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I love how my life is going now, even though it wasnt always like this.
I try to make the best choices i can. And it really pays off.
I came to this website to help people and try to give the best advice.
So if you ever need to talk, i'll always be there.
R.I.P Taylor JD. I love you and miss you so much. 3/18/92-3/8/07.
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I want to lose my virginity but don't know where...
Q. I have found someone that i really like and want to lose my virginity to, but i dont where i should lose my virginty. I love the idea of doing it in a bed and then falling asleep and waking up together but im only 13 and live my parents and 2 ...
A. 6 July 2008: well if you cant find a place to have sex, then its obvious you should wait.... (read in full...)
What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?
Q. I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...
A. 29 June 2008: haha thats a bit over the top to dump her over rollar coasters. and not to add, a bit mean too. if she doesnt like them, then she doesnt like them. and not to be rude but you sound a little over dramatic. "Do i not go to Florida again and cut roller ... (read in full...)
I'm 6 mths pregnant and I hate what's inside of me, what do I do?
Q. im 17 and 6 month pregnant i dont feel i love this child i hate whats inside of me what do i do ...
A. 25 June 2008: find your baby a family who WILL love him/her.... (read in full...)
How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?
Q. Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work...
A. 25 June 2008: i agree with sugarcookie 100%... (read in full...)
My large breasts are a real hassle...should I get a breast reduction?
Q. This is kinda awkward 2 ask without sounding totally full of myself, but here goes. I have really big boobs, which i hate by the way, and my friends boyfriends always comment on. It makes me uncomfortable. They kinda look fake because im slim. They ...
A. 24 June 2008: i know some one who got a breast reduction. it really helped her because she was started to have back problems.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant, we already have 4 kids and I can't handle any more! She won't agree to abortion, any advice?
Q. My girlfriends pregnant again... We already have 4 kids, she popped the first sprog out when she was 15, had to stay with her ever since, i dont wanna leave her but i cant handle any more kids! Its doin my nut in! She wont get rid of it either., ...
A. 23 June 2008: stop having unprotected sex.... (read in full...)
When do I tell my ex about my new boyfriend?
Q. I recently split up with my boyfriend of 4 years because things hadnt been working out for me for a while and I'de actually met someone else. It came as a complete shock to him though and he was absolutely devestated and heart broken. I didn't tell ...
A. 23 June 2008: when he asks you to hang out/get back together/talk about your realtionship, thats when you tell him.... (read in full...)
She doesn't believe in sex before marrige, how can I bring her around?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been living in Banff, Canada for the summer and have met a girl that I really like who's a similar age. We've got with each other a few times and I've slept round her house after nights out and what have you......
A. 23 June 2008: respect her decision.
you didnt even mention in your statement whether you love her or not. she's saving her virginity for some one who she loves and loves her back. and it seems like you only want sex.
and for your comment "I just think it wo... (read in full...)
What's a good movie genre for a date? I want one that will make it easy to touch her hand or kiss!
Q. i'm due to go on date to cinema with my friend. I want to kiss her, but problem is there's no romantic film out to watch, in fact there's so many horror movies. Is horror movie good to watch? Any genre film which will make her or make it easy for me ...
A. 22 June 2008: what happens in vegas was a good movie. its funny and about love :)... (read in full...)
I'm worried about putting on weight if I take the pill. Are there ways to avoid it?
Q. I'm having to go on the pill, due to heavy periods and unbearable stomach cramps. However, I'm concerned of the side-effects... Apparently you can gain alot of weight, i'm not prepared to sacrafice my pain for that!!! I'm tall and fairly slim, this ...
A. 17 June 2008: i am exactly where your at. im starting the pill soon and im scared i'll gain weight again. i was on it before and gained 7 pounds. i have 2 other friends on the pill, one gained weight too and the other didnt. so i think it depends on the person.
... (read in full...)
My friend appears very self centered, causing most arguments in our group. What should I do?
Q. Okay so my bestest bud always feels bad for herself, even though she just gets really moody. We are both 15. I have a friend group of four girls at my school and shes constantly bitching to each of us about how she hates her life, and i know that ...
A. 15 June 2008: thats how my friend was. she was always talking about how much she hated her life. i thought that she was just having a couple bad days and that she would get over it. because i went through a lot of bad things in my life and i finally got over it. ... (read in full...)
Ex-fiance wants me back but I'm scared he'll turn out like his Dad and hurt me.
Q. I broke up with my fiance 3 days ago because he would rather hang out with some hottie instead of me and he has been cheating on me... now the girl didn't want him and went for his cousin and he wants me back and he said it's not over.. I said it ...
A. 14 June 2008: don't take this guy back. it sounds like the only reason why he went back to you is because his affair failed. If he really loves you like he says he does then he wouldnt of cheated on you. You did the right thing by leaving this jerk. Dont go back ... (read in full...)
Any tips on first kiss?
Q. So I went on a date with my girlfriend last night and I ws thinking about kissing her. But I havent had my first kiss yet and I dont know how to kiss? So I thought I need some adviceonhow to kiss a girl....
A. 13 June 2008: well if you just want to kiss her then give her a cute peck on the lips.
and if your talking about making out then just mirror what she does.... (read in full...)
Two months pregnant and my father wants me to have an abortion. My boyfriend gets very angry.
Q. Hi Im 2 months pregnant and found out 3 weeks ago. I am very confused about what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he is 7 years older than me he says he really wants me to keep the baby and we will get married when we are old ...
A. 13 June 2008: please keep the baby. and if you cant handle a baby right now just put it up for adoption. because abortions are so unfair. you had sex, you have to deal with the things that might come out of it..
i just know a lot of people who had abortion... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to marry my fiancee and keep things as they are with my boyfriend?
Q. I am not sure what i am doing anymore. I am due to get married very soon, but although i love him in a way, i am having an affair with another man. To make it all worse, it has been going on on and off for 8 years, the other man is married, and ...
A. 12 June 2008: Well when you get married it means forever. You obviously cant handle forever or this comitment to your fiance. You don't truely love him or else you wouldnt be cheating on him. What your doing is really unfair. So call off the wedding and then ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend won't talk to me. DON'T tell me to move on!
Q. i split up with my ex 8 months ago now and went through a faze for the first few months after breakup where i didnt talk to him. recently iv decided i really want him as part of my life again just as friends cos i miss his company. its not that i ...
A. 11 June 2008: well it looks like you've tried everything. You don't want me to tell you to move on. But im sorry, you really do need to move on. 8 months is a long time and this guy obviously moved on and now its your turn. There are better guys out there so just ... (read in full...)
Have nightmares all the time because I was sexually abused by my second BF, my first relation was also a failure so now I am hopeless and don't know how to work this out!
Q. Someone please help me. I feel so messed up. Early 2007 marked the time when my life begun to turn upside down. I went from being a innocent 17 year old who hadnt even kissed a guy or had a bf, to being a 18 year old in an emotionally, mentally, and ...
A. 11 June 2008: I'm so sorry about what your going through. I kinda went through the same thing a while back. So i understand how you feel. My advice to you is pay attention to only you. Don't rely on other guys to help make you feel better. All you need right now ... (read in full...)
My online guy wants to marry me even though we've never met!
Q. So, I may seem insane to you guys after asking this question.... I've been talking to this guy online for about 3 1/2 years. We've become good friends and both have been wanting to date for quite some time..but he lives in TN. Last year he joined ...
A. 11 June 2008: Well honestly i think you should atleast meet the guy first, in person. Because its so easy to talk over the internet and all that stuff. Not face to face.
I was talking to this guy over the computer last year and when i finally met him in perso... (read in full...)
I like this guy who keeps asking me for sex and I don't trust him. What do I do?
Q. thre is this guy that i met and he is 17 and i'm 15.he is really cute and i like him. we went out for 2 days and then i broke up with him cause he kept ansking me to hve sex with him and i do not feel like doing that right now and when i tell him ...
A. 10 June 2008: "he says he only wants me cause i'm still a virgin" (your words)
Thats a big red flag! So thats the only reason why he wants you? just because your a virgin. You sure got yourself a keeper. (sarcastic)
That obviously shows that you cant tr... (read in full...)
Guys say that I'm not good in bed!! What should I do?!?
Q. hi, i have fell in love with so many guys. but it does not last because they leave me at the end saying that am not good in bed. what do i do?...
A. 9 June 2008: maybe get to know the guy before you give yourself away so fast? It sounds like you think love is sex, when it's definitly not. Love is being able to be yourself around each other. And being there for each other. And having respect and cari... (read in full...)
Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?
Q. Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...
A. 29 May 2008: what are you doing?
this is rape.
how can you not know that?
stop seeing him.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hits me and calls me names. I don't know what to do.
Q. Ive bin with my boyfriend now for 2 years, at first he was lovely now he hits me pushes me, calls me names fat, ugly etc, wont help with the kids if he dont get his own way. one is his. he works in the day he comes home helps a bit with the children ...
A. 27 May 2008: leave him.
you dont deserve to be beat up and called names.
just leave him.... (read in full...)
I'm about to enter a relationship- I want to wait to have sex- when is a good time to tell him?
Q. im twenty and im about to start my first real relationship with this guy that i've dated for almost a year now. but i don't wanna get all worried about sex now, in order words, i don't wanna have sex now, I just wanna have a boyfriend with whom i ...
A. 22 April 2008: tell him if he brings it up.... (read in full...)
He wants me to stay and let him prove that he will never hurt me again?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years. He has been a really great partner and friend. However, he has cheated on me with around 7 women. All of whom he said he just had one time sex with. He has never told me or given me reason to ...
A. 7 April 2008: Definitly leave this jerk.
If he truely loves you then he wouldnt of cheated on you.
especially more than 6 times.
You deserve so much better than this guy.
Love isnt suppose to hurt you.
Love is suppose to be the greatest feeling ever.
... (read in full...)
I just want my younger bf to grow up and be able to take care of himself.
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months have been having problems recently. He is younger then me by 2 years(18 and I'm 20), and he pretty much left his old life (friends and even family that he doesn't get along with) to be with me and start something new. The ...
A. 7 April 2008: You are in a hard situation.
I think you should give that other guy a chance.
Cause maybe your boyfriend isnt right for you.
but mention to him that your going to hang out with a friend.
because its not right to go behind his back, you know? ... (read in full...)
I was assaulted by the man I was seeing last night, I'm scared to press charges though!
Q. I was assaulted last night by a guy I had been dating for a month or so. I thought I knew him well-ish, he comes into the pub where I work, where I have worked for 8 months. Seems a nice guy, hasd a past with drugs and alcohol abuse, but since ...
A. 16 March 2008: Well you really did the right thing. He did this to himself, not you. So don't blame yourself for this. And his family is just as bad as he is if they're not helping you. Press charges on him for sure. If you don't its just letting him know what... (read in full...)
How do I get over the self-induced death of my close friend?
Q. Today is one year since my friend, Taylor, committed suicide.That day changed my life and affected me in so many ways. I couldnt eat right or sleep right and picturing how she died overplayed in my head for so long. I had nightmares every single ...
A. 9 March 2008: thank you everyone.
it is a really hard thing to accept
but over the year ive realised that shes in a better place now
and i hope shes happy up there.
just sometimes i wish i could of done something.
cause she would always talk about how sh... (read in full...)
How do I get over the self-induced death of my close friend?
Q. Today is one year since my friend, Taylor, committed suicide.That day changed my life and affected me in so many ways. I couldnt eat right or sleep right and picturing how she died overplayed in my head for so long. I had nightmares every single ...
A. 8 March 2008: i wish she knew how many people loved her.... (read in full...)
Is sex wrong at young age?
Q. is sex a wrong thing at young age i need help because a girl wants to do it with me but i don't know help me please!!!!!...
A. 17 February 2008: Well considering your age i dont think your ready. Your not in love. And you say your just going to do it cause a girl wants to? thats not a very good reason. Wait until you feel its right. ... (read in full...)
What to buy him for Valentine's Day?
Q. Ok i need help.........ive been dating this guy for about 3 weeks.......and valentines day is 2 morrow!!!! his name is travis............he has a band called blue tornado and i dont no what to get him for valentines day!!! he likes heavy metal ...
A. 13 February 2008: Make him cookies or brownies and put them in a cute little box. :) And decorate the box with like guitar stickers, or something like that. All you have to do is get cookie dough or brownie mix and a box from a craft store.. It wont take that long. ... (read in full...)
Does a cheater deserve a second chance?
Q. My husband had an affair with his best friend but he says it never got physical. He admits his fault and wants me back. Should I give him a chance?? How do I guarantee that it will not happen again??...
A. 12 February 2008: Giving him a second chance might make him think "you forgived him once, you'll forgive him again." You know what I mean? I think giving him a second chance will just end up hurting you. And you don't deserve being hurt anymore. He knew he had a ... (read in full...)
I met him on line, do you think he is a pervert?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need some opinions from people. I have msn and lately some one added me on their msn list. I clicked him/she and asked them and it was a boy. He said he gave me his email. He said he was 17 and I saw his display pic so ...
A. 12 February 2008: Definitly a pervert. He doesn't even know you and is giving you the wrong kind of compliments. It might make you feel pretty/noticed, but you should stick with guys your age and guys you know. i hope you make the right choice. love, M!... (read in full...)
He's my soul mate, but I can't go on like this, how can I end it?
Q. For the past three years I have been in love with a man whom i beleive is my soul mate, but he and I are not together. He drinks, cant get his life together and is usually depressed. HE and I are both artists and connect on many deep levels but ...
A. 12 February 2008: Well what does soul mate mean to you? From what I read it sounds like you're saying a soul mate is some one who connects with you on deep levels. But doesn't love have a big part in the term "soul mate" ? and if he truely loves you he wouldn... (read in full...)
What shall I do if it gets to the point where he wants sex??
Q. Ive been dating this guy for about 5 months now and here it comes.. hes 18.. im 14 . yes i know thats a big age gap but i really love him .. Everything has been great so far but lately we have been talking about sex alot (i have a extremely perverte...
A. 11 February 2008: If he truely loves you like he says he does then he will wait until you're ready.
If you say yes and go along just to please him, then he'll probably end up using you and move on. And I really don't want that to happen to you.
Don't be scar... (read in full...)
Are my friends lying to me that he said I am ugly?
Q. I like this boy, but I heard he said I was ugly, although I have been told I am one of the prettiest girls in the year. Are my freinds lying to me??? His past girlfreinds are average looking and so is this girl from his training. So why have ...
A. 11 February 2008: Well first off, beauty isn't always looks. I wish people would just realise that and look at the beauty in the personality. And i bet you are pretty.
Inside and out.
And if a guy doesnt like you just because your not "pretty" enough for him, the... (read in full...)
It makes me so jealous when my bf talks about celebraties being fit...what shall I do??
Q. My boyfriend talks about models and celebrities being buff and good looking and it makes me sooooo jealous. I try laughing it off or talking bout celebrites being buff myself but that makes it worse!! I really dont like it. What shall i do?...
A. 11 February 2008: I think you should talk to him about it because holding in how you feel only makes you suffer and you don't deserve that. You deserve some one who makes you feel good about yourself. And when you talk to him about it, maybe he'll realise what he's ... (read in full...)
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