I pray that he will call because I know we can both learn from this and be happy. Will he change?
Q. Hi People... I really need advice on my current situation, my story is quite long but il write this as quick as i can! I was with my ex for 9 year (we got engaged at xmas), we split 2 month ago. We have been living together for the past 2 ye...
A. 30 June 2008: So happy its helped you!
There's nothing worse than being stuck in a confusion just not knowing what to do! I only found this site myself and needed guidance too and thankfully got great advice!
Glad I was able to help!
Have fun enjoying you sin... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 30 June 2008: Tisha...a little update from the land of caveman and mystied woman!
Well I stuck by my guns and my sister stayed over. I was just as you adviced and was civil to him the whole time. He was lovely to my sister...they get on well.
We had a big conc... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 26 June 2008: well all hell let loose there!
he can go feck himself tisha!
I am going agead with my plans and to that he said well there you go again putting everyone ahead of me....as usual you care more about others!!!!!!
MY SISTER?!??!?!?! ... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 26 June 2008: Tisha..not good!!! After talking on email really openly yesterday I thought I might come home (although I didn't finish work to late...so that might be a reason), to him sitting up ready to talk. He knew I had my sister coming over to stay with us ... (read in full...)
I pray that he will call because I know we can both learn from this and be happy. Will he change?
Q. Hi People... I really need advice on my current situation, my story is quite long but il write this as quick as i can! I was with my ex for 9 year (we got engaged at xmas), we split 2 month ago. We have been living together for the past 2 ye...
A. 25 June 2008: Yeah...I would be going mental to tell you the truth!
I was hte person who replied to the second time...I'm the one who didn't know quiet what to say!
3 times a week and you have to go to work?!
Seriously there was a major block in his com... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 25 June 2008: Your letter is brilliant! lol I was laughing my leg off.
I'll definately give that a go tonight if he isn't asleep by the time i get home that is! Or he may have miraculously came out of his cave.
I did the test last night and got
ENFJ an... (read in full...)
I don't know how to approach the topic of sex, without hurting his feelings.
Q. I've been goin out with my b/f for almost 2 years and we never have sex. He put it off at first saying he had too much to drink, or that he was too tired, but then he eventually told me he had a problem with gettin it up 'coz he's so nervous about ...
A. 24 June 2008: Yikes! Yer in a difficult situation there!
Obviously it must have taken a lot of courage for him to open up to admit it at the start...maybe you should just let him know that the problem isn't really the sex issue..it's that he can't talk to you.... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 24 June 2008: I think you're some sort of Angel!
Thank you! Can't believe I managed to get usch great advice.
All your points make good sense to me.
Especially the couples counselling...
the in his cave recharging his batteries has stopped me in my tracks ... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 24 June 2008: Thank you Tisha. I can't believe your generousity of time and spirit in replying to my request for help!!! Such wise words too!!!
The trust issue is from a past hurt, I had left him when we were young and went straight into a relationship with his... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 23 June 2008: oh I just noticed it's going to take a couple of hours...thats ok then! Phew!... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 23 June 2008: I wrote a big reply and I don't think it got posted...yikes...it was huge!!! lol... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and I don't even know if we are together or not...
Q. Hi, I've been with my partner for 5 years. When we argue he goes into silent mode and just wont talk. We were in a really great place in our relationship two nights ago and then it all fell apart. We were invited to my sisters and he said he wasn'...
A. 23 June 2008: Two very good replies...very different but both acurate!
Tisha...you were right there is more to it...and just girl so were you the wine was just a way for him to start a fight.
He still isn't talking to me so he wrote me an email..e... (read in full...)
My partner has a split personality, will he ever change?? What should I do??
Q. My partner of 5 years has a split personality. He is a paranoid, possessive boozer. I love him to bits when he is Hyde. He is the most kind, loveable, generous, entertaining, knowledgeable man. Whan he is Jeckel I hate him with a vengence. If he ...
A. 23 June 2008: I am with a Gemini so I can understand the comment made about split personality. Its really hard...my partner is kind of similar..he drinks a fair bit, but majority of the time he is brilliant, but if i do my own thing...something he doesn't ... (read in full...)
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