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writes:Dear Cupidi with LDR with my bf for the past few months. We were planning to meet and as per our decision i have booked my flight tickets and i am leaving today afternoon.He is avoiding for past 2 days, not picking up my calls, even if he picks up, not talking to me properly. I asked him and he said everything is fine. Today i called him again and he said he is busy and dropped the call. He is supposed to pick me up from the airport. He is not answering my calls or messagesI don't know anyone in that place, what should i do now. Do i need to cancel my tickets, y is he doing this to me and y don't he at least say whats wrong. Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Hi,
For something so important, he should have answered properly and calmed you and arranged things. DO NOT go now. This situation is not good. While you are at home you are in control. Do not fly out to the unknown with uncertainty. Cancel the tickets and then let this go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2012): OP,,I would like to know how old is your bf?? This behavior is soo inmature and you deserve respect!! Cancel that trip and dont even bother in contact him again. Let him guessing too..
Be firm and do no let him come to you with sweet words after all this. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU!
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reader, LoveForeverxoxo +, writes (3 August 2012):
It sounds to me that he is either to nervous to meet you at the air port, or He's been leading you on and didnt really think you would come see him one day. And maybe even the worst he has another girl that you dont know about? Cancel the ticket. and forget about him.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Well what if he does the same thing when you reach there?u can't be too sure?unless you have booked your stay at a hotel!
I would cancel my ticket if I were you..and never make an effort cuz I wld think I'v made enough now I need to see it from my partner..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 August 2012):
 Cancel the ticket.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (3 August 2012):
 I woudl also be very conserned in your place. Try to talk to him one more time, if he is non committal again cancel your trip.
If he does speak with you be very firm in insisting he tell you where he is meeting you and at what time.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (3 August 2012):
 It doesn't look good, try one last time and then cancel your ticket. If you dont know anyone in that place then what on earth are you going to do there? Do you really want to spend all that money and go there and mope?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 August 2012):
 I'd be very concerned. Try to reach him, one last time, via all the means at your disposal, text, phone, email. If he doesn't absolutely confirm that he will pick you up, I would make alternate transportation and housing arrangements, or cancel the trip if you cannot afford that. Which country are you visiting?
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