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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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Why do exes try harder with someone else?
Q. I had an ex who turned up blind drunk on a date, with a friend. Then demanded I take them home. Obviously I stopped seeing him after that. Then months later begged me back, stood me up, gloated about his "new life" and kept sending me various ...
A. 8 November 2013: "Because I don't understand why people like this never regret it." Some people are jerks. Some people are mean.
It's pointless to expect them to suddenly turn around and say "aha! I've been a meanie! I need to apologize!" They are not going to do i... (read in full...)
Why do exes try harder with someone else?
Q. I had an ex who turned up blind drunk on a date, with a friend. Then demanded I take them home. Obviously I stopped seeing him after that. Then months later begged me back, stood me up, gloated about his "new life" and kept sending me various ...
A. 7 November 2013: Hi Meccamega, I see you are still grousing about your ex and his treatment of you. Aren't you in a new relationship and pregnant by the new guy? If I recall correctly, you are about to have a baby.
I wonder why you are so fixated on this person who ... (read in full...)
Why do I experience such bad pain during sex?
Q. I'm 27 and I've been sexually active for the last 10 years but I can't explain this. Sex hurts on and off for me. This recent guy I've been seeing it hurts like a knife is going through my vagina sometimes before he even full enters me and other ...
A. 7 November 2013: Maybe a UTI? Time to go have a very forthcoming chat with the gynecologist, I'm afraid. No one here will be able to provide you the medical advice you need, you need to be examined by a qualified medical practitioner, no way around it. Good luck!... (read in full...)
How to handle this feeling of helplessness as I don't want to date a separated man?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He has been separated for three years. His wife had an affair and now has a partner and two very young children. They have an 18 year old who lives with her. He assured me when we met that he has no f...
A. 6 November 2013: Basically, take back your power, you are feeling helpless because you have handed over your timetable to a married dude. Clear as that.... (read in full...)
How to handle this feeling of helplessness as I don't want to date a separated man?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He has been separated for three years. His wife had an affair and now has a partner and two very young children. They have an 18 year old who lives with her. He assured me when we met that he has no f...
A. 6 November 2013: Why don't you get angry and shut down when he talks about buying a house together? I have to laugh at him doing that to you when he's the dude who's still married and financially tied to his spouse.
I would probably tell him to get his personal life... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant by my best friend.
Q. I might be pregnant by my best friend. We had a drunken night at his Halloween party and he didn't pull out. I'm kinda excited but scared and so is he. He told me that he promises to be there with me through it all. I believe him. I'm just worried ...
A. 6 November 2013: I'm still not hearing anything that suggests that you two are ready for a full on relationship parenting a baby. He didn't say, 'oh you are my soulmate, what are we waiting for, let's get married.' He said that he would 'probably commit to you for ... (read in full...)
Any kind words or bits of advice on surviving this breakup?
Q. Hey guys. I'm an regular aunt on this page. I'm in need of some help and kind words myself at this moment. My gf broke up with me a couple of days ago and I'm hurting really badly. She has serious anxiety and has difficulty separating one is...
A. 6 November 2013: I think you will realize that this is healthier for you in the long term, eventually, it may take a little time. You're in the first days of mourning a breakup and everything is raw and awful and you are replaying all the 'what ifs.'
I would say ... (read in full...)
How do I find a good time to talk to my mother about first time sex?
Q. First, there is a seven year age difference between me and my significant other. I don't care about that, but getting info out of the way. Second, we've been dating for 3 months now. I am 18, he is 25. Things have heated up within this past month,...
A. 6 November 2013: Your guy is 25 years old. He's an adult and can rent a car and a hotel room and presumably has his own place. Why can't you go somewhere safe with your man? Your mother has basically asked you not to have sex in her house, why would the alternative ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant by my best friend.
Q. I might be pregnant by my best friend. We had a drunken night at his Halloween party and he didn't pull out. I'm kinda excited but scared and so is he. He told me that he promises to be there with me through it all. I believe him. I'm just worried ...
A. 6 November 2013: Well, should you commit or not? Does commitment require that you be pregnant? What if you are not pregnant, would that change your concerns at all?
If you didn't have the time to date before, how will you have the time to be parents and be toge... (read in full...)
Disastrous haircut! How do I deal with it?
Q. I know this may seem the silliest of issues and I feel very stupid asking for help over such trivial matter. So, I've had my hair cut super super super short yesterday. I thought I'd look good but... I don't!!! I look awful!!! Even my colleagues and ...
A. 6 November 2013: Go to a good makeup artist and have her show you how to play up your eyes, cheekbones and lips. Now that all that hair is out of the way, your face can be the focus and you should take advantage of that. Be positive about the change for now, it'll ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant by my best friend.
Q. I might be pregnant by my best friend. We had a drunken night at his Halloween party and he didn't pull out. I'm kinda excited but scared and so is he. He told me that he promises to be there with me through it all. I believe him. I'm just worried ...
A. 6 November 2013: What was keeping you from being a couple in the first place?
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Advise on friends with benefits, please. I have no one to talk to about this.
Q. So if you read my previous post some months ago a guy I am very interested in gave me his number, I texted him went out a few times and within a week of going out we became physical. But now am totally heart broken because after our first time tog...
A. 6 November 2013: I think you are so desperate for human contact you'll accept crumbs from this guy. I would make the brave decision to cut him off and focus on getting yourself some friends. This would mean that you have put yourself out there and meet people who ... (read in full...)
Confused by this man dipping in and out of my life, saying he's not ready for a GF. I like him. What do I do?
Q. Please I need help. I am mature going to school, and working at the same time living my life like any individual do but I can't figure out what is happening to me. I met a guy about a month a go and everything was perfect in the beginning, he was c...
A. 6 November 2013: Oh for heaven's sake, hit "delete" and ignore him. He's an absolute time-waster and you don't need his drama.
Yes, you should definitely meet someone else. No use waiting for a flake to get his act together, you'll be waiting a LOOOOOON... (read in full...)
How or what should I do to make gym time fun for the both of us?
Q. When my boyfriend and I met I was heavy set I have since loss about 10lbs he is constantly trying to get me to workout with him I am not comfortable working out with him. He gets really mean in the gym and it makes me feel unpretty. How or what ...
A. 5 November 2013: Did you try talking to him about it?
"Dave, I would like to enjoy my time at the gym with you. I do not respond well to your approach of being tough and mean at the gym and it is putting me off going there with you. I'd like to discuss how we can ... (read in full...)
Controlling gag reflex during oral sex with a bigger man
Q. I love giving oral sex, taste or smell are not a deterrent. My current boyfriend has a larger penis, and I would like to know how to stop from gagging. I know I can use my hand to control penetration, but I would like to know how to handle, ...
A. 5 November 2013: Go find a sword swallower and ask him or her, I understand they have learned to suppress the gag reflex.
It's an involuntary reflex that is designed to prevent you from choking, apparently it can be suppressed with practice.
... (read in full...)
I have 3 small children and want to leave my abusive husband but don't know how to do so!
Q. My husband (who is now 29) and I (I am now 24) met when I was 18 and he was 23. We've been together ever since. We got married 18 months after we met because I was six months pregnant. After I gave birth, my husband went from sappy, overly romantic ...
A. 5 November 2013: Have you made it to safety? Please do let us know when you are in a safe place. Best wishes.... (read in full...)
Is this marriage bad enough to justify my leaving?
Q. Long story, but here goes. I am a 21 year old Indian woman who had an arranged marriage to the (34-y/o)man of my dreams. Or so I thought. To give some background,I am an attractive woman who was very used to getting lots of male attention. Some...
A. 5 November 2013: Are you on a path to safety? Please do let us know when you are away from your abuser.... (read in full...)
Never had much luck with boys so wondering how to proceed with this one?
Q. I am seventeen years of age and have had much boy luck! I really like this boy in school and because of my luck with boys i am really not confident at all to do anything about it!He does come across as that confident around girls either. I talk to ...
A. 5 November 2013: Try to say "hi" to him once a day for a week and then come back for more help. If you can't manage that then you should talk to your Mom and Dad about how to get over your shyness. ... (read in full...)
Don't be afraid to walk away when you know things are wrong. Never let someone undermine who you are!
Q. As we all know, being in a relationship isn't easy. It can be one of the most wonderful feelings in the world to be in love, but falling out of love or the break up of a relationship can also be one of the most painful experiences in life. ...
A. 5 November 2013: I hope you find the happiness you deserve with a man who loves you as you are, with all your gifts and graces of love, compassion, selflessness and giving.
Hang in there, sister!... (read in full...)
Do guys care if a woman looks crappy after having sex?
Q. Question. Do guys get turned off when a girl looks like a great, big mess after having sex? She starts out looking killer but then her hair looks like this big frizzy mop from hell, mascara smudged all over her face... Etc. How do guys feel...
A. 2 November 2013: I doubt he's taking much in after sex. Relax. By the way, there are better mascaras out there that don't wind up all over your face when you exert yourself. :)... (read in full...)
Thin or curvy?
Q. I am in my late 20 s and have a 5 year old son. I was very thin when I got married 112 lb with 5.4 height. I was always getting attention from guys, though was called skinny sometimes. Now after divorce and my pregnancy I gained 25 lb. I am not o...
A. 1 November 2013: Do you really think that all men like the exact same body type? Really?... (read in full...)
Is this marriage bad enough to justify my leaving?
Q. Long story, but here goes. I am a 21 year old Indian woman who had an arranged marriage to the (34-y/o)man of my dreams. Or so I thought. To give some background,I am an attractive woman who was very used to getting lots of male attention. Some...
A. 1 November 2013: Here's a game plan for leaving: http://www.thehotline.org/help/path-to-safety/
Here's a UK site to help women in your situation: http://www.womensaid.org.uk
Best wishes as you get yourself to safety.... (read in full...)
How do I break up with him? I love him with all of my heart
Q. Hi everyone. Well I've been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the last 4 years and I used to think he was the one. In fact I still do in some ways. However the last year or so has been very rocky because I've started to want more from the ...
A. 1 November 2013: You just do it.
Be present in the moment, speak your truth and say goodbye.
You will be fine. In fact, you will be relieved and feel a weight lift from your back, because you have been carrying this burden for a while now.
So, don't wait for som... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend fat. I was joking but she's upset. How do I make it up to her?
Q. I have got a problem which needs your help. I met my girlfriend in Singapore two years ago and living with her in her small apartment there provided to her by school where she teaches. I do odd job there and grateful to her for that. She is an ...
A. 1 November 2013: Have you heard of empathy?... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my manager if he want to?
Q. I am 19 and I work part-time as a server. We have this kind of newish manager, he's 31, that started about 5-7 months ago. When he first started working there, I HATED him. I mean seriously disliked the guy. He was arrogant, rude, cocky an demanded ...
A. 1 November 2013: What is it that made you come here to ask this question? Are you having doubts?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gets easily irritated at me regarding how I work and I don't know what to do? I am walking on egg shells anymore
Q. We live together. He is divorced with a couple adult children. We talk about getting married. We share the same office. I have a home based business. I have a separate work space from the office in the home. He tells me to be myself around hi...
A. 1 November 2013: I would divide work space into "his office" and "your office" with a shared printer in another area of the house. Frankly, if you are the one with a home-based business and he works outside the home then you should be the one with the larger space ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy, except for his sex drive
Q. I am frustrated beyond belief and the worst part is, I will NEVER EVER cheat. My boyfriend (who is, admittedly, a very good guy) and I have been together almost 3.5 years. No engagement ring yet and he always claims it's money which I get because ...
A. 31 October 2013: Just saw your followup. You do not sound as though you are prepared to accept a shitty sex life for the rest of your life, you sound very angry. You both sound exhausted and stressed, why on earth would you want pregnancy scares with all you have on ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy, except for his sex drive
Q. I am frustrated beyond belief and the worst part is, I will NEVER EVER cheat. My boyfriend (who is, admittedly, a very good guy) and I have been together almost 3.5 years. No engagement ring yet and he always claims it's money which I get because ...
A. 31 October 2013: Another thought struck me. You say you have had a couple of pregnancy scares? Maybe he's done the math, figured out when you are least fertile and only engages in sex with you then, for that one week, and then, the tool goes back into the shed until ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents about this much older guy in prison?
Q. I am in love with a man that's 24 years older than me seems to really feel the same about me he is wanting to become a pastor really soon he knows slot about the Bible and he is devoted to God he is 53 I'm 29 he is currently in prison and has only ...
A. 31 October 2013: Knowing a lot about the Bible and saying he is devoted to God doesn't necessarily make him the best choice for you and your children. A 54 year old in prison for what? Embezzling the company's money? Or armed robbery? Drugs?
Did you meet him whil... (read in full...)
He's a great guy, except for his sex drive
Q. I am frustrated beyond belief and the worst part is, I will NEVER EVER cheat. My boyfriend (who is, admittedly, a very good guy) and I have been together almost 3.5 years. No engagement ring yet and he always claims it's money which I get because ...
A. 31 October 2013: The other aunts have pointed to a possible porn addiction, which I would think is likely the cause of lack of interest in sex with a live, willing, eager woman. If he's healthy and has no physical causes for his "low sex drive" then take a look at ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my life will pass me by before I find my life's purpose and I'm getting anxious
Q. Ok, this isn't exactly a relationship but I'm really in need of help and could use some constructive advice. My life is not what it should be and there needs to be change, because it really sucks. I'm in a career I just defaulted into, ...
A. 30 October 2013: I have to ask, are you really looking for advice? You responded to one tiny bit of one aunt's post and that was it. This feels more like you are venting, just kind of getting it all out. What I see is that you are repeating the same question in ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my life will pass me by before I find my life's purpose and I'm getting anxious
Q. Ok, this isn't exactly a relationship but I'm really in need of help and could use some constructive advice. My life is not what it should be and there needs to be change, because it really sucks. I'm in a career I just defaulted into, ...
A. 30 October 2013: "Please say something comforting about my friend loving me back. He's the ONLY one for me. Please please pretty please I love him. I don't wanna share my life with some crummy man I won't care for."
I'm sorry that you are this stuck. I hope you find... (read in full...)
Can I stop him sleeping with a new woman, Just this weekend?
Q. Hi I hope you guys can give me some advice? Here's the story... Sorry it's so complicated. i came to this city to build a career and get over a bad break up.. i built my life up, had a fantastic high paid job i was very good at and got on br...
A. 30 October 2013: Wow, a lot of drama, and you're still piling it on. Stop the drama. Stop contacting him. Stop tracking him.
It is way past time for you to regain some integrity and dignity and get the hell away from the entire situation.
Reach out to other fr... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm being disrespected, used, and attacked by my boyfriend
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 13 months now, and I have never loved someone so much before. I recently started my first year of college, and my first job. My motivation was him, it was for our future. He on the other hand wont ...
A. 30 October 2013: The ONLY way to handle this situation is to leave him. Your love, your devotion, your expressions of faithfulness and honesty, all your positive actions toward him are a complete waste of your time.
He's not listening to you. If he were, he'd have... (read in full...)
I have 3 small children and want to leave my abusive husband but don't know how to do so!
Q. My husband (who is now 29) and I (I am now 24) met when I was 18 and he was 23. We've been together ever since. We got married 18 months after we met because I was six months pregnant. After I gave birth, my husband went from sappy, overly romantic ...
A. 29 October 2013: Call this toll-free number 1-800-799-7233 [1-800-787-3224 (TTY)]
or go to this website: http://www.thehotline.org
There trained counselors can help you navigate the next steps you need to take.
Here is more from that website:
What Is Safet... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my life will pass me by before I find my life's purpose and I'm getting anxious
Q. Ok, this isn't exactly a relationship but I'm really in need of help and could use some constructive advice. My life is not what it should be and there needs to be change, because it really sucks. I'm in a career I just defaulted into, ...
A. 28 October 2013: Hi, I have read many of your posts. You come across as being helpless yet angry at life, you aren't happy wherever you are. You enjoyed music yet stopped playing guitar because you felt bullied by fellow ex-band members. Your dog died and you feel ... (read in full...)
FWB wants to meet up but hes dating someone. Is it moral?
Q. my fwb just asked me to meet up even though I thought it was over because he apparently had a girlfriend, he then explained that she wasn't his girlfriend and it wouldn't be cheating because they haven't defined the relationship. is it moral to ...
A. 28 October 2013: If he hasn't told her he has a FWB, then he's lying by omission to her. He's not disclosing a standing sexual relationship. So then he's not acting in a moral or ethical manner, if that is your question.
Do you want to sleep with a liar, go ahea... (read in full...)
Do you think I should have to tell him everything about my life when now hes a friend with benefits ?
Q. Does a guy I see once a week have any right asking questions about where I go and what I do? ive been seeing someone for a year and it turned very serious very quickly. He moved in within four months but it turned sour pretty quick.I chucked him ...
A. 28 October 2013: Actually, I'd call him an abuser with benefits. You get one day of fun (I'm guess it's actually more like an hour of "fun" with you doing most of the work) and then 6 days of controlling nastiness.
What's up with you that you would tolerate this... (read in full...)
My husband forgot my birthday again, what do I do?
Q. What should I do? I really have no idea. My husband forgot my birthday last year and demanded that I come up with what to do to get him "in the clear". He once again forgot my birthday this year. I was devastated. I was out of town but he had known ...
A. 26 October 2013: Hi lilcheer, I read your profile information and saw that your husband had cancer and chemotherapy? And in addition you listed him as being a Wounded Warrior? I don't know how he was wounded but perhaps there is some damage to his memory?
My sist... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have hair there? How do I tell her?
Q. I'm 26 years old and I have been with my girlfriend who is 24 for 5 months now and we are a stage of absolute relaxation around each other, she is the most amazing person I have ever been with, she is so kind, she is caring, she is funny and just ...
A. 25 October 2013: She's normal and if she washes her bottom then she is aware she has hair there. No need to worry about it beyond that.
I had a chat with a licensed beautician about waxing one day, she told me in our state that it's illegal to use was on the peri... (read in full...)
The spark is gone with my b/f, and there's this other guy ...
Q. I guess I will start by saying that I have a boyfriend for 2 years. We are in a very good terms with him and I care deeply for him and so does he. I guess it's love. My boyfriend and I have been on many adventures. I love him still, but I think I am ...
A. 25 October 2013: When I read a phrase like "has his way with the ladies" I have to laugh. That just means the charming doctor thinks his penis is the most important thing in his life. Ha! He's a sad little man if he can't be a faithful partner.
You have more than... (read in full...)
He is quite confusing, he never seems INTERESTED interested!
Q. I like a boy I met on a school outing last year. Call him Simon. I added him on fb and would chat to him about his/my school stuff (societies, prefects etc.). And coincidentally we both ended up as Head Prefects at our differemt schools. So ...
A. 25 October 2013: Hi Noli, I think your crush just isn't crushing back. It's too bad that this happens but it does not reflect on you or your excellent qualities in any way.
I would look back on this as a nice daydream but not of real life. It's just part of life... (read in full...)
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added them and they have added *isha-1!
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