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... Send *ranny1297 a private message | | | *ranny1297's profile:Hey, my nikname is Franny, im 16t is a bit young to be an agony aunt, but im a great adviser, and can manly help out with teen, home, dating, crushes, friends, family problems as i have experienced all. I am great with babies, toddlers and little kids . My desired job is to be a teacher. I even help out my friends at school when they have a problem and i give the best advice i could.
Sometimes i do have problems of my own and come to dearcupid for help, when im truly stuck. I take that advice on board and use it when other people need the same kind of help. I may be young but i have experienced more than anyone could think.
.NEVER trust a lier, they will lie again and again, if you don't tust them there's a reason for it, LISTEN to it.
.We all have a conscience and instincts, listen to them because your conscience is always good.
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How do I comfort a friend who learned he has herpes?
Q. One of my really close friends got genital herpes and I'm so in shock. He and I have had an on and off fling for a while, but never even kissed cause he's super all over the place. He's practically in love with me, I guess, but anyways that's ...
A. 3 July 2017: Firstly, my greater compassion goes out to your friend. He has every reason to feel terrible. Right now it is important that he has time to grieve and cry over this, and for you to be there for him and a shoulder to cry on. He needs to accept that ... (read in full...)
I like him but I'm too shy to talk to him
Q. I like a guy, but I'm kinda shy. I don't have the guts to talk to him yet. I had his sister tell him I like him and he said cool. But the thing is, he doesn't know me. I was going to have his sister introduce us, but I don't have enough confidence ...
A. 24 October 2014: Not enough info. How do you know him? don't get other people to do things for you, i was once shy like you. It's cool, i know how hard it can be because this happens to me all the time, your attitude now is like reading the past me, Lol. Tell me ... (read in full...)
How do I get out of my depressed slump?
Q. I’ve been feeling so shitty lately. I feel very inadequate in who I am and in everything I do. It’s like no matter what I do, No matter how hard I try, I’ll never be good enough. I'm not the smartest, the wittiest, the funniest, or the most ...
A. 24 October 2014: Hey, i'm sorry about this, and i can relate. Let me begin with, there will be times in our lives when we won't feel good enough, no matter what we do, you have to accept that there will always be someone better than us in something. But the most ... (read in full...)
Should he still be friends with her on Facebook?
Q. I just found out my boyfriend is friends on Facebook with a girl he had a one night stand with while we were split up for a period last year. It probably shouldn't be a big deal but she just commented on his status and it really bothered me. It gave ...
A. 24 October 2014: Don't worry, do you think he knew this person before? In all honesty, it's just Facebook, a social networking site, he loves you and you should trust him. So much rubbish happens there and why are you jealous? are you jealous that the one night ... (read in full...)
My parents are up fighting and talking at night and I can't sleep!
Q. My parents don't let me sleep at night! In 2013 I developed an eating disorder followed with random binges due to a lifetime of my dad's bulling and being a sensitive person, and continued despite all of this. He also abused everyone in my f...
A. 26 August 2014: Thank you so much - I feel a bit better :) My grandparents are dead, all my relatives live abroad, and my aunty and her family are corrupted themselves. Again thank you so much xx
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My friend is copying me! it is annoying me!
Q. This is so annoying. My friend is copying my piercing - I know there are many out there who have the second lobe piercing. She is copying me because I've been deciding if I wanted the second piercing done now for about a couple of years and finally ...
A. 21 June 2014: Firstly, I not spoilt and secondly, this is not my biggest concern, my biggest concerns is my family, GCSE's and future, the piercing is something so small that I happened to be mad about! - Im not a bad person really, I must have just been angry ... (read in full...)
I want her molester jailed
Q. I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 20. She is my life and I love her so much and i'd do anything for her. We are together 1year and half . Last night alot of things she told me about a guy who groomed her at 12 years to 14 and i cant get it out of my ...
A. 1 June 2014: Firstly, I am so sorry for girlfriend, I would be fuming if this happened to someone I love. Do not go behind her back. Ever! this will break your trust with her, and the outcome will be horrible. Remember, it is her life, her decisions. You can ... (read in full...)
Why is this boy from my primary school class talking to me on FB?
Q. Ok, im not so sure how to feel, but obviously when you leave primary school everyone adds each other on Facebook, just to keep in contact but really, the outcome is that people from primary don't talk anymore, right? Well, I did confirmation cla...
A. 1 June 2014: Thanks Mark, a great answer, I was a bit blunt with him due to my confusion and he's stopped talking, ah well. Bye.... (read in full...)
I'm having sex dreams about my average teacher!
Q. I'm 18 so its not like I'm new to the dating pool or even a virgin so most of what happened is strange. I had a dream I had sex with my English teacher, it was amazing but I've never thought about his like for a moment in the past three years that ...
A. 30 May 2014: You might have a crush on this teacher. Relax, I'm only 14 and I've had loads of crushes (and similar dreams like yours) so your not alone :) Dreams don't mean anything, trust me, there is no special meaning behind this dream, your subconsciou... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any tips on how I can break my bad eating habits?
Q. I know this is not a diet and exercise forum but I'm hoping some of you may have gone through this before and can offer some advice. I have put on about 15lbs in the last year. Ever since I was a child, I could eat whatever I wanted and I always ...
A. 2 April 2014: Well done!! keep it up!... (read in full...)
Why the sudden drop in contact?
Q. I've been dating a man for about 8 months. Since we got together, we have chatted every day-usually all day, everyday (facebook chat, skype, phone calls, text) We live several states apart, so we've only seen each other in person a few times. The ...
A. 8 February 2014: sorry to hear this - no one can read anybody's mind, so i'll try and be as helpful as possible. Maybe this guy feels that this relationship is moving too fast? he doesn't feel like he knows you in person enough to get married? leave it for a bit and ... (read in full...)
An unexpected crush on my teacher.
Q. I don't know how to start but this is my problem. I have a crush on my teacher and I know it's really creepy. (I don't want to but it just happened). Our age gap is seven years. And if you categorize me to stereotypes, I belong at Emo kids, (those...
A. 30 September 2013: Lol, don't worry and chill. I've been in your situation before many times, it's sort of fun in a way. You DON'T love him, it's just a crush, no matter how strong you think it is, if you can't state on reason you like or that's good about him then ... (read in full...)
Disrespectful daughter is on the streets now she wants to come home should I let her come back?
Q. Dear Cupid,I am a very blessed single parent of two girls and one boy my son is the baby .All of my children are grown .But my second oldest daughter we have been at each other throats everyday since she got her period we have been in to it every ...
A. 26 August 2013: She may desperately want to come home, but she doesn't want to give in and look weak. 'Her disrespect of you' threw her out and now you want her back? I'm a teenager and If my mum ever did that to me I wouldn't even want to look at her anymore. ... (read in full...)
Am I a backstabber?
Q. Me and my friend were good friends. But im a positive person most of the time, im quite shy and my self esteem is quite low, but I try. Well my friend is quite and only we used to hang out and no one else. She always used to badmouth people ...
A. 1 July 2013: Thanks everyone :D... (read in full...)
Am I a backstabber?
Q. Me and my friend were good friends. But im a positive person most of the time, im quite shy and my self esteem is quite low, but I try. Well my friend is quite and only we used to hang out and no one else. She always used to badmouth people ...
A. 30 June 2013: Hi, just one more thing, Your right about her extreme insecurities, and it hurts in general to see people like her, insecure. Even though I'm probably her worst enemy and the last person she wants to see, should I help her, get help for her, how? or ... (read in full...)
Am I a backstabber?
Q. Me and my friend were good friends. But im a positive person most of the time, im quite shy and my self esteem is quite low, but I try. Well my friend is quite and only we used to hang out and no one else. She always used to badmouth people ...
A. 30 June 2013: Thank you so much, it all makes sense, Thanks again xx... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what's up with this guy? I do have feelings for him, but haven't told him yet.
Q. A guy I work with loves to stare at me all the time. He watches who I'm talking to, especially his close friends. When he is not around me then his friends chat to me. Once he's back on the scene one shuts his mouth and the other looks to see if th...
A. 8 June 2013: He's probably observing you, he knows you have a crush on him so he's watching what you do. Just take it easy, you might be a little obvious without realising. When you have a crush on someone you think the small signs that special someone gives you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a bad habit of canceling our dates or plans if her family suddenly comes up with things they would like her to attend or do.
Q. My girlfriend has a bad habit of canceling our dates or plans if her family suddenly comes up with things they would like her to attend or do. We've been going out for a couple of years and this has gotten slowly worse, but it's at the point now...
A. 8 June 2013: I agree with missaqua777. However when she cancels plans, she doesn't even rearrange to meet up again! You need to look further into this. Next time she says she's staying with her family, just agree to it, then find if it is possible to interact ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my step-cousin I'm attracted to her?
Q. I am sexually attracted to my step cousin and idk if I should tell her. She is 31 and I'm 23 we have been hanging out for a few years I started taking her every where because she doesn't have a car. I tell her everything now, she helped get over an ...
A. 30 April 2013: no, don't, just don't she's too old your too young, it will be awkward if you break up because your not really in love with her but just sexually attracted to her and see her as an item.... (read in full...)
Need some help reading the signs from this girl....
Q. I know this girl for like 10 months she's a bit weird to me sometimes she's really nice eye contact and everything and then sometimes she's distant, cold etc.. Sometimes when we're walking together she walks really close to me we're always bumping ...
A. 30 April 2013: Nahh she probably likes you :) and it's not mixed signals, it's called 'playing hard to get'. Return her signals: if she makes eye contact, make eye contact with her for two seconds, smile, then casually look away. She probably just not the typ... (read in full...)
Does a teacher know when a student has a crush on them?
Q. Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know????? No biggie, my friend does...
A. 29 April 2013: btw he knows now haa!... (read in full...)
Does a teacher know when a student has a crush on them?
Q. Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know????? No biggie, my friend does...
A. 1 April 2013: btw, it really is my friend, she likes a young single teacher in the school and she always starts screaming and hiding behind people and wanted to know, if teachers know.... (read in full...)
How do I change my ways and become more social with my family?
Q. What do I do, I feel so confused depressed, guilty, sad. I hate this. My dad always criticizes everyone so I go upstairs and go on the laptop to avoid any arguments. Iv gotten so used to this that I subconsciously do it. It's made me become very ...
A. 30 March 2013: Thank you so much, this is the best advice anyone could have ever given me and I feel so much better. Thank you!!!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex I still love him?
Q. Hi, I've been talking to me ex for about a year now. He's married since our breakup. We were together a long time. His wife doesn't know. We talk when she's not around. We spend hours on the phone. Like 4 or 5 hours. It seems he likes talking to me. ...
A. 25 March 2013: You don't! sorry, it's just he's married now, don't do anything that will spoil the marriage, and remember you broke up for a reason, (which would have been helpful if you mentioned). You can stay in contact but know where to draw the line, like a ... (read in full...)
It's added to my anxiety. My favourite teacher has changed. He's ignoring me. What should I do?
Q. My favourite teacher is not himself anymore, he used to favour me but now it's getting weird, he used to let me off with things; he still lets me off some things about no as much anymore. But it's weird how one week he's nice to me then the next...
A. 9 March 2013: Thanks i really appreciate your answers!!! :D... (read in full...)
BF said "I love you" for the first time after I gave him oral sex - did he mean it?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five months - he is 30 and I'm 29. We are moving in together in a couple of weeks which seems fast but we both want to and think its the right thing to happen and we get get along really well, sex life is great and ...
A. 23 February 2013: Don't move in with him, im pretty sure he said 'i love you' just because you gave him oral. Wanna know if he really loves you... don't have sex with him, just don't. This way you'll be able to see if he truly loves you or if he 'loves' you just for ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any tips on how I can break my bad eating habits?
Q. I know this is not a diet and exercise forum but I'm hoping some of you may have gone through this before and can offer some advice. I have put on about 15lbs in the last year. Ever since I was a child, I could eat whatever I wanted and I always ...
A. 23 February 2013: Please, don't go starving yourself as a last resort to lose weight, here are some simple but easy tricks to do to lose weight (you must Must MUST be patient though): 1) try to avoid snacks, if you really feel peckish, have an acidic fruit eg:... (read in full...)
I love my husband but he loves his money and freedom more than he loves me!
Q. My ques: myself and my husband got married 12 years back. We have 2 daughters. I love my husband more than my life. He 2 loves me. But he a very practical person. He is away from me for 9 months due to his work in ship. But when he is near to me he ...
A. 23 February 2013: Im sorry to hear this, but he may just like being more open with others. Think back to how it was when you were in your first few months, or even years of marriage? did you have lots of fun, probably go out together. I say, all go out together... (read in full...)
I think I am left out of my group of friends. How can I get them to include me?
Q. I've been hanging around with friendship group of about 5/6 girls at school now for about a year. I feel as though they leave me out and that I'm always the one who has to make the effort. They never invite me to go out with them. I'll be on ...
A. 21 February 2013: ASK and join in, next time they make plans just be like "HEYY whats up???". Have you ever invited them somewhere??? do this, try and be fun and get involved. People are just horrible sometimes and there's nothing you can do about it. DON'T PUSH IT ... (read in full...)
How do I get my daughter to open up and talk to me?
Q. How do you get your teen to open up and talk with you? My daughter is 15 and we have had on and off issues for few years so we are not as close as we used to be. Now I have suspicions she is sexually active but she is very shut down and seems ...
A. 21 February 2013: Im a teenager too, i get on with my school work, and personally i like to be left alone, but i am very trusted and i happen to be one of those teens that will NOT lose there virginity before marriage. I don't like being pestered all the time, i like ... (read in full...)
Bad life at home and now I'm developing feelings for a kind teacher
Q. I've had hard experiences growing up and living with my parents as I am currently still doing. I unfortunately have no where to go and no money to leave. I am also finding out that some of my 'friends' were not the people I thought they were but ...
A. 21 February 2013: Hi, it's alright i feel your pain, im being emotionally and physically abused too, im 13. Your teacher sounds very nice and understanding, as he's gone through the same expieriance as you. The reason why you are now starting to develop feelings for ... (read in full...)
My shyness is taking over my life! What can I do? Where to turn for advise?
Q. I'm sorry this is long but please read it, please! I feel like my shyness is taking over my life really rapidly, I don't know what to do. I am scared of: .Meeting new people .Being the center of attention .Being watched while doing something ...
A. 20 February 2013: my grandparents are dead, im not really close with any of my anties, uncles or cousins, i don't have siblings, but an older sister who bullies me :( i don't know. But thanks for the help everyone, i should find an adult eventually.... (read in full...)
My shyness is taking over my life! What can I do? Where to turn for advise?
Q. I'm sorry this is long but please read it, please! I feel like my shyness is taking over my life really rapidly, I don't know what to do. I am scared of: .Meeting new people .Being the center of attention .Being watched while doing something ...
A. 20 February 2013: Thank you so much, your so nice and calm.... (read in full...)
When should I ask her out? when she is alone or when she is with her friends?
Q. Hi dear cupid I am 21 studying in university and I like a girl who is a year senior. Problem is she gives me signals that she is a senior and thus can't date me. I guess that's mostly because of peer pressure and she might look awkward in front...
A. 16 February 2013: she seems nice, ask her out just the two of you, she might like you back, but she is probably scared of what her friends might think of you, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, get to know her, get to know her friends too, because you should ... (read in full...)
My friends told her . My crush knows I like her; what should I do !!??
Q. Well some of my friends told my crush I like her, and I started to avoid her for about a week after I found out. Now I see her everyday on the way to school, and I speak to her quite a lot. Anyway my friend asked her what she thinks of me, and s...
A. 7 February 2013: ask her if you wanna be friends or wanna go out, besides your friends already told her, you have nothing to loose. good luck xxxx... (read in full...)
My supposed friends are spreading rumors about me and a teacher. How do I stop this?
Q. Im not the type of person to get bullied, i rarely ever do, i can't handle rumors properely, especially if their big ones. These two girls that are supposed to be my 'friends' spread a rumor saying that i like a teacher, and that i've been doing ...
A. 4 February 2013: Thank you everyone!!! ... (read in full...)
My supposed friends are spreading rumors about me and a teacher. How do I stop this?
Q. Im not the type of person to get bullied, i rarely ever do, i can't handle rumors properely, especially if their big ones. These two girls that are supposed to be my 'friends' spread a rumor saying that i like a teacher, and that i've been doing ...
A. 3 February 2013: Thankyou so much everyone, I will take all of your advice.... (read in full...)
My supposed friends are spreading rumors about me and a teacher. How do I stop this?
Q. Im not the type of person to get bullied, i rarely ever do, i can't handle rumors properely, especially if their big ones. These two girls that are supposed to be my 'friends' spread a rumor saying that i like a teacher, and that i've been doing ...
A. 3 February 2013: Thanks soo much, I will!... (read in full...)
How do I help my boyfriend? His parents are divorcing and he's taking it hard
Q. My boyfriend's parents are getting divorced and my boyfriend is really upset. He's near tears a lot of the time. We can be taking a walk and all of a sudden he'll start to tear up. He really tries to not let go and cry (in front of me anyway) I...
A. 1 February 2013: just be there for him, take him out, mcdonalds, starbucks or something, do let him be alone for too long, or he'll get depression, but don't keep calling him or he'll just be really anoyed... (read in full...)
My wife wants to get a house, but she won't help pay!
Q. I have questoin my wife want to get a house and ther is only one income i take care of all the bills as it IS. I tell her she need to helppáy for a house but she dont wont to help ...
A. 1 February 2013: Striaght up tell her that you will not get the house if she doesn't do her part, if you do end up paying it all, then warn her that you will not spend a penny on her and that she will do the house work. if this doesn't happen then warn her again ... (read in full...)
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