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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 5 September 2012: I am happy to hear he is improving and the outlook seems very positive. Please do put yourself first, as your children need you most of all, and I hope he's able to continue his treatment and that things work out for the best for you all. Be well!... (read in full...)
This internet conflict went too far, and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm 15, and i frequently use the website tumblr. i am a sophomore. i made a post with advice for freshman, and at the end i said (jokingly) "if you scream when you see your friends, i'll hit you". this girl messaged me anonymously saying things like ...
A. 4 September 2012: Is there some reason you can't delete your tumblr posts and account?... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend wants to go to prom with me but I'm afraid he won't like me because I am fat.
Q. i have a long distance relationship and he wants me to go with him to his senior prom, i told him i will. HE wants to see me sooner than that and so do i but the problem is im afraid to. I know im fat, but im not really huge like i should be, i ...
A. 1 September 2012: Does your Mom know about his invitation? And when is his prom? August and September or even October aren't renowned for proms.... (read in full...)
Am I mistaking my college advisor's friendliness with other intentions?
Q. Hi everyone, I am 19 and a bit confused about a man I met a few months ago. He works at the college I recently transferred to, and from the beginning, I have been noticing some stuff that makes me raise my eyebrows, but in a good way, if that makes ...
A. 1 September 2012: Ah, well, then, I guess the only advice to you would be to wait and see. Good luck with everything. If you are sincere about your pledge, it seems to be good practice to assume others have similar stances... including him and his wife. :)... (read in full...)
Am I mistaking my college advisor's friendliness with other intentions?
Q. Hi everyone, I am 19 and a bit confused about a man I met a few months ago. He works at the college I recently transferred to, and from the beginning, I have been noticing some stuff that makes me raise my eyebrows, but in a good way, if that makes ...
A. 1 September 2012: So if he's in love with his wife, what does that mean to you?
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I always do favors for a work collegue but she doesn't appreciate me or do anything in return!
Q. There is a certain work collegue I have done many regular favors for over the years. One specific favor takes me out of my way a bit and she has takes it for granted. Yesterday I was stuck and couldnt get my morning coffee. I saw her coming back ...
A. 1 September 2012: "Sorry, I won't be able to continue the favor, as it's taking me out of my way and my schedule won't accommodate it any longer."
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Am I mistaking my college advisor's friendliness with other intentions?
Q. Hi everyone, I am 19 and a bit confused about a man I met a few months ago. He works at the college I recently transferred to, and from the beginning, I have been noticing some stuff that makes me raise my eyebrows, but in a good way, if that makes ...
A. 1 September 2012: Tell us more about why you chose to put on a purity ring.
You're spending a LOT of time thinking about a married teacher. If you are sincere about your pledge, consider what his wife might like you to do.
I'd put some mental distance between ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend wants to go to prom with me but I'm afraid he won't like me because I am fat.
Q. i have a long distance relationship and he wants me to go with him to his senior prom, i told him i will. HE wants to see me sooner than that and so do i but the problem is im afraid to. I know im fat, but im not really huge like i should be, i ...
A. 1 September 2012: Have you ever met him in real life? Maybe the best thing to do is to not go as it will stress you out so much. What did your mother suggest as a solution to the problem? I know my Mom was great with good advice on things that worried me. How about ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I want to try different positions, any suggestions?
Q. I’m tall and my boyfriend is short. Both my boyfriend and I enjoy having sex and are willing to try different positions, other than me on top and missionary! got any suggestions?? ...
A. 1 September 2012: http://www.sexinfo101.com
I think that's the link DoubleM was looking for.
Why not simply try moving your body while he moves his? What works for one couple may not work for another. Enjoy your explorations!... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 30 August 2012: 'I am not overly emotionally involved with her."
"I did mention that I was starting to fall in love with her, because she is good to me,and I do give her the benefit of the doubt."
Um. not into her, totally into her.
One or the other.
Not ... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 30 August 2012: "Her life falling apart" as in......? Sorry, this still doesn't add up. She basically likes you but not enough to leave her husband for you...
You don't want to be in an affair but continue to do so.
"I know it's wong"
She tells you what you wan... (read in full...)
Is it fair of him to ask me to find another home for my cat??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months, I'm 25 he's 27. Things have moved pretty quickly, but we are very happy and talk about the future openingly, and we are definitely in love. We currently live separately, but have talking about getting ...
A. 30 August 2012: I have to wonder about a guy who would want you to give up something you love so much for a nebulous argument. Does your home stink of cat pee and are your possessions covered in cat hair? He's been a boyfriend for 8 months. Your animal companio... (read in full...)
I need someone's help, what should I do? My girlfriend is watching lesbian porn. It bothers me, should I talk to her?
Q. I just found out that my gf is watching lesbian porn...when I'm not home idk its kinda bother me what should I do..we have been togetherfor a year and half and we have sex at least 4 time a week should I talk to her about it ...
A. 30 August 2012: Is there some reason you can't talk to her about it? "Hey, babe, I saw on the internet history that you were looking at some interesting sites.... um... okay, you were looking at lesbian porn... is this something that I should be concerned about? ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a Starbucks barista??
Q. I need advice. I have a huge crush on my local Starbuck's barista. He is just so cute, and I haven't had a crush on anyone for, I swear, 2 years. I go there frequently; however, I don't seem to be going during his shifts as much:/ I see him like 2 ...
A. 30 August 2012: Have you tried just talking to him? As in, getting to know him a bit better and flirting just a bit?
At the worst, you'll get a bit of practice with flirting and at the best, you'll find out shortly if he likes you in that way or not.
"Than... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 30 August 2012: "A complete devastation"? What does that mean, exactly? ... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 30 August 2012: "But, what worries me is the consequences if we get caught. We are having sex several times a week, and it is increasing in passion and frequency. The risk is huge, and I'm worried about getting caught. Not so much for me, but for her."
What's the ... (read in full...)
I'm staring at the dissolution of my marriage...
Q. Hey guys its been a while since I last posted. I thought everything would come along well with my wife and I but I'm sadly mistaken. She has really turned against me. It all started just after she left for her 9 week holiday. She started saying...
A. 30 August 2012: You thought everything would be fine with your marriage? You have had major difficulties and this tone of hers and the vitriol and nastiness are not new in your marriage.
It's very sad and awful but it is time to contemplate life going forward foll... (read in full...)
I'm not in a position where I can get a divorce but I want to get to know this other man. I'm very unhappy and don't know what to do.
Q. I am 28 and have been married for 5 years. I was good at first. But when I got pregnant with our first child my husband starting watching porn. Without getting into massive detail, I eventually confronted him about it and told him how I felt. After ...
A. 30 August 2012: A family member of mine went through a nasty split and lost a great deal of money as a result. It's not nice, it's not fun, but it's worth keeping the awful ex-partner away. The good outweighs the bad in that situation.
Another family member went... (read in full...)
Want to be skinny
Q. i want to get skinny im uk size 8 or 10 but feel really fat i hate my body and need some confidence i have always been a bit chubby and always upset at my body i want to be petit i hate being curvy i find it so unatracctive and fat help me get ...
A. 30 August 2012: Stop looking at the labels on clothes. Your absolute best bet is to pick a sport: tennis, running, swimming, whatever you think would interest you most, then get really involved in it. Your body will naturally adapt and change to do the sport and ... (read in full...)
I need someone to help push me and motivate me!
Q. This is a weird request but here it goes. Im soo fed up of feeling and looking like crap. I have a bad case of PCOS and with that I have the side effects of being over-weight, have more hair than any woman would like and spots. Those are my ma...
A. 22 August 2012: There are loads of online resources for people who need motivation. Here's one place to start looking: http://www.nhs.uk/LiveWell/Loseweight/Pages/Loseweighthome.aspx Your national health service provides a great deal of information and resources ... (read in full...)
Anyone know how I can help my bf who is bi polar get help in alabama
Q. its so frustrating ... I dont want to let him go but i have to.he loves me and trys his best to treat me right but he is bi polar and wont get it under control . He has outragious oust burst that include breaking things punching things and hurtfull ...
A. 22 August 2012: You need to put the safety of your children and your own well-being first. You know how on airplanes, they tell you to put the oxygen mask on yourself first, before helping other people? This is because if you are incapacitated, you cannot help ... (read in full...)
Trust? Betrayal? My Girlfriend cheated and got pregnant so now what?
Q. my GF cheated and got pregnant and the father of the baby died. now shes begging me not to break up with her.and wants me to help her with the baby... i feel like im just being used should i kick her to the curb help her out or what... and im...
A. 22 August 2012: He is the father of the child and has a financial obligation to provide for the child. Make sure the child doesn't suffer as a result of his or her parentage, in other words, she should be getting child support from him. If he has money, he owes ... (read in full...)
I was diagnosed with something I can't find anything about. Can anyone help?
Q. im not sure where else to ask this question or if anyone on this site can help me out, but i was recently diagnosed with red cell antibodies or anti-d antibodies. i've tried to look stuff up online and there just isnt much about it. im not sure i ...
A. 21 August 2012: This question really should be directed to the physician who ordered the testing or your primary care doctor. I found this link http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/antibody-tests which may provide some help but I think it will merely raise more ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to leave me alone?
Q. There's this woman that I work with that took a liking to me. At first she would subtly show interest by asking me how I was and if I needed anything, I could ask her. I never thought anything of it so I started to talk to her on a friendly basis ...
A. 20 August 2012: Have some lines already memorized and practice if needed.
"Brunhilda, you are overstepping the bounds. Stop now."
"Brunhilda, your actions are becoming offensive to me. Stop now."
"Brunhilda, I am not flirting with you. I need for you to leave me ... (read in full...)
What else can I do? Worried I might be infertile, but the Doctors have said come back later. Do not want to test me yet.
Q. Hi. I know this isn't a health forum but I have run out of solutions. I am worried about my fertility and the doctors won't do a thing until I am "trying" (which won't be for a good few more years!). By then it could surely be too late? I started ...
A. 17 August 2012: Let's come at it from this angle: what is it you expect the doctor to do that he or she has not?... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: I see he is unable to answer the questions without an over-reaction, drama, and he now has added name-calling of himself. Is this typical of Aspergers? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome
... (read in full...)
Trust? Betrayal? My Girlfriend cheated and got pregnant so now what?
Q. my GF cheated and got pregnant and the father of the baby died. now shes begging me not to break up with her.and wants me to help her with the baby... i feel like im just being used should i kick her to the curb help her out or what... and im...
A. 17 August 2012: What is best for the baby? That's what should be at the top of her list and the top of yours, for that matter.
In this case, a reluctant Dad who is in school and has no interest in child-rearing has no business becoming a father to a newborn. It w... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: Take So Very Confused's question first, then run through the list I provided from previous answers.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: Here are all the questions that were asked of you that you ignored:
Would you buy a house without knowing anything at all about it? You know what it looks like from the front and where it is, but you don't know anything else. Not the inside, not ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: Though the lack of interest in learning about a person's personality and looking only to find a warm body to fill a role defined by him suggests a narcissist. But then there's that not learning from past mistakes thing, and an unwillingness to learn ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: I don't think he's able to answer the questions we ask. Repetition, rigid thought patterns, fixation, irrational beliefs. Aspergers?... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: I'm doing my best to help you find your wife. You don't appear to be listening, or paying attention. My name is Tisha, not Trisha.
I'm with So Very Confused, that you likely are on the Autism spectrum and have trouble reading or decoding what the ... (read in full...)
How to handle discussions on sex?
Q. I am a 30-year-old male who, due to many factors, has been pretty far behind the curve when it comes to relationships and sex. I didn't date in any form for most of my 20s due to personal issues. I've managed to turn things around a bit these past ...
A. 16 August 2012: "A gentleman does not kiss and tell. I will tell you that I am not a virgin and my number is less than 5. I won't ask you for your detailed sexual history, as it has no bearing on our dating. Now, then, do you like sushi or Italian?"... (read in full...)
Why did he do this? He has blocked my number, blocked me from his facebook and on other social network site
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years always put me down whenever he talks to me, he talks as if im invalid, good for nothing,uses me just for my money. I had enough and i told him im not going to call him anymore. I thought he might chnage his ways...
A. 16 August 2012: You broke up with him hoping he would see the light and change his ways? I guess that backfired on you.
How do you stop yourself from begging him to take you back? Write down everything that was wrong with the relationship on an index card and lami... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: I said 'yes' to my man who asked to marry me. And So Very Confused said 'yes' more than once, so your premise that no woman will marry a man who asks her seems to me to be incorrect. You're basing your approach to achieving matrimony on flawed ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Let's see, I'd have to divorce my lovely husband of 18 years, whom I've been with for 21 years, and known for 23 years total, for a stranger who has rigid ideas about gender roles and no interest in courtship. A stranger who wants to get straight ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: "If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you say Yes? "
Getting back to your original question, if a... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: I've been married for 18 years. We dated for 3 years and were friends for 2 years before that.
You really do need to pick your pool of candidates better.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: You want to go straight to having babies and being the "man of the house." That requires a level of trust. You haven't spent the time to build the trust. There's no way to know if you are sincere or you are lazy or what is going on wit you.
T... (read in full...)
Why is there pain when I have sex?
Q. Hi everyone. This is a bit embaressing but i need some help. Me and my boyfriend started having sex about a month ago (we were each others first time) but every time we do it its really painful for me. I don't understand why this is and its really ...
A. 15 August 2012: Is it possible your hymen is still intact? Some women are born with especially thick ones and simply starting intercourse isn't sufficient to break them. We assume you have seen your gynecologist, right?
The NHS have a very comprehensive webs... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm with my boyfriend!
Q. hi guys. Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship...the problem is he can't make me orgasm. To begin with I thought it would probably sort itself out as we got more used to what each other liked etc, but we've been having sex for about 2 months ...
A. 15 August 2012: Can you bring yourself to orgasm? When you say "having sex" does that mean sexual intercourse only or are there other forms of sexual intimacy such as manual or oral?
We have lots of questions on this topic already in the archives while you clar... (read in full...)
Will it work out if we start all over again on a stronger footing where I am no longer his Booty Call?
Q. Well after one year of hanging out with him, I expressed that I didn't want to be a "booty-call/fwb/F-buddy", that after all this time my emotions were involved. Here is the exact text I sent him ... "After 1year of this with you my emotions...
A. 15 August 2012: Wait, was he dating someone while you were booty call? He said he "just came out of a relationship."
He knows you well enough to know if he wants to date you officially. I'd sit back and take him up on the offer to talk and see what he does. If he d... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: Wasn't it Rev. Sun Myung Moon who matched up people and then performed a mass wedding back in the 80's? Maybe the Unification Church (as the group Rev. Moon founded is called) would be a good source for women who are willing to be matched up in such ... (read in full...)
| *isha-1's friends
These are mutual friends, so *isha-1 has
added them and they have added *isha-1!
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![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png){kind=small}
