Parents and girls...
Q. I live in Germany and my parents want me to have a German girl friend cause i moved from the states in august and my German isn't that good and had a hard time in school. The only problem is that the German girl are very pretty but smoke and that ...
A. 17 July 2010: Hi there. I wouldn't listen to your parents on this one, you don't have to go out with anyone you don't want to and shouldn't have to choose someone because of their nationality. Chances are that when you do get a girlfriend (and only because you ... (read in full...)
Should I just pretend I don't know about my husband's one night stands as long as he comes home after the fun?
Q. My hubby treats me and the kids very well..we have been a loving couple for years. Recently I found out that even before we were married, he has been out for monthly one night stands (he usually says he is out entertaining clients when he comes home ...
A. 17 July 2010: In answer to the title, NO you should not. Why would you want to? A marriage is supposed to be between two people and two people only. You need to confront him about this and also staying out until the next morning is not really acceptable, ... (read in full...)
Facebook: What does it really mean?
Q. Nothing! Several situations can be mistaken to mean something more, when they truly don't carry much significance. For example: The friend you've been crushing on for the last six months accepts your third attempt at a friend request, and...
A. 14 July 2010: I've seen and heard a lot of arguments caused because of petty things like that! It's usually friends b*tching about other people or their ex or even their boyfriends/girlfriends ex. I tend to stay away from the drama on Facebook, if anyone has a ... (read in full...)
REAL Love!
Q. I have written this blog a few times but I thought I'd write it in an "article", that way people can always view it. To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love"...
A. 14 July 2010: Thanks for this article. It's certainly thought provoking :)... (read in full...)
He doesn't treat me right but I love him... should we stay together?
Q. I'm only 16, and i used to know everyone at school and love life. I met a boy last summer and liked him right off when we started getting to know each other. We started dating and now its been since 0ctober of last year. i cry every day because of ...
A. 11 June 2010: You need to finish it with him. If he isn't treating you right, then it will never work because he has no respect for you. You may love him, but you need more than love for a relationship to work, and crying all the time is NOT how a relationship ... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll really come back to me???
Q. My boyfriend's grandpa is dying so he told me he wants to be alone and said it is over. What should I do ? He said he would come back when all the family crap is done... But I miss him so much....
A. 11 June 2010: I think it sounds like an excuse. I know it sounds awful but it could be possible. Either that or he really does want some alone time. Even so, it is not fair on you and although you will feel bad for what he is going through, it's probably best to ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of any good romance novels???
Q. Hello again! I just had a quick question. I'm 19 as is my boyfriend. He is away at work during the weeks of the summer and is only home one day of each weekend for the entire summer. Before work started we used to spend every day together so ...
A. 11 June 2010: Anything (I mean any of her books) by Belinda Jones... (read in full...)
I'm not just a learner driver, I'm a learner in love too!
Q. Hi im looking for some advice. I have fallen in love with my driving instructor and i need advice in how to tell him that i like him he is single as am i, (hes divorced he was married to my doctor)and i look after my doctors new partners dog. A...
A. 10 June 2010: I think you should be careful, it would be unprofessional for him to be dating someone he is teaching, and he would possibly face the sack if he is with a company. Perhaps you could build up a friendship whilst learning to drive and then maybe try ... (read in full...)
How do I achieve bigger boobs without surgery?
Q. I'm really want to attract someone I like but I have small boobs and although I know there's nothing wrong with that and so forth, I do want to feel confident and attractive. I would like to boost them a little, make them appear fuller and bigger. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Well...if you put on weight you'll boobs will naturally become bigger, or if you're pregnant. But I'm sure you don't want to resort to that lol. I'd suggest wearing bras which push your boobs up a bit and giving yourself a bit of a cleavage, and ... (read in full...)
How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up?
Q. How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up? ...
A. 24 February 2010: Oh and also...to give yourself the sexy look, go for the smokey look with your eyes. Pixie lott in her video 'Boys and girls' is a good example!... (read in full...)
How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up?
Q. How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up? ...
A. 24 February 2010: Four words: Eyeliner and long eyelashes!... (read in full...)
I like my best friend and want to tell him before I move. How should I tell him?
Q. I'm moving soon, and I like my best friend. I want to tell him, but I don't know how he'll react and I don't want to ruin our relationship. People tease us about it, so I'm sure he knows that I like him. Should I tell him before I move or just write ...
A. 24 February 2010: Question: Why did you leave it until you're moving to tell him?
I know that can't be changed now, and maybe it's better to tell him now than always be wondering 'what if', but if you tell him, how will it change things? You're still going to move... (read in full...)
The man I had an affair with has called me 8 months after it ended, should I call him back?
Q. I need help! the guy i was having an affair wtih for the pass 3 years called me last night. We haven't spoken in almost 8 months. I don't know if I should call him back! What to do what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 23 February 2010: Don't. Keep on keeping on. If it's 8 months, you can move on completely now if you let yourself. Are you cheating on someone? Or WITH? If it's the first, you need to determine whether you are actually happy with them. If you're not and haven't been ... (read in full...)
Is there a big chance I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone:) I need help. IM 14 years old and iv been going out with my bf for 3 months.. About a month ago, i gave him a hand job, but he DIDNT cum. Then, i walked home and went to the toilet without washing my hands.. Is there a big chance...
A. 14 February 2010: NO. There is no change let alone a small chance. Even if he came and then did the same thing you still wouldn't get pregnant because the sperm would have died within that time.... (read in full...)
A man is obsessed with me, please help.
Q. Hi, I am trying to end a relationship with a man who is obsessed with me and intent on marrying me. He is a good man and he truly loves me and wants to protect me. But he is controlling, and even though I love him, I can't take the control. I k...
A. 14 February 2010: You don't need him to agree for your relationship to be over. Talk to him face to face when you can, and explain calmly that you think it's not working and why. If you don't want to hurt his feelings then you could lie about why you're ending it but ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but he keeps hurting me, what should I do?
Q. Hi I've been dating this guy for a while. and we been through everything.okay frist off I have trust problems, I don't trust anyone. But he came along and he was the one. Like everything I liked he like. But one day I lie to him about not ...
A. 24 December 2009: Talking to your ex isn't a big deal, but it gets blown out of proportion when he's heard it from someone else, and then starts imagining what else you've done (which also means he never trusted you, not really.) In future I would just let them know, ... (read in full...)
I watched porn the other day, is that okay and normal?
Q. Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that? ...
A. 23 December 2009: Yep perfectly normal! ... (read in full...)
HAPPY HOLIDAYS, DEARCUPID FAMILY!
Q. Hey all RAINORFIRE here just want to say HAPPY HOLIDAYS Wishing everyone the best in the up coming new year, Spend some quality time with the ones that are important in your life live to the fullest and make the best of life. This is t...
A. 23 December 2009: Thanks, hope everyone on DC has a happy Christmas and New year too :-)... (read in full...)
Hi everyone, I really need advice on how to convince my boss to make my temp job permanent.
Q. hi there everyone i a currently working at my local supermarket as a christmas temp and i really want a permanent job on the department that iam working on and i am asking if anybody could give me any tips on what i could do to make my managers...
A. 23 December 2009: Just keep working as hard as you can and do as much overtime as possible. Ask nicely near the end of your contract if it would be possible to stay on permanantly, or if they have anything coming up in the near future. If they see you giving 100% and ... (read in full...)
I regret having my son because he ties me to this relationship! Should I leave or am I just bored?
Q. I have lived with my boyfirend for three years and we have a 2 year old son together. My elder son of 17 also lives with us. I have two grown-up daughters who live away. Although I do still have strong feelings towards my partner I realise we are ...
A. 13 December 2009: My mum is in a similar situation to you, except that my brother is 12, she doesn't want to leave because she's financially dependant on him. I have told her she should leave, it would make the 3 of us much happier. Does she listen? No.
If you are ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?
Q. okay so i have been dating this guy for 3 months now. and everything was going great he treated me better than any other guy ever has. but a couple days ago people kept coming up to me and telling me that my boyfriend was planning on breaking up ...
A. 13 December 2009: Sometimes an ex girlfriend can make up lies, to make you insecure because she is/was bitter about the break up. How ever, she could be telling the truth, for example, if she was cheated on herself. The only way you're going to find out the real ... (read in full...)
My friend had a child with a one night stand, should she tell him?
Q. A friend of mine asked my advice on this situation and I had no idea what to tell her. She is a 19 year old single mother and the father of her baby doesn’t know that she had his baby. She feels that she doesn’t want to tell him because he has such ...
A. 13 December 2009: Personally, if I was in her shoes, I would tell him that he's the father, because it's unfair on the child, especially as it grows up, he's going to start asking questions. I can understand she doesn't want him to be the father because of his ... (read in full...)
How can I give the boy I fancy an extra Christmas present without him guessing that I like him?
Q. ok for christmas im giving presants to my friends but my friends who are boys are just gunna get packets of sweets but with the one i like i really want to give him two but what excuse can i use to give it him without him knowing i like him? x x x...
A. 13 December 2009: Apart from potentially ruining your friendship - which is a big deal, I know - what else is stopping you from telling him how you feel? Are you certain he doesn't feel the same? This isn't what you asked, but it's something you might want to think ... (read in full...)
Why should I take crap from my crush?
Q. He makes me so sad, mad and jealous at the same time. Wouldn’t it piss you off if your crush’s friends who are girls wrote on face book that they loved him and he wrote that he loved them too! Yet he treats me like crap after I told him that I liked ...
A. 12 December 2009: He's probably treating you differently because the others girl don't fancy him, or at least he doesn't realise. If you were friends before you told him you liked him, I'm assuming he doesn't feel the same, so may be trying not to do anything that ... (read in full...)
We've been a couple three days, I want to break it off already
Q. How do you break up with an extremely sensitive guy who claims he is IN love with you, and its like nothing he has ever felt before, bearing in mind we only started going out 3 days ago? I honestly thought I liked him, I knew he liked me a lot more...
A. 11 December 2009: He may really think it's love, unless he's after sex, but it's just infatuation. It can feel a lot like love. I'm thinking, perhaps it's over sensitiveness and clinginess that's putting you off? I can see why if that is the reason! Sooner ra... (read in full...)
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