Silly to use condoms when on the pill
Q. Is it silly to make your partner wear a condom or pull out while on the pill? My bf and I are each others first, so I'm not worried about std's but I heard the pill is only something like 92% safe. That scares me, so I make him put on a condom or he ...
A. 25 February 2009: NO USE BOTH. because what if your pill doesnt work? theres the condom. and the pill doesnt protect you against std's... (read in full...)
I don't like him, but he sure likes me!
Q. This boy is in love with me but I honestly can't stand him. I also have a boyfriend that I like very much. And every time I tell him I don't like him like that, he's like why do you hate me? At one point I was like fine I hate you, gag me with a ...
A. 25 February 2009: wow. thats hard, guys just dont understanf the meaning "NO" They think when you say no, "try agian tommorow. or something. but what you do about this is totally your desicion. and btw isnt there some sort of loyalty between your bf and your friends ... (read in full...)
My highschool crush is spreading rumors to get my attention
Q. OK. so i just found out this senior has been spreading rumors about him screwing me. before he found out that i knew that he would smile at me, and try to talk to me. now that he knows i know he can look me in the eye. now he just looks at me ...
A. 19 January 2009: thats really GOOD advice.
but the sick thing about it is that i like that attention. sort of. & i know hes really into me, but hes just really shy so thats why he decided to make rumars about me. he is a good guy and not everyone knows about it. ... (read in full...)
He's too shy to make a move
Q. I've liked this guy for almost 2 years and can't seem to get over him. He's a little shy, so if anyone would make the first move it would have to be me. I can't do it :(. We're such great friends and I value the friendship. I don't know for sure ...
A. 18 January 2009: Question, do you think he really likes you? or are you making yourself belive he does. time can do that to a person. and i know this may be harsh but yes. he may not like you hes probably just being nice becuase you guys are such good friends. but i ... (read in full...)
What is this?
Q. I've been having alot of sexual urges lately. sometimes when i would feel a rush come out of my pepe(vagina) i would think that i was just getting my period. but it wasnt. i would look at my underwerar because somehow it would be wet. like the ...
A. 16 January 2009: Wow. that helped alot. thanks for taking your time to answer my concern:]... (read in full...)
What is this?
Q. I've been having alot of sexual urges lately. sometimes when i would feel a rush come out of my pepe(vagina) i would think that i was just getting my period. but it wasnt. i would look at my underwerar because somehow it would be wet. like the ...
A. 16 January 2009: ok. thanks.... (read in full...)
Would I cave in with fear?
Q. I always come across as loud, confident and sometimes bossy around work because I work with a lot of guys (building company) and its the only way to get them to do things, one of the guys recently approached me and said it turns him on that I am so ...
A. 16 January 2009: i think that having sex with someone shouldnt make you less conident. i actually would think that it would make you per say more aware of that sexual world. not saying that you arnt experienced in anyway.
anyways i hope that help:]... (read in full...)
My highschool crush is spreading rumors to get my attention
Q. OK. so i just found out this senior has been spreading rumors about him screwing me. before he found out that i knew that he would smile at me, and try to talk to me. now that he knows i know he can look me in the eye. now he just looks at me ...
A. 16 January 2009: This boy is 17years old. & people do look at me like "did you really have sex with him" and guys would look at me like"dammmnnnn hoe" or something. i just dont know what to do. no other guy will approuch me becuas he already marked his terrortory on ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends but not quite sure how to do it?
Q. There's this guy that I like(d). I mean, I still like him and he's sort of interested in me, just not interested in a relationship; not with anyone though so I don't feel too bad about it. When we first discussed this, he said he was interested in ...
A. 16 January 2009: Maybe if your looking for a complex more stable relationship you shouldn't date this young man. but if you are kinda like"ohh now i just wanna get a kick out of it" then go for it! you never know how things turn up!... (read in full...)
We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?
Q. hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge ...
A. 5 January 2009: Your cycle is just changing. you ARNT pregnet. please get educated.... (read in full...)
Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?
Q. whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked ...
A. 5 January 2009: i've been trying to. but i'll will try harder. & i want to know what your thinking about this situation after i would talk to hin.... (read in full...)
Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?
Q. whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked ...
A. 2 January 2009: Dear male reader:
i think you right. i just dont know if he knows i like him or not. he just has this ultimate force attraction on me. i mean i could talk to him, i just dont want him to feel weird around me... i dont know what to do... (read in full...)
Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?
Q. whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked ...
A. 2 January 2009: waite a sec I dont deserve him???... (read in full...)
Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?
Q. whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked ...
A. 2 January 2009: what do u mean hes never gonna ask me out?... (read in full...)
3 guys, and I'm not sure which one to go after!
Q. New Year = New Start - - Should I make it a brave one? towards the back end of 2008 i found myself in a right muddle!! Theres this guy at work that i really do like i like him sooo much the problem being he knows how i feel and has said that he...
A. 2 January 2009: i think you should choose who ever makes you feel better. that likes you more ... (read in full...)
Is she totally over this forbidden love?
Q. I had a girlfriend and we just broke up a week ago.. Our love was so intimate .. She was younger than me though..She's 16 but she thinks maturely..(I guess).. The reason for our break up was because of her mother... Her mother doesn't like me at al...
A. 2 January 2009: If you two trully love eachother fate will bring you toghert again. but im not sure about your girlfriend. she may really like you, but not want to date you again after what you put her though.....um i also think that she has a big say in this too, ... (read in full...)
Inappropriate touching between step mother and step son!
Q. I'm a 45 year old step-mother of a 19 year old male, and I've recently made a horrible mistake. For the past few weeks I've been flirting and teasing my step-son. My husband has ignored me for the several months now, and I just wanted some ...
A. 15 December 2008: Thats just sick.
you needed attention that much? i wonder what you would do if you didnt even know that was your step son 0_0... (read in full...)
Middle School Drama ! UGH !
Q. Okay well So dont you hate how theres always junior high friend battles . Theres the "cool crew" and the "not so cools" well what about when your involed in them . So i'll just make up some names .. So me ( Kate ) , Alexandra and Jessika are most ...
A. 8 December 2008: wow, i hated middleschool
too much drama
but drama follows you around everywere
you cant avoid, it will always come with its ups and downs.
btw if u dont want to be jessikas friend tell her what she did and that you and your other friend don... (read in full...)
I am having major anxiety over this situation with a senior!
Q. Dear readers: I am in alot of stress and anxiety over this senior thats has a huge crush on me, he would get red infront of me he would waite till i would look at him, sometimes i would look at him and smile, other times i would just not look at ...
A. 8 December 2008: wow, good idea.
but how? its cuz all those senior girls hate me soo much, becasue the guy that they like likes me....
so it would be hard... (read in full...)
I like this guy but I'm really shy... how do I tell him how I feel?
Q. I just need a few tips on how to go about this. There's this guy at my college who I like quite a lot, he's in one of my classes, and I've liked him for a few months now. we don't really talk or anything, we just sometimes say hi to each other like ...
A. 28 November 2008: go up to him and say "hey" talk about something that happend recently. theres nothing that guys like more than confidence. go for it girl;D... (read in full...)
Confusing eye contact question.
Q. Hiya! There's this girl I like at school. I caught her looking at me the other day. When I looked at her, she quickly looked away. She has done this a few times now. I don't know how to interpret this. Does she think that I'm checking her out and ...
A. 28 November 2008: she likes you. becuase thats what i do to the guy i like, ust becuase i know he likes me, and i really would want him to smile warmly to me:D... (read in full...)
I have all these qualities and yet don't have a boyfriend... what am I doing wrong?
Q. Confidence? Beauty? Personality? I have all of that, except confidence and I've never had a boyfriend....What am I doing wrong?...
A. 23 November 2008: your not doing anything wrong.
its just that guys now dont really know what they want, and when they finnaly do, its when they go for someone they know they cant get. so ust make sure your that someone, try to put yourself more out there;D... (read in full...)
How will my reputation be at school if I were to sleep with him?
Q. Dear cupid; I'm a 14 year old girl who is being sought by a 17 year old senior at my high shcool. He is unsure whether I like him or not, I think becuause his friends are feeding him the wrong info, so I don't know how to make him know I really l...
A. 16 November 2008: i know, but if you were in my position what would you all do? yeah you all are rigt, but wow this guy is amazing and one other thing i want you guys to know is that, before me and him wernt going out but people thought we were and were looking at me ... (read in full...)
How will my reputation be at school if I were to sleep with him?
Q. Dear cupid; I'm a 14 year old girl who is being sought by a 17 year old senior at my high shcool. He is unsure whether I like him or not, I think becuause his friends are feeding him the wrong info, so I don't know how to make him know I really l...
A. 15 November 2008: You are right, but this guy yea he will want to tell his friends we did stuff but how does that make them say im "easy"?
& god he is so gorgeus i cant get over it...... (read in full...)
Should I ask this girl out, just focus on study, or do both?
Q. Hey Fellows ! I hope everyone is doing great. I've come here to seek help, and which I greatly appreciate. So my story begins. I'm a 17 year old student who is doing final year of school, this year, at my new school, I've seen a sweet girl. Well, sh...
A. 4 November 2008: I think that you should ask her out, chances are she really likes you too. but if you feel intimadated by her, get her alone, or maybe if she gets to class a little early make sure you get there too. everyone can make a little room for a ... (read in full...)
The fact that this guy likes me is screwing up my work!
Q. ok, well i know this senior and we have never talked or anything but he likes me , ALOT. and i now this becuase he looks at me alot, he waites for me to look at him, he would get red in front of me. basicly girl intuiton. so know his friends are ...
A. 3 November 2008: take a look at some of the other questions i have posted than you will undertand that this guy likes me alot.... (read in full...)
When will I get my boobs?!
Q. im 12, nearly 13, im a girl and i have pubes and armpit hair and all of that, but what i wanted to know is when will i start getting boobs? and how will i know im developing? and what age did you have them at? thanks :)...
A. 26 October 2008: when i was 12 i was a 32b, and i didnt really think bout it much. it just comes to you. now im 15 and im a 32c. so time will only tell... (read in full...)
Is there anything that might be stopping him from saying anything to me?
Q. So i really like this guy. and im pretty sure he likes me too! like ultra positive he likes me, he shows all the signs.... he gets red in front of me he shows off. he does things to try to make me notice him. i guess im just being a bitch by not noti...
A. 25 October 2008: The thing is i really want to.... but hes a senior and im not.... i dont want to embaress myself. but today he came into one of my classes so i saw him walking in and looked away, then i looked back at him and i started to smile... he double took on ... (read in full...)
Friends and guys and yea
Q. so i have these stupid friends, or so called"good firends" and they treat me as if they dont know me during school. but when we hang out its like we are bff's and its really pissing me off. i feel like i might be annoying them in a scince but i dont ...
A. 21 October 2008: wow, all of this is great advice. thank you so much. i really hope that all works out and stuff. but i also want to add that i am not looking to be in a despret friend relationship, but i am becoming friends with new people everyday.... (read in full...)
I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.
Q. My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...
A. 21 October 2008: Noo, do not end it. becuase on the internet you seem to be getting differnt impressions of your boyfriend you cant always tell when a person is mad over the computer. so how about you discuss this with him, and he how he feels about it rather than ... (read in full...)
Everyone wants me to divorce him, but I love him so much!
Q. Dear Cupid , My name is Randee, I married a 42 year old man when i was only 18, and everybody wants me to get divorced. But i love him too much, we also had a baby together. He also did drugs. What should i do?...
A. 21 October 2008: i think you should listen to what your family and friends tell you becuase they see it ALOT better than you do. and i know thats hard to hear but its true. so if more than one person is saying it must be for a specific reason.... (read in full...)
I'm only a freshman, what does he see in me?
Q. I'm a freshman in high school and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. Everytime I pass by he gets red, and when I look at him he gets red too. I have no idea if he likes me or not. Maybe he just wants be be my friend and knowing me I'm not ...
A. 17 October 2008: you guys really think he likes me? i mean hes soo good looking. and could probably date anyone, but the thing is yeah im not shy but my older sis is a senior too, which makes it very difficult... what if she sees something going on? i REALLY am ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy. But I hardly know him! Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like this guy. But I hardly know him. I met him through one of my friends and he seems very nice. I am very shy and am not sure how he feels. I want to tell him that I like him but I am afraid our blossming friendship ...
A. 16 October 2008: The best thing to do is talk to him about relationships, than casually bring your feelings in. Guys love it when girls tell them how they feel so say something, maybe even hint to him! but they're always is a down part to it. He might not accept ... (read in full...)
I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?
Q. so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...
A. 16 October 2008: yeah.... I've been taking your advice and been talking to some guy friends more... I guess it's working I've definitely been a changed person.... (read in full...)
I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?
Q. so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...
A. 16 October 2008: wow. thanks. im gonna try but its going to be really hard.... but i have no clue as to what might be really bothering me.....i keep having these intense dreams of these guys i dont know... maybe im lacking a sense of love?... (read in full...)
I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?
Q. so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...
A. 14 October 2008: i tried that once in 7th grade, but the guy thought it was a joke and didnt take my question seriosly..... after that i never ever asked a guy out. thats not me. & your advice was amazing. i did take it very seriusly and to the heart. i feel alot ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help keep these friends?
Q. This year I am starting to make these really cool friends but every time I want to be with them it seems like I did something for them to get pissed at me, or like might be a bother. I'm not sure if they're just in a bad mood or something else..... ...
A. 14 October 2008: i have been doing things of that nature towardss them asking them if i was a bother the other day? or if i did anything to make them upset. but they all responded the same way. & i really like them.... (read in full...)
I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?
Q. so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...
A. 14 October 2008: Yes thank you but it's like I'm in an environment where everyone has a boyfriend, even the un-attractive girls and I'm sitting there with no boyfriend, friends who possibly might be talking about me and horrible grades... I don't know what to do ... (read in full...)
I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?
Q. so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...
A. 14 October 2008: i know but i dont like rejection.... i would but if i do start to see guys and stuff my friends will call me slut and easy..... ... (read in full...)
I really like him... a lot, but does he like me?
Q. I've started to talk to my ex again and it's bringing back old feelings. I've called him every day and find it soo easy to talk to him, we talk about anything and everything. He tells me about the girls he likes and I tell him about the girls and ...
A. 14 October 2008: i think he likes you. but just doesnt want to admit it..... He doesnt like the chase. so stop throwing yourself at him, if you are becuase some guys dont like that. you should have let him make the first move.... (read in full...)
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