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Words or action, which speaks the truth about this man?
Q. They say action speak louder than words, but I'd like to hear it one more time from you aunts please. My boyfriend says one thing, but his body language and actions make me wonder if his word alone is good enough. He tells me he loves me, yet ke...
A. 7 August 2011: I know I'm probally wrong to make an assumption because you (make an ass out of u and me when u assume lol) BUT I just got this eirrie feeling you are not the only woman in his life. Are you sure he doesn't have something going on that you do not ... (read in full...)
Anybody meet their spouses as teenagers?
Q. well this is just me thinking if im honest ... how many people here on this site have been with spouses since they were in their mid teens (14-17) because me and my bf started goin out last year (me 13 and him 14) and after a year and 3 month...
A. 21 June 2011: Youve already gotten some great advice. I've learned when it comes to love taking it day by day so you can enjoy it makes it last. I wouldn't worry about years from now. It can be fun talking about it, making plans for the future, just remeber ... (read in full...)
My Bf said no to her. She still flirts with him. How do I cope with this situation?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend a year and 1 month now we met when i started uni saw each other for 6 months before getting together. and i met all his friends and who hed been with. there was one girl who he almost become sex buddies with bec...
A. 12 June 2011: I think your boyfriend should put her in her place, even if its in a nice manner.....this should make her back off and you feel better.... (read in full...)
The girl I'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods!
Q. Male or female ANY advice!! This girl i'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods with me!! I admit, i was off with her and did ignore her because i didn't want to be around her... but i had my reasons. Though I didn't mean to p...
A. 10 June 2011: Obviously you did ignore her intentionally ..... you said in your note "I had my reasons" Maybe she picked up on that. What was your reasons? And if you like her why is it her responsibility to tell you? Especially if you have treated her that ... (read in full...)
He apologized, but I can't get over why he asked me this!
Q. Husband told me he wanted to have sex with another women. It really up set me that he told me this. We have had a three-some before and have a pretty good sex life. He has apologized over and over for saying but I can't seem to get over it. My ...
A. 10 June 2011: He probally asked you because you have done it once before, and it seems he liked it, thats all. I wouldn't make it into something its not untill you really have a reason to suspect. If youve dont this before and he has stayed with you, sex life ... (read in full...)
Lets talk about sex.....My curiousity has gotten me to finally ask the following
Q. I'm curious....; What is the big deal with anal sex? Guys: Does it feel better than the natural way? If yes or no please explain! Can you tell by the way a woman looks in that area if she has or has not been active in that way? I heard some me...
A. 10 June 2011: Thank you everyone.....in regards to one of the comments asking why bother trying again if i haven't liked it? That's the purpose of me asking the question.... I'm a very open-minded sexual person that is comfortable with my sexuality and my very ... (read in full...)
What is it really like to be a mistress?
Q. What is it really like to be a mistress? I have been propositioned by a married man I've known for 2 years. He is 24 years older than me and he really turns me on. Obviously I know this is wrong but it all just sounds amazing. Plus he's had a rocky ...
A. 7 June 2011: What sounds so amazing about it? Is he making promises to you? Does it seem amazing that he will be having sex with you and his wife, does it seem amazing that you will be a homewrecker? or maybe it's amazing that his kids will look at you as the ... (read in full...)
Shall I keep trying to get hold of him or wait for him to contact me?
Q. Ok big help hear please peopel, Ive met this guy who i have yet to meet i have wrote about him on hear b4 about him sending a text saying how much he likes me etc Anyway we where ment to meet today but as i know hes worried about meeting m...
A. 7 June 2011: I'm sure you guys have already exchanged some type of pictures with technology being the way it is now a days soooo idk what you two are so afraid of eachother for. I agree with the other comment.....see if he contacts you now, and don't wait long, ... (read in full...)
Is she leading me on for something more even though she knows we're friends?
Q. I went to a club with a group of friends and one of them was a woman. The group was dancing but later on me and the woman ended up dancing, just me and her. We haven't known each other for very long (about a month) and she started grind dancing ...
A. 7 June 2011: Does she dance with other people the same way or just you?... (read in full...)
I want to break up easily
Q. Hey guys I really need advice on how to break up with my girlfriend, I'm going to try and ease her down but I need help on exactly what to do. I need tips on everything Where What to say Should I tell her and leave Should I tell her and walk her...
A. 6 June 2011: Ok, if it were me I would want it done as your walking me home by myself on a friday.....this way we have privacy and I have the whole weekend to get my strength up.
Also, don't go telling anyone, the more you let her tell it the better off you ... (read in full...)
What is it like to have a father's love??
Q. I hate my dad. He has never been supportive of me. He was always drunk and always hit me. I remember when I was younger and how he always kicked me. He always treated my younger sister better and pampered him with all the things but never bought for ...
A. 3 June 2011: We are all dealt a different hand of cards in life. My father loved me very much. I was very blessed in that department, although I wonder just as you do what it feels like to have a father sticking up for you , or to walk you down the isle when ... (read in full...)
Should there be "rules" in a relationship in regards to friends of the opposite sex and ex lovers?
Q. View points and opinions please!! Should there be "rules" in a relationship in regards to friends of the opposite sex? In regards to your ex lovers? My boyfriend doesn't want me talking to any men on the phone or by email. I work in a bar so he ...
A. 3 June 2011: Wow! Thank you so much for all of the honest and well thought out feedback. Just about every response I recieved helped me put things in a little better perspective or helped me wrap my head around these rules on the table. Ohgetreal helped me ... (read in full...)
Virgin, small-penised male afraid of receiving oral... help!
Q. Hi everyone , i am 28 years old male ... virgin ... Yes i am , i am also heavy weight guy around 186 cm hight and 150kg heavy , my woman told me while talking about sex that she LOVE to give me head and she really get turned on by that , i my self ...
A. 3 June 2011: You'd be suprised how much confidence in a man can make a woman very turned on.... alot of us achieving an orgasm comes from our mind, not your penis size. If you make her feel beautiful and really pay attention to her body and what its telling you ... (read in full...)
I have three men in my friend zone and don't know which one to pick
Q. I have never been very popular with guys and have only ever Ben successful with guys by becoming friends then maybe taking it further. I'm not very confident so guys rarely notice me. So I have quite a few guy friends who at one point or another...
A. 3 June 2011: Date all three without having any sex with them and see how you feel after a few weeks. I'm sure you'll fancy one more than the other after taking things a few steps furthur. See who makes you feel the best, who opens your doors, understands you , ... (read in full...)
13 year old's text messages have turned sexual...What do I do as a parent?
Q. My 13 y.o. son is very active on FB and texting. He is doing well in school and all seems well, aside from slight depression from his mother and I divorcing recently. He has many friends, but seems to have mostly female friends. I do not think ...
A. 3 June 2011: I would find out what the texts say before you make any decisions... (read in full...)
I'm about to end a longtime friendship because of her moods!
Q. I have been friends with my best friend for 6 years and we are very close. Over the past few months we have been arguing more and more about stupid things. I feel that im not treated the way a best friend should be example...Im always the one who ...
A. 3 June 2011: It sounds to me like you can't win....and a true friend doesn't want to keep you just to themselves, true friends want you to be happy, and listen to what your wants and needs are as well as hear theirs. I think you two have been friends for a long ... (read in full...)
Friend Set Us Up - But Did Her Meddling Drive Us Apart?
Q. Hi all, My friend, who is happily married with 3 kids, said she had a guy that she wanted me to meet. She thought he was amazing for me, he was single, no kids etc. She sent him my BlackBerry pin and he added me...I accepted and he also added me...
A. 3 June 2011: Ok first of all do not text him, don't give in girl, no matter how bad you want to. He's going through a tough time right now....it's very possible he hasn't even had the time to deciede how he feels about you with everything going on in his family ... (read in full...)
Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...
A. 3 June 2011: NOPE!! not at all girl, I'm right there with you, I love having sex with my man and don't crave anything but him. We have a very healthy sex life and I want him all the time. You are not alone. I think some women are not comfortable enough to ... (read in full...)
So I'm Single. What can I say to people that bug me about it?
Q. I'm single and have no problem with it, except people (family/friends) constantly ask if I'm dating anyone. Some friends of mine, who are married, asked if I was seeing anyone. When I said no, they then asked jokingly if I was a lesbian. This has ...
A. 3 June 2011: It's not bad to be single, especially at your age. Its actually one of the smartest moves in my opinion. Your right about needing to learn who you are right now, focus on yourself. The people that are harping you about being single may be a ... (read in full...)
Why is Girlfriend Obsesed with Former Friend?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for three years and mostly things are great. But lately something has been really getting to me. We met in college through a friend of hers, I'll call him Tyler, he was on the school soccer team and I worked maintena...
A. 3 June 2011: I don't think she's being very considerate of your feelings. If someone loves you they want you to feel good about who you are and what you mean to them, not like you aren't up to par. I think you deserve better than to be second best.... (read in full...)
Is it Better My LDR Boyfriend tells me about the women he flirts with?
Q. My boyfriend and I have just come out of a rocky patch in our relationship. We have been in an LDR for about a month. A few weeks ago, he told me about how a girl he had taken a class with started talking to him after ignoring him all year. I didn't ...
A. 3 June 2011: ooooo well, yeah its good that he is being open and honest with you, but is he telling you the whole truth? He already has only told you a little at a time. Who's fault is it that the relationship is LDR? Is this his way of telling you you may ... (read in full...)
She has a double standard when it comes to professional touching
Q. My girlfriend of 2.5+ years is an aesthetician. Included in her duties are the occasional bacial (men’s back massage/skin treatment) and men’s facial, which includes an oiled up shoulder massage. When we first began dating she was very controlling ...
A. 2 June 2011: Your right, she's wrong....you have delt with her work for this long now its her turn. PERIOD. I'm an exotic dancer and my boyfriend knows guys touch me at times, i touch them all the time, but that doesnt mean he will go out and do what I'm doing ... (read in full...)
When or if do I give up and walk away?
Q. Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours...
A. 31 May 2011: How do you know for a fact he doesn't live with anyone else if you two met up in Germany?
I have a couple of guesses and they vary due to lack of information, and please don't be offended at my first guess. Maybe you came on to strong too fast... (read in full...)
My girlfriend still wants more after I finish. What do I do?
Q. my girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, and once i 'finish' she still wants more. what do i do?...
A. 31 May 2011: Yes, I have the same question as aunt honesty....what do you or does she mean by more? Is she achieving at least one orgasm b4 u "finish" ? I'd also like to add that when I was your age I never wanted more....because I hadnt experienced an orgasm. ... (read in full...)
My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce
Q. I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on ...
A. 30 May 2011: aaaaa haaaaa lol that is a very important part of the puzzle sweetheart. I understand why you feel the way you do now. Caring guy has pretty much said more than enough that I totally agree with. I just wanted to say sorry for being so harsh ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's hygeine keeps me from doing more than handjobs
Q. Hi this is kind of an embaressing subject and I wasnt sure where else to turn... it's less about the relationship and more about my boyfriend's hygiene... basically I always put off giving him more than a hand job because he always has a slight bit ...
A. 29 May 2011: Ok I had to look up what that meant exactly lol. Is he circumsized? If he is not he really shouldn't be having that problem, if he is cleaning on a regular basis, and doesn't have any problems down there. if he is not circumsized he needs to wash... (read in full...)
Is it just junk mail?
Q. I need some advise I was behind my boyfriend while he was on the internet he went to his email and I saw all these messages from fling.com sayin firls wanted to meet him I couldn't tell if they had been read or not but he deleted all of the messages ...
A. 29 May 2011: Has he been on a dating site before? If he has then yes he could just be getting junk mail from other sites or the one he may have left, after meeting you, wants him back..... if he won't admit to that....I'd say he's lying about somethin... (read in full...)
My ex is playing mind games!
Q. My ex has been plating mind games a bit. For the last few months we have stayed in contact after the break up. I now have got to the point where I have had enough and have previously said for there to be no more contact. Now I have been ignoring ...
A. 29 May 2011: He wasn't concerned with your feelings while playing the mind games, so you have to worry about yourself....and stop worrying about him... (read in full...)
I find it so hard to interact with people
Q. I know there are a lot of pleas for help on how not to be so lonely and how to make more friends but here is mine, another to add to the list! The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with m...
A. 29 May 2011: First of all , you seem like an absolute sweetheart. I would love to have someone like you for a friend. The problem may lie in the fact that you are talking to your computer rather than a possible friend. Maybe you're not yourself, wh... (read in full...)
I'm enjoying keeping him a secret
Q. Why do i like the idea of seeing a guy secretly? Normally if I'm just texting a guy or seeing someone, i always tell my friends. Literally anything to do with a guy i will tell them!! But recently, I've decided that i like keeping it to myself and ...
A. 29 May 2011: Maybe you don't want any outside opinions steering you in a direction that you wouldnt end up on your own. That' part of growing up. ... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm sure she's after him!
Q. Hi, im 13 and i really like this boy, well in fact i love him, we went out and he dumped me a week later, we talked ans he asked me back out, i said yes and we were together for two weeks then he dumped me again! I really love him, but theres thia ...
A. 29 May 2011: If he really cared about you he wouldn't allow this woman to throw herself all over him in front of you. It doesnt seem like he is worrying about your feelings at all. I think you deserve to be treated kinder than that.... (read in full...)
Affection from my boyfriend?
Q. I'm currently in a LDR. I'm very attracted to my boyfriend, but there are periods where my feelings are very conflicted. I'm romantic by nature, and love to make him handmade presents, cards, and goofy online links and pictures related to his i...
A. 29 May 2011: Not everyone expresses themselves in the same way. Let him know your craving some kind of attention from him, but insisting that he do it in the same way as you seems like a lot of pressure. I'm not creative or crafty and have my own way of doing ... (read in full...)
A friend suggested my crush was gay. Am I just wishful thinking?
Q. ok my question is a kind of long a complicated one, im a gay, 18 year old male from ireland. so, i have this friend, lets call him john (: weve been friends since i was about 14, and he would of been one of the first people i ever came out t...
A. 29 May 2011: If the two of you are friends and close at that why not just ask him casually. Or ask questions like who does he think is the hottest rock star, singer, etc. If he names all women, then you name yours (being men) and see if he has any opinions. ... (read in full...)
My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce
Q. I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on ...
A. 29 May 2011: I think you are wrong to expect him to not talk to the woman because "you told him to" Are you his wife or his mommy? I think you should have gone about it much differently, for example Point out how crazy the woman is with her lies and consta... (read in full...)
I still have a bedwetting problem at my age. What can I do?
Q. HELLO AUNTS I have an issue of burns in my inner thighs, yesterday my girlfriend noticed the burns while have some oral fun with her, she asked me how did u get burns near your penis balls and inner thighs, I did not mention about it at firs...
A. 29 May 2011: If she truly cares about you she will stand by you while you work through this, if she doesnt then take it as a way to get someone shallow and un-nuturing girl out of your life. I am not a doctor , but I think that if you seek some counceling rega... (read in full...)
He wants to try oral but I don't want to
Q. I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ...
A. 29 May 2011: No No No No No, oh and did I say you should say NO?? lol The reason for my answer is only because you already answered your own question, you don't want him to! There will come a time where you will get curious and want to try something sexual w... (read in full...)
There's no going back from this split, so why am I so broken up?
Q. I need serious help with my mixed emotions. I split from my married man just a few days ago- he betrayed me in the most unforgivable way and it is 100% clear to me that there is no going back. However, he has gone on holiday today for a week wit...
A. 29 May 2011: Ways to not go crazy this week; Call all of your girlfriends and close family members and make some plans. Stay busy busy busy!! Think about all the lies he's feeding that poor woman, and be thankful that you are not her. Now that you have let ... (read in full...)
Husband jumping to conclusions.
Q. I really need you help here.....please be patient with me as this is very confusing to explain.. here a bit of background.. my husband of 7 years constantly brings up my past, he doesn t believe what I have told him is the truth and thinks I have w...
A. 29 May 2011: Wow!! I'm shocked...I'm wondering if its because we are from different countries that this sounds absolutely childish on his part. If you have been married for 7 years I'm sure you have been through many ups and downs....which you obviously ... (read in full...)
Opinions on young teens fooling around.
Q. Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...
A. 29 May 2011: I agree with the other respondant in regards to being open and honest with your mum....that's wonderful. I'm assuming he was the one who brought it up to you so I wanted to add something to her advice. Really sit down and think about how YOU feel ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after not having sex for a while?
Q. I hadn't had sex for 4 years. I've met someone, we did it, but it hurt so much and I'm still bleeding, not scary bleeding but still. Why is that? I'm not a virgin and I was pretty wild up until 4 years ago. He was long but not too wide. It was ...
A. 27 May 2011: it shouldnt be painful the whole time, go get checked out sweetie..... i heard that HPV can make you bleed after sex and make it painful....but it could be nothing as well so don't freak out, just get it done so you can feel better... (read in full...)
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