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Teen pregnancy... written by a teen herself currently expecting twins!

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21 April 2009: I am expecting twins and I am only 15, was 14 when I found out and I want to be here to discuss my story, help other young mums who are expecting, teens who don't know whether to have a baby or not, relationship advice just someone your age to talk ...

I thought I wanted a baby but I was wrong! My story

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20 February 2009: hiiyyyahh This is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this. I really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 I got pregnant a...

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I didn't release sperm during sex?

Q.   Can my girlfriend be pregnant if i didnt release sperm during sex, and can i tell if she is if it happen in june. ...

A.   11 October 2009: Pre cum - this comes before you acctually come and none of you know it is happening has she missed a period take a test x... (read in full...)

Is it possible that I am 14 weeks pregnant? I'm only 15!

Q.   Hi,its been 4 months since my last period which is 1 month longer than normal. I can't wait for a missed period because of the months between them,so I don't have an exact date to work with. If I was pregnant I would be 14 weeks and 2 days preg...

A.   10 October 2009: i have just had twins at 14 and to be honest you all want to stop having a go at her she has come on here for help why be an aunt or uncle to shout at her i know how she will be feeling i have been there you feel scared + alone and you want to ... (read in full...)

What are the chances she is pregnant?

Q.   Alright, so my girlfriend and I last had sex 6 days ago.(We're both 14, by the way, but please don't answer my question like you're talking to a little kid who has to be told about abstinence)After I ejaculated into my condom, I took off the condom ...

A.   10 October 2009: you said you had sex 6 days ago, i may not be right but i think this is highly unlikley that she would get the symptoms this early but there is a chance of been pregnant a very high chance be careful and if she is please don't abort please k... (read in full...)

Does all this mean I'm gay?

Q.   Im deeply in love with a girl at school and I fall in love her all over again when I see her and think about her. Also I get really excited(down there) and my nipples erect. I have never liked anyone this much before but i want to know if i am a ...

A.   25 September 2009: i am a teen aswell can i say your hormoans are allover the place your a teen but if you are thinking about coming out as a lesbian dont be a bisexual first then u can like boys and girls answer me this do u see urself setling down with a girl ... (read in full...)

Why does she dress to impress when I'm not around?

Q.   hey whats up guys and girls i need help i don't know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when I'm not going to be around like when she goes to school or work or something she never wears nice things when i am. does she have something on ...

A.   25 September 2009: i dont understand why she would do that but i dont think shes cheating when i like a boy or going out with him i spend about 2 hrs trying to find somthing to make me look nice. i understand your a guy and its like a compertion to have the smartest ... (read in full...)

Can girls feel you cum inside of them?

Q.   I have a weird question. I hooked up with this girl for the first time (without a condom, stupid I know) and she rode me for a few minutes and came on my penis. After she finished cumming she asked me if I had cum inside of her and I was puzzled ...

A.   25 September 2009: Can i tell you to be careful do you want a kid not just that sti's you dont have to cum there is such thing as pre-cum anyways you didnt ask about that just had to say... well normally no but you can normally tell by the man himself. hope this hel... (read in full...)

Why does it hurt to have sex even after 5 years of sexual activity?

Q.   Hello all I'm kinda new at this so please work with me...I'm 20 years old and lost my virginity at 15 I've had 3 partners in that time one of which I was with for 4 years and we did it on a regular basis and even now it still feels like he rips me ...

A.   25 September 2009: All women are differant there is no explaination for this. our bodys react differant. is it painful that you dont want to have sex if this is the case u could go to your doctor and ask his advise. have you tried lube + oral sex before hand this ... (read in full...)

I got her pregnant, and we want to keep the baby! How do we do this?

Q.   hi im 14 and i got my 15 year old girlfreind pregnant . i used a condom but as i saw afterwards there was a hole in it and she got pregnant. i cnt tell my mother cause she will kick me out i dont no my father. we want to keep the baby but we dont...

A.   5 September 2009: he i am a 14 year old pregnant with twins only 6 weeks left till my baby i thought my mother would as well but trust me she wont they become really sorportive heres a few ways to tell your mam write a letter and leave it on the bench before sch... (read in full...)

Is she too young?

Q.   hey people im 15 and i like this girl that is on the soccer team i help out at she about 12 to 13 and ive known her for two years now i would like to ask her out or something but i dont know if thats wrong because of her and my age i really need ...

A.   5 September 2009: no you are not to old if you where over 16 then you would but i have got mates that are the same age differance ... (read in full...)

How do I ask out girls?

Q.   I have never been the best with talking to girls as I guess im just kind of shy in some aspects. Anyways, I would love to get some advice I could use in this upcoming school year!! Thanks so very much!...

A.   5 September 2009: okay so i guess there is one girl you like ? well if so if you are in school ask somthing as simple as can i lend a pen please and then when you give her it back at the end of the lesson say to her me and a few friends are coming to mine this wee... (read in full...)

A warning from one teenager to others . . .

Q.   This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...

A.   2 September 2009: well there are teens out there doing it i am living proff of it if they gonna do it witch they will no matter what you say wear protection i wish i could turn back time... (read in full...)

Teen pregnancy... written by a teen herself currently expecting twins!

Q.   I am expecting twins and I am only 15, was 14 when I found out and I want to be here to discuss my story, help other young mums who are expecting, teens who don't know whether to have a baby or not, relationship advice just someone your age to talk ...

A.   7 May 2009: one is a boy and one is a girl i found out the other day... (read in full...)

Teen pregnancy... written by a teen herself currently expecting twins!

Q.   I am expecting twins and I am only 15, was 14 when I found out and I want to be here to discuss my story, help other young mums who are expecting, teens who don't know whether to have a baby or not, relationship advice just someone your age to talk ...

A.   2 May 2009: well when i was 14 and when i found out i was pregnant, i cried and stayed in bed feeling sorry for myself for about a week and the way i told me mam was that ano this sounds silly but i asked her to put me on the pill and then 2 weeks later me and ... (read in full...)

A request to all the young teens out there

Q.   well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...

A.   2 May 2009: i notice you have your name on anonymous, i think when you are ready your ready and it somtimes just happens and if you get pregnant it is your mastake so face it.... (read in full...)

My horrible story please read

Q.   im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...

A.   22 April 2009: well i was 14 and found out i was expecting twins now i am 15 due in september to be honest you have to make your own mind up for it tell your mam they so surportive trust me you carnt get pregnant of sucking some one off write back please x... (read in full...)

A request to all the young teens out there

Q.   well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...

A.   22 April 2009: to be honest i realy carnt help it now year am 15 but i carnt change my past and i am realy excited to see my twins its a feeling you can not explain and to be honest i would not feel sorry for that girl a would tell her to keep her head up high ... (read in full...)

Teen pregnancy... written by a teen herself currently expecting twins!

Q.   I am expecting twins and I am only 15, was 14 when I found out and I want to be here to discuss my story, help other young mums who are expecting, teens who don't know whether to have a baby or not, relationship advice just someone your age to talk ...

A.   22 April 2009: yes they should be great and i am sure when the right time comes it will be great to be honest it wasnt the right time when i fell pregnant but now i think it is the right time now but i think you no when its the right time.... (read in full...)

A request to all the young teens out there

Q.   well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...

A.   21 April 2009: to be honest theres nothing wrong with teenmams i was 14 when i got pregnant now 15 and just found out i am having twins tbh it has gotta be the best thing in the world for me and i am realy looking foward to it and i am thinking about wrighting a ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but I haven't had my period in 2-3 months

Q.   Ok I'm 13 and I'm a virgin but I havnt had my period in 2 almost 3 months and I'm too scared to tell my mom what should I do?????...

A.   20 March 2009: hiyahh this is coz you are young thats how i was never had anouther one for a year! keep informed ... (read in full...)

I thought I wanted a baby but I was wrong! My story

Q.   hiiyyyahh This is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this. I really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 I got pregnant a...

A.   27 February 2009: yea you can say forget about it but it is not that simple.... (read in full...)

I thought I wanted a baby but I was wrong! My story

Q.   hiiyyyahh This is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this. I really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 I got pregnant a...

A.   25 February 2009: soo you sayingg you would have it at 13 when you have your whole life ahead of you and yeah you could give it for adoption but after all you would only be wrecking there life in doing that whats the good in a life in care .... i might as well of ... (read in full...)

Why did I not express my feelings to my friend?

Q.   I invited a friend over for a dvd night in and stay over at the weekend. As the film progressed into the night, my friend was starting to feel the chill in our house, despite our heating to have been switched on for already a couple of hours. I ...

A.   23 February 2009: i would have been embarresed if someone went home, she is clearly not a true friend because if i am stopping at a friends house and am a bit cold i put a jumper on or we snuggle up with the cover.... (read in full...)

Is my son going to be tall?

Q.   Hi, i have a child growth question for anybody who knows what they are talking about. I have a son who just turned 15 and he is around 5'7 or 5'8. I wondering if he will be fairly tall. Im only 5'9 and my wife is 4'10 but he seems tall to be our ...

A.   22 February 2009: i'm a thirteen year old girl uk and i am 5'8 its not a bad thing to be tall there is nothing wrong with it... (read in full...)

Am I pregnant? We used protection every time!

Q.   ok, on valentines day, my boyfriend and i had sex and used protection. we did it again the day after, again used protection. and then we did it 4 days after that, but again used protection. im not on any pills or anything and i didnt take the mor...

A.   22 February 2009: i'm 14, and yes there is always a chance go into google and type in early signs of pregnancy, take the test now, also when where you due on your periods? keep intouch .. ... (read in full...)

How can I get big boobs naturally?

Q.   How can I get big boobs without surgery or lotions or pills?...

A.   21 February 2009: my freind has the same problem but she just is learning to love her body and accept them , shee weres gel fillets they look natural and are highly popular good look accept your body x... (read in full...)

How can I get over this nervousness & commit?

Q.   Ok I'm nineteen and I just when on a date with this guy. He is sooooo hot, and I can't help but be nervous around him. I've never been super confident in my looks, and I've never been in a serious relationship. Every time a relationship gets close ...

A.   20 February 2009: you are probably feeling insicure and have you been treated badley by man before evan your dad/stepdad and if you have then mabey thats your anser you need to learn to trust men more good look write bak xxx ... (read in full...)

Questions about breasts

Q.   Hey. I got a couple of question about thing i like to talk about the least. Breasts. ok; 1. Do sore breasts ALWAYS indicate that you're about to get your period, or can they be sore from something else? 2. Do they get filled up with someth...

A.   20 February 2009: yes that is completly normal i am 13 and go though the same.... (read in full...)

Very irregular period--3X in one month??

Q.   hello! im 19 yearz old unmarried... i have irregular periods for last 2 months.... having heavy bleeding after 10 or 15 days... i dont know why it happens like this...in one month im having three times periods.... im so tense abt this irregula...

A.   20 February 2009: i feel sorry for you deeply ....go and see your doctor....they can give you a pill that makes your periods lighter...keep me informed good looked... (read in full...)

Very light period, could I be pregnant?

Q.   hey me and my boyfriend had sex but i think the condom split but i came on my period the next day so i thought i couldnt be pregnant. Im ment to be on my period now but its only very light or nothing at all. Iv took two pregnancy tests lately a...

A.   20 February 2009: it may be in your mind ... go to your gp or family doctor ... keep me informed good looked xx... (read in full...)

I want a baby really badly!!!

Q.   Ok me and my bf have some what of an age difference but its not a big deal. The thing is we've been together for 2 almost 3 years febuary 2. And i love him with all my heart and he feels the same...the problem is i want a baby really really badly. ...

A.   20 February 2009: well i think you should wait till you've got a job and in a stable relashionship. and i know other people would have told you this and you are gonna go and do what you want any way, but where you gonna get the money , and how old are you... keep ... (read in full...)

Name suggestions for my baby

Q.   I may be pregnant. My daughter got her name from putting the names of her dad and my name together. I want to do it again but can't think of anything right now. If you have some ideas, I would really appreciate it if you can share some with me. ...

A.   20 February 2009: karon kaccy ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, he's 16, and I really don't care what people in school say, we just really want a baby.

Q.   I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16. we really want a baby. we have picked out a baby name and everything. i know my mom and dad would be really upset with me, but i really want this, so i dont know what to do. I mean everyone is always t...

A.   19 February 2009: i am 13 and also realy want a baby and people may think your to young but i think i mite just go for it and have one and i'm only 13 so dont be scared, i know its wrong but i know how i feel you like have a need to have one dont you and feel down ... (read in full...)

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