 15 and i never have, and i just dont know how to make it happen... help!?...
A. 9 January 2011: You shouldn't force a kiss to happen. They just happen of their own accord.
If you ever go to parties and there's a cute guy you see, go over and talk to him, if there's a spark then it usually happens after a bit of flirting.
But I think that y... (read in full...)
What do girls look for when they seek friendship?
Q. hey, i'm a guy and not all that comfortable around girls. What i'm really trying to do right now is to just get a bunch of girls as friends. I'm kinda a shy guy and I'm just wondering what I can do to become friends with alot of girls/ know what you ...
A. 9 January 2011: Just talk to girls as you would a boy. If you go to school with girls then you automatically have a common ground, you can complain or joke about teachers you have and make that initial connection with them. It's not much at first, but it's a ... (read in full...)
What does he mean? And were we flirting?
Q. A lad I know from school texted me saying 'what would you say if I liked you' I don't know whether to take this as: 'he likes me' or what? But i replied saying 'that i think you're quite cute and i don't know what i'd say' but I was talking to him ...
A. 8 January 2011: I think he's trying to tell you that he likes you, but isn't sure how to put it. Do you like him?
Yes, this is flirting. Have fun with it.
Good Luck
xx... (read in full...)
Is my friend just more mature or odd?
Q. My friends and I noticed that she's changed - She used to be really hyper around those she was close to, and she was really shy. Now we have noticed that she is really confident, to what she was before but, she still is a little bit quiet. She's a ...
A. 8 January 2011: She's probably just going through a phase. At your age, it's completely normal for people to want to find themselves. If she's always studying, then maybe she just wants to do really well in her academic things.
Why don't you talk to her? Don'... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm not over him?
Q. Okayy so I'm having ex problems. Me and my ex split up about three months ago, after being in a relationship for a year and three months. He got a new girlfriend TWO WEEKS after we split up, which of course, led me to believe, he had been ...
A. 8 January 2011: Maybe you aren't completely over him if you care that he thinks this.
If you want to prove it to him, and yourself, then ignore him. Forget about him.
Tell your friends that you don't want to hear about him.
Try not to care what he thinks, ... (read in full...)
I'm allowed to date now, and I think he might be a candidate for my first.
Q. I'm in the 9th grade, and my mom never wanted me to have a boyfried in middle school. So i've been at my high school for a semester now, and I'm starting to like this guy, so i've talked to him on facebook, and I think he knows that i like him, but ...
A. 7 January 2011: Well, ask him out. I know it can seem daunting, but just go for it. The worst he can say is no, and if he does, you can still be friends.
But it sounds like he does like you, whether he fancies you or not, I can't be sure, but it's definitely wort... (read in full...)
I told my close friend that I liked him and now I'm wondering if I was wrong?
Q. I have been very close with this guy I met and we have been friends. He emphasized on the being friends until he recently told me he liked me and was attracted to me. Then a few days later, I told him I did like him too but that's about it. Don't ...
A. 4 January 2011: You both seem to be a bit shy about this. All I can say is spend some time together, just the two of you, flirt a bit and just see what happens, bring up the fact that you both like eachother, or, if it feels right, go in for a kiss.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks there's no such thing as making love!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend thinks sex and love are completely different entities and that theres no such thing as making love. The other day i asked him, what if i had sex with another man is it okay? he said, no coz i wouldnt be having sex. What kind of a...
A. 4 January 2011: That's a really strange answer to give you. Talk to him about it. He might separate the two because sex isn't as emotional for men as it is for women, but most men I know would still say that sex with someone who you really love is different, so I ... (read in full...)
I think she says this just to make me feel good
Q. She says she's sexually intimidated by me, yet she's had quite a few sexual partners she's had 6 before me, she's in her mid 20's and has had some pretty wild sex from what she's told me, so how can she be intimidated by me, when we've been going at ...
A. 3 January 2011: How did she feel about her past partners? It could be the difference of casual dating vs loving relationship. It is odd that she would say that though, unless you're incredibly good and she doesn't feel like she's as good as you would like her to ... (read in full...)
Was it just a drunken mistake?
Q. My friend stayed at my house on new years eve! we had the house to ourselves! we are both girls by the way! and we had quite a lot to drink and then we went up to bed and we were lay there together in bed and all of a sudden my friend started to ...
A. 3 January 2011: I went pretty far with a friend, he was a boy and I'm a girl, so it wasn't confusing in the same way, but we didn't talk about it for six months afterwards. I was scared that it would ruin our friendship, but after we talked about it, I regretted ... (read in full...)
What is a soul mate?
Q. Is there such as a soulamate?...
A. 2 January 2011: I don't believe in soul mates. But what it means is basically just that person who you love so so much. You may have many partners in your life, but there will always be one or two who you love more than any of them.
The best thing I can think to c... (read in full...)
I don't get many girlfriends because I'm ginger!
Q. HI i am a ginger 15 teen year old. I dont get many girlfriends because im ginger!!!!! unfortunately.i geta lot of slaging at school but im used to it now! my last girlfriend only went out with me because i was class at sport. all my friends tell me ...
A. 2 January 2011: Kenny is right. It is probably more to do with confidence.
If you get slagged about your hair colour and you really believe that that is purely the reason why you haven't got a girlfriend, then you probably are lacking more confidence than you thin... (read in full...)
Was it just a drunken mistake?
Q. My friend stayed at my house on new years eve! we had the house to ourselves! we are both girls by the way! and we had quite a lot to drink and then we went up to bed and we were lay there together in bed and all of a sudden my friend started to ...
A. 2 January 2011: It didn't feel right for you, so I'd say that you're not a lesbian. As for her, she might have been experimenting, it might have been a bit of a crush which she was brave enough to act on under the influence, I'm not sure.
Does she seem like she ... (read in full...)
I'm a 40 year old virgin!!
Q. I think I may have blown it, so to speak. I am dealing with and trying to conquer social anxiety and other social challenges. Though through these challenges, I have remained a virgin and I am 40! I am worried that when I do start a relation...
A. 1 January 2011: Don't lie. Generally, people don't have a great first time. If the woman knows that you're a virgin she'll probably be more patient with you rather than being a bit put off. A woman who is worth losing your virginity with won't be freaked out, but ... (read in full...)
Guys just use me and never want a relationship.
Q. Well, I've live my life for 19 years now just. I still feel ugly and i still feel unloved. Everyman i've been with just nail and bails me or wants to be "fuck buddies". i feel used and i cant stop crying. I think im being a little over dramatising ...
A. 31 December 2010: This is a bit of a generalisation, so don't take it as gospel, but a lot of guys really want sex and there are a lot of jerks out there willing to use people to get what they want, but when they meet someone they like, they'll be completely ... (read in full...)
Feeling sad, friend just got engaged yet I know I won't be for another 3 years!
Q. My friend just got engaged after being with her bf for 2 year. I have been with mine for 2 and I know it'll be at LEAST another 3 before my bf ever even considers it [due to training for his job]. I feel a bit saddened. I know I shouldnt compare ...
A. 31 December 2010: Can I just ask, have you talked to him about the future much? Would he like to marry you someday? Why does his job training stop him considering engagement? I'd like to give you some helpful advice, but can you tell me a bit more first?... (read in full...)
New girlfriend flirts excessively and sits on laps
Q. So, I think my girlfriend is crossing some standard boundaries. We just started seeing each other. We are both into each other and she suggested we get into an exclusive relationship. I agreed. However, there has been 3 events that have turned me ...
A. 30 December 2010: It's up to you. If you both really like each other, then it's worth giving the relationship another chance. I'd like to point out that since you're still quite young you don't need to be looking for something serious, although she says she has ... (read in full...)
He wants to marry me... but won't leave the wife!!!
Q. He is married, says the wife and him are having problems but he cannot leave his wife and he says he wants to marry me. he knows my family but he is too possessive. why?...
A. 29 December 2010: A lot of married men who have affairs actually do love their wives. They tell the person they're sleeping with whatever they want just to keep them sleeping with them. I'd say you should dump him. If he really did love you, he'd probably speed ... (read in full...)
What do you reckon... Friends... or more???
Q. So theres this guy in my english and math class that i really like and i wanted to see what you think he thinks of me. He is usually really outgoing and hes that way around me to but one time when we were laughing about something he was looking at ...
A. 29 December 2010: He might like you. Obvious it's difficult to tell for people over the internet, but it sounds like he might.
Try talking to him and flirting a bit and see how it goes.
Good Luck
xx... (read in full...)
Guys just use me and never want a relationship.
Q. Well, I've live my life for 19 years now just. I still feel ugly and i still feel unloved. Everyman i've been with just nail and bails me or wants to be "fuck buddies". i feel used and i cant stop crying. I think im being a little over dramatising ...
A. 29 December 2010: I know emotions, 'needs' and alcohol can take over what you do very quickly when you meet someone you like, but I think you could be a bit more prudent, and not sleep with guys too quickly.
Try to get to know guys first and stop them if they try ... (read in full...)
New girlfriend flirts excessively and sits on laps
Q. So, I think my girlfriend is crossing some standard boundaries. We just started seeing each other. We are both into each other and she suggested we get into an exclusive relationship. I agreed. However, there has been 3 events that have turned me ...
A. 29 December 2010: I'd say, give her another chance after discussing the whole situation as maturely as possible, but if she flirts excessively with someone again after that then dump her.
It's not fair to you if she doesn't respect you and your feelings.
Good ... (read in full...)
How do I fall back in love with my boyfriend?
Q. I am 17 years old (please don't judge on my age, I'm very mature for my age and know what I want) and me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. At the beginning, I was madly in love with him. We had so much passion, so much ...
A. 29 December 2010: Is there absolutely no physical attraction or have you just become more relaxed in the relationship?
I know that you don't want to hear it, but if you don't love him, then there isn't any point being with him, or living a lie just because he stil... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend too!!!
Q. i am a 14 year old girl and my best friend always has a boyfriend and i dont always want one but then i do and i just dont know what to do plz help :)...
A. 29 December 2010: You have plenty of time to get a boyfriend. The thing is, when you end up with some one, it just happens. All you can do is hang out with your friends, go out, get on with your life as normal and you will meet somebody. Don't worry about it. People ... (read in full...)
Is this crush on my teacher normal???
Q. My teacher is incredibly handsome, funny everything I've ever looked for in a guy. But... I'm a student and it's clearly illegal to do anything. I fantasize about him and I can't think right when he talks to me.My class isn't a very big class and I ...
A. 28 December 2010: It is COMPLETELY normal. SO many people fancy their teachers. What you should not do, however, is tell him. But enjoy your crush while it lasts, you're young and it's fine to like him.
He obviously likes you (as a student, that is) and young peop... (read in full...)
I'm extremely shy, so how do I talk to this guy?
Q. Ok. There's this guy that works at the grocery store near my house that I find constantly looking at me whenever I'm shopping there. I don't know anything about him, but I do know that I find myself extremely attracted to him, and I'm almost ...
A. 28 December 2010: Start with "Hi". Then "How are you?". Ask him where something is, and tell him your name and that you've seen him around.
Ask him something about himself, like if he's in college at the moment.
Well, maybe don't ask him this all at once, but once... (read in full...)
Should I just cut my losses and go?
Q. I have been with my boyf for 3 1/2 years and we live together. Although I do love him recently I have been feeling dissatisfied with the relationship. He is overly critical, to the point of sometimes making me feel bad about myself, insists on ...
A. 28 December 2010: He doesn't seem to make you feel very good about yourself, the relationship isn't moving forward, and you have feelings for someone else. All the signs are telling you to move on.
Fair enough, you can't get this other guy, but finding somebody else... (read in full...)
My sister bullies me and undermines me all the time, What can I do to cope with this ?
Q. I badly need your help in coping with my sister. She's always bossing me around and tries to play spoilsport in whatever i do. It started very early when she even tried to sexually assualt me. I was 10 at that time and all i could do was run away ...
A. 23 December 2010: Distance yourself from her and ignore her. Talk to your parents about it and see if they can make her stop.
Good Luck
xx... (read in full...)
Am I too young for love?
Q. Am i too young to be in love ? I'm 15 years old. The guy i'm in love with is 2 months younger than me. We never officially dated, but we act like a couple. I have never fallen for anyone before, so i cant be sure if this is really love. I really ...
A. 23 December 2010: You are not too young for love. Psychologists and Sociologists have found that people as young as 8 have been known to fall in love. Just be with him. You obviously like him very very much. No one can tell you whether you are in love or not, but if ... (read in full...)
Complicated relationship
Q. I have (in my opinion) a very complicated situation. I really like this girl who lives in a completely different continent than I do. I met her in my old school, and shes nearly a year older than me. We didn't talk much to eachother since we were in ...
A. 23 December 2010: It is very sweet to send a card on Valentine's day, but in fairness, you haven't seen each other in years and if you've only chatted a few times about random things, then she could be a little freaked out by this quite forward gesture. I think that ... (read in full...)
Should we just stay friends?
Q. okay so i am 16 in high school i like this bot in my year as well we are both 16 and we are both single . i like him but i don't think he would ever see anything in a girl like me because i don't pile my make up on i do't wear my skirts that shor...
A. 23 December 2010: Try flirting with him. See how he reacts, if you pick up on him not being into you then stay friends, if he reacts positively then you can progress you relationship to the next stage.
You could ask him out if you feel brave enough. If he really does... (read in full...)
My fantasy for another man turns him off
Q. I am in my 30's and my husband thinks that I am the ice queen. He has told me numerous times that he thinks I need to be bolder in my sexuality. I finally told him that what really turns me on is fantasising about sleeping with another man (spe...
A. 22 December 2010: It's not weird to have this fantasy and I don't think that he should accuse you of having an affair, but I can understand him being jealous, especially if it's someone you know.
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I'm scared if I date this new guy he will just be a rebound and I'll want my ex back.
Q. Hey guys i need some help im sooo confused it killing me... well basically ive been with my boyfriend for now 3 years but he cheated on me in the 1st month of us getting together and since then we have been tryna work things out... its been up and ...
A. 22 December 2010: You could try going on a break, go on a few dates and see how you like it. If you an your boyfriend both do this then you can see if it's worth the effort to stay together or if it is time to let it go.
Good Luck
xx... (read in full...)
Will he just keep making remarks like that?
Q. im 14 and me and my bf are in year 10 and the satme set but the other day in spanish he was sitting with his mates and i was sittin with my mate on the other side of the room and he made a comment about my weight im not fat i juss have an eatin di...
A. 22 December 2010: You have to let him know that he can't make comments like that. Even as a joke. Because you're both still quite young, it's understandable that stupid and hurtful things may be said, so give him a second chance because you're both still learning ... (read in full...)
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