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No one knows what is going to happen in the
next seconds of our life.
We either make ourselves miserable or
we make ourselves strong or happy"
The amount of work is just the same.
- Sometimes no matter how hard we try, things happen that are
`beyond our control.
-`Dont let this make you doubt yourself of your capabilities.
- Youre still the same wonderful person you always were.
I have a hard life in my youth, i grow up with the hate of my Mother. I work hard to let my self done in the School and support parents, brothers and sisters that in the end im still the best bad of all. I use the crying to heal the pain inside of me. I become strong because of all this experience and learn a lot about what life is. Im married and a mother of two. My life is not perfect like what i dream of, but having a roof, bed, food to live, a husband who i can really rely on emotionally and physically, a children who is very understanding and a good health thats the reason for me to thanks the higher power above that even i have a mother who hate me to death im still ok, and i will be ok. Life is not always perfect but 60% is already paradise.
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Is it ok to still be friends with my ex?
Q. my partner for 9years left me for a woman 5years younger than me,i have a 4 year old baby boy. Is it right to still be friends with him? thank you...
A. 19 November 2010: But of course yesss.. if you feel ok and comportable being friend to him there is nothing wrong about that. That will give a good effect to your baby boy. You two will gain a respect from your son if you two can become real good friend. It shows a ... (read in full...)
I'm worried he has told other people at school that I'm a virgin after our failed attempt at having sex! What should I do?
Q. so i'm just going to start with my question. few weeks ago, a new guy in my class began to send me messages. i wasn't interested i'm not even now. but anyways i talked to him. he told me he likes me and so on. because he wanted to meet with me so i ...
A. 19 November 2010: Theres only one thing i want to share with you. Being a virgin is a thing you can be very proud of. It only show that you are not just an easy girl out from some corner of the street. You can always put your eyebrow high and be very proud of your ... (read in full...)
Period pain !
Q. Why do girls get cramp while they are on their periods?...
A. 12 November 2010: its really hard to accept that we women are having really this trouble during our days. theres nothing we can really do against it only a little support from either vitamins or some mild medication. but i dont really take medication cos its not ... (read in full...)
How can I save money!
Q. Hi i'm a college student, currently not working. i'm a bad spender when it comes to money, it's like having water in pocket. i need help with saving money, can someone pls give me some ideas on how to save money...
A. 7 November 2010: be practical to what you spend. try to spend your money only to necessary things. keep at least minimum 10% of your money every month and really do it. the little money you save every months when you put it together it will be not anymore little ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and no one knows but me
Q. Okay so I'm pregnant and the guy doesn't know It and neither do my parents. Help me please?!!...
A. 29 October 2010: Oh dear im sorry. But first thing exactly you will do is calm down, dont panic. Because if you panic you can not think anymore. 2nd, make it sure that you are pregnant by doing a pregnancy test. At least do it twice. 3rd find someone really close to ... (read in full...)
Married a Thai girl and now have regrets.....
Q. Hello, In 2004 I found myself coming to the end of a 3 year relationship and started looking online on dating websites. To be 100% honest I liked the idea of having a very beautiful gf and I am only average looking myself but I am kind and success...
A. 4 October 2010: There you are.., first im so sorry about this. I am not thai. but i live in thailand for straight 17 years. I worked at hotel as a manager and meet a lots of guest from diff. country. I know a lots of ( farang )foreign thats how thai. people call ... (read in full...)
Horny for my brother in law!
Q. Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I ...
A. 28 September 2010: Im with Tisha-1 goodluck... (read in full...)
I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?
Q. hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids ...
A. 21 September 2010: I have a Gay friend, he is very very nice friend of mine.
He is not married but he has two sons and they live together. She didnt know that he is gay. His live in partner love him so much that is the reason she accepted not to marry at the firs... (read in full...)
Only married 6 months and already problems!
Q. My husband and I have been married for only 6 months and already we seem to be having problems. He says mean and hurtful things and when I confront him about it he acts as if there's nothing wrong. Some days he's the kindest, sweetest man I've ...
A. 21 September 2010: oh my god' this is really a hard part of it. you two just starting your own family and then the rest of the family is there and borrowing money, i find it really stress. Oh. im so sorry about this, but can you try to speak to your husband if you ... (read in full...)
Only married 6 months and already problems!
Q. My husband and I have been married for only 6 months and already we seem to be having problems. He says mean and hurtful things and when I confront him about it he acts as if there's nothing wrong. Some days he's the kindest, sweetest man I've ...
A. 20 September 2010: Normally it happen all the time to the newly wed. Consider it like you two are in the state of adjustment. Relax and let you two take time to get to know each other more in one roof.
When he is angry try to calm down, when he is ok try to speak to h... (read in full...)
Do I have the baby or not?
Q. I am pregnant, of the guy who i have been having sex with, we have only been going out for awhile, bt we rarely used condom, nn he knows, ii didnt use proteccion of any sort. Now the problem is, doo I have the baby or not? Bec the guy who I truly ...
A. 20 September 2010: I really, really appreciate and agree to the comment of DEAR JILLY.. I just don't really understand, why too early to have responsibilities, why take the risk.. Please ladies.. be nice to our self, enjoy the life first before take a big ... (read in full...)
Should I take a pregnancy test or not be too concerned?
Q. I've been on the Evra patch for about 10 months now and my period has come on the last wednesday of every month for about 8 months now, never a day sooner or later. But today I noticed some unexpected spotting, and I'm wondering what this could be? ...
A. 16 September 2010: for your peace of mind, simply take a test.. its not hard and expensive but worthed to do.... ... (read in full...)
What should I do? We are both taken but this love we have for each other is so strong!
Q. I need help. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. I am a 42 year old married woman with 3 teenage children. In December 2009, I came across an old friend with whom I had very deep feelings for, way back 21 years ago. We never had a relationship ...
A. 20 August 2010: hmmm its a little complicated situation... i understand the situation, but believe me sister' its not easy... anyway i wish you the very best of luck.. i feel for you..... (read in full...)
My husband is cheating and I'm falling in love with someone else!
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me! I'm a married woman with 3 kids. All my married life was not as happy as i expected because my husband until now is fooling around with somebody else. I met a guy 2 years ago his kind and thoughtful to me he has a son ...
A. 11 August 2010: hello sis, if you are in love to this new guy, why not go for it. life is short, what makes us happy and content right now then go for it. the sad thing is, its gonna be hard, we both know there is no divorce in our country. but work on annulment ... (read in full...)
I ache for my own baby.
Q. Hey guys, thanks for reading. Sorry for the long question too. My mother just gave birth to her fifth child, and i'm her eldest at 17. I went to see the baby today and it made me realize how much i want a child. When i was holding the baby and ...
A. 4 August 2010: i will think first how much money i need on my own every single day before i think of a serious responsibilities. as long i can not afford yet to buy something i need on my own money without asking mother", i will try to avoid first a big ... (read in full...)
I want my children to finish College/ University and I want them to have a good upbringing too but how can I have these both without risking my work and children?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am married with 3 children, ages 15, 10 and 5. Since 2007, I left my children and work abroad since my husband couldn't help me financially, I would rather say, he is very irresponsible and wouldn't like to work. He take...
A. 31 July 2010: hello sis, i really understand your situation for this is very often problem in our country. i could only say, take a vacation, if its ok to you' leave your husband, he is not gonna be a good mirror for your children and anyway he is not any help. ... (read in full...)
Confused with my situation for meeting with my husband's ex girlfriend...
Q. good day everybody... i have a very big problem pertaining to my and husband's situation. my husband's ex is leaving him and found another boyfriend. they have a common properties like the flat which me and my husband are living right now. i am ...
A. 16 July 2010: nothing to worry at all. i once one time in this position. that time im not married yet. my husband ex is already married to another man but she still had a feeling to my husband. i meet her, we are 3. me, her and my husband. i did nothing. i just ... (read in full...)
I think my sister saw me!
Q. Hey, well here's the deal. When I was in my room with the door closed, I was watching some porn.. with my penis showing and in erection. I wasn't masturbating but my sis pushed the door, she didn't look directly and walked off. I'm traumatized that ...
A. 14 July 2010: relax.... first of all watching porn and doing this kind of stuff is not bad at all. you are not the only one who is doing that. don't worry later you will not notice it will change. 2nd" your sister is already 22, she is not anymore young. maybe ... (read in full...)
I love you...??????
Q. I say I love you to a woman who is 20 years younger than me, and she says I love you to me too. Now every time I say I love you to her, she just smiles. Does she really mean it when she says I love you to me? We are both married....
A. 6 July 2010: The details is a little bit confusing for me. Are you two married with another persons or you two are married with each other? Well if you two married with each other then it means she do love you and that would be perfect for you two. But if you ... (read in full...)
Should I date older guys or stay single until highschool?
Q. hi i'm really good at getting people together. i talk to the guy i talk to the girl and bam their together. i even have to get people together on my little brothers video games. im pretty popular and i guess kinda attractive, (i have self asteem...
A. 6 July 2010: Better stay single and enjoy being single. Don't rush on things specially serious relationship. There is a wonderful, things and person waiting for you ahead. If i am you, i will wait till i finish my school and i enjoy my life being young and ... (read in full...)
Do "fat girls" ever get a chance?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and been single my entire life. The only excuse that I have is that I am the "fat girl." I have tons of friends I work in a environment where I have to be outgoing and am. I go out almost every weekend. The guy...
A. 6 July 2010: I actually agree with rescue. How can any guy will get interested in you if you by your self are feeling bad being fat girl! They said" number 1, love your self and others will follow. I have a classmates in high school, she is fat which is not ... (read in full...)
I got married 8 days ago and think I made a mistake!
Q. I am lonely, only just married. I got married only eight days ago, and I am already feeling I made a mistake. He is very neglectful of me emotionally and sexually. I am a very attractive woman. I am a very sweet, kind woman. We have been living ...
A. 4 July 2010: Do you love him?
If you do" wedding ring or engagement ring is not the matter of all.. Church wedding can plan later too. Saving money, maybe he is thinking for future.. The thing is, if you are not sure anymore about this marriage then bett... (read in full...)
He said he is too busy to contact me, and I wait for days and weeks! Yet he updates his facebook daily!
Q. Hello everyone I desperately need your advice cos I am feeling terribly hurt. My Bf and I were on online relationships for 3 years and for a reason that i loved him i am willing to wait til things settled and we can get married as we planned. Two ...
A. 2 July 2010: I'm so sorry for this dear sister.., and no" you are not acting wrong. Your reaction is totally normal. In this situation he is giving you a big question mark in front of you. You are now confused and don't know where to stand. You feel you are ... (read in full...)
Effects of abuse?
Q. So when I was younger like 6, I had a sexual experience with a boy who was almost 14. Then I had another with a couple ppl who were like family to me. I am a pretty strong person so I delt with it silently for many years. A good friend of mine who ...
A. 17 June 2010: Im so sorry for what happen in the past. I could say that you are really a very strong person inside and out. But yes, there will be a possible effects. Yes person12345 has great idea, therapist will be a great help. Please dont take it so long. You ... (read in full...)
Husband cheating says he gets sucked in by the internet
Q. We have been married 33 years-happily I thought. Last week I discoverded my husband had been chatting online and on a webcam to women. Mostly ordinary stuff but also talk of kissing and brushing hair, etc but not sex. He said it was for friendship. ...
A. 6 June 2010: Yesss. give him a chance.., He is asking help to you to stop this. Yes its true. Addiction in internet is true. Some people got family broken just because of this. This time he is asking help TO YOU" that means he is really willing to change and to ... (read in full...)
Teenage daughter having an affair with a married man
Q. Please help, my 19 yr old daughter is having an affair with a married man. My daughter has been babysitting for a local family for the last 2 summers. Recently I was looking at pictures on her computer and I noticed pictures of the family she ...
A. 6 June 2010: Sometimes the more we stop things like this, the more they keep holding on and do it. Im so sorry for this as i understand what you feel. I hope your daughter know how to use proctection or birth control. If not then i think this is the right time ... (read in full...)
Is being with 6 men sexually by the age of 30 a lot?
Q. okay so this is a very random curious question. I'm turning 30 and have been with 6 men sexually. Is this a lot for a woman of my age to have been with that many men? Sometimes i wonder and feel bad about my sexual experiences. ...
A. 31 May 2010: I dont think that you should feel bad about it.personally i never had that, maybe because im too old fashion. But having 6 man till this age, i dont think its a big sin or a problem.
Its ok. as long you are fine and doing fine nothing is to worr... (read in full...)
How can I be popular at school?
Q. Hi! I am a 15 years old girl and i want to ask how i can be popular in my school? I want to have a good hi5, i want to have style and i want people to come talk to me about everything.´ Please im desperate i need to be a POPULAR GIRL please h...
A. 29 May 2010: Become popular is what other teenage dream. But i think you dont need to be popular just to have a lots of friends. Stay nice and honest to friends they will come to you without you noticing it. But if you really wanna be popular in your school, ... (read in full...)
Wife wants kids, I don't think I do anymore
Q. When I got married, my wife and I talked about having kids some day. Now I'm not sure that I want to have kids... I'm starting to feel pretty sure I don't. This is the most important question I've ever had to answer, because kids are the most imp...
A. 29 May 2010: When a Husband doesn't have a wish for a child and the Wife had a very big wish for a child this is gonna be really a problem. You are 21, you still have a time to think it over again. if you dont wanna ruin your marriage, i think 1 child will be ... (read in full...)
Should I have another child?
Q. I'm 19 and I have an eleven month old son. Recently one of my friends had a baby girl and she is beautiful. She also has a son who is 12 months. Through her whole pregnancy we talked about her weird cravings and where the baby kicked the most. To ...
A. 29 May 2010: You sounded a very responsible and matured person. I don't see any reason why not having another child again. But yes, you already said you will wait another 4 years. So there is also no reason to think too much about it. This 4 years will give you ... (read in full...)
Any good advice on how to handle an alcoholic, my nerves are frayed?
Q. hi i'll keep this as short as i can,three years ago my father inlaw died.my wife of sixteen years took it really bad and started drinking.my father inlaw left her a substantial amount of money .when this came to her she got progressivley ...
A. 24 May 2010: I agree 100% to Auntie E. No matter what you do you will always power less in this case. The only thing now you must do is to look after your son. don't let your self and your son go down into depression just trying to help her. No body can help her ... (read in full...)
Who do I trust, God or my friends?
Q. So I have been in a relationship with a gal for over 2 years. we agrued alot. till 2 months ago I stopped. after nearly 5 weeks of not fighting or arguing with her, she decided its over... My heart feels broken. Had dreams of mairrage ect.. I believ...
A. 22 May 2010: In your question who you should trust, God or Friends. I would say 1st" trust your self. God is maybe somewhere, but everything is working only in reality. Friends is always around but they are not the one who will build your life. It is you" who ... (read in full...)
He wants to keep both of us...
Q. My husband left me with 2kids for his mistress. He still contacting me for the kids and every time he visited us, he left me broken hearted. I am mentally and emotionally tortured thinking he will see his mistress again after he saw me. I am ...
A. 22 May 2010: Hello my dear co' Filipina. First of all im so sorry about what is happening to you. 2nd i beg you to please stay strong emotionally and physically. You will need it for everybodies concern. I mean you and the two Children of yours. 3rd i would like ... (read in full...)
Is lending him money a good enough reason to get married
Q. Hi All, Here's the situation. My SO and I have been in a relationship for nearly a year and a half. We've lived together for a year now and are preparing to go off to grad school this fall. The thing is, he's asked me to cover his living expenses...
A. 21 May 2010: No way...... i have no good feeling about this. You two love each other everything must be equal or at least let him spend for you, Its ok to help each other but please dont carry 85% finacial matters in this relationship. Youre two are just fiance ... (read in full...)
Do we have a second chance at love after 30 years apart?
Q. I married my first love in 1979 and we have 2 kids together but due to him cheating on me I divorced him. We both remarried the wrong people and always kept in contact over the years and I never stopped loving him.Now we started back seeing each ...
A. 17 May 2010: I think so, yes. Things happen from the past but this what happen did not even erase your feeling to him, that is so wonderful and im sure he had the same feeling too. You had already said. You are now both more matured, then why not give this big ... (read in full...)
He is afraid of divorcing his wife because of the children, and I love him so much. Please help.
Q. First hello dear cupied, my name is ari, my life has passed through a lot of problems , I was married beforefour year and I divorced for a big reason i had, he was an alcoolical man, and my life with him was like in prison and God helped me to ...
A. 17 May 2010: I agree absulutely with Plexi. You love him but please give a little bit love for your self. Find somebody else. Its really easy to say and its also really hard to do, but you really have to do something for your self now. Leave him and move on. ... (read in full...)
No period but no symptoms either...
Q. I am 15 years old , i lost my virginity a month and 1/2 ago . But i havent came on my period since then , i havent had any symptons of pregnancy . I dont know what to do im only in 10th grade and i am a dancer for school and im scared to tell ...
A. 16 May 2010: First of all dont panic" thats the only worst thing you can do but understandable. but yes dont panic, it will only give you stress and stress can also cost of period delayment. The best thing you can do is take a pregnancy test. If you are negative ... (read in full...)
I feel lonely and depressed. Does everyone feel like this sometimes?
Q. I sometimes feel a sense of extreme loneliness. Do all people feel like this sometimes? Even when I am in a room full of people, I feel this way. I don't know exactly what is causing this. Is it some kind of depression? Or does everyone feel this ...
A. 15 May 2010: From what you had write, it is sounded like yes you are suffering in depression. But i do admire you because you are working on this. I mean you ask for help. You are going to see phychiatrist that is a very big step to get out of this terrible ... (read in full...)
My wife sent naked pictures to my dad!
Q. I surprisley come to know by viewing my father's mob.images taken and given by my wife's totally nude and having sex pic. and shoked very much in my life. i was in dream of our healthy and whelthy family having father-mother with two chil...
A. 15 May 2010: OMG".. first of all im very sorry about this, life is always not perfect and theres a lot of question" why is it like that?
I think its better that you confront your wife about this and talk about this to the father, mother. This is really hard situ... (read in full...)
I am worried about the shape and size of my penis, and whether it will cause problems in my marriage
Q. i am 21 year old and due to muslim cast my mom and dad forcing me to get marry and i am also agree but problem is that i have curved shape penis and it is too small and too weak and thin. i am afraid of breaking relation about this topic ...
A. 15 May 2010: Everything is fine, no worries, only fun, fun, fun........ (read in full...)
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