I love my teacher like a second mother
Q. During my junior year, I had a chance to meet one of the best teachers ever in my high school career. I took AP Biology with her, and at first I just thought of her as a teacher. As time goes by, I noticed that she is not just a teacher by job, but ...
A. 26 March 2011: No not at all.....In fact there are very few people like you now who give teachers there due respect. You have taken her on the right pedestal and you should never change your feelings for her. In India teachers are supposed to be given immense ... (read in full...)
Should I be angry at my boyfriend for sharing his fantasy??
Q. Last night while I was in bed with my boyfriend making love, he asked me if I had any fantasies lately. I said no but asked him if he did. Earlier on ITR I introduced a little kinkiness to our sex life by talking about fantasies together to turn ...
A. 25 March 2011: Between the both of you - it's not a good idea to share fantasies if you're in a long term relationship. A guy will always have much wilder fantasies than a girl. It's better if you stop sharing fantasies. You're making him beleive that it's okay ... (read in full...)
Best condom for my bf to use so I don't get pregnant?
Q. My bf and are both 18 and want sex what the best condom he can use to prevent pregnancy im not on the pill and don't want to be ...
A. 13 March 2011: Use a nice 'Durex' condom...ultra thin...and ask him to wear a cock ring also and drive you wild....!... (read in full...)
My fiance is into sheMale porn and has listed himself as bisexual on a dating site. I want him to be faithful and honest to me
Q. My fiance is into porn like just about every other normal Joe out there. I have no problem with this. I have no problem with him viewing the occasional she-male porn either. I get that some guys just need to look at different things. However, ...
A. 16 January 2011: This is gross! She male porn is gross!! You should set up a trap for him. Show him that you are comfortable with all this and you actually like all this. He will soon start confiding in you about his problem - which is actually a 'problem', a ... (read in full...)
What happens if a man does not have sex for a very long time?
Q. What happens if a man does not have sex or ejaculate for a long time? (I had an active sex-life up until 7 months ago, but none since, will it stop working and will i get prostate cancer?....) ...
A. 19 December 2010: That is why there is spirituality. You may find it unacceptable but when a person grows old he looks more graceful if he shifts towards spirituality. Sex could be there but with age there has to be a difference in the mindset.... (read in full...)
What happens if a man does not have sex for a very long time?
Q. What happens if a man does not have sex or ejaculate for a long time? (I had an active sex-life up until 7 months ago, but none since, will it stop working and will i get prostate cancer?....) ...
A. 16 December 2010: You must masterbate as much as you can to keep up with your penile health. Gabrielle and Priyanka are absolutely right here. Or you'll have trouble in getting an erection sooner or later.... (read in full...)
I want to try anal but she's really against it. Can I convince her?
Q. So I have been having sex with this girl for a while. We jumped into bed together really from the start of things, but that was really the only quick thing about it. She for almost a yr never entertained the idea of her on top or doggie, she just ...
A. 16 December 2010: She is not abnormal in any way. Try shoving something as big as your own penis in your own anus and see for how long you can enjoy it.
If she doesn't enjoy anal sex dont force her.
You seem to be very understanding with her. If you've stuck ... (read in full...)
Her high sex drive is driving me bonkers!
Q. My girlfriend just can't leave me alone for a second. Whenever we are together, she just can't keep her hands off me and wants to have sex ALL the time. I mean I love her dearly, but i'm not really an affectionate person where as she is. I'm not ...
A. 9 December 2010: It's nice to have a girlfriend like that. It's good that even after her having a super charged sex drive she comes to you for sex and doesn't wander. But it would feel real bad to her if you reject her everytime. Have good sex with her and don't ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to fantasize about women, even though I'm not gay?
Q. Hey all! Im a 21yr old woman whose had 3 serious relationships (with men). Im 100% attracted to men, believe me i know that. I love sex with men etc. However my ex was all for giving me oral and fantastic at it let me add. When we were together i ...
A. 8 December 2010: I think it's okay to watch lesbian porn for you and get turned on. You don't want to get involved in it but just enjoy watching it. Just keep it to that and its okay. A lot of girls like watching other nude girls. The thing is that you have a higher ... (read in full...)
She's lesbian. I'm lesbian. My husband knows I'm bi.
Q. Hi Everyone I don't know what to do so I need your advice. I got married 20 years ago to a wonderful man that I met when I was in the Army. He was also in the Army. We have 3 children. I am bisexual and my husband knew this when we married. A fe...
A. 2 December 2010: That's weird......How could you have feelings for someone whom you're lying? You have to tell her the truth that you are with your husband and whom you love more that her but obviously! It's up to her how she'll take it but the truth should be told ... (read in full...)
He adds pretty girls on Facebook and has blocked me from seeing his profile!
Q. I've been in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. In the past we had a lot of problems because he lied to me and also had an emotional relationship with his ex. Everything was going really well until I recently found out that he is lying to me ...
A. 2 December 2010: He's not worth you. Why don't you become a fictatious character on facebook and trap him....or you could even use one of your friends to trap him. And then teach him a lesson. But he's not worth you.... (read in full...)
Shaving is such a pain!
Q. Hey this is kinda embarrassing but i shaved my vaginia a couple days ago and now i have redish/pinkish bumps there and a couple of them hurt when touched. What should i do? and will this happen every time i shave down there? Thanks....
A. 16 November 2010: This thing really helps - apply massage oil after shaving and then take a bath after around half an hour. You skin will be much smoother and shaving wont hurt so much.... (read in full...)
Erection problem... Is it all in my head?
Q. Straight to the point I can't keep it up during sex with my girlfriend. I think it started when I found out her ex was massive and it put sooo much pressure on me I nearly ended it. I then fell in love with her she's smart and sexy and loves me more ...
A. 10 November 2010: The problem is more physical than mental. Do you have a healthy lifestyle? The chances are not. So improve your lifestyle, do kegels, go out and jog everyday morning, do some Yoga and a little bit of titillation will make you erect like a horse.... (read in full...)
How should I make him understand that I don't like this swap idea?
Q. I am 28 years old and my husband is asking me for swapping with another couple. He is angry to me that i denied for it and we are having arguments on this...he said nasty things to me and whenever we argue at end of it he makes love to me and he is ...
A. 10 November 2010: Jilly is damn right and you must stick to your decision. Swapping is abnormal, unethical and animalistic. Humans cant have sex like cats and dogs. It's a shameful deed and be stern to your husband about this.... (read in full...)
Friend has boyfriend but was kissing me in secret and then started acting all weird to me
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and over the last year or so I've realised that I'm bisexual. I'm really happy with my sexuality, although it's diffuclt to deal with sometimes, but it's pretty obvious to all my friends and we can joke about it. But I was ...
A. 7 November 2010: You must stop this kissing thing right away. Forget your lesbian encounter and get ahead in life. She is doing the right thing by not bringing up the topic. That's the way it should be. Imagine if her boyfriend comes to know about it? It will become ... (read in full...)
Friend has boyfriend but was kissing me in secret and then started acting all weird to me
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and over the last year or so I've realised that I'm bisexual. I'm really happy with my sexuality, although it's diffuclt to deal with sometimes, but it's pretty obvious to all my friends and we can joke about it. But I was ...
A. 7 November 2010: You must stop this kissing thing right away. Forget your lesbian encounter and get ahead in life. She is doing the right thing by not bringing up the topic. That's the way it should be. Imagine if her boyfriend comes to know about it? It will become ... (read in full...)
My fetishes are getting me into trouble!
Q. I have slight fetishes for stubble, really tan skin, and um...big hands. The trouble is that if I see a guy with one or all, I can't stop gawking! It's so embarassing! My friends make fun of me sometimes because they say I like old cavemen. I can't ...
A. 7 November 2010: I think your fetish is harmless. You like men with stubble, tanned and strong that's okay. There are men like that for you. God has made a man for you and you must be with someone with whom you like and turns you on. Your fetish must be fed by you ... (read in full...)
Indian guys don't do oral?
Q. why don't indian guys give there women oral sex??...
A. 6 November 2010: I think there must be something about your vagina that your Indian man doesn't want to give oral. I hope you dont have too much of white discharge or Fungal problem there. If your vagina is neat and the juices that come out are normal then a guy ... (read in full...)
What sports should I try for a plus size teen girl?
Q. I'm a 14 year old teen girl and I really want to get into sports espescially for losing weight cause I'm around 280 pounds. I would really like to know what sports you all think I should try at first, but don't get me wrong I do dance a lot and try ...
A. 6 November 2010: Brisk walking!! Walk a lot after your dinner. And if you can wal after your every meal. Any sport except for board games will do good to you. It depends what you like. Badminton, tennis, swimming there are so many...It only depends what you would ... (read in full...)
Do you think it matters how quick a girl orgasms?
Q. I tend to orgasm within 5 minutes during sex with my bf. I don't know if my bf likes the idea that I finish really quick cause I feel like he wants to go longer. Of course he gets to finish, but i feel like he wants sex to last longer... Obviously I ...
A. 6 November 2010: It's okay if she orgasms fast. The good thing is that the chances are that she'll get ready for the next session faster than normal also!!... (read in full...)
I can't stand it that my girlfriend is not a virgin
Q. Im 17, im a virgin, and I have recently found out my girlfriend is not a virgin. She is my first 'real' girlfriend and our relationship is starting to get more physical. We both love eachother, but my problem is, is that I can't stand it that she is ...
A. 6 November 2010: What happened in the past should be left in the past. If she's good and you love her then these things should not bother you. If she's totally into you now then you should not be worried. And remember...she'll always appreciate the fact that you ... (read in full...)
Nightmares About my Boyfriend's Past Have Completely Invaded My Mind.
Q. Sorry this is long, but I am in real need of help. My boyfriend used to go out every night last summer, either to a house party or a night club with his friends. In September of that year we met, and began dating. I have never been a jealous p...
A. 3 November 2010: In fact your guy should consider himself lucky to have a person like you. And it's your duty to be happy and not paranoid over every little thing. Try yoga for beating stress. Yoga (breathing exercises specifically) are excellent in beating stress ... (read in full...)
Nightmares About my Boyfriend's Past Have Completely Invaded My Mind.
Q. Sorry this is long, but I am in real need of help. My boyfriend used to go out every night last summer, either to a house party or a night club with his friends. In September of that year we met, and began dating. I have never been a jealous p...
A. 3 November 2010: If your boyfriend is still going to night clubs without you then that should be a cause of worry. But if he's a different person now and is totally hooked on to you and realises that he should not be going there any more then it's okay. Test him if ... (read in full...)
We have huge arguments about my husband's best friend!
Q. Hi there, I would love to get opinions. I am recently married to a wonderful man, and we are very happy except one thing - we have huge arguments about his best friend. I dont want to get into too much detail about his friend,but I think i have t...
A. 28 October 2010: No no dont give him an ultimatum. Your husband is not right here by not listening to you and sticking to that guy. I have been in a similar situation and have learnt it the hard way. That guy will show his true colours to your husband one day or the ... (read in full...)
Shaved or trimmed?
Q. Guys and girls what do you like? Do you like a shaved pubic area or trimed or natural on your partner or on yourself?...
A. 19 October 2010: I like changes you know. Some times it's a shaved vagina that I like and some times I like the feel of a hairy one. As for myself I keep myself shaved. Oral sex is good when shaved.... (read in full...)
Why is hard during sex, but soft during oral sex?
Q. Hello.My boyfriend and i are living together for 3 years.My bf's penis is about 8' long but when i want to take it in my mouth it loses it's erection.During sex it's ok but during blowjob not.What can i do?...
A. 19 October 2010: Oral sex is like a bliss. He should be as hard as a rock in your mouth. Ask him if he really likes oral sex.... (read in full...)
Unable to orgasm, help?
Q. I'm 18 years old, I have masterbated plenty of times and my boyfriend has preformed oral and vaginal sex on me countless times... although I have a high sex drive and I am able to experience the first two stages of sexual pleasure (arousal and ...
A. 19 October 2010: Probably dont think about it so much while having sex. Tell your guy to insert his hardpenis in your vagina and rub it gently on your G-spot and at the same time rub your clit with his pubic hair. Tell him thrust very gently for some time this very ... (read in full...)
Why don't girls have sex as much as guys?
Q. I would like to ask a question at a general/stereotypical level - Why don't girls have sex as much as guys? Eg. a single guy goes to a party/club/bar and hopes something will happen. A single girl goes to the same place and doesn't let anyt...
A. 9 October 2010: It is the way God has made women. It doesn't go that way. Men are called suiters because it suits them to sue the woman they like. And somehow...a woman will always be happier if she marries a man who runs after her rather than marrying someone whom ... (read in full...)
Has anyone used sex toys to acquire multiple penetration with your partner?
Q. Has anyone used sex toys to acquire multiple penetration with your partner? He would like this too. I would like multiple penetration without the guilt, and problems of asking other people into our bedroom....
A. 8 October 2010: If you enjoy it in your backdoor then you could use a butt plug while he's in your vagina. But do use a lubricant in your butt. He could also put his finger in your anus in the doggy pose but his finger should be well lubricated also. But a ... (read in full...)
Yay or nay to a threesome???
Q. My boyfriend and I been together for over 5 years. The sex is great but now I find myself wanting a female, not sure but big breasts are a realy hot turn on for me now? How can I get my boyfriend to agree????...
A. 7 October 2010: Later on your boyfriend might start pin pointing at other passing girls and suggest you for more three somes which will certainly hurt your ego. Your asking for more will give him a licence to be infedile.... (read in full...)
Yay or nay to a threesome???
Q. My boyfriend and I been together for over 5 years. The sex is great but now I find myself wanting a female, not sure but big breasts are a realy hot turn on for me now? How can I get my boyfriend to agree????...
A. 7 October 2010: You asking for a girl might excite him but in the long term it will make a drift between both of you. You may later on ask for an extra male and it could hurt his ego. Humans are never satisfied and later on you might want to go for an orgy! The ... (read in full...)
I"m 14 and my best friends wants a FWB relationship
Q. Im 14 and i just found out my best friend has liked me since 5th grade. We were on the phone a few days ago and he wants to be "friends with benifits" Well i like him alot to and i kinda do wanna be to. but he has a rep of just using people. I can't ...
A. 7 October 2010: Yes Gabrielle is absolutely right. You will get shattered and devastated one day. At this age think only long term. You could go solo and give yourself a sexual release every now and then. FWB is absolutely a no no.... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to have sex in a brothel
Q. My husband of 8 months wants to take me to Los Vegas to have sex at a BROTHEL. I am not sure why he stated that during sex. There is nothing I have said or done to make him think I am into threesomes. He brought this up during sex which now makes ...
A. 2 October 2010: Your husband is a crazy freak. He doesn't deserve a nice woman like you. One can have wild fantasies but in real life one can't live like cats and dogs. Sex with multiple partners is like doing it like cats and dogs. There has to be some difference ... (read in full...)
Will I be alone for ever?
Q. I am 22 in 2 months i will be 23. I am divorced (i got married at 16) and a single mom of 3. I have been alone so long and i cant even get a guy to look at me. I have done all of the stuff people have told me. (be yourself go out stop looking...) ...
A. 2 October 2010: These kind of phases do come in life. What you must be more worried about is your healt because you have to rear 3 children. You must immediately join a good gym and make sure you are fit for the sake of your children. The gym is the best medicine ... (read in full...)
My husband wants to watch me with another man and I'm thinking about it. Need advice pls.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years and he has always had this fantasy of watching me with another man. Before I've always said no and he never pressured me, just dropped hints every now and then. But this year I've started to indulge him ...
A. 30 September 2010: It's a very weird request and your husband has an abnormal fetish. Long term implications of such kind of sex would be of disturbing nature. Imagine your children getting to know such kind of a thing?? Tell your husband to have normal demands. ... (read in full...)
I have an oral sex fetish which I find unnerving and am morally against..
Q. I'm bi, and in the last few years I've realized that I have a fondness for women who are submissive in giving their male partners oral sex. Male submission doesn't do it for me, and neither does lesbian submission. It's only when the woman is doing ...
A. 4 August 2010: Having a liking for oral sex is not abnormal. Infact it's very healthy if hygiene is kept in mind. But doing things as wildly as dogs and cats would be animalistic. There is a big fat line between human beings and animals. All fantasies dont have to ... (read in full...)
Blood after sex, can this sometimes happen? Should I go to the doctor?
Q. Hello again, just one more question! My boyfriend and I had been intimate and right after intercourse, he had blood on him. I'm not on my period I finnished a week ago. At the same time I feel no pain, but there is blood... can this sometimes ...
A. 4 August 2010: You should go to the doctor immediately. It could be due to ovarian cysts, or it could also be due to polycystic ovarian syndrome. Do you have a sedentary lifestyle? Then you should go to the doctor and change your lifestyle.... (read in full...)
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