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... Send *anza a private message | | | *anza's profile:my names yanza nd i am still in my teens and yet i have been through ALOT in my life time.
i am from the U.K and have quite alot of experience when it comes to relationships.
my relationship status is curently COMPLICATED im not really sure what to do but i have been getting some great advice.
i am here to help in any way i can and i will always try my best no problem is to small.
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Should I have sex at 13?
Q. i want to have sex with my boyfriend and he wants to as well but we r only 13 is it ok if we did?...
A. 11 June 2009: ok hear is the question do you really want to look back and remember that at 13 i lost my virginity because me and my boyfriend wanted to?
what are the chances of you and him being together forever?
im 15 and personally i have been tempted but i he... (read in full...)
I feel like a fool! How do I forget him?
Q. I love a guy bcoz I always felt that he is very innocent and never can flirt with girls. A year later one of my friends told him that i love him. that time he did not said anything but a couple of days later he said that his first priorty is his ...
A. 9 June 2009: this guy sounds like a complete and utter jerk. a real user of women if you have to try that hard to get his attention he is sooo not worth it. stay away from him he is bad news. there are plenty of other guys out there who would appreiciate you ... (read in full...)
My family won't allow us to date again.
Q. I am 17 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. My ex-boyfriend was good to me in the beginning and the last year was bad. He tried to cheat on me with my best friend, he said mean things to me - he hated to touch my hand, he ...
A. 9 June 2009: im so sorry to here what you ahve been through with this guy but he sounds no good. you have to remember at the end of the day your family have a unclouded view of him and can see that he is never going to change. you deserve kindness and respect ... (read in full...)
He was my first love so should I talk to him or not, now?
Q. When i was fourteen i had a massive crush on this boy from the first time i met him, One day i found out he moved in by me and i was so excited. He was my first crush, first kiss, basically he is my first love. We hung out all the time and things ...
A. 8 June 2009: im in the exact same situation right now. it is really hard when you feel so strongly about another person and you dont think they feel the same way or at least not as strongly as you do. the only advice i can give you is to TRY and move on. you ... (read in full...)
Is something wrong with me because I don't want to or like to masturbate?
Q. Im not sure if i have a problem or not, i cant masturbate, its not because i dont know how but simply because i dont want to and i think the thought is so dirty so i never do it. my boyfriend always tells me i should do it and that it will des...
A. 8 June 2009: there is absoulutely nothing wrong with you. many girls dont feel confortable masturbating and infront of a partner is a HUGE step.
if he loves you then it will not cause any problems, him not getting what he wants for once wont kill him.
i h... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him? He cheated on me once already
Q. This is very complicated, please help. I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend (Danny) is 17, i live in essex and he lives in manchester, which is 251miles apart, yes long distance. We both handle this distance well, because when we are together, it is li...
A. 8 June 2009: it sounds like you really do love him alot and you are a really strong person to forgive him in the first place. he loves you but he may be taking you for granted because he knows that you will take him back no matter what since your forgave him ... (read in full...)
Was this rape?? What do I do?
Q. I have a problem.I doubt anyone will want to help me but I hope so.I took a girl out on our first ever date, and we went clubbing..we preceeded to get horribly drunk, and had to get a motel because I didnt want to risk driving her home...there was ...
A. 8 June 2009: woah now that really is mixed messages but at the end of the day you were both heavily drunk and maybe she doesnt remember the night like you do. if your even sure thats how it happened.
get in touch with her and ask her to explain what she mean... (read in full...)
I just don't know what to do with myself
Q. I really like this guy an awful lot but im afraid that when we meet im going to be a total disappointment. He knows im not a stick insect which i wish to change so i was a little thinner and he knows all this stuff about me i just don't know if he ...
A. 7 June 2009: if you are really that worried about what he thinks you look like then maybe you should rethink this whole thing. if he likes you he would like you for being you and wouldnt wish for you to change ANYTHING about you.
i feel the same way at time... (read in full...)
No one likes me... why???
Q. Hi, im 14 and two years ago I had a bf for the first time. After 3 months I dumped him cuz I felt like I was only with him cuz I were desperate. I havent had a bf since an I feel dead lonely and depressed cuz no one likes me. Can anyone give me any ...
A. 7 June 2009: you are defo not doing anything wrong. your only 14 and you are still discovering who you are and what you want in life. take it slow the right guy will come alone but only when the time is right and when you are mentally ready for it. so dont worry ... (read in full...)
Is he actually interested at all? Should I get him off my mind?
Q. i am definitly confused,please someone help me.a long time ago i went to this party and ive seen this guy there.the next day i went on myspace and wrote the guy a message saying the party was awesome and his a college guy and he said he has seen ...
A. 7 June 2009: im not really sure about this one. he may like you but i doubt you are constantly on his mind like he is on yours. sorry. i think you should leave it a bit longer and see what else happens but dont tie yourself down to just him because you never ... (read in full...)
How do I go about finding out if he does like me?
Q. so, there is this guy... big surprise... and i've know him for a few months, never really thought of him romantically. I mean, he's nice and all, i just didn't really think he was my type. Recently, in the past couple of weeks, I can't STOP thi...
A. 6 June 2009: lol awww you two sound like you would make a good couple. he obviously does like you but just like he isnt sure if you like hiim back. take it slow and get to know each other better just be yourself. like when he puts his arm around you let h... (read in full...)
I realise after 3 days that I don't like him, when/how to tell him?
Q. Ok... so im with this new guy. his totally sweet and everything we have been together 3day today. The prooblem is, i had feelings for him before we got together but then yesterday i didnt have any, i dont know what to do. I dont want to dump him...
A. 5 June 2009: i have been in the exact same position.
dont leave him hanging tell him as soon as you can it may hurt him but it will be alot worse if you leave it any longer.
its the best thing for the both of you it will be ok for you both
hope this hel... (read in full...)
My friends say he might like me. Any suggestions?
Q. So i really really really like this guy more than anyone i've ever liked before i can never stop myself from staring at him, i think about him every single minute of the day and my heart beats 3894723847829374 times a minutes when im near him im ...
A. 5 June 2009: he does like you.
just get to know him better and dont be so hard on yourself he obviously likes you so you muct be doing something right.
sit next to him in class and just relax be yourself theres nothing to really lose only things you could ga... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to see me any more, but I know he cares?
Q. i have been seeing a guy for the past 4years.its had its up and downs. he has felt that i have put constant pressure on him and am probably guilty of it. when we are together we normally get along fine. lack of time is the problem and i put pressure ...
A. 5 June 2009: just give him time.
if you two have been together for 4 years there must of been some really strong feeling between you two and i doubt that they have just died away. he does still care for you but just wants his space so let him have it for a whil... (read in full...)
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