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writes:My boyfriend is separated and has been having a hard time getting his ex to give him all of his things. He received a text last night from her saying he could go get his stuff. He said he would be back in a little while but before he left he said," why do i feel guilty for going over there?" I told him he needed to ask himself that. My question is why does he feel guilty? Is it because of me or her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2013): Is could be down to many reasons like him doing something in the relationship to cause them to split up or because he broke up with her and now he feels ba or if she played mind games and made him feel guilty in their relationship.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (29 January 2013):
 Hi, he may have unresoved feelings for his ex and knowing that he felt guilty going to her house - like cheating on you. Remember they were married and shared a life, yes it ended but you dont forget the history you shared. It just may be a passing phase and he loves u, I hope you are not a rebound or that will end in disaster.
You are best judge of his feelings for you. Just dont read into anything and listen to what he says.
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reader, ness74 +, writes (29 January 2013):
ness74 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo they do not have children toge ther they were only marriedfor 18 months he says he feels guilty because he feels like hes doing something against me by going over there. I told him that i understand as long as he is honest with me
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 January 2013):
 Do they have children?
I think it would be really strange that he didn't mourn the end of a relationship.
I'd say he probably feels guilty because it didn't work out
Whether that is a fault that needs ascribing or punishment, well, do you have more information about why he should feel awful?
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