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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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I booked to see him 5 months in advance, and now he tells me he will be working most of the time!
Q. what would you do if after planning to meet up/ visit your boyfriend hoping that he will make the time to be with you for the two weeks off that u took from work, he tells you he will be working and that he has got the long weekend to be with ...
A. 3 August 2012: What would I do? I would cancel the trip and suggest that when he is able to come visit me, I would take the time off work to spend with him then.
What sort of job does he have that he can't take more time off to be with you, after you have trav... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand while we were separated and refuses to see it as cheating!
Q. My wife and i seperated 2 weeks ago. We agreed that until things had settled down and the emotions were not as raw that neither of us would date etc. we have decided now that we want to give our relationship another go. However i have found out that ...
A. 3 August 2012: Have you sought professional couples counseling? That would be a great place to start.
If you had both agreed that neither of you would date other people, one would assume that having sex would violate that agreement. She's not being reasonable that... (read in full...)
Supposed to be met at airport by my LDR but he has stopped communicating!
Q. Dear Cupid i with LDR with my bf for the past few months. We were planning to meet and as per our decision i have booked my flight tickets and i am leaving today afternoon. He is avoiding for past 2 days, not picking up my calls, even if he ...
A. 3 August 2012: I'd be very concerned. Try to reach him, one last time, via all the means at your disposal, text, phone, email. If he doesn't absolutely confirm that he will pick you up, I would make alternate transportation and housing arrangements, or cancel the ... (read in full...)
Do most people view threesomes like this?
Q. dear cupid, in the past, my guy has hinted around about wanting to have a threesome (with him being the only male involved). coincidentally, this has actually happened three times...hahaa. he did it once last year and twice last month. each time...
A. 3 August 2012: And to add to Ciar's point, this guy isn't all that bothered with what YOU might like or not like. I'd dump him just based on his asinine thought processes. ... (read in full...)
Do I have another infection again?
Q. Hi there, I have an odd, (or hopefully not so odd) question to ask. For a while (past twelve months) I have had quite a strong smell coming from my vagina. I can smell it every time i go to the toilet on my underwear or even sometime when i move my ...
A. 3 August 2012: Strong smells like that, especially the rotten one, should tell you that it's time to see the doctor again. We all have some small discharge and the consistency may vary depending on the time of the month, but the smell shouldn't be really strong or ... (read in full...)
Do most people view threesomes like this?
Q. dear cupid, in the past, my guy has hinted around about wanting to have a threesome (with him being the only male involved). coincidentally, this has actually happened three times...hahaa. he did it once last year and twice last month. each time...
A. 3 August 2012: *eye-roll* "Sluttier?" We are discussing threesomes. If there are levels of "sluttiness," sorry to say, in reality, most people would think ANYONE doing threesomes, males included, are more sexually promiscuous, if that is what "sluttier" means.... (read in full...)
Is she right to feel that no guy will like her because of her size?
Q. So I have been talking with a good friend of mine and she is upset about her size. She thinks that no guy will ever like her because of her size. I think she is very pretty and her size doesn't matter. She is a size 18, she has a tiny waist but...
A. 3 August 2012: No, she's not right. But the problem for her is that she doesn't realize she is lovely just as she is, so she may not attract a guy. The irony is that she won't attract a guy because of her dislike of her own body, not because of her body, if that ... (read in full...)
I can't believe he'd behave like that in front of me!
Q. What do I do with this relationship of thirteen years? My ongoing saga with my bf played out on a night we were out for a couple of drinks last week when on the way home he suggested going to another bar. We were having a good time talking to ...
A. 3 August 2012: So you stay invested in a relationship that has all sorts of drama purely because you have put in 12 years?
So how will you feel in 13 years? 14 years?
Will being in the relationship longer help it improve?
He puts you down. Is that code for: he... (read in full...)
My husband asked me for a divorce--I'm embarassed to tell my family.
Q. My husband asked me for a divorce out of the blue. I'm embarassed to tell my family--I feel like a failure. What should I do? The backstory: I do not work. I assume this is the main problem because he is constantly telling me that I don't pull my ...
A. 3 August 2012: You DO sign up for illness and problems in a marriage. It's kind of part of the deal. There are even words in the vows, "in sickness and in health."
I would stop being embarrassed and start being proactive. Tell your family, get an appointment with... (read in full...)
He clearly cares about me, but why doesn't he want me to be his girlfriend?
Q. My name is Natalie, I am 21 years old and have been seeing this guy for almost 7 months now. When we first started dating, he made it very clear that he only wanted 'fun' and didn't want anything too serious. My initial thought was that it was going ...
A. 3 August 2012: Natalie, I think he probably does have feelings for you, but now it's up to you to decide if you're willing to settle for less than a real relationship. He wants the benefits of a relationship, exclusivity and access to sex from you but none of the ... (read in full...)
I can't say "I love you" out loud!
Q. I have been with my bf for a year, and I havent said ' i love you' ITs now becoming an issue...and he seems to be getting upset by it. What should I do. I just dont feel the need to say it, never said it before to a man, I just show love by...
A. 3 August 2012: Can you say it to your reflection in the mirror or to your family?... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my friend I don't know how to swim!
Q. Long story short me and my friend bought a gym membership and as part of it you can go swimming for free, my friend keeps suggesting that we do it seen as though its free but i cant swim and don't know how to tell her because its embarrassing and i ...
A. 3 August 2012: Look at this from her perspective. She keeps asking a good friend to go swimming and the good friend keeps refusing. Maybe she's wondering if you like her.
Rather than assume a negative reaction, why not tell her the truth and ask her for help... (read in full...)
Masturbation seems to be the only solution for me. Any advice?
Q. Hi guys .. Here is my problem .. I am 28 and I am still masturbating until now ... like 4 times a week.. I started masturbating like about 12 years ago. I had many girlfriends but now I am single for about 6 years. My problems are: 1- I thin...
A. 3 August 2012: At 28, you are a grown man, in charge of your own life. If you aren't happy with your sex life and your marital status, perhaps it's time you took steps to change it.
You may be stuck in this same situation 5 years from now, 10 years or long... (read in full...)
Do you think it's a little wrong for my sister to treat our Mum this way?
Q. Long story cut short - try to anyway. My sister is 35 years old and I am 19 years old. When I was 16, I fell pregnant. I decided to keep my baby and she didn't want me to. My mum and dad supported me thankfully and I had a daughter who is ...
A. 3 August 2012: Is it possible your sister is in an abusive relationship and is being controlled by her husband?
It does sound very sad and very peculiar. Does she remain in contact with any of her old friends or other family members?... (read in full...)
Should I give him a taste of his own medicine and not call or should I call anyway because I don't normally say things and not follow through?
Q. I am conflicted. One of my best friends is a boy and he has been lacking in effort for quite a while which I'm now fed up with but I accepted because he's different from my best friend that's a girl probably because he's a boy. That said I really am ...
A. 2 August 2012: It's now probably a moot question, as it is late there in Ireland. There's another girl here from the UK who has similar issues with her best friend who is a boy. I think both of you may find yourselves in lopsided friendships, where you (and her) ... (read in full...)
Do I show my friend the proof that her boyfriend is cheating on her or not?
Q. I am in a bit of a hard situation here. I have a male friend, and I recently found out that he is on a swinger site, and is meeting random people for sex. Now what he does is his business and normally I couldn't care less, except he has a ...
A. 2 August 2012: How would YOU want to be notified if you were the woman in the equation? Ponder that and then do what you need to do.
I vote for telling her. HIV is a non-discriminatory virus, as are the other STIs....... (read in full...)
Do you think she's being vain?
Q. In all honesty guys, when you see a girls profile and she has quite a lot of pictures on her Facebook profiles of just her. Do you not think that the girl must know she's beautiful, or be quite vain? I met this girl on a night out, beautiful a...
A. 2 August 2012: Why did you add her? Not because she was average-looking and funny.
She obviously likes posting pictures of herself. Now ask yourself why you wanted to add her as a friend..... was it her looks? You didn't talk much, so it sounds like it wasn't sole... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is acting differently, and I can't seem to talk to her about it!
Q. I started seeing this girl about two months ago. We met online. She lives about two hours away. The first moment we physically met, there was chemistry. It was immediate, and we got along incredibly well. Better than I even knew was possible. I ...
A. 2 August 2012: You have only known her 2 months, which isn't really all that long. Combine that with being somewhat long distance, and you're really looking at a bit longer time to get to know someone.
Maybe this is moving too fast for her and she's reacting by b... (read in full...)
I would like to work things out and be a proper couple, what do you suggest?
Q. Hi everyone I have liked this man for 18 months now it has just been sex but I really like him we haven't spoken for three months yesterday we bumped into one another and got talking he said he would come around to see me but he didn't turn up I ...
A. 2 August 2012: What do you mean, you "can't" ignore him? He's been exceedingly good at ignoring you. Just imitate him.
I think what you mean is that you don't want to end things because you are hoping that something will change and you will be in a happy, heal... (read in full...)
I want to leave my daughters father but I am scared he will take our daughter!
Q. I feel completely lost. I want to leave my daughters father, and take my daughter with me and move back home. Bit of a background story I moved here to Louisiana from California to be with him, its been 3 years now and I am miserable. I hat...
A. 2 August 2012: Here's a link that can put you in touch with local organizations that may be able to help you: http://www.thehotline.org/
I really doubt the courts would take a child away from a mother if there's been no evidence of abuse.
I would start document... (read in full...)
Do most people view threesomes like this?
Q. dear cupid, in the past, my guy has hinted around about wanting to have a threesome (with him being the only male involved). coincidentally, this has actually happened three times...hahaa. he did it once last year and twice last month. each time...
A. 2 August 2012: A guy who wants to have threesomes is in no moral position to label anyone a with derogatory labels intended to demean and control people.
You know he's wrong, so don't let him get away with it.
I expect a lot of guys have fantasies about threesom... (read in full...)
I can't believe he'd behave like that in front of me!
Q. What do I do with this relationship of thirteen years? My ongoing saga with my bf played out on a night we were out for a couple of drinks last week when on the way home he suggested going to another bar. We were having a good time talking to ...
A. 2 August 2012: He's had 13 years to learn how to be a part of a couple. He has a drinking problem. He's dependent on alcohol to provide him entertainment and release. If his only good quality is that he pays for everything for you, (as you wrote in the other post, ... (read in full...)
Why do woman hook up with married men?
Q. My question is simple, Why do women hook up with a married man? I would like to hear from those who had a relationship with a married man, why did you do it? Love? Sex? Adventure? ...
A. 1 August 2012: One of my friends was desperate for male attention. Why do married men look outside their marriage for hookups? Don't they have free will too?... (read in full...)
Is it okay to experiment with women to gain sexual experience even though I won't be dating them?
Q. Recently I was having a chat with a friend and the subject of my virginity came up. He ask why I still choose to keep it because girls our age aren't anymore. He got me thinking that when I do find a girlfriend that she would have slept with many ...
A. 26 July 2012: This is you, isn't it? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/-i-want-to-lose-my-virginity-before.html
Your birthday is coming up and this is what is bothering you so much on top of the warpy thinking problem.
Let go of your belief systems. Start as... (read in full...)
Is it okay to experiment with women to gain sexual experience even though I won't be dating them?
Q. Recently I was having a chat with a friend and the subject of my virginity came up. He ask why I still choose to keep it because girls our age aren't anymore. He got me thinking that when I do find a girlfriend that she would have slept with many ...
A. 26 July 2012: You've written 2 dozen sentences on this and already I can tell you why you can't get a date. You are angry at women for imagined slights and give off a nasty, bitter vibe, an air of superiority which doesn't quite kill the smell of desperation.
Y... (read in full...)
Would it be bad of me if I went away with my friend and told my girlfriend it was a work convention?
Q. I took her away to Florida in June and we are booked to go back next summer. She is going away with her family for a week in August and i was invited but i cannot get the time off work. I was thinking about going away for a week in September with...
A. 25 July 2012: And based on this bit of your relationship's history http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-awful-that-we-had-our-first.html I would advise you NOT to lie to her at all. She has trust issues and is pregnant. The truth may cause you some ... (read in full...)
Would it be bad of me if I went away with my friend and told my girlfriend it was a work convention?
Q. I took her away to Florida in June and we are booked to go back next summer. She is going away with her family for a week in August and i was invited but i cannot get the time off work. I was thinking about going away for a week in September with...
A. 25 July 2012: Tony, is this the pregnant girlfriend that you were worried about? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-g-f-was-a-prom-queen-i.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-we-tell-our-parents-about-this.html
And I'm a bit confused. Is she 19 o... (read in full...)
Is it okay to experiment with women to gain sexual experience even though I won't be dating them?
Q. Recently I was having a chat with a friend and the subject of my virginity came up. He ask why I still choose to keep it because girls our age aren't anymore. He got me thinking that when I do find a girlfriend that she would have slept with many ...
A. 25 July 2012: You're angry at an imaginary girlfriend, whose past you've also made up and have concocted a plan to get 'even' with her by having casual sex? Really? That's your plan? You think that makes sense?
How about this instead: meet and date a girl like... (read in full...)
Am I his friend or is there something more?
Q. Confused. Am I his friend or is there something more?! Me and my best friend have admitted to falling in love with eachother (when drunk) But I always ask him to tell me sober but he doesn't. Most nights I'll go to his, and despite sexual ...
A. 25 July 2012: You should stop putting yourself through the torture. Either he wants you as a girlfriend or he doesn't. Presumably, he's had plenty of chances with you. Instead, he continues on with other women and even tries it on with your sister.
S... (read in full...)
Is it possible that my ex still likes me even a year after breaking up or am I reading too much into it?
Q. Hello, Big question, I went through the most painful breakup of my life last year, it took me almost 12 months to stop crying on a semi-daily/monthly basis for him. I must admit I still cry for him once in a while but I now have a boyfriend and ...
A. 25 July 2012: You are being patronized.
You are being kept groomed and ready in case.. in case his situation changes and he suddenly needs an outlet....
"I miss your kisses and I miss your body" means he misses the physical encounters with you. He's being ho... (read in full...)
I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...
A. 25 July 2012: You said you were scared and that he would blame you. That doesn't sound too welcoming of an unwanted pregnancy. If I were your mother/sister/friend i'd wonder if he was a good choice to be your baby's father. Not a promising start....
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I love masturbating to strangers on webcam, is this abnormal?
Q. I love masturbating to strangers on webcam, I want to know if this is normal? I'm a girl, and it really turns me on. I never show my face or give out any information about myself so it's safe but is this really abnormal?...
A. 24 July 2012: Just to add to Cerberus' point about things being like 'fingerprints'... I think what you post on the web, either via video or other types of posts, has a geographical stamp on it in terms of the IP address.... Ever wonder how they swoop in and ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering how my married lover can lead a double life!
Q. This question is directed more towards the experts in the field of infidelity because I'm really curious as to how she can live with herself. What gets me is how some of her peers and co-workers perceive her to be this classy upstanding woman...
A. 24 July 2012: Oh, to answer your question. Some people think that once they are outside a certain physical radius (the 50-mile rule) or outside a certain peer or social group and they're not exactly paragons of social virtue. The guys I saw in action *shudders* ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering how my married lover can lead a double life!
Q. This question is directed more towards the experts in the field of infidelity because I'm really curious as to how she can live with herself. What gets me is how some of her peers and co-workers perceive her to be this classy upstanding woman...
A. 24 July 2012: Oh, good question, I've watched many married men carry on this way too!
The guy's peers and co-workers perceive him to be this classy upstanding man when in reality his actions are diametrically opposite of his persona! His appearance, career, arti... (read in full...)
I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...
A. 24 July 2012: "He doesn't want a child and he'll blame me for falling pregnant! What should I do?"
vs. "My boyfriend said if it were to happen that I fall pregnant, we'll deal with it. He won't push me away or run away. I'm still a little worried about him thou... (read in full...)
I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...
A. 24 July 2012: P.S. I have to admit I made the numbers up.... I have no idea. I could provide charts on what happens with x contraceptive over y time but I cannot give you a definite answer as to your chances of being pregnant might be. Let's say the number is ... (read in full...)
I don't if I should start a long distance relationship, because I fear boredom with no physical contact is just gonna kill attraction or do I begin a relationship and hopefully keep it going?
Q. So I started talking to this girl on and off after meeting her at a rave, but the conversations were just mutual and friendly, like to hang out soon. So after a while I haven't heard from her and we met again at a rave and everything changed. We ...
A. 24 July 2012: Is there any reason you can't simply keep contact with her and date her properly when she returns? Make no promises and expect no commitments and just enjoy her company when she is back in town.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...
A. 24 July 2012: If it's within a 72 hour period you can seek emergency contraception.
I'm a bit confused. You say you aren't planning it but you are checking when you ovulate? So you are very aware of your fertility and the times when you could become pregnant yet ... (read in full...)
I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...
A. 24 July 2012: Have you rung your doctor?... (read in full...)
I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...
A. 24 July 2012: If his semen made it into your vagina and all the conditions are right, of course you could fall pregnant. If you want numerical probabilities, well, we can google just as well as you can to see if we can find the magical formula that will tell you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a micro-penis condition and I don't know what to do.
Q. I've just come across this site because I've been researching the 'micropenis' condition. I hadn't ever heard of this up until a few hours ago. I've been going out with this amazing guy for three months now and have never been happier. As ...
A. 24 July 2012: I have to agree with Cerberus here. He doesn't have a medical condition. He has a small penis.
After all your research on this, what is it you've learned that makes you think a visit to the doctor is going to "cure" this?
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