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I live in the Midwestern "small town" USA.
I want to be a psychologist. I really like to give advise to my friends and they all come to me. I can think logically and not get too much into the lust of the situation.
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I break out when I make out!
Q. So, when i make out with a guy i break out in hives on my chest. This has happened twice. I thought at first it was the cologne but now i beginning to think that maybe its nerves. I'm not sure. Has this append to you? or what do you think. Oh a...
A. 19 December 2010: Well it's happened first when i was nervous. and the second time i really didn't feel nervous. And i have made out with guys and i haven't had the hives. And as for the embarrassment i have just accepted it. Its not something that is in my cont... (read in full...)
Opinions needed, I just don't know what to do...
Q. Ok so this is what happend This girl and I were friends and this guy she had liked and sort of seen for a while and her sister's best friend got together. I kinda told the sister's best friend some stuff that she said that she wouldn't say to ...
A. 1 August 2010: I know this was a long time ago, but i did just apologize. She is upset that i lied but we had parted ways anyways and it was most likely for the best. Everything turned out well, thank you for the advice!!... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 7 September 2009: No not rlly We just kinda tlk lke frinds. im not sure if this is a good thing or not but ima just keep tlking to him. lol.... (read in full...)
I feel like I don't fit in because of my weight...are there any diets that work?
Q. im 29 married wit 3 kids.i work in the travel industry and feel i dont fit in due 2 my weight.im about 10 kg over weight.i just want to lose it quick and easily.i feel unhappy and unattractive because of my weight but just dnt have the willpower 2 ...
A. 6 September 2009: If you want to lose the weight and keep it off you have to change your lifestyle. Like being aware of what you are consuming, stop drinking soda, teas, ext or just reducing them, drink lots of water and milk, start going to the gym regularly and if ... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 5 September 2009: Yeahh i see him alot. Well this summer i did but i havent seen him for lke 2 weeks because ive beeen super busy. But i have been txting him... lol.... (read in full...)
I'm 14, the baby's father is 17, and I don't want him to go to jail
Q. Dear cupid,, Im 14 and possibly pregnant. My problem is I don't want my bf going to jail, he 17. My mom knows and is fine with it, his mom knows im 14 and she is also fine with it. IF I am pregnant (an accident I promise) then I would have the b...
A. 24 July 2009: If the sex was before he was 18, he might not be able to go to jail. look up the statutory rape laws for your state to be sure.
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I have same name crushes, am I crazy?
Q. Is it weird that I keep crushing on guys with the same first name? I'm fairly sure it's just co-incidence but has anyone else ever found the same thing happening to them? There are two guys that I have fancied for a few a years and they are both...
A. 23 July 2009: hmm its a pretti common name so i wouldnt worry bout it. Itd be diffret if so many people dnt have it.
But if it is a name crush as your saying thn it may have to do with a guy or character that you found very speical.
Good LuckXX
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I'm not having much luck getting a girlfriend
Q. I am in 8th grade at the moment and am not having much luck with a getting a girlfriend yet. I always try to be nice to girls and when in a relationship to be very sensitive to them and listen to them yet I still have no luck because all the girls ...
A. 20 July 2009: Wait for the right girl that likes you. There is a diffrent type of guy for every girl that we are attracted to.
I cant tell you why we like the as*holes, its hard to tell. Sometimes we can be blind to whats infront of us.
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We didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?
Q. hey, Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom about 2 weeks ago, I know we should have used a one we normally always do, it was just a spur of the moment thing. He didn't cum inside me but I'm worried I might be pregnant but I haven't had any ...
A. 20 July 2009: Yes there is a chance. Wait until you miss your period and get a preg test. And go from there.
Good LuckXX... (read in full...)
Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!
Q. I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...
A. 20 July 2009: Who is he to tell u you cannot dump him? You can do whatever yo want.
It sounds lke you might be bi but it could be a phase or just this girl. Time will tell you the answer.
Good LuckXX... (read in full...)
I broke up with her because my friends said I should. Now I want her back but she said no!
Q. there was this girl lets say she is called j and we went out and we really liked each other and it was great until people started making fun of me because j isnt the prettiest and i ignored them but then my own friends said they will fall out with ...
A. 20 July 2009: These "friends" of yours arnt good ones! they should care more about your happiness thn her looks.
But you did break up with her, so she can see whoever she wants without your permission.
I would tell her that you made a horrible mistake... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I want birth control?
Q. how can i tell my mom that i want birth control...
A. 19 July 2009: I was just reading the answer below mine. In my state it is 14(missouri) But you are able to look them up online just google statutory rape laws. and it will come up and you can see wht the legal age is. Most are 16 though. Best of LuckXX ... (read in full...)
Can you change a "commitment phobic" man?
Q. Can you change a commitment phobic man? He keeps coming in and out of my life. He has not had a g/f since me just retreats to his cave or goes out to dinner with his older friends. I know he loves me but his fear is so great He had been deeply ...
A. 19 July 2009: This is the rule that i would apply here,
DO NOT EVER think that you can change a guy. Take him for what he is. Or let him go.
But try to dig into his past and find out what happend and help him get throught that if you can.
Good LuckXX
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What is your meaning of life?
Q. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I thought maybe reading other people's raison d'etre might help me figure my own. So does anyone here know why you exist?...
A. 19 July 2009: I feel that i am her to help people. I always was the one who you could tlk to. I want to counsel and help those who mentaly need someone to talk to. I am here for my friends and family. I am here so as life unfolds infront of me ,and others, i can ... (read in full...)
I want to be more...
Q. I know there are many, many flat chested women in the world who are living life happily. However, I'm not one of them. I'm single, and it just seems so unfair that despite having a nice face/hair, taking care of my appearance, and dressing up well, ...
A. 19 July 2009: Please do not wish for big boobs. When you do have them on a small figure the guys all just want you for them and not for you. And its so much funn not being able to get that shirt cause it is made for the flat chested girls.
i have personal... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I want birth control?
Q. how can i tell my mom that i want birth control...
A. 17 July 2009: Dependant on the state you do not need to ask your mothers permission or have her take you to the doc. But if you want to just chat with her about why you want it. And make sure that she understands that you understand all the responsibility t... (read in full...)
Beaten and abused and I need a way out
Q. please help me..ok i am 16 years old and my mom is very physically abusive and verbally abusive towards me.i have been in state custody once because i reported her.i was in state custody for 7 mths and i loved it my foster parents were great.well ...
A. 15 July 2009: If she tries to pull you back. She may be able to. But also there may be a custody battle if your dad rlly wants you. But since you mom was abusive and you had been put in the states care for a while your dad would have a better chance.
And r... (read in full...)
Why does intercourse still hurt?
Q. why does intercourse still hurt if iv had sex at least 15 times?...
A. 15 July 2009: ok i no that this isnt what you want to hear, and you dnt ask this for a lecture. But probly because your body isnt ready for it yett.( im honestly not trying to be mean)
Be safeXX... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...
A. 13 July 2009: oh btw happy late b-day!... (read in full...)
I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...
A. 13 July 2009: If it makes you feel any better mi bestfrend just did that. Just a lil diffrent.
Ok she went out wit Austin for a while and he still has feelings for her and thinks that he is able to control her, but he id tlkin to another girl.
She and his b... (read in full...)
Condom split and her mom would kill me if she's pregnant!
Q. Hello there, Me and my GF are both 18 and we had sex the other day and the condom split and I 'cummed' in her. She is worried now and so am I about her being pregnant. She tells me that she is bleeding downstairrs and she always feels sick in th...
A. 13 July 2009: If it was less thn 72 hour you can get Plan B. Google it and see what u think. But hurry u only have a certian time that it would work.
You will have to wait a while to see if she is preg it wnt show up for a while..
Best of LuckXX... (read in full...)
My mum wants to meet my boyfriend but he won't even say hi to her. I can't please everyone!
Q. I feel like im supposed to please everyone, and its impossible and its really getting me down. I am in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend, but he wont come to my house or meet my parents or even say hello to them. this would be fine (b...
A. 13 July 2009: Maybe he is terrified of your parents. I have friends lke that who would rather not have to tlk to them.
Id ask him y he dsnt want to meet her and make him tlk bout it.
Or just tell your mom your not ready to introduce him to her and you will... (read in full...)
23 year old son sleeping with male prostitutes for the "kick". Should I tell his fiancee?
Q. My 23-year-old son is in university, and lives with us at home (purely for financial reasons - he is otherwise independent). He said to me the other night "Mum, I've got something to confess..." I was expecting it to be something academic-rela...
A. 13 July 2009: I would tell the fiancee. What if the curosity dsnt go away and he keeps sleeping around thn itd break the poor girls heart. Its her right to no because he is puting her at risk for STDs and herps.
But i understand that you wouldnt want your son... (read in full...)
Can someone interperate cyber language?
Q. i received a message from an online female friend who i care for so dearly and it read as follows: HATE YOU* what's with the asterisk? does it mean anything? i'm just not sure if it simply means that she hates me or more. i really wanna know what's ...
A. 11 July 2009: maybe she meant it as its important or maybe joking maybe it was supose to be lke *cough* idk. ask her.... (read in full...)
Should I be mad cause she had sex before me?
Q. Hey I got a problem that is threating to end my relationship. For some reason i keep getting mad at the fact that my girlfriend has sex in the past with other people. I have never felt this way twords someone and when i tell my friends my problem ...
A. 11 July 2009: What happend before you you cannot change and frankly are none of your business. It is your business to no that she has had other partners. But you should not judge her on that.
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What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 11 July 2009: No it wouldnt be consutal its statatoy rape.
But i got it over wit and saw him today and thank God he just went on as if i dnt say anything. But now i no that he nos who i am and has to kinda notice me so im happy bout how it turned out. So far a... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 9 July 2009: Yes i no and even if i spent time with him without mi parents permission. Up to 7 yrs. I have looked into this.... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my Mom about birth control when she doesn't want me having sex?
Q. im 14 turning 15 in a couple months...i've had sex twice but my mom thinks i've done it once. she doesnt want me to continue having sex because she's afraid of me getting pregnant of an std but i want to keep doing it...im being safe i've used a ...
A. 9 July 2009: ok depentant on the state, a parent is not needed.
Here in Missouri i can get the pill without my parents knowing about it. Because it it confedial. But that would also mean that i would have to pay for it.
Look up your state laws on it or ca... (read in full...)
She's only 15 and I have feelings for her, is it wrong?
Q. I really need someone elses imput on this situation.I have feelings for a girl I know. The problem is Im 18 and she is only 15. Most people would probably wonder why an 18 year old would want anything to do with a 15 year old. Im not a pedophile or ...
A. 9 July 2009: Hey i understand. Some are just more mature. Go for it but dnt let things go too far because i would hate to see you in troble. So if u take her out aviod things getting to intimate. There for stay clear where temtation could take over.
Good ... (read in full...)
What can I tell my depressed friend?
Q. So yesterday i got a call from a friend she needed to see me at wrk. She shows up and said i did it. With a guy lets call Jake. He is lke 17 and she is 14. He has slept around a lil and so i ust put my hands over my face.Then she told me where on ...
A. 9 July 2009: Sex and that her ex hates her. He feels lke he can control her but i am trying to make her understand that she is not his and never was. She gave his head but never had intercouse with him. but she had sex with her ex's best friend. so she feels bad ... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 9 July 2009: Ok he is 9 yrs older than me. I no i am horrible but i cant help it. (14 almost 15 and 23)
And his number is lke all zeros and one number so when a friend found it in a co-wrks phone she thought it was funni and told me.
Yea i have liked him fo... (read in full...)
What do you think he'll do when he sees me next?
Q. Ok so i lke this guy who is way to old for me. And i got his number and have had it for a few weeks and i couldnt resist anymre. So i txted him. Started out by saying Hey Sexy :) and i just made him guess who i was and it was so much funn. At the ...
A. 8 July 2009: how is that dangerous?... (read in full...)
Do men really only want women with big breasts?
Q. Do men really only want women with big breasts - my breasts are no bigger than Kate Moss's - I'm naturally small, but worry men will be disappointed when I get undressed !...
A. 8 July 2009: Whoever said that small breasts will stay young and perky not so much. Gravity will still take over no matter what. Yours just might not sink to your knees. Dont ask for more breast cause they suck and get in the way and cause you to have to wear a ... (read in full...)
I want a tattoo in remembrance of my grandfather
Q. ok. I have been thinking about this one for a very long time. My grandpa died a year and about 4 months ago and i would rlly like to get a tat in rememberance of him. he kind of lost himself because he had alzheimer's so most of my life h...
A. 8 July 2009: My mom told me to get an ankle bracelet. lol. She said that i would regret it. It was not up for a discussion. o well. Thnxs for the advice!!... (read in full...)
What is the right way to ask someone if...
Q. Okay, I'm female 14. I have this cousin a few months older than me. A few years ago when she was visiting this thing happened. I was outside and had decided to go back inside the house and then I heard giggling, so I went to the room it was coming ...
A. 7 July 2009: Its hard to say because the subject may be rlly sensitive to her. Start telling her about what he did to you, or maybe a story that you rmember from the visits that you remember, or maybe that day when you heard her giggle. It all depends ... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 7 July 2009: to some it might. To me it dosnt. Im still not sure if this is a good thing or not. lol. Im afraid that it might get me into some troble. Thanks for the discussionXX... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my weight?
Q. i have one question. i am 5"0 and i weigh about 79 my family and friends are worryed bout me but i don't make myself thow up i eat normaly i am a vegatarian so idk if this is bad. any help?...
A. 7 July 2009: Deff make a doctors appointment. It may be something to do with ur matablism so just go see what he says.
79 pounds isnt much but see what the doc has to say about it before you begin to wrry.
Best of LuckXX... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant And is it true that women don't ovulate while on the pill?
Q. Ok, so I'm on the pill, and I'm not very good at remembering to take it (sometimes miss over 3 days at a time) and recently had sex (3rd week of my cycle) using the withdrawal method, which I know isn't exactly the most effective method. I'm just ...
A. 7 July 2009: Yes you could be pregnet. The withdraw method is the method that only furture parents would use. Use a condom! Go get a preg test. Good LuckXX... (read in full...)
Brother molested me
Q. when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs ...
A. 7 July 2009: You need to tlk to the police first.
Thn go get your self help. Go see a counsler. What happend is not your fault at all! Do not let yourself think that.
Please tell the police because if he did this to you he might do it to others and hurt oth... (read in full...)
I don't want to use birth control and don't want her to get pregnant
Q. when is it ok for me to cum inside my girl???wit no pill and no condoms.. and please dont tell me to use a condom cuz its not the same and i dont want to hear .make her take pills.. ...
A. 6 July 2009: Nuva ring. Are you ready for sex if you just asked this question??? Is it ok? Sure it is but WARNING kids may be produced! Good LuckXX ... (read in full...)
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