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I am 20 years old and am currently dating, but not in a serious relationship yet, and I am keeping my options open.
I am always willing to help others in need, and am willing to offer a shoulder to cry on or some supportive words when someone needs it. I have lots of questions myself, and am not sure of a lot of things, so I hope many of the aunties and uncles out there will be willing to share their wisdom and experience with me to help get me along as well. |
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New man doesn't want me to go to fetish party
Q. I arranged to go to kinky, fetish-scene party while single but now have new boyfriend who doesn't want me to go. Am I being unreasonable still wanting to go, even though he doesn't like it, and is not into that. He thinks I will be looking for ...
A. 27 February 2017: I think there are a few things to consider. This is a new boyfriend. Commitments in a relationship grow over time, and a new relationship may not have any strong commitments developed yet. Only you and your bf can actually define how stron... (read in full...)
I need a way to get him to meet my desires
Q. My boyfriend and I are busy people. He works 6 days out of the week,8 hours per day. I'm in school part time and works 40 hours a week. Therefore, when we are together, I want to cuddle and have sex. He just enjoys my company. I talked to him about ...
A. 20 September 2016: I do not think you are wrong for feeling that you need more from your bf.
Please talk with him and let him know what you are thinking, that your care a great deal for him, and that you just would like more physical contact with him.
Perhaps... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband go down on me?
Q. Hello everyone! Thank you for your time reading this. I have a simple, yet extremely embarrassing question. I'm a "happily" married woman with two girls and 4 months pregnant. We live a moderate life,go to church and spend time with ou...
A. 8 September 2016: You could also put the issue on hold until after your pregnancy. Some men feel differently or uncomfortable about some sexual activity with pregnant women. I would recommend enjoying your current pregnancy, and after the birth of your next chi... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend always want to cum on my face?
Q. When me and my boyfriend have anal sex, he always wants to cum on my face after. I don't mind once in a while but not every time. I have blown him many times and swallowed many times. Can anyone tell me why he wants this all the time ? ...
A. 6 September 2016: Different people have different things that turn them on.
Without actually asking your boy friend why, I think is is hard to be exactly sure why he is doing this to you. He may even think that it is something you like him to do.
You men... (read in full...)
How can I combat these rumours?
Q. Recently a male friend of mine became my worst enemy when I turned down his proposal. Now he is spreading false rumours of the kind that I was in love with him. What shall I do?...
A. 15 August 2016: False rumors are terrible. I feel for you, it is horrible when someone intentionally creates hurtful feelings against someone.
Are the people, hearing the false rumors about you, actually people you care how they think of you?
If you care t... (read in full...)
He earns 8 times what I earn. Is it fair that I contribute 50 . 50 for all dating costs
Q. I've been dating a guy for about 6 months, he earns very good money (about 8 times what I do), should meals out/ trips away be split 50 / 50 , or should he be expected to pay more as he is the higher earner and had a lot more disposable cash than me ...
A. 9 August 2016: In my opinion, if you paying half bothers you, then it is a real issue that should be addressed.
Did you ever express to him that money is an issue for you? Did you ever let him know that it bothers you to pay half?
Please try to talk this... (read in full...)
I want to date him but I don't want to rush things. Do I tell him now or give it time?
Q. Opinions please!!! So I am newly out of a long term relationship, and after it was over, but before I was moved out a met a guy. I was attracted to him physically but that was about it. Anyways long story short we ended up hanging out, talking, ...
A. 27 July 2016: In my opinion, I think you should express your feelings now, and as honestly as possible. Over time you may not feel the same way, so there is no time like the present to be honest with him. The worst that can happen is that he just does not feel ... (read in full...)
Did it mean anything or was it just the drink?
Q. Hi. I need help to figure out this guy's behavior. We have been friends since a long time now and went out on dates as well. We never had a physical rel but he knew I was into him. He is an introvert and too shy to even ask me out for dates. He ...
A. 26 July 2016: I think is is always risky to trust what someone says when they are drunk (or under the influence of anything).
I agree with honeypie on this one, he may just want to see if he can get you to drop your panties.
See if you can get him out for ... (read in full...)
Am I being a controlling boyfriend?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 years and we're finishing up college this year. We go to different schools but love each other so we've made it work long distance. The problem is that she's been partying a lot more. She traveled across ...
A. 18 April 2016: It has been 6 years, and people do change. And as things change, hopefully the two of you can compromise and change together. With compromise, each of you agree to try some new things that may seem different at first, but might just suit your ... (read in full...)
Can't turn back the clock on what I saw
Q. Hi Aunties A few weeks ago I walked in on my boy friend masturbating in my bedroom. He has a key to my apartment, and I let him sleep there during the day when he works nights and I am at work. At the time it happened, he didn’t know that I ...
A. 27 January 2016: WiseOwlE,
Thank you for your reply. I actually did mention it in my original email, I just wasn't as clear as I should have been:
(...My boy friend then said he would like to try to do things with me there to see if he could start to get ove... (read in full...)
Can't turn back the clock on what I saw
Q. Hi Aunties A few weeks ago I walked in on my boy friend masturbating in my bedroom. He has a key to my apartment, and I let him sleep there during the day when he works nights and I am at work. At the time it happened, he didn’t know that I ...
A. 26 January 2016: Thank you aunties for your advice,
I'm sorry, but I don't think I made myself clear as to what my bf wants to fix the problem. He would like to masturbate with me watching to make him feel less uncomfortable with me seeing him pleasure himself.... (read in full...)
How do I handle this? I walked in on my boyfriend while he was masturbating
Q. My bf has a key to my apartment. When he works nights, he likes to sleep in my apartment during the day because my apartment is quiet, and his apartment is often noisy during the day and he has trouble sleeping in his place. Recently, I got...
A. 20 January 2016: Tottochan,
Thank you, sounds like a great idea. Any suggestions as to how to make the topic seductive to make him less embarrassed?... (read in full...)
How do I handle this? I walked in on my boyfriend while he was masturbating
Q. My bf has a key to my apartment. When he works nights, he likes to sleep in my apartment during the day because my apartment is quiet, and his apartment is often noisy during the day and he has trouble sleeping in his place. Recently, I got...
A. 14 January 2016: Thank you everyone for your advice.
I am still not sure if I should talk with him. I don't want to embarrass him in any way, but I am still concerned that he is handling my clean undies, and when he is done, he puts it back with my clean lingerie... (read in full...)
How can I explain to my guy in a good way what I want sexually?
Q. Hi aunties and uncles, I know this is silly but I need to figure out a way to explain to my new partner how unsatisfactory sex with him is. everything is in shambles, we being dating for 3 months and have only had sexual intercourse 2 times so far a...
A. 21 September 2015: Have you ever tried to guide you bf to how it feels good for you? There are times that I have changed positions, a little at a time, to get to the position that makes things feel best for me. Or there have been times I have moved my bf's hand to a ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want more experience?
Q. Is it wrong to want more experience? Hi. I am Amy and I am 20 years old. I have been with by bf Ken for about 8 months and we have been having sex for about 6 months. Ken is the first adult man I have ever had sex with. He is 25 and has had othe...
A. 21 September 2015: Thank you everyone for your answers. It did make me better understand what my bf Ken was thinking. I did ask my bf Ken if he feels we should break up if I am going to be with other men. Ken made it clear that he wants us to stay together, and th... (read in full...)
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