Do you think this friendship is dead?
Q. A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me .Then we chatted almost all over the night for 2 months. He was always online and replied to my messages as soon as possible. He shares everything but never tells me that he loves me. Nowadays he ...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi, whilst he obviously likes you and finds you attractive, it is very hard to fall in love without physical contact. Every-day life gets in the way. People need to feel the person they are with in the same room as them, hold hands, kiss, hug... T... (read in full...)
Does my friend have a fetish for trans guys?
Q. Dear Cupid(s), I have a cis-male friend who identifies as gay. I don't know if this is something I have noticed being transgender myself, but the only guys he has outwardly said he's attracted to when we are out, or together have all been transge...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi, you know, life gets a lot easier when relationships are based on love: if this guy is flaunting his attraction to a number of people, he is not courting you specifically, which makes it sounds like he is after some casual sex. On the oth... (read in full...)
What will restore my faith in love?
Q. Dear Aunts, I got out of a relationship with my ex narcissist. I didnt know he was a narcissist until we broke up and he called me all kinds of names "fat, stupid, not sexy or attractive enough, sperm dish, boring etc" you name it. He humiliat...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi, it sounds like you need some time out to recover from your bad relationships. Celebrate your lucky escape from a man who would not have respected you nor made you truly happy! You are still very young and have all the time in the world to fin... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out, I don't know how
Q. I went to a school for 9 years, this year I switched for high school. I had a close friend at my old school. She is very nice and very pretty. I have not communicated with her in the last few weeks. I want to ask her out, but I am not sure she feels ...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi :)
Call her, ask her how she is, what she's been up to since you last met and then ask her if she'd like to meet up.
If she says yes, either ask her when she's free to meet and what she might like to do or suggest something you'd like to share... (read in full...)
How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.
Q. How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi,
I really hope you have left him already, but if you are still unsure, please, report him to the police.
People like him really need to understand that they cannot get away with violence: they can and will be arrested, if only they are reported... (read in full...)
I want to talk to my boyfriend about my miscarriage but I am too angry with him
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year. He made it clear from the start he didn't want more children, he has a daughter from his relationship with his ex wife, and I have a daughter from a relationship in my late teens. My ...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi,
I am so sorry for your loss and pain.
I've been there twice, so I know how hard it is... on both parents, even when a pregnancy is unplanned.
You know, the first time I miscarried, nobody thought of my husband's pain; also, some people expec... (read in full...)
How do I get my friend interested in the dating scene?
Q. Hi everyone, this is surely going to be a very long question and I'd appreciate any genuine answers as I'm doing this for a friend I care about. So my friend has had a pretty straight yet unusual growing up. Went to a boarding house for 6 year...
A. 2 May 2017: Hi,
I think you have your answer in what you write:
'he avoids the question'.
If your friend does not wish to discuss his dating experiences or lack of, you really just need to leave the subject alone.
He is probably hoping to fall in love som... (read in full...)
What do you do when your bridal party and family cannot get along while making plans for your wedding shower and bachelorette party?
Q. What do you do when your bridal party and family cannot get along while making plans for your wedding shower and bachelorette party? I have a Pinterest board setup and shared it with my bridal party and they are having opposing views on what they ...
A. 1 May 2017: First of all, congratulations on your upcoming wedding :) Your predicament reminds me so much of when I was asked to organise a similar event: my experience was that the women invited all wanted to do something simple and not spend a lot of money, ... (read in full...)
Advice on how women feel about orgasms please?
Q. My question is for the ladies out there - do you need an orgasm to enjoy sex? Most women I've ever been with have said they don't so I always took that to be true, but the one I'm with now says she does want and expect an O every time... Now I fee...
A. 30 April 2017: Well, put it this way: do YOU need to ejaculate in order to enjoy sex or are you happy enough for your partner to have all the satisfaction? Women need a while to get aroused and once they do, it is very frustrating/disappointing to be left hanging ... (read in full...)
Is this something to stick with?
Q. Now just so you know my partner does not want to leave me ....however should I leave him??? I have been through a lot in life I grew up with a compulsive liar for a mother (not spoke to parents for 2yrs)..I have also lost a child when he was 11yrs ...
A. 30 April 2017: Hello, first of all, I am so sorry for all your pain. You are still grieving, which is natural and necessary. It is important that you acknowledge that, because it is all too easy to think that we are being unreasonable and too imperfect for th... (read in full...)
Best friends--to choose or not to choose?
Q. ****My first question was incomplete, ignore. Please answer this one!**** I am friends with these two guys for about 9 years. They are both married. I noticed over the past 4 years the relationship with the two of them crossed over so many bou...
A. 29 April 2017: If it is friendship they feel for you, there will be no jealousy.
If you feel that they are actually in love with you, than you really should ask yourself how good a friend you have been to them: would a true friend cause her best friend to a) emot... (read in full...)
Why are my friend's parents so strict with her?
Q. So we have this one friend fake named April She's usually shy and quite and real shy. Her parents are real strict like she can't have over nites and can't go to them. Her parents don't let her get a job or a license or eve walk to the corner store ...
A. 29 April 2017: Hi :)
I think it is great that April has such a caring friend in you, but she is 14, not an adult, so neither of you need to worry that she is missing out: she is protected, but will soon enough grow into an independent woman.
My father used to ... (read in full...)
Will men I date care about my living situation?
Q. I'm single. I haven't dated in the dating market because My self esteem is so low and I always have ran to men that have been self centered and have taken me for granted - anyways I always have this issue of living at home- at the moment I am ...
A. 29 April 2017: Hi,
you know, if you live with a relative because you are looking after them or supporting them, you are proof of how strong and loving you are.
I met my husband when I was 28 and I lived with my dad. I used to feel just like you do now, to the e... (read in full...)
How do you learn to love yourself?
Q. I need relationship advice... Not your normal relationship advice though... I've really been struggling to get into a relationship since I started dating which was 8 years ago (i'm 25 now). Only ever had flings *rolls eyes x infinity*. A...
A. 29 April 2017: Hi :)
It has taken me many years to develop self-love and I think I know why:
from childhood, we watch to people around us for guidance, we learn about what's correct, what's seen as normal and acceptable. At first, we learn from our family, ... (read in full...)
I want to communicate more openly with my mother, but how? And once a girl is not a virgin, does one tell a parent or not?
Q. Hi I'm 17 and will be going to university this year. I've always been really independent and mature (so I've been told many times) and apparently act beyond my years. I guess I've always felt the need to be independent, considering my father being ...
A. 28 April 2017: Hi :) You know, it is perfectly normal to find difficulty in discussing personal issues with your parents, so... 1- no, you do not have to tell your mum if and when you have lost your virginity, but you may wish to ask her for advice. I neve... (read in full...)
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