First boyfriend. But it's not working. What's the best way to break up with a boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 16, I've had a boyfriend for 3 months but I just feel like its not right anymore. How do I break up with him? Do I need to lead up to it- be offhand/busy if he wants to see me, not reply to texts properly etc so he knows...
A. 25 January 2013: If he really likes you then you shouldnt start giving him bad signs and ignore him and that. You should be honest with him because he'll appreciate it more. Tell him that you need to speak to him about your relationship and maybe do it face to face ... (read in full...)
He got another girl pregnant when he and I first started seeing each other
Q. Basically its a long story but I met this guy about 6 months ago now and at first i didnt think anything would happen. But as time passed I gradually fell for him. You could say we've got a "thing" going on. I probably like him much more than he ...
A. 19 April 2012: thanks for all the comments guys, i do get what everyone is saying, its just hard to let go seeing as i really like him, and i know hes not good for me and i can do better but for some reason i just dont want to let go. i dont know why , but yeah i ... (read in full...)
Will I ever stop thinking and dreaming of him?
Q. i bumped into my ex of four years abt 3days ago..we broke up fr a year it was a bumpy relationship but i loved him through thick and thin.he ended up breaken my heart into thousands of little pieces and i felt exactly the same way at dat moment.it ...
A. 26 May 2011: You will eventually be happy again, just some things take logner to pass by than others, and you will the right person for you one day, you just have no idea when, however whenever you see this guy you may always get that feeling, after all you was ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends are in a relationship and it's making me uncomfortable
Q. One of my close friends (lets call her M) who i've been quite good friends with for about 4 years, has actually decided that she's bisexual, and she has a thing for my best friend (lets call her A) . I know A likes her back in a way, but not so ...
A. 4 May 2011: The thing is though there's not much more to say about the awkwardness with them, when us three are sat in a group , whenever it gets awkward me or A end up shouting out that its awkward anyway! I do have other friends, its just that these are the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends are in a relationship and it's making me uncomfortable
Q. One of my close friends (lets call her M) who i've been quite good friends with for about 4 years, has actually decided that she's bisexual, and she has a thing for my best friend (lets call her A) . I know A likes her back in a way, but not so ...
A. 3 May 2011: I get what your saying to the first comment, but everyone thinks its awkward, i do, M does and so does A. They're the people i hang out with outside of school, and them two are like my only true friends. SO i cant stop hanging out with them an... (read in full...)
All my friends are getting happy together. How do I cope with my feelings for one of them?.
Q. Im stuck in a tricky situation. I still like the boy I've liked for like a year now, and now his girlfriend has broken up with him. he's been left single which gives me more of a chance. But now his ex girlfriend has just started talking to me, and ...
A. 3 May 2011: Thank you, and i know i just really feel like im starting to like M more andd more.
And this other guy we've been through hell and back , he knows i "liked" him, but by the time i told him , he didnt really want much to do with me. Im always goin... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and in love with a sixth former! Should I ask him out?
Q. im 13 and in love with a 6 form(17) i dont no what to do. he try's to talk to me at school but im to shy to reply or he gets interupted by my friends. im not sure if i should ask him out because im worried about what he will say and my friends say ...
A. 23 February 2011: Well first off all im not much older than you.. your not in "love" with him. You may think you are but trust me your not. your 13 how could you be in love; he's just probably the closest thing you've had to love so far in your life..
If you real... (read in full...)
Am I being too jealous or should I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend is a photographer. I was looking at his messgaes and one of his collegues messaged him, i looked and it turned out he was flirting with her and offered her sex. I looked through his other messages and he told another girl that he loved ...
A. 23 February 2011: I dontt think your being jealous ; but because of his job its hard not to be.
would you like him to maybe cheat on you? think of that , you said he was offereing one of his colleagues sex , if hes going to be like that do you deserve him?
just ... (read in full...)
Did I mess this up? Or is he afraid of being hurt?
Q. Here is the background: I met this guy who's different than anyone I've ever known. I feel lucky to have met him. We both really like each other. We appreciate each other's humor, interests, differences, etc. We also have amazing chemistry. We ...
A. 22 February 2011: Well by the seems off it you really like him , so maybe you should give him a chance, and let them walls down. Tell him you miss him first to let him know youre not holding back, and in this way he will know that you still like him. I think the only ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but he told me to go on home after a few minutes! I was quiet and a bit drunk.. how do I fix this?
Q. This guy added me on facebook like a year ago now, we got talking, and nowdays we're always texting and on the phone. Ive wanted to meet him for so long! but something kept pulling me back. i finally went to see him yesterday. He took ages to come,...
A. 13 December 2010: He knows im not that shy as a person though, and he was beginning to see that the other day. But the thing is though when im tetxing him and on the phone to him it just feels right. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I love a 17 year old. Is it wrong?
Q. Hello Im 14 years old I Met this 17 year old and i really like him but he has a girlfriend Hes been with her for nearly 2 years,My mum and dad are really really protective and wont even let me hang aroung with him my dad even rang him! and told...
A. 4 September 2010: Well 14 and 17 aint that big of an age gap. 3 years! Its like you saying its wrong fore a 28 year old to go out with a 25 year old. How old are your parents? If they have an age gap which is of 3years or more, explain that to them. How old were they ... (read in full...)
Why does he keep bring up the past?
Q. what does he want?... everytime where together he brings up the past but he doesnt look for me... what i mean is that he doesnt call me or vist me or even txt me (i dont think he doesnt because of his working schedual... because a minute call ...
A. 4 September 2010: Maybe he missses the past, he misses youu two together. Maybe hes hinting to you as well, thatt he misses the past, and wants to get back together. Maybe you should mention it to him, ask why he always talks about the past. Or if your interested ... (read in full...)
He ended it so why is he working so hard at this friendship?
Q. [OP original title] My ex and i were together for just 6 months. I hadnt seen him for many years before we got together and both of us had a lot of expectations we couldnt live up to. I was on edge the whole time because I felt like i couldnt live...
A. 8 August 2010: He really likes you as a friend, but he just fell out of love with you?
Alsoo, he might have seen people brake up, and say their going to be friends, then they dont and how awkward it turns out. and he doesnt want that to happen to you?
can y... (read in full...)
Thinking of asking him out. Ideas for a date?
Q. im thinking of asking this man out somewhere. my friends says he will say yes and it seems that he likes me a lot. anyway, im 18 and he is 29, and i was wondering where are good places to go on a first date. one friend suggested bowling and then din...
A. 8 August 2010: how about the cinema then a meal? classic, watch something your both enjoy, then during the meal you have things to talk about. ... (read in full...)
Why do friends of a guy make noise when you pass by them?
Q. he used to make lot of eye contact and smiles at you whenever you look at him.if he is standing with his group of friends he used to move out so that you notice him.does that mean he likes you? but you stop looking at him as he never approached...
A. 8 August 2010: They're just tryin to get your attention. Hes tryna show off to his friends, and mkae it look like hes got you wrapped around his finger and all that. Just ignore it then see what happens
Good luck, and can you try and answer one of my ques... (read in full...)
My teacher made strange comments to me. What do they mean?
Q. Does this teacher like me? Well i have a teacher and she's a girl it started of when my friend ask for her phone number and i did as well.(im a girl) on that day we started texting, then stopped. then three weeks later she texted me and greete...
A. 8 August 2010: SHould a teacher even be allowed to have contact with you, cos in england they would get sued from their job :\
I think your teeacher is lonely, and may be a bi-sexual but shes got to rememeber your one of her students.
Good luck and can you ... (read in full...)
I don't want my friends to drop me!
Q. Two years ago I started secondary school knowing a few people including my "best friend" Laura. Anyway I became quite popular so much so that lots of boys started paying me attention this was alright with everyone except Laura who had a gigantic ...
A. 8 August 2010: It doesnt matter about popularity, talk to this girl laura and the other if you feel the need to, but dont tell them too much about you cos they can turn it against you.
Just stay with friends you can trust , popularity isnt always the best thin... (read in full...)
I like this guy alot but he went after my friend who is now moving. Should I try again with him?
Q. so my first year of college (i am starting my fourth year now)i had a little fling with a guy, let's call him adam. we got along so well, he's nice, smart, attractive, amazing, etc. i liked him so much. but i'm sure i came on a little too strong ...
A. 8 August 2010: Well you like this guy alot, so either tell your friend that you really like "adam." when she moves , give it a bit of time, but then get close to adam again , don't rush into it whatever you do. Just stay at frriends for atleast a month. Dont kiss ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid conflict and enjoy the trip?
Q. when I started middle school I was bullied by my "friends" because I didn't want to follow people and wanted to be myself. Since starting high school I haven't been in any of their classes and it's been better as we haven't had much contact so ...
A. 8 August 2010: To avoid conflict get to know more people like in the year above, and just hang out with them. Theres no point even making an effort to be civil to the haters. If they talk aboutt you, let them , ignore them thats what they hate the most and soon ... (read in full...)
What to do... I like my brother's best friend...
Q. I'm 13 and I like my brother's best friend he's 15. I just found out that he likes me the same way but doesn't want anyone to know. Then he told me that he just broke up with his gf. Wut should i do??? ...
A. 22 July 2010: it seems like he has it in for you. he likes you, one way or another. either he really does like you but hes probably afraid of you being his best mates sister. or hes just using you so he can rub it in his bestfrienda face or just for sex or ... (read in full...)
14 and thinking about losing my virginity, can anybody tell me about their first time?
Q. i started dating this wonderful guy in April of this year. we're pretty young and all but we love each other. he swears he loves me more and i believe he loves me :] he turned 15 last month and i turned 14 5 months ago. we were dating on his ...
A. 22 July 2010: ok im still a virgin and im your age. its totally up to you, but this can change your life forever. once you have lost it its gone. would you rather wait til your older or wait a bit longer as in you ahvent discovered who you are properly. i was in ... (read in full...)
I'm caught in a sort of love triangle, what should I do?
Q. so there is this boy that i was getting with and we liked eachother quite alot then we slept together, then he never really contacted me again (i know he used to like me cuz he told people he did) then we seen eachother a few times after an we didnt ...
A. 14 July 2010: well .. obviously this guy only wanted you for sex maybe. but he still does like you.
but the thing is this other boy, you cant realy make yourself like him, hang around with him more and get to know him. if you dont like him then you dont, you real... (read in full...)
Finally got the courage to admit my feelings and he's not replying. What shall I do next?
Q. Hey ive wrote on here before but can't remember when i posted my last questions so here basically what happened. Me and this guy had been friends for some time, we never really spoke much then a groupo of 4 of us(me him and a couple) started going ...
A. 2 July 2010: try text him or even ring him again. just put it straight forward, make him listen to your side of the story, let him have a chance if he wants to speak what his feelings are, but if he doesnt reply, send him one text saying fine, you've heard my... (read in full...)
Want to stay friends with my ex, but he is drawing away, help??
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend, or should I say ex, just broke up last Thursday because it wasn't working between us. We agreed to stay friends seeing as we were really good mates before we started going out and neither of us wanted to ruin that ...
A. 2 July 2010: well to start off as friendship which changes to releationships is hard to go back to being normal friendships. because ; -your both getting over the fact that you two have broken up -your getting used to being single again -you may be missi... (read in full...)
How do I improve my self-esteem, I hate my looks??
Q. I hate myself, because I feel ugly and disgusting. I'm not fat and people say I look ok, but average is not enough for me. I don't know what to do. Everytime I see a beautiful woman, I get depressed. So yes, I'm constantly depressed, every day, ...
A. 2 July 2010: Well if your a religious person-just think God made everyone and obviously hes happy with the way you look. you should be proud of the appearance god gave you. also think this way-you may only think the negative sides of you, and wehn you look in... (read in full...)
Why does he keep pictures of him with his ex?
Q. I found pictures of my boyfriend with his ex gf in a drawer. They were romantic pictures of them at a beach. Is he not over her? Does he look back at those times and reflect on them as good times? Why would he keep those pictures though ...
A. 26 June 2010: Either he still has feelings for her.. or he just likes having pictures of memories, and that was an unconvienent time for you to go through that drawer and only find those pictures.. if you ask him, he mightt be offended you went through his draw... (read in full...)
I'm worried that sex is going to really hurt with my boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. when i'm masturbating i can't get 2 fingers in, me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but im really paranoid its going to really hurt if i can't even get 2 fingers in, what should i do?...
A. 1 June 2010: if you really want to do it now, keep practisin. are you wet ? if your not this isnt going to work.
but your age says 13-15, and my age is 13-15 aswell, a lot of my friends have had sex, and alot regret it.
do you really want too loose your vir... (read in full...)
What should I say to the boy I like? I really struggle to find the words when I am with him!
Q. can you help me by telling me what to say to a boy that i like but he doesnt know that i like him.... everytime i call him i just say hello and there is a big pause after that because i dont know what to say. remember that he doesnt know i like him....
A. 1 June 2010: well either face to face or online or text just get to know him more. when he asks why you dont speak much just say im a shy person, and thats why i prefer when people make conversation with me because otherwise it just gets awkward.
my only advi... (read in full...)
Love triangle with a twist
Q. its a bit of a long story but here goes.. last year when i was 14, i went out with a guy that was 17, i really liked him and we fell in love with each other. after a while of being with him his boss somehow found out about the relationship, se...
A. 5 May 2010: Well i think the fact is that he is craving for a girlfriend right now, and he wants that to be you, and hes falling for you alot. but because of his job, he has someone else, and is using you until either you both get fed up of it, or until your ... (read in full...)
Is the love still there?
Q. Okay, So I've been going out with this guy for just over 2 months now, The 1st month was really new and exciting, we acted like we were best friends and still had so much to share and talk about, It was really fun and amazing and we both put 100% ...
A. 5 May 2010: Maybe your both just starting to get bored, according your age here your about my age, so to be honest experimenting is the best.. But what i found what really helped me , which maybe you should take into consideration is that what if your explained ... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend is pregnant! What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid my bf had broken up with his ex-girlfriend for about four months and we have been in love with him for about five months and then his ex came saying she pregnant and he is the one responsible, she also said that since she pregnant she is ...
A. 28 April 2010: I would personally say wait.
I think you need to sit down with him and discuss this. So this girl may be carrying his baby, but hes not in love with her. He can stil be in love with you and be responsible for the baby aswell. But when the baby is b... (read in full...)
Bad experiences with guys, I'm starting to think there's something seriously wrong with me!
Q. ok so i know to a lot of people this would sound like a ridiculous question and i would deny it was true if it was happening to someone else but it's not and i'm having a really hard time convincing myself that there's nothing wrong with me. So to ...
A. 28 April 2010: Ok so you cant blame yourself with this.
Everything happens for a reason, and obviously this wasnt meant to happen. But theres a time for everything, its all a part of life..
Just when you next find someone who seems like that special someone,... (read in full...)
What to do now he knows?
Q. The other day I texted my crush/ friend that I had a little crush on him. After that he wasn’t much different acting that I noticed and there was one point last week that I thought he told people but he didn’t tell anyone. I don’t know why he would ...
A. 23 November 2009: Put it this way, we don't know for certain when the world will end, so atleast he now knows how you feel . Honesty is the best policy :)
Try and act normal with him, if he is ignoring your texts and all that. When you see him, even though it migh... (read in full...)
She makes out with me and then tells me she just wants to be friends! I'm so confused!
Q. ok so this girl and I have been talking for over a month now. I really like her! she says she likes me. however I'm not sure and just wanna confirm it. we have partied together a few times and every time she has found me and been right next to me...
A. 23 November 2009: I think she is just confused at the moment. Maybe she just wants a guy and a fling going on, and just fun, and too not get too serious.
At the moment, give her space when she needs it, as she might feel right at the time, but after everything she ... (read in full...)
Whats the first step after releasing yourself?
Q. I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him...
A. 23 November 2009: Now that you have moved on, and have realised how mnuch hard work boys really are, just get on with your life.
go out there and accomplish your dreams and do what you've always wanted to experience. I don't know what kind of person you are, but ... (read in full...)
If we're mates like he says we are what with the going hot and cold all of a sudden?
Q. Somethings just seem to be beyond a mystery. Im just wondring if you couldfigureout a reason for this. This guy is a good friend of mine, ok hesone of my best friends, ive never told him that though but before when things have got awkard through p...
A. 23 November 2009: I think when it ends up being awkward, he has a lot of things going through his mind. i think most the time he is confused about his life, and with some stuff he might decide to not tell you , as even thought your close, he might just be one of ... (read in full...)
Is there such thing as love at first sight?
Q. Is there such thing as love at first sight? Iv met this girl and only been out with her a few times and something just feels right about it and like we have a connection, i didnt want to sat anything but she said thats how she felt the same wa...
A. 4 October 2009: i believe that there is.
even though im young, the first time i was actually introduced to this guy, i felt a connection.. then things started,we linked, we aren't linking now, but we still love each other. its complicated .
but if you think th... (read in full...)
I'm confused and scared but he's playing games!
Q. me and this guy have been kind of a on and off realtionship for a year and a month. we finally had sex after a year and the third time we had sex the condom had busted, and we arent together. he told me he would step up and be a man if i got ...
A. 4 October 2009: if you aren't pregnant,somehow you should try and move on, as he aint worth it
but if you are pregnant, tell him. explain to him you know that he;s scared and you are to..discuss what the possibilities are, and remember he is over 16 your not,... (read in full...)
Meeting my ex for the first time since break up
Q. Hey everyone I broke up with my boyfriend of 8months about 10 days ago over the phone. Was sort of mutual - his lack of communication for the 3 weeks previously had annoyed me intensely, and also given me a vague idea that he wasn't feeling t...
A. 4 October 2009: when you meet, just hug him as a friend and be like, so hows life going ?
just act normally,it might be a bit awkward and have a few silences, but just try and make conversation.
just take it stey by step, if something does go wrong and i mean s... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and parents won't let me date!
Q. I am 20 years old and I am still with my high school sweet-heart. Our relationship began 4 years ago and we feel to be really in love til' this day. I really love him and wouldn't doubt spending the rest of my life with him, we have been going to ...
A. 6 September 2009: Hmmm,well yes your parents might seem strict but the truth of the matter is they want you to have a good life,good job,without it all getting messed up with love problems and mistakes like for example if you got pregnant. What you should do is try a... (read in full...)
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