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writes:I am seventeen years of age and have had much boy luck!I really like this boy in school and because of my luck with boys i am really not confident at all to do anything about it!He does come across as that confident around girls either. I talk to one of his close friends and I have talked to this boy a couple of times but not enough to just go for it!The girls think i have a shot at it but i really dont know what to do?where should i start?what should i do ?please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (5 November 2013):
 Try to say "hi" to him once a day for a week and then come back for more help. If you can't manage that then you should talk to your Mom and Dad about how to get over your shyness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy thank you but I have no idea how to approach him i get all nervous to the point i can't make eye contact with him
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 November 2013):
 Be yourself!!!! Say a polite "Hi" whenever you encounter him... See if there are things you and he have in-common that can be conversation "openers".... For example; do you take a class together? ... or, participate in some extra-curricula activity together? Those are "natural" conversation starters.... Beyond that, see if you can learn what OTHER things interest him. Is he a sports nut? ... a mechanic? ... an internet/computer geek? All these give you chances to get HIM to talk about things with which he is comfortable....
IF/WHEN you DO get to a conversation.... ask lots of questions that he knows the answers to.... and LISTEN intently... as if you were going to be quizzed on his answers.....
In time .... and with enough of the tentative first-conversations.... you and he will feel comfortable (enough) with one-another such that you (two) can branch off in to others subjects.....
Relax.... and I'm willing to wager that you will get (and keep) his attention.
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2013): Take a deep breath, walk up to him, and just say hello. Just tell him you happened to know a friend of his, wonder if he ever mentioned you? Then introduce yourself. Let him take it from there.
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