Doesn't "natural" feel better?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about condoms but I'm wondering if intercourse is more pleasurable if you can feel a boy's real penis and semen rather than just rubber?...
A. 8 February 2009: Use condoms usless u want an std or anything like that. its better to be safe than sorry and thats my advice, take it or leave it. It may be more pleasurable doing it "natural" but always better to use protection which is a condom and the morning ... (read in full...)
Why do guys not like long distance relationships?
Q. When the girl wants a relationship and guy a agree to do so but it always ends up the guy moving away(to another state). Then he breaks up with the girl because of the long distance...... Why do guys don't like long distance relationships? ...
A. 11 January 2009: its not always guys that dont like them, i know what its like infact i was with someone which was a LDR, she couldnt cope not seeing me that much so she broke-up with me. she wanted to be with someone she could see all the time and be with and so ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with her or should I forgive her again?
Q. hallo, I'm kind of confused. I have a gal for four years now and it seems each year, she has an affair and call me lucky but I always find out about it. well, now it's a couple of weeks into the year and I happen to have the password to her email ...
A. 9 January 2009: Ok, first of all no partner should cheat if there's love from both sides.
As for you and your partner well it's that time, bells are ringing and the fight is over. She should have learnt from the 1st time you forgave her but it's very clear sh... (read in full...)
My g/f said "I don't want to hurt you I want you to hurt me"?
Q. Alright, I have one that's been kind of in the back of my head for awhile. My girlfriend recently told me, "I don't want to hurt you, I want you to hurt me." Every once and awhile it has come back up in my head and I wonder what that means. It's ...
A. 9 January 2009: Ok, well you have left something out like - When did she say that to you, In what way did she say it. I doubt it'll be the party ender because it would hurt you too if you was to break up so its got to be foreplay or as anon said a little spankin... (read in full...)
Does he not like me or am I being irrational?
Q. Hey everyone, well I'm not that good at this relationship game, first guy i was with cheated, 2nd texted/ called all the time, every day.. and so on. Anyway I met a guy in ton last Sat and i gave him my number, he text me first 3 days, then misse...
A. 8 January 2009: Ok, what i dont get is that with the 2nd one you met he txted and called all day and every day but now with this new guy which had txted you 3 days in a row missed a day and hasnt txt today which is now making you think he isnt interested in you.. ... (read in full...)
Losing the nerve to contact him
Q. Hey everyone! Met a guy over xmas, and we've been emailing everyday. We did swop numbers... and I really want to text him, but when it comes to putting his number in... I lose my nerve? Am I crazy? I just keep talking myself out of it! Any advice? ...
A. 8 January 2009: Do as Ginalolabridga has advised, take out your fone, type a msg and when it comes to puttin in his number put it in and send it. Just go for it, you dont have out to loose, if anythin you gain.
Try not talkin yourself out of txtin him and txt ... (read in full...)
I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside!
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship. I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside! And I'm definitely not ready for a new relationship, yet. I still love him and care about him to bits, but ...
A. 8 January 2009: I dunno where my post went to.. well anyway, you shouldnt have to put up with being hurt all the time and being treated like shit, try to not think about him and i know its very hard not to but you have to move on with your life. One thi... (read in full...)
I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside!
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship. I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside! And I'm definitely not ready for a new relationship, yet. I still love him and care about him to bits, but ...
A. 8 January 2009: What ed1337 has said is right on the mark, cut all contact and it will very much hurt when this kind of thing happens. My ex moved on the same day she called it off with me, i know she did and have my reasons too. It hurt to see she had moved on... (read in full...)
My relationship seems to be going into meltdown at the moment.
Q. Hi I wanted to get some advice because my relationship seems to be going into meltdown at the moment. My girlfriend and I have dated a for nearly 2 years over the last 3, (we broke up after a year and got back together again last year). The pro...
A. 8 January 2009: I'm with sandra here plus i would advise you to move on, she doesnt seem bothered to reply at all to anything you've sent her which could also mean she may be hiding something or someone, remember she cancelled for the same reason each time, wouldnt ... (read in full...)
I get embarrassed because my nipples stick out too much.
Q. I have small boobs and my nipples seem to stick out really far. They stick out abut a centimetre. Is this a turn off for men, I get embarrassed by them!...
A. 7 January 2009: It's not a turn off at all and you really should love your own body, if someone doesnt like you because of your nipples being the way they are then they have a problem not you ok. If you feel you want to talk, then feel free to msg me. Dont ... (read in full...)
Do all guys find it sore?
Q. Does every lad find it sore when the skin at the top of their thing is pulled back....iv never done it to my boyfriend but he told me before i started giving him handjobs that it would be sore!! But wouldnt that kinda go back if we were to have sex? ...
A. 7 January 2009: Here's a web site for more info about "phimosis" and what can be done to help.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/diseases/facts/phimosis.htm
"About one-fifth of men worldwide have been circumcised, mostly for religious and cultural reasons when the... (read in full...)
Can I still get pregnant?
Q. ok here is my problem well i had unprotected sex about two weeks ago so i got my period 5 days late i thou i was pregnet but i got my period.......but the day before i got it i had sex agian and he came inside can i still get pregnet???????????????...
A. 5 January 2009: Like others have said, i agree with them about the risk of getting an STD which should be your main concern in not catching.
Why do most young men and women think they can get away with not wearing "protection" or taking the "pill" at the very lea... (read in full...)
Have any aunts/uncles here ever met up and got on ok?
Q. I was just wondering (seeing how everyone on here seems to know the rights and wrongs of everything and can give perfect answers to everyone) if anyone had met each other as agony aunts/uncles on here and were now in a successful relationship? ...
A. 13 May 2008: Anon, what is your problem?
If you dont like what others say fine, dont read it.
I dont see anyone in a "pissy attitude" here.
Everyone here is aloud to have their own views posted and i dont see out wrong with that.... (read in full...)
One night stand...but I don't regret it, should I?
Q. Right, straight to the point! I lost my virginity on a one night stand, and it doesn't seem to bother me that I slept with a random boy. Am I stupid for not being bothered that I don't want to be involved in a reltionship with him? Please hel...
A. 13 May 2008: If you didnt regret it then why are you here askin?
I wouldnt say you was a "slag" with it bein only once.
Not stupid but silly as it was your first time, it will be with you, you'l always remamber it for a very long time.
I do hope you b... (read in full...)
Have any aunts/uncles here ever met up and got on ok?
Q. I was just wondering (seeing how everyone on here seems to know the rights and wrongs of everything and can give perfect answers to everyone) if anyone had met each other as agony aunts/uncles on here and were now in a successful relationship? ...
A. 13 May 2008: None of our answers are perfect, its just advice, the ones who asked the question choose to use it and if it helps them alot then great :)
Every person on the planet is perfect but not in the way alot would say. We're all the same as in human be... (read in full...)
I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?
Q. i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a ...
A. 13 May 2008: Hmmm.
1st of all, did you both talk about the abortion and agree?
If not, why not?
You see, your both in this together, so you both need to agree on whats at hand with what is best for both, not just what you felt. That kinda goes one way, wh... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help
Q. my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...
A. 12 May 2008: Ok Cuddlybear, listen...
He doesnt love you ok, he doesnt put you before anythin, doesnt care about you, doesnt care about your feelings your wants or even needs. In fact, he doesnt respect you at all.
To be honest, your better off with out him... (read in full...)
Should I just let this go and completely forgive him and believe that I'm the best?
Q. This is a weird situation and I don't know how should I feel... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves me a great deal, as he supported me through depression, always does his best to make me feel special and is v...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi there..
He's tried to explain to you that what you did was pathetic, that you didnt need to do or go that low to get someone to notice you, to even like you. It doesnt work like that really.
I see that he still loves you a great deal and h... (read in full...)
How long is too long on a break?
Q. My gf and I split up just over a month ago after 18 months to have some time apart etc. She said she did want to get back with me eventually. Its been a month and all she says is that she doesnt want a bf at the moment however I still see her and ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi sal139..
It's very simple yet hard to move on but you've waited long enough for her to say whether or not she wants to be with you. It will be hard to forget about her and move on but by what you're sayin she's kinda movin on and keepin y... (read in full...)
Are there any men out there not obsessed with porn?
Q. I was in a long term relation-ship with a guy who was far from the type who goes after big breasted bimbos, and who was interested in feminism and wanted his girlfriend to be his intellectual partner. Sounds great.But it turned out that he had huge ...
A. 11 May 2008: Well, let me be the 1st to post here on this one..
I dont really watch it apart from the odd once, i much prefer to be intimate with a woman then porn.
Porn to me is somethin to watch and play about when your alone but when with a woman, wo... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he let me meet his family?
Q. ok ppl i neva did dis b4 but i need your advice on something ok i have been wit this boy for basically 4 months already n we are in love we have a great relationship we neva fight or anything but im so confused of why i he hasnt let me meet his ...
A. 11 May 2008: Your bf could be wantin you to meet his family when the right time comes or that their are problems with his family.
You wont know till you both sit down and you ask him why havent you met his family yet, also say your ready to meet them and reas... (read in full...)
He asks my friends to do naughty things, should I trust him?
Q. hi, i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont kno...
A. 10 May 2008: My advice is to move on.
If this is what he's doin now what could he be doin in a cupple of months time or even years later..
Think about your self.
I cant see how he can love you really when he's askin your friends to show parts or even al... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!
Q. please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...
A. 10 May 2008: hey Mac.. Your not alone dude, but dont give up now. I'm the same as you, a virgin only not so shy now and i'm around 2 years younger than you. I was like you are now very shy, i've had help with it by talkin to people online (it really do... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Come on, you should know better than to do that!!
thats sick that your goin round swallowing alot of guys sperm, guys that you dont know, dont know what they have, you know thing at all about them..
you try tellin someone u fancy and wantin... (read in full...)
I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...
A. 4 May 2008: Well, why didnt you both use protection?
Protection is there for us all, not to look at or to put on display but to use and to stop STD's..
Come clean with your parents about it, sorry but this is a mess you and your bf got in to and so you ne... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this cycle and find someone real?
Q. I'm going to be 20 in 2 months time and I'm still a virgin and have never had a boyfriend I'm starting to think I'm going to be alone forever. I dont think it's a problem with my physical appearance, but more with my personality, I'm intensly shy ...
A. 4 May 2008: Well, things have a way of workin out, they always do so dont worry.
If your shy, try somethin that will help you like bein on cam with someone and they have there's on, thats what worked for me in not bein shy.
I know how you feel, there is a... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but I told him I wasn't. Will he be able to tell?
Q. theres this guy who i was nearly going out with. i'm a virgin, but for some stupid reason i came up with this story that i wasnt and he believed it. i was just wondering, if i had sex with him, would he be able to tell that i am a virgin or not? ...
A. 3 May 2008: Well, untill your 16 i would advise you not to have sex (legal age is 16 in the uk)..
I would say he may know if your a virgin but not alot of info was given about him, his age.. He may know as you would hurt alot in that area, may bleed, maybe mo... (read in full...)
Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin?
Q. This is a question for the guys. I'm in my early twenties and I'm a virgin. I'm saving myself for the right person. Do men prefer experienced women? Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin. What are your views please? thanks alot...
A. 3 May 2008: Everyone starts out as a virgin, some meet those with experience and some like you and me (me bein 24) wait for the right person.
It isnt wrong to wait, it shows you have respect for your body and yourself and much more.
The guy for you may ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex. The test was negative but could I be pregnant?
Q. Im under 16. i had unprotected sex around the 25th of March. its now may.. I Took the morning after pill the 2nd day after sex, i then had my period (In March) but in april i missed a period. Ive taken the pregnancy test and it said Not Pregnant. W...
A. 2 May 2008: I agree with Emilysanswers and also why did you have sex way under the legal age?
You both can be in alot of trouble for this plus it was unprotected sex... what was you thinkin?
What if you have an STD? (sorry Emilysanswers but you put an I... (read in full...)
I'm considering having sex with my longterm boyfriend, however I'm extremely worried about the pain!
Q. It's approaching my 16th birthday and Im considering having sex with my longterm boyfriend, however I'm extremely worried about the pain. The non-virgins among my friends have all said it hurt and Im really scared. Is there anything I do to...
A. 2 May 2008: 1st of all, i'm glad your with the law on havin sex at 16.
all i can advise you to do is take it slow, talk to each other with havin sex, if he goes too fast and its hurtin then tell him to slow down, also use protection and maybe take the morn... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 30 April 2008: I say keep up with the charges and dont stop till its all done with..
Your parents have you as their daughter and from what you said, its like they couldnt care as much what you were goin through.. Have they got a any feelings in side of them for... (read in full...)
My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 30 April 2008: Your BF is will never change, not one bit..
He tell's his mates (if you can call them that) everthin about your 1st time together, what happend and all the little things... All that shouldnt be told/said to anyone!!
Look here, from what you ha... (read in full...)
Chastity before marriage is still demanded in our country, and I lost mine to the wrong man, what should I do?
Q. I need help. a year and half ago I met this guy. He was from another country and 25 years older than me. He was divorced with kids. He was an alcoholic.I saved his life when he relapsed.He pursed me for months. I finally gave him my heart and lost ...
A. 29 April 2008: Well, it doesnt sound so good that you lost it to someone you now regret.
Not much you can do about it now but live on and meet someone better than him.
Your not an idiot or a freak, we all learn from things we do or have done.
Move on... (read in full...)
I really want to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are moving in together for college next year...What do you think?
Q. I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. We don't use condoms, but we do use birth control pills...Well, I suppose that the correct wording would be that I use birth control pills for our pregnancy-free benefit. So, ...
A. 29 April 2008: I agree with anon and also, have you ever put thought in to whether it's wise to have unprotected sex with STD's around..
Did you both lose it with each other or with someone else? if with someone else did you both get a check up done to make sure... (read in full...)
Do guys only want fun after coming out of long term relationships?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm writing to ask if guys are only looking for sex/fun after a longterm relationship. Im 15 and recently started having feelings for a 17 year old, but unfortunately he has just came out of a 2 year thing. He has shown no sign ...
A. 29 April 2008: Their is no one answer for this, sorry..
Some guys do have fun after a long term r'ship, some dont and some try again with someone else.
If you do go through with it with him, you really need to take it slow, dont rush out and dont put too muc... (read in full...)
I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!
Q. My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...
A. 29 April 2008: Damn to the line "mobile phones are as private as a persons diary and no one should ever look at them", thats seems like she opened the door their or at least shown you the door, your opened it..
As anon has said, did you get to look at the date... (read in full...)
Who do you think passed on the infection? I feel so alone, trapped, scared and stupid...
Q. I now have an STD. I feel soooo unlucky. Since my ex left me for the other women i tried to move on from him. I met someone at a bbq and 6 months later we slept together. The condom came off inside me (I dont think it fit him correctly). He also ...
A. 27 April 2008: There is in deed a chance you dont have an STD, if anythin a 50 50 chance so dont look at it as though its over.
Its possible to get it sorted before things really do get worse aswell.
Take your mind off that and put it on your kids till you hav... (read in full...)
I just give and give. It is so one sided. Is it worth it?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. i love him soo much. i do anything he wants, he hasnt got a job or a license so i drive him everywhere and buy stuff for him. he doesnt invite me out, blames me on our problems and makes me chose ...
A. 25 April 2008: That aint love their, thats him usin you plain and simple..
Sit him down, have a long talk about all of this and if he still carries on, leave him.
You can only take and do so much before if effects you.
How long before your the one needin to as... (read in full...)
This is a cry for help from the Love Triangle!
Q. Help!The following is one part confession, one part cry for help. I need all the replys I can get. 5 yrs ago my boyfriend of 6 yrs,we'll call him NM, and I broke up. I was so upset because he left me in a really cruel way by staying out all ...
A. 24 April 2008: Here's a very short answer...
Get away from them both now or you'll never get away and have a normal life.. Leave the money WD owe's you, may never see the rest of it. I dont know about you but i prefer a simple life, 1 gf and not 2 or more..
... (read in full...)
Confused about sex and sexuality. Help please!
Q. basically Im with a guy attracted to him, hot body, LOVE HIM makes me feel good, emotioanl connection, physical as well but never orgasmed with him, i watched a girl strip and O'd by masturbation...wats up with that? but then I experimented with a ...
A. 24 April 2008: It could be that your goin through feelings, thoughts and more for the same sex (female) and since you seen lesbian porn your havin different feelings about it.
If anything, you may be bisexual (like both genders), it is likely.
If you feel y... (read in full...)
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