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anonymous
writes: Question.Do guys get turned off when a girl looks like a great, big mess after having sex?She starts out looking killer but then her hair looks like this big frizzy mop from hell, mascara smudged all over her face... Etc.How do guys feel about this? Do they like it? Think less if her?What's the deal?Just curious cause I look like shit when we're done! Lol Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 November 2013):
No man cares at all! We're too busy smiling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013): I worried a lot when I lost my virginity to a guy I was crazy about. I wanted to look perfect every time and So Very Confused said it, I would go wash up when he fell asleep. It really shouldn't matter and some guys actually think it is sexy when you are all messed up. It shows that you can let go.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 November 2013):
I doubt he's taking much in after sex. Relax. By the way, there are better mascaras out there that don't wind up all over your face when you exert yourself. :)
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (2 November 2013):
The expression "just fucked look" is not an insult. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2013): I would hope that the said man doesn't expect you to have perfect makeup 24/7. If he does then the relationship is only superficial.
The most inspiring relationships I have known are when one partner is ill and not all 'sexy' but their partner looked at them lovingly because they loved each other in a wholistic way.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 November 2013):
nope they don't care... all their brains have exited their body after sex...
once he's snoring get up and wash and clean up...
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