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*driana3318
writes: I need advice. I have a huge crush on my local Starbuck's barista. He is just so cute, and I haven't had a crush on anyone for, I swear, 2 years. I go there frequently; however, I don't seem to be going during his shifts as much:/ I see him like 2 times a week... But whenever I do, he makes me so happy:) I don't know how to approach this situation. I sometimes think he may like me too, but other times not so much. Like one day, I walked in, and he just stared at me... The whole time while I was saying my order and paying to the other cashier. He always smiles at me when he gives me my drink, and I just find him so cute. What should I do? I'm kinda shy, so I don't want to just leave my number with him.... I want to appear not desperate either! So what should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): This happened to me before first thing!
Ask him what days does he work, when he answers make sure to say something like "I'll make sure to drop by then" also when you get to talk with him more make sure there is no girlfriend. Nothing sucks more...
Goodluck!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 August 2012):
Have you tried just talking to him? As in, getting to know him a bit better and flirting just a bit?
At the worst, you'll get a bit of practice with flirting and at the best, you'll find out shortly if he likes you in that way or not.
"Thank you for being one of the things in my day that make me smile."
"You have the best smile."
"You are adorable and need to call me and ask me out on a date."
"Hi handsome."
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): Just ask him straight up if he is married or not and ask for his number or give him yours. That's how I met my husband of 12 years. We were both 21 and I saw him first. I though he was cute , I was a school teacher and he worked on computers then in our school. Three days later we became boyfriend and girlfriend and have been together ever since . Good luck !
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