I made a comment about a person and my friend came back on me saying things that really hurt!
Q. I am friends with this girl and we were out together the other day, and I said a remark about a random stranger saying that she is fat, she doesn't need any more chocolate (because she was buying so many bags) and now my friend has had a go at me ...
A. 25 July 2015: Hey hun, let me just give you a healthy reality check, because trust me, you need it. But first let's just take a look at what you actually said. So from my understanding, it is OK for YOU to make snide remarks about random people that cross your ... (read in full...)
Is there any way of trying to get her attention without it seeming really creepy lol?
Q. Hello I know this is going to sound kinda creepy but I thought I'd ask anyway. There is this girl, that I barely know, but I have her on Facebook. I really want to go out with her, she seems exactly like my type but I think its odd to just mess...
A. 27 May 2015: Hey there honey. May I just add one thing and one thing alone? Ok.. let's do this. If you already have her on your facebook, assuming she's on your "friends" list... half the job is done. Truly! I mean, social sites these days, they are kind of ... (read in full...)
Did she unblock me to show me she's in a relationship?
Q. My ex recently unblocked me which is not uncommon as she has blocked/unblocked me in the past. Wewere together for a few yrs and it ended pretty messy. Bat shit crazy. Weve been split for a few years now. This time I thought she was going to msg...
A. 14 March 2015: Yes, that's exactly what she did.
What does strike me though... why on earth are you still hung up on her? More so, you said the relationship ended on "bat shit crazy" terms. It seems like you're having trouble to move on. Obviously she already ... (read in full...)
If you've never had a girlfriend, does it get more hopeless the older you get?
Q. If a guy is past a certain age and never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, should he just accept and deal with the fact he will never get a girlfriend? Because the older a guy gets and is inexperienced, the more of a turn-off it becomes to women, ...
A. 14 September 2014: Dear OP, allow me to burst your bubble. It's not about age.. it's not about whether you're a male of a female. It's about the attitude. You my sweet friend... have a bad attitude. Bitter to say the least. I thought you were seeking advice.... (read in full...)
Should I believe my girlfriend and what she says about her past?
Q. my girlfriend and I were talking about past sexaul experiences and she told me she had sex with 2 guys. I really do not care what she did before me, but she said the boy that lived next door fingered her for 3 years but never had sex with her.I k...
A. 29 August 2014: You just mentioned you do *not* care what she did before you... yet here you are asking about what she did once upon a time *before* you. Hmmm.... isn't it ironic(perhaps even hypocritical)? As for the question per se... well every person is ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got mad at me for sending a Happy Birthday messsage on Facebook
Q. My girlfriend got mad at me for sending a Happy Birthday message to a girl I used to do sexting with on Facebook. She says she dosen't want to see me anymore , what should I do ? I don't see the big deal ! All I said was happy Birthday. My ...
A. 3 August 2014: Well, Facebook seems to bring nothing but trouble. I get that you wanted to say Happy B-day... but, why exactly on a private message? It would have been more than enough to acknowledge that on her wall.
Sending her a private message made your girl... (read in full...)
All of a sudden I have an urge to change my appearance ....
Q. Hi..so I am a relatively not girly person. I don't like wearing skirts or dresses and wear baggy t shirts. I usually have thick eyeliner and my hair is pixie cut short, almost boyish cut. But suddenly out of nowhere I am feeling the uncontrollable ...
A. 27 July 2014: Hey there. All of those feelings, all of those urges.. all are normal. Do not fret! Change is nice, change is needed. And just because you change the style of your make-up or wardrobe doesn't mean you're changing who YOU are as a person. If ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied, and I don't know how to approach him about it!
Q. So I've just found out, for the 1st time, that my boyfriend has lied to me. We've been together for 3 amazing months, it's left me feeling on top of the world. We had arranged to see each other tonight and tomorrow before he goes away for...
A. 27 July 2014: The best way is the Calm way. Simple and easy. If you are a natural calm person even better. But just because you're not making a scene, it does not mean you cannot be assertive(double negation I know). Stay firm and ask him all that you want to ... (read in full...)
If you've had a platonic relationship between a woman and a man how did you manage to do it?
Q. I'm a 25 year old married woman who has trouble making friends. I don't relate to other women well, so I turn to men for friendship. It isn't a case of just having more in common with men, either. There is something I can't put my finger on bet...
A. 23 July 2014: Well, as far as I can tell, women can be friends(but it's relatively hard). I am a female and I *do* have other female friends, however this friendships I have with them are just on the surface (as it were). There is one female friend(w... (read in full...)
Do I just leave her alone? I wanted closure but she said she doesn't need it
Q. Should I simply leave her alone? I have just finished college and I do not date at all but one day, I met a girl in the library and we quickly got along really well as new friends and we found out that we had so much in common. Over time, we st...
A. 22 July 2014: Not to burst your bubble......not my intention to be as brutal as I might come off. But, OP...please stop being so hung up on her. You two are not meant to be. You confessed your feelings for her and that is a *very* good thing. I always appreci... (read in full...)
What happens to humans if they don't get hugs at all and is it normal to feel down after having a good time?
Q. I recently received a hug and a kiss on the cheek from someone kind of well known I admire. I met her after an event with few other who were waiting. A few of us gave her cards and I gave her a few yellow flowers to say all the best, she was ...
A. 15 July 2014: Hello there.
While reading everything you have wrote, I couldn't help but think of me(ironically enough).
Having a busy lifestyle, a packed schedule as you do, it is indeed hard to meet the right people and make long-lasting connections. You... (read in full...)
He really has ruined this girl emotionally. What can I do please I don't want to not be with her, why wont she let me in! Any advice would be helpful?
Q. I've been dating this girl for the past few weeks, not long I know but I like her so much and the more I get to know her, I'm sure of it already I want to be with her as my girlfriend. But last night I was left crushed at what she told me, that I'm ...
A. 21 April 2013: All the other posters are right. She knows what's best for HER. As much as you like to help her and to be near her/protect her.. it's not your battle, it's not your "fight" for independence, it's HERs. She really needs space and a lot of time ... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared to have sex with my beloved?
Q. I’m a young guy, I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend. We have pretty big age difference - while I’m 18, he’ s 30, but this has never been a problem for us. He’ s a wonderful person and I’m so in love with him. I have kind of a sexual problem. My boyf...
A. 9 September 2012: Ok, it doesn't matter that you are gay or that you are a virgin.
Your boyfriend obviously loves you for who you are, otherwise he wouldn't have waited so long.
When true feelings arise, you shouldn't be afraid to share your body with your l... (read in full...)
I feel like my love for him died.
Q. I had a pregnancy scare a few days ago, I told my bf and I took a test, it came out positive. But, just to be sure I made an appointment for another test. At first, my bf seemed supportive and soothed my nerves. On our way to the appointment though, ...
A. 2 September 2012: No honey, you are NOT overreacting! He was the one to pull a stupid move on you. I'd say (and i REALLY strongly, whole-heartedly recommend it)... break up with him! You will do yourself a huge favour in the long run! Just break up and ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to women, but don't "like" women - anyone else like that?
Q. I am a straight, single, social, male, 24-years of age. I've been single for a long time now (last 'relationship', if you can call it that, was back in high school, which wasn't really anything) and it's got me thinking and others frequently asking, ...
A. 27 August 2012: Yeah, i totally know what you feel!
Apparently i am in the same boat, only reversed role. I got absolutely nothing against men, i'm not lesbian either (in fact i pretty much love and get turned on by men bodies and their masculinity).. but some... (read in full...)
What is the best option for this relationship going forward?
Q. We broke up about 3 weeks ago. We were in a long-distance relationship. It was her that broke up with me, but after a week I realized that it was for the best, so it's mutual. I still really love her, and she still has strong feelings for me ...
A. 9 August 2012: I can't stress this enough...and by the way, you sound awful much like a previous poster.. is that you?( http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-we-be-friends-casual-acquaintances-or-nothing.html )
IF it's meant to be, it WILL.. but not on her term... (read in full...)
Who was the 5-7 year old girl with a tiara on her head in a painting in Italian museum and it still haunts me. Can anyone identify it from my description please?
Q. This question isn't a normal question for this site, but please post it. i need help, and this is the only place I could turn to. around 4 years ago, my family was in italy. We went to this museam (i don't remember which one) and this one paintin...
A. 6 August 2012: Aww sweetie.. sorry to hear it was a dead end! I did found some other portraits, but none actually resemble your description. It doesn't hurt if you take a look at them: http://www.artclon.com/OtherFi... (read in full...)
Who was the 5-7 year old girl with a tiara on her head in a painting in Italian museum and it still haunts me. Can anyone identify it from my description please?
Q. This question isn't a normal question for this site, but please post it. i need help, and this is the only place I could turn to. around 4 years ago, my family was in italy. We went to this museam (i don't remember which one) and this one paintin...
A. 5 August 2012: So let's give it a try!
You mentioned Florence.. well there a lot of paintings and portraits that resemble your description.
It would be easier of a task if you could remember what that girl was actually doing? Or was it just a plain portrait... (read in full...)
Should I send him an email to tell him how I feel?
Q. Hey everyone :) Just looking for some advice.......... Have been seeing a guy for about 2 months now and I really like him :) However he has gone away for work for about 3 months. Before he left it was still not clear to me where I stood with hi...
A. 2 August 2012: Honey, GO with it! Send him the sweet email and wait for a reply!
Don't live your life with 'what if' hanging across your head! Life is meant to be lived without regrets.
SO what if he doesn't feel the same? That's an irrational fear.... (read in full...)
Should we be friends, casual acquaintances or nothing at all?
Q. So here is my situation, after having dated a girl for a 6 months, we had to separate because we live in different countries. We tried the long distance thing for a while but she ended it because she wasn't ready for the commitment and she had to ...
A. 2 August 2012: That's not good! I mean keeping the same contact, yet the both of you are obviously not together any more. I don't want to come across as harsh or something like that.. but I for one, would consider taking it slow or just cut loose the contac... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me figure out how to get such a hard-to-impress girl to like me back?
Q. So, there is this girl. Intelligent, charming, good looking and so on. We get along really well, our conversations are great and I just think our personalities are compatible. But...she is very VERY hard to read; I don't think she's easily impressed ...
A. 2 August 2012: If she said out loud that she 'doesn't date' then please, take her word for it! She means it!
If you only think, she doesn't date.. then why not take the lead and drop hints around her. Maybe she's not only hard to read, but maybe she has a ha... (read in full...)
Do guys my age automatically expect sex?
Q. Hey there! So, I'm 18 and I'm getting ready to head off to college soon. Like most kids (I guess some would consider me a "young adult"?) my age, I've been pondering the possibilities of what the future might bring. This includes relationships and ...
A. 30 May 2012: Well to put it bluntly, all guys, no matter the age, are expecting sex! It's the harsh reality. And guys, especially if they are willing to get into a relationship, AUTOMATICALLY expect sex to come with the package.
I don't want you to live in ... (read in full...)
Would I gain more confidence having breast implants?
Q. I need some advice again with a problem that is really driving me mad. I'm a 32AA, I'm about 2cm away from being totally flat chested. I wear padded bras nearly every time I go out or my clothes look stupid and if I'm on a night out I'm complete...
A. 30 May 2012: Ultimately it is up to YOU! No matter how many people will reply to you, no matter what kind of reasons they will give you.. in the end it will always be your decision.
Now, from personal experience, i am quite small as well (i am a 32A.. bu... (read in full...)
Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men....
Q. You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. ...
A. 29 May 2012: Well i try to keep it short and also as true and brutally honest as possible. Taking all of your questions one by one: 1.This is hard, but i'll do my best to give you a relative close description as to how it feels for me personally (obviously... (read in full...)
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