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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover
Q. Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...
A. 29 January 2013: Did you seek some counseling? You sound very dramatic without much context.
No one call tell you how long your feelings will last.
If it is this upsetting, and important to your future well-being, call in some experts.
... (read in full...)
Why does he he feel guilty?
Q. My boyfriend is separated and has been having a hard time getting his ex to give him all of his things. He received a text last night from her saying he could go get his stuff. He said he would be back in a little while but before he left he said," ...
A. 29 January 2013: Do they have children?
I think it would be really strange that he didn't mourn the end of a relationship.
I'd say he probably feels guilty because it didn't work out
Whether that is a fault that needs ascribing or punishment, well, do you have mor... (read in full...)
I've been offered treatment for my bi polar disorder...Will it help me and should I sign up for it and postone my career.?
Q. Hi everyone, this question is for anyone who has experience of BPD, and the best available treatments. Please only answer if you have specific experience in this field. Basically, I have recently been offered a place on a three day a week trea...
A. 29 January 2013: You're really asking a group of amateur agony aunts to provide really sophisticated guidance and counseling.
I have to ask, is there some reason you can't do what is best for yourself, as you seem to know already? Is there some reason you feel that... (read in full...)
He just cheats on me spirtually every 2 months, but defends himself saying he enjoys being a player...should I marry him?
Q. My boyfriend of 7 month now is driving me crazy with the childishness he do frequently, and by "drives me crazy" i mean insecure! -he is great in bed, if we have free time of 5 hours we simply did it for four hours, like 3 times or so! -very ten...
A. 29 January 2013: He sounds like a man who is very good at ensuring his sexual 'need's are met. He also sounds like a man who is happy to cheat to ensure that his sexual 'need's are met and a man who is ecstatic he's found a woman with whom he can have sex and not ... (read in full...)
Am I out of line for wanting my girlfriend to discuss major life decisions with me?
Q. I am a little confused and could just use a little advice to keep me on the right path. My girlfriend and I had a little argument the other day. She's been distancing herself over the past few weeks, and I finally called her out on it. (We'v...
A. 29 January 2013: Your current status with her does not give you the level of being able to "forbid" a life choice.
You are a lovely and wonderful boyfriend who has been with her for a number of years. You are NOT a lovely and wonderful fiancé or husband.
The f... (read in full...)
My best friend who is like a brother to me admitted that he's gay and attracted to me. I am now avoiding him because I don't know how to handle this
Q. I’m a man in my early thirties and right now I have a complicated situation in my life. My best friend confessed to me that he’s gay. We know each other for almost 25 years and he’s like a brother to me. We grew up together, we went in the same ...
A. 28 January 2013: When did he know he was gay? That's important for my answer. Thanks!... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I like to flirt with other boys. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi everyone. I find myself in a difficult situation. I've just got my first boyfriend, and i really really like him. However i find myself flirting with other guys quite a lot, and i've recently found out that this guy likes me, and starting to ...
A. 26 January 2013: Are you younger than 16-17? Because this is such a simple question to answer we will wonder why you needed to ask.
I think you are too young to date or commit to one boy for now.
It's okay. It just means you aren't yet ready for a monogamo... (read in full...)
BF reacted badly when I mentioned my physical insecurities about sex - should he be so upset, and how can I fix this?
Q. Ok, I need some insight. Without being too graphic, my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I had finished having sex and were lying in bed. Somewhere along the lines of us just talking he said that he really like when I’m on top and in reverse, ...
A. 26 January 2013: Who was judging you at age 8? And why do you think they were doing so?
... (read in full...)
BF reacted badly when I mentioned my physical insecurities about sex - should he be so upset, and how can I fix this?
Q. Ok, I need some insight. Without being too graphic, my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I had finished having sex and were lying in bed. Somewhere along the lines of us just talking he said that he really like when I’m on top and in reverse, ...
A. 26 January 2013: Men don't want to be with insecure women, just as women aren't really attracted by insecure men. Your comment told him that you think he doesn't think you are attractive. That's a pretty big blow to him. You've essentially told him that he's with an ... (read in full...)
Out of the blue he says he loves me but can't be with me. I don't know what happened!
Q. i met this guy on a dating site.we are talking by mails and on the phone before to meet 5 mnths ago.was a romantic trip.after that we met few more times.he wanted me to be a part of his life and share everythings with me.met me with his friends and ...
A. 26 January 2013: I think there's more in his background that he's told you. It's a bit fast to tell someone that they love them after only 5 months.
I'd be thankful that you aren't in for longer. He's got some issues. If he's this weird about it, I'd let him go. ... (read in full...)
My bf has big money issues and I wonder if I should just leave him in this mess he created
Q. Hello everyone. My bf is currently having big money issues and he's much to be blamed. He had taken an order for which he did not have sufficient capital to do the work. So he took a loan from the bank and borrowed money from family and friends. ...
A. 26 January 2013: How long have you been with your boyfriend? Have you actually met him in real life? I'm asking because there are many scammers and fakes out there who are trying their best to get their hands on your money.
How long have you known him? Where does... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I like to flirt with other boys. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi everyone. I find myself in a difficult situation. I've just got my first boyfriend, and i really really like him. However i find myself flirting with other guys quite a lot, and i've recently found out that this guy likes me, and starting to ...
A. 26 January 2013: When you say you " I've just got my first boyfriend," does that mean you chased this guy until he said 'yes, I'll be your boyfriend,' or does it mean that he chased you until you said 'yes, I'll be your girlfriend'?
It's okay not to be in a rela... (read in full...)
What does friends with benefits mean to you?
Q. I have a question for you lovely people.. Me and my ex stopped talking for a long time all of a sudden he missed me ( so he says) he asked me did I wanna be friends with benefits and told me I can't sleep with nobody but him... What is friends with ...
A. 26 January 2013: In this case, in my opinion, this is a guy who can't find another woman to sleep with him, so he's trying to convince you that you should be his sex partner, but the way he's set it up, if he finds another woman he wants to commit to (to call his ... (read in full...)
How importants are breasts to a man
Q. Hi, I was wondering what the general male opinion on boobs is- how big is too big? is there a limit? are small boobs really that bad? how important are they to a mans sexual arousal? Thanks...
A. 26 January 2013: Some will want big. Some will not want big, will actually prefer 'small.' Some will have no opinion because they like whatever shows up on the woman they are in love with. Some will be happy that the breast cancer is removed from the woman they ... (read in full...)
I really want this girl back but I want things to be right. Do I wait and be her friend for now?
Q. Hey Agony Aunts! I have a great story to tell, and I do need lots of answers. I hope you are prepared, because I am going to really make your minds work! I met a special girl on a very special day. Guess what! She wanted nothing to do with me...
A. 25 January 2013: I'm not sure that you have made a good choice. You had to chase her then ignored her. She went back to a promiscuous guy with no common sense or knowledge of birth control.
You'd only known her for 10 months before the 4 months break. She begg... (read in full...)
He ended things without a word and now I have to see him. How should I act?
Q. Has anybody ever had to deal with a situation like this, i'm sure it's happened many times but I don't know how to react or what i should do or say when i see him... There's this guy who I was dating for nearly 6 months, a long time! He's not m...
A. 25 January 2013: Is there any chance someone has been telling him lies about you? It seems odd that he would vanish with no explanation.
If you see him, I'd say something like, "I don't know what happened for you to cut off contact, it feels very rude and upse... (read in full...)
Why is she not picking up clues that I like her?
Q. i am really confused on my situation here..i am attracted to a girl..she always treats me as a friend only even though i make her laugh and i be with her to support her in her difficult times and she enjoys a lot when shes with me but even after ...
A. 25 January 2013: I think your best bet would be to get her friends to think you are a date-able guy.
If you are just hoping she'll notice you because you are hanging around being attractive, um, that's not going to do it.
Get her friends to talk about how interest... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to know if he can go to a party where his ex will be. What do I say?
Q. My bf met up with his ex behind my back 2 years ago. He lied about it but the truth eventually came out. Not only that he'd saved semi naked (recent) photos on his computer from her facebook. We had a massive argument and had a break but I ...
A. 25 January 2013: "No, actually, I'm not good with you going to this party with your ex and all your old friends. Why am I not invited too?"... (read in full...)
Can I make my breasts perky?
Q. I'm 16 years old, and I hate, hate, hate my boobs. They're cone-shaped and point downward. I'm 36B, and I'm completely healthy. I'm terrified when boyfriends ask to see them. In the past, I've had guy friends accidentally see them, and all th...
A. 23 January 2013: Get fit, do some working out appropriate for your age and stop worrying. Most guys are ecstatic to be in the presence of naked boobs. They pay ridiculous amounts of money to do so, so ignore your annoying and ill-meaning ex-boyfriends.
A heal... (read in full...)
Married to a man 20 years older than I
Q. This is a letter I am sending to my husband.. I have no idea how he is going to respond.. So if your a guy.. Please feel free to reply.. That way I can prepare myself.. For whatever transpires. Thanks "Since I spoke to you about us.. You m...
A. 23 January 2013: I'm not a man but I think you need to be really clear here.
"Husband, I love you but this isn't working. I want to fix it and I hope you want to fix it too. To fix things, which are so badly broken, we need outside help."
"If we don't get it in th... (read in full...)
I feel embarassed that I'm still a virgin
Q. I'm a senior in college and still a virgin. It's not for religious reasons so much (although I am a faithful person), but I've always felt you should lose your virginity to someone you really love and have a future with. I've had several serious ...
A. 23 January 2013: Have sex when you are ready. As far as experience goes, I think it's pretty safe to say that a real man would be really, really happy with an enthusiastic partner.
You won't be 'good enough' (whatever that means) if you have decided to dislike the ... (read in full...)
Shall I stay or go?
Q. I've been dating a wonderful man for almost a year now, I stay in his home about 5 days a week, sometimes 6. Everything is going so well. He has hinted about me officially moving in but today I asked him if we could talk about it (seriously) he ...
A. 23 January 2013: What do YOU want from the relationship?... (read in full...)
My ex husband doesn't love me anymore but wants us to have a child together
Q. I have my ex-husband who told he doesnt love me anymore with no reason and now he wants us to have a second child outside a relationship and he is extremly proud. and i still love him. What do i do to get him back?...
A. 22 January 2013: We're still waiting to understand why he's worthy of trying to get back? Any update?
... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to ruin my internship because I'm so tired all the time!
Q. This is not really a relationship question, but about job performance (or lack thereof, in my case.) Since most of you have jobs or had one, I would really appreciate your advice on this. Right now I'm finishing up my studies at uni through an i...
A. 19 January 2013: I'm sorry to ask such a mundane question. But in the world of the internet, print media such as newspapers and magazines, are going through a transformation. Circulation of print magazines and newspaper is WAYYYY down.
It's sad, I know, but it's... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to ruin my internship because I'm so tired all the time!
Q. This is not really a relationship question, but about job performance (or lack thereof, in my case.) Since most of you have jobs or had one, I would really appreciate your advice on this. Right now I'm finishing up my studies at uni through an i...
A. 19 January 2013: They reimburse you for the gas? How much?... (read in full...)
Husband sent a "lets have sex" message to a colleague
Q. My husband went out a few weeks ago with his friends to a concert. In the morning he was a bit hungover, but got up, went to the washroom and then hid his phone. I felt bad for snooping, but I wondered why he hid his phone so I found it and looked ...
A. 18 January 2013: I don't know how he has managed to convince you that this is okay. Presumably this is not the first time he's done something like this?
Seriously, why have you not handed him a suitcase packed with some clothes of his and told him to move out unti... (read in full...)
Moment of silence for Dear Abby
Q. I think we should have a moment of silence for the passing of our fellow agoney aunt Dear Abby....
A. 18 January 2013: *bows head and observes moment of silence*
Rest in peace, Dear Abby, you were the agony aunt who had the most famous advice column in the USA and set the bar so high.
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My ex husband doesn't love me anymore but wants us to have a child together
Q. I have my ex-husband who told he doesnt love me anymore with no reason and now he wants us to have a second child outside a relationship and he is extremly proud. and i still love him. What do i do to get him back?...
A. 17 January 2013: Can you explain to us exactly why you love an egotistical selfish man? And how having him as a father is a good thing for your child? Please list all his good qualities.
If you can't, I'd say it's time to move on and make your own happiness with... (read in full...)
Ex sent me dirty pictures says its because of me that he's hard. What do I do?
Q. Well, my ex messaged me out of the blue saying he missed me, then he ended up sending me a dirty picture saying I'm the reason that it's well hard. I'm pretty sure he only wants one thing . Should I just ignore him or what?...
A. 17 January 2013: Delete the picture ASAP, that's basically child pornography you have there, assuming he's 16-17. Just imagine how happy your parents would be to know he thinks it's okay to send pictures of his dick. How proud his parents must be.
Yes, he's a clue... (read in full...)
He stopped replying to my messages what should I do?
Q. Hey guys,,so i met this guy in our new neighbourhood and he seemed very nice! He's so cute and i began taking interest. So i friended him on facebook and we began talking but after a while,he stopped replying my inboxes! I sent like 4 to him and ...
A. 17 January 2013: Nothing you can do at this point. Just accept his silence as an indication he's not interested in you. Post as usual with your friends and don't try to inbox him again.
If you run into him in the neighborhood, be light and bright and have a frie... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!
Q. there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the ...
A. 17 January 2013: What do your friends think about this? Are they in contact with her? They may have some valuable input as to her situation, as well, as they introduced you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!
Q. there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the ...
A. 17 January 2013: So she is 19-24, a student and living in a different country? You are in your early to mid 30s and insecure in yourself? Hm. And you saw each other 6 times total in the last year.
You have a lot of things going against this relationship.
One i... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too clingy. What can I do?
Q. What would you do if your significant other always clings on to you and wants to always touch you when you're in public places? It's slightly annoying but if I say anything he'd get upset. ...
A. 17 January 2013: I would start to 'train' him like a puppy dog. No, I don't mean smack his nose: I mean react in a way that deters him from doing the behaviors that bother you.
If he touches you inappropriately in a public place, I would shriek loudly, and then say,... (read in full...)
What does he want from me?
Q. i really need advice and any help is greatly appreciated. i had a "friends with benefits" situation that lasted 8months with a guy but we both had feelings for each other. lets call him "Bulk." Bulk told me he was planning to make me his girlfriend ...
A. 17 January 2013: Does it really matter what he wants from you? He treated you very badly and has made no real effort to explain or apologize.
I'd contact his mother and ask her to tell him to stop contacting you. Or ask your mother and father to contact his pare... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!
Q. there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the ...
A. 17 January 2013: Oh, and just to add another point. I have a close family member who lives in a town with really really bad coverage for her phone's data plan. She can't text me unless she is in a Wifi zone, which is perhaps only 2 hours per day when we are both ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!
Q. there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the ...
A. 17 January 2013: Okay, so you see her every 6 weeks or so? And how did you meet her? Did you move away or has this always been an LDR?
If you two were a committed couple for a year or longer and then one had to move due to a career relocation, that would be one situ... (read in full...)
More than 6 years together, he's still putting off marriage and now its making me bitter and unhappy.
Q. Sorry for the length, I feel the information is necessary to get a good reply. THANKS to anyone who reads and replies! I am 24(female), my boyfriend is 33. We have been together for over 6 years and living together for just about 6 years. No majo...
A. 17 January 2013: Some ideas for you:
Plan a trip to Vegas. Pop by one of the drive through wedding chapels. Suggest that would save a lot of money. See what happens.
Start looking for apartments for yourself, so when you move out, you have a place ready. Google "... (read in full...)
My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!
Q. there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the ...
A. 16 January 2013: Do you spend a lot of time together in real life?... (read in full...)
I am left feeling guilty because I don't want to give my b/f a blow job
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. I have had a bad experience with blowjobs in my past and i know my boyfriend really wants one but i can't let go and give him one. I'm not ready. But he's become withdrawn and he tells his friends ...
A. 14 January 2013: What happened that caused you to be so afraid?... (read in full...)
Housework and chore trouble with my boyfriend, do I move out?
Q. My boyfriend and I have lived for a few years now and the housework situation is getting out of control. He grew up with maids and is totally incompetent. Which would be OK I guess, but he won't listen to me or try to learn. I'll try to explain to ...
A. 9 January 2013: I think you know you need to move out. What else can you do? Wait for him to grow up and act like a grown man? You've given him enough time to deal with it and figure out how to manage it.
Get your ducks in a row, set up your plan and move out.... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to reduce my sex drive?
Q. Hello, I have a sex question. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now, im 18 hes 25. And Lately he says all ive wnated to do is have sex, and i have. Im consantly "horny" when im around him, and when im not with him i thinkg a...
A. 9 January 2013: Have you told him what works for you? If you have and he ignores it, I'd dump him. If he has shown no interest in seeing that you are happy with your sex life, I doubt he's teachable that way. He's not worth the time, frankly.
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Is there anything I can do to reduce my sex drive?
Q. Hello, I have a sex question. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two months now, im 18 hes 25. And Lately he says all ive wnated to do is have sex, and i have. Im consantly "horny" when im around him, and when im not with him i thinkg a...
A. 8 January 2013: Tell him that "ladies come first," the next time you see him and see if that doesn't help the situation.
If he can't work with you to make sure YOU enjoy the sex too, then maybe the entire relationship should be reconsidered. Balance and shar... (read in full...)
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