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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Now that he's out of prison he's blowing me off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my fiance 11 months ago in prison and over the year that we have been together we have grown to be so much in love well so much like we were in love and now that he is out his family doesnt like me and he has been trying to blow me off for the last 2 days and he will tell ... (92 words)

I'm going back and forth between 2 guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am facing a problem in my love life and i need some advice. I thank you in advance for reading this and for answering. I feel so lost right now. Im 21 years old and i've been in a relationship for 2 and half years with this guy, lets call him Jack. We lived together... (1077 words)

Why did it take 2 years and an ultimatum for him to be attentive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - You guys may remember me from my previous questions : I am the 24 year old virgin female with the 40 year old partner who just wont have sex. Well, things have changed a lot now. Let me give you guys some background: For the past two years he has not initiated sex, I... (244 words)

She says break up with me, then says don't break up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help, my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years she means the world to me. We've been a little rocky lately, she hasen't really been herself and she admitted she has been changing. The biggest issue is in a few months I will be going on tour. I'm a pop ... (137 words)

We aren't getting along and its driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel like me and my boyfriend arent getting along and hes driving crazy...what should i do?... (17 words)

I'm interested in my sister's 30 year old ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I need alot of help. I'll start off by saying I'm 16 years old and I'm mature for my age. And I'm not just saying that. I'm not a fake person. I dont wear to much makeup, but I am very pretty. I dress nicely and I'm chill, but I have a wild side and I like to have fun, ... (464 words)

I like this guy who doesn't make conversation with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi thers a lad i like and have liked for nearly 12 months...I;m quite shy...I think he knows i like him..but we have never spoke about it i do work with him..But just lately i have noticed he doesnt make any conversation at all ..He looks over at me at times and its one of ... (87 words)

My ex wants me after I moved on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 years ago now i fell totally head over heels for a guy i met. We instantly clicked and had a lot of positive energy to the poitn where at times we we're inseperable. We had the same hobbies, interests and goals in life and i was smitten. After the relationship meeting ... (356 words)

Ideas for a special date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. I know this is kinda dumb but... I need some ideas on where to take or what to do for a date with my girlfriend. We just officially got together and even though we've been out on dates before, I want to do something different, like special with her. Any ideas?... (52 words)

I love my girlfriend's sister and don't want to lose her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25. I live with my girlfriend and her younger sister. We just moved in together, all three of us moving to a new city. I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 years and her sister has been my best friend for almost as long. They are both the most amazing and beautiful ... (618 words)

I lost my virginity and now I'm weak and afraid I won't be able to stop having sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seventeen years old and Muslim. I met my 19 year old boyfriend 5 months ago and have been dating since in secret. Coming from a strict family and myself valuing the teachings of Allah, i have continually felt ashamed and scared about being found out about my relationship. ... (173 words)

Ex started texting me last night and it hurts because I miss her so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My former girlfriend of five years broke up with me several months ago. I was devastated for a long time as I'd always thought we would spend our lives together and it was completely out of the blue. We have seen each other at various social occasions since, probably on ... (543 words)

How do I tell him I'm pregnant? I'm not ready to have a baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pregnant but I don't know how to tell HIM! I've just emigrated to Australia to be with him and we both know we want to be together forever but I feel its too early to have a baby. He's always talked about wanting one with me, but with my career just starting off and ... (84 words)

We want to have fun but should I tell him I'm a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - heya, I've been chatting to an old friend recently and found out that we've had sexual feelings about each other for quite a while now. We've agreed that when he comes to visit me we'll have some fun. The only thing is I havn't told him I'm a virgin coz I didn't think it was i... (109 words)

Why do guys like angry sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys =D I got a question, why do guys like 'angry sex'?? I've heard about this in shows and stuff as a joke but my boyfriend told me he gets turned on when we argue. Specifically if we've argued and he tries to cuddle up and play I tell him not to touch me he gets horny! ... (134 words)

Boyfriend losing interest, how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend has recently gone back to university which is 3 hours from where i live, i rarely get to see him anymore and i am finding it really difficult. Hes in his last year but i got so used to him being around over the summer holidays that its hit me really hard, ... (193 words)

Do guys like this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - do guys like it when you say there name during intercourse?... (11 words)

How do I get him away from his ex?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so this guy and i hung out a few times and its obvious we are attracted and like eachother its been said by both of us multiple times. we text all the time but i notice that its dwindling.. and i think hes talking to his ex. when i first met him he was with her but she goes to ... (226 words)

LDR--no more I love you? Is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm really starting to think my boyfriend is cheating on me. We've been together for over a year but it's a long distance relationship. For a while we saw each other alot I stayed with him for 4 days every week and for over a month in the summer we spent so much time ... (253 words)

He won't reply to any of my texts/ calls, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I got all hot headed on monday and after he had left i asked him by text if he was using me just for sex. SOmetimes it does feel like this as we dont get to spend much time together. Having thought about it I guess I was a bit harsh on him and really should not have text him ... (124 words)

Is our FWB relationship over? Are we just friends now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I posted about this a coupled of days ago. We are FWB for the last months, but a long distance thing. He used to be desperate to see me and we travel all around europe with the only purpose of seeing each other. We talk almost every day and he shows he cares all the ... (300 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed with drugs. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This summer my boyfriend started trying to do drugs. He had never done anything like that before, which is how I liked it, because I am morally against drugs. However I made myself accept his occasional use. When he got to college, his habit got worse. He was smoking weed a ... (279 words)

Husband having phone sex with men

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age - i have been married for 25 years and about 6 months ago i found out my husband has been having phone sex with men and seeking other men and when i confronted him he said he thinks he is bi but now that the shit has hit the fan he wants everything to just go away and says he ... (445 words)

In love with two men at same time.... for 15 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help trying to decide if i shold tell husband whom i love that i am also in love with another man. i've been married over 15 years and we have had our ups and downs but i love him. the other man i have also known for same legnth of time and have never stopped loving him. ... (162 words)

I think I've ruined everything in my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. so here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have beend dating for a little over a year now, and everything was perfect. We did everything together. She went out of her way to do really good things for me and told me things like I'm the most important person in her li... (1221 words)

So lonely with no friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm finding life a little lonely and sad at the moment without any friends. I'm 21 and live with my partner of 2 years. I can imagine you are probably thinking now "Of course you have friends, EVERYONE has at least one good friend". But I really actually don't. Here is ... (527 words)

He makes me feel guilty for my past relationships and doesn't feel he is 'equal' to me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together just under a year now. we have had a lot of ups and downs, and although all the great times we have shared outweigh the arguments, it's beginning to get too much. he is my 5th serious relationship and sexual partner, however i am his... (330 words)

Is it better to tell the truth, or hold on to a lie to prevent conflict?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma with my current partner. I have been lying to him about something that I know will cause him pain, and/or cause him to reconsider being in a relationship with me. I fluctuate between wanting to tell the truth, and facing the hard consequences, with the hope ... (186 words)

HELP! My girlfriend says it hurts to have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my gal have been together just short of a year and have been fairly sexual for the majority of that time as well. We are both around twenty and she was my first, well, everything. girlfriend, kiss, sex, ect ect. Well we have a problem. Sex has been and still is... (554 words)

Does he like me? I think he likes me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I work with a guy, its been a few months now. When we see eachother he always gets a big smile on his face, he notices the smallest things I do different IE: wear my hair slightly to the left or wear lipstick when i normally do not. When we have a work function he always asks ... (160 words)

After 5 years into the relationship, and don't know what to do..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years now. We were only 18 when we started going out. At the beginning i was completely crazy about him. For the last 6 months things have been going a bit strange for me. I really thought i wanted to get married to him, or i ... (142 words)

Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past hook ups and one night stands ... (60 words)

Am I right to be angry about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently started seeing a guy. We have been talking for 2 1/2 months on email and skype as he lives in another country. We went to school together 20 years ago and started talking on facebook and developed a friendship. recently he spent £700 and flew to uk to spend a ... (364 words)

Is this relationship salvagable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - My exgirlfriend and I have a long-term, ongoing dysfunctional history and fights. She fights dirtier than anyone I've ever met. After one break up, she said the most nastiest stuff she could think of--making fun of every aspect of my life and my physical appearance. Because I'm ... (336 words)

Completely in love with my 27 year old teacher!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. Im completely in love with my 27 year old teacher (im 16, so 11 years difference) Yes we have our days when we don't really get along but I guess every relationship has these. He means the world to me and I know I mean the world to him as well. He's ... (351 words)

I'm not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend very much, we have been dating a good 2 years. The problem is is that I don't find her sexually attractive anymore. Because of this I have cheated on her a couple of times, once was on a break. I don't want to break it off because I don't want to hurt her. ... (79 words)

I'm torn between three guys, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Pull out the popcorn and get comfortable, this is gonna be long. Hiya Aunts and Uncles, I'm in quite a confused space with 3 really great guys at the moment. Lets call the first guy Jarvis. We dated for about 7 months but it took 3 months or so of obvious dating and... (1178 words)

How do I tell him I haven't had sex in 8 years?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - just started talking to an old boyfreind. Its been 19 years! We want to be together again and he is out of state, but coming back. How and do I tell him i havent had sex in 8 years? What will he think of that? Don't know what to do!... (54 words)

I really like this girl, should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi readers! So I became friend of this girl that i like and today she said i was her best. about a week ago everyone started saying that she likes me, and when someone says that out loud she denies it. Also, I personally think that three other guys like her too, and everyone ... (203 words)

What should I do if I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you help me figure out what to do ?. I like this guy who i used to know at school. He has a funny sense of humour ! We are on each others friends lists on facebook. I was online very late at night once, well actually, it was the early hours of the morning. All of a sudden, ... (438 words)

What could his actions mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I take private piano lessons. The teacher is near the same age as me,(about 43). He seems shy and a bit nervous around women; you know, 'academic' looking; a bit 'geeky'. He also does transposition work for me on my music. I went round for a planned t... (323 words)

Why can't my ex and I let go of each other?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Dear Cupid. Please help!! I am stil madly in love wth my ex, and he knows it, and he messages me if I do not hear from him, and I message him vice versa. We do not see each other much, but when we do it usually really nice, but he always rushes off, as if he is testing ... (177 words)

I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x... (54 words)

Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football game and he complained the ... (563 words)

What do you make of his behavior??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy on my uni course and ive been told he likes me too. We've kissed a few times when out with mutual friends and for the last few weeks spoke quite a lot on facebook etc. The last week though ive barley heard from him at all and when ive seen him he's been all over ... (106 words)

I love her but this relationship is tormenting me, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - (Taken from a previous forum I posted in) I love her, she's my best friend too and we've already spoken about a future together, etc. but I'm having doubts now. We probably haven't spent more than 2 days away from each other. When there's the odd chance I can't meet ... (654 words)

We broke up and it's driving me crazy, how do I cope, should I let her be??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone . okay so my ldr gf and i broke up , and its killing me . i just wonder if u should really give her a space before i try to get her back . but im worried , what is she gets with some1 else during this time ?!! coz i know some guys are intrested in herm , even ... (143 words)

Is there an easy way to tell him I no longer care??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats the best way to break it off with someone? I've been with my boyfriend almost two years but I just don't feel the same anymore. Nothing really happened and I still care about him but I don't want to date anymore. I feel so bad and I really wish I wanted him but for some ... (108 words)

Need an answer to a male orgasm question, please help??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, recently with my boyfriend I managed to "get his cum stuck in his cock" (his words) and he said it was absolutely amazing. The thing is I have no idea how I did this yet I'd like to do it again so if anyone knows what this is or how I would do it again please enlighten ... (62 words)

Need suggestions on how to control my aggressive behavior??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married 3 years. It seems tho that e can't get over past mistakes. I love my husband but he tends to keep secrets n when I find out I go ballistic. I can't Handle hurt n the fact that I have never met his son or that he never speaks to him Infront of me sin... (102 words)

I need to decide which one, my feelings are stronger for one of them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy. The problem is I'm already going out with someone but this guy is single. My bf is the sweetest guy on the planet but I don't really want to go out with him anymore because I don't love him I love this other guy. My bf is also really sensitive and I've ... (157 words)

Age Difference Situation please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! So its my 14th birthday today, and this boy I am seriously in love with turned 17 exactly a month ago. I've liked him since I was 11, and I met him at school. He added me on Facebook when I was 11, and ever since we've been speaking every night (I'm 14 now), texting all ... (288 words)

He dumped me because he says I accuse him all the time

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was dumped today by my partner of 4yrs , we have a child together and i have a child from a previous partner. reason for being dumped was because he was sick of me accusing him of stuff this is not the first time he has dont it we always get back together thou but this tim... (147 words)

How can I be hospitalized for my anorexia (please help me)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have anorexia and have been struggling with it for about a year. I was just a low enough weight to be put in hospital, but they didn't because they wanted to try other ways to help me recover. Now I've put on 10kg since then, and I have 4 or 5 to go. the problem is, m... (230 words)

Is this just what girls do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend have been having a rough time ever since we bought a house together 2 yrs ago. Recently we have been really trying to reconnect. We had a serious discussion of what we wanted and about making things work. One of the main things discussed was about spending time ... (172 words)

He cheated and got her pregnant and I'm mad as hell

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Before a get started...i want to say i love my boyfriend very much. BUT...we have been through too much. i don't know what to do anymore. We have been dating for almost 2 years now. the past 5 months is the best our relationship has ever been. when we first start dating he ... (234 words)

How do I tell him nicely I don't want to go on this trip??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this guy asked suggested we go out somewhere next week during half term, like as in a date and im really nervous about it. all my friends are pushing me forward saying this is a really good opportunity because we both like each other but i just cant even imagine the ... (202 words)

My husband always watches sex videos how can I make him stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone I have a problem.....I am married. Its been two years. Every thing is cool. Even my sex life too. Here comes the problem my husband always sees sex videos.It makes me feel very bad when he watches sex videos. I want to make him stop seeing those videos. He dosen... (73 words)

Do you think a man can be happy with his wife and still cheat on her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a very quick question: do you believe a man who is cheating on his wife but who tells upfront the woman is cheating with that he is in a relationship and "he can't leave her" and, when asked if he is happy, will reply "I think so" ? Is this man really happy with his ... (72 words)

Should I tell her the truth, or stick it out for this baby and see what happens?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been fighting a lot. I fell in love with another woman, and was going to leave my wife for her. Then my wife told me she was pregnant. She asked me point blank, "do you want to have this baby with me?" Since I KNOW that I F'd up, I want to take ... (200 words)

My friend is a lesbian and I'm bi-curious should I sleep with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently made friends with a girl my age. She is a lesbian which isn't something that bothers me. While chatting a few days ago she said that she would really like to sleep with me. She told exactly what she would like to do me. At the time I have to admit it did begin ... (114 words)

So torn between two wonderful men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have noticed that this is a common issue with women: I am torn between two men. For your sake, I will give you a brief intro to both men and then explain the situation. Man #1: We were officially together for a year and 2 months. We had a great relationship ful... (585 words)

Advice on multiple orgasms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all, I would like some help. I'm 13 and I love to masturbate. But when I come I cant carry on. And I've herd that women can have multiple orgasms so I'm kinda confused. I'd some help, thanks x... (47 words)

I think I have a burn-out and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm having a burn out. I feel very stupid for saying this because I'm a university student and students aren't supposed to burned out. But I really need some help on this one! Am I whining here or is there really something going on? Anyway, here's my situation: I'm ... (376 words)

How do I tap into that part of her that does still want me and break down the barrier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so long story. Me and my girl have been on and off for nearly two years. I love her a lot and I know she feels the same way, we adore each other. Earlier this month I betrayed her trust, big time, by lying to her. She was devastated and I felt horrible and she initiall... (199 words)

He's gotton someone else pregnant and I don't know what to do any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am completly in love with someone and we are going out. The problem is that he already has a girlfriend who is one of my best mates and is really sensitive. The thing is I've heard he slept with her and he promised me he wouldn't and I did a test with my mate a pregnancy one ... (110 words)

Pregnancy hopes... Am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I want to know... I have been trying to conceive for 4 months... I have followed the ovulation and fertility rules and still no positive, am i doing something wrong... my partner's sperm flows out sometimes... is that the reason? what am i doing wrong?... (46 words)

Same sex relationship... How can I get her to be more sexual with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I'm writing to ask for advice on an issue im having with my girlfriend. this is our first gay relationship although i've slept with other girls before i met her. we've been together for about a year now. in the beginning she was very nervous and shy about sex, and s... (268 words)

My wife seems to have no sexual interest in me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife and I met when we were 12, started dating at 13 got married at 20 and I'm 32 now. All of our friends envy us, her friends say I'm the best guy, I do everything for her she never complains. I'm not like a lot of guys, she always comes first. The problem is she don't show ... (151 words)

How do I get out of and over an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi ALL, I need some help and advice please. I have just come out of an abusive relastionship as in he was messing me around, using me for sex, being unreliable, claiming we were just freinds, stringing me along, and generally being a nasty brute. It all started off so well, ... (341 words)

Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-... (43 words)

Should I waken him up and confront him?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I spent the night at my boyfriend's apartment. I slept in the bedroom while he slept in the front room. I got up this morning to find a condom wrapper beside the bed. Then i found a receipt to a lingere shop. He is sleep now. Should i wake him up and talk? Or just leave without ... (62 words)

Help! I think my mom is cheating on my dad!!!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since my mom got a facebook I've had suspicions of her cheating on my Dad. I've seen her on it and she mostly talks to guys. About a month ago I was downstairs alone her phone went off, I looked ( I know I really shouldn't have) and it was all texts from a guy named ... (127 words)

Is it worth sending an apology letter to an ex?

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19 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - About 3 weeks ago, my g/f suddenly broke up with me. It was done badly - on both sides, and I posted a question about it here. We've stayed NC since our last call, but I'm starting to feel guilty about pushing her into the breakup, as I wasn't being very considerate in t... (173 words)

Does there always have to be an attraction between 2 people for them to have sex?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When two people have sex, there must be some sort of attraction for them both to do it. Yes you can have one nite stands but something must get you both attracted to each othe even if it is only that? ... (44 words)

Did I cross a line? Was I interrogating him?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend runs a business with his friend and they're having some problems at the moment. I'm worried about him and the future he has in that job. He tells me about his job and when I see him I ask how work is. The other night I told him that I feel that he's not being v... (183 words)

Any tips on getting her back?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys. im really grateful that you took some of your time in order to help me . my 2 years long distance relationship gf just broke up with me and honestly i dont blame her at all. i was bein so selfish lately. I even tried to make her stop modelling since i just did... (242 words)

Does he just want to get inside my knickers?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been really good friends with a guy for a year now - I broke up wiith my partner at christmas and he became my best friend - this has been going on for a year now until we both moved away in which time we have still stayed really great friends. He came down this weeken... (323 words)

Teenage attraction???

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i need your help AGAIN!! well actually its the problem with the same guy i have asked about before. As you guys know i told very clearly that I'm not having any contacts with him and today also I'm telling the same thing. I don't want any contact with him but th... (164 words)

Feel like she's deceiving me and has secret Email account...what do I do?

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19 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I have had trust issues with my girlfriend ever since I found one of her emails about 9 months ago that showed she was planning to cheat on me earlier in our relationship with one of her ex'es. Ever since I confronted her about it, I have had no indication that she has strayed ... (383 words)

I feel it would kill her if she knew the truth.

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19 October 2010 (F)

age - Hi, My aunt told me in february that my dad molested her chest and asked if when he gave her a grown up kiss did she have any feelings. As my father has passed away, I cannot question him about it. This was before I was born and my mum had had a miscarriage and was depresse... (293 words)

What does a guy feel when he's squeezing your breasts?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of one year likes to squeeze and rub my breasts. I love it when he does that. We haven't had sex yet, but we want to do it soon. I'm ready for this, but we don't have enough privacy - we both live with our parents, and there's always one of them at home. Anyway, ... (88 words)

Should I try to make this work?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this female is having this guy's baby after knowing him 3 months.in fact the guy is my ex-boyfriend who wants to get back with me. should i kick him to the curb or try an make it work.... (38 words)

Big crush on my cousin...

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on my cousin and i'm not sure what to do. I'm feeling pretty depressed at the moment, as there was a family party last weekend, and unfortunately, i couldn't go to it because i went to London the week before last, and i'm going away again soon so i couldn't ... (400 words)

Is he too sex-driven to tame, or am I simply being over-worrisome?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are experiencing a long-distance relationship, and have come over quite a few bumps in the road, but have little issues smoothing them out level-headedly. However -- a new, more challenging conflict has arisen: within a few months, I will be admitted into ... (427 words)

My sister is filing for divorce from her husband because she thinks him and me were playing "footsie"

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very close to my sister. I am single. My sister has been married for 10 years. I am also close to her husband. I was visiting my sister last Sunday and she, her husband, his parents and I were playing card games on a table. I accidentally bumped my foot on him and I ... (318 words)

Ex is paying for rent...should I let him come over sometimes?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just left my boyfriend...we tried everything to make it work but it just will never work out between us. I still love him and want the best for him, even though I don't want to be with him at all. We have a two-year-old son and we're trying to make this as smooth as ... (343 words)

When is abortion the best option?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Maybe all of you can help me with this. Since the moment I learned of what abortion is, I have always thought it a good thing. A woman has choices, she can spare a life from suffering if she feels she is not ready. I thought it better than giving it up for adoption because... (369 words)

Is there still someone waiting for me?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first of all, good day to all the readers of dear cupid! just call me chary 17 yrs old. when i was in 2nd year of high school my good image in school becomes bad when my best friend invited me to join their clan and i never thought that this would make my life complica... (589 words)

I miss my ex and want him back

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im still in love with my ex, even though, im dating a guy, i realli doo like, n treats me better than my ex. Bt i know tat, he, n me, r diferent, n tat, me n my ex r more like. Unfourtunately, we are in a distance, me n my ex, n we cant see each other, sooo he has started ... (104 words)

She has a boyfriend but is she into me?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright so I take karate, recently I moved into a more difficult class so I could better hone my skills. In this new class of mine I met the most amazing girl. She is so very fun to talk to she likes the same kinda music I do (we're metal heads) she likes video games, and... (368 words)

I can't get over my ex to move on with a new guy

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what I'm asking. I just feel really horrible right now. Not too long ago I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend. He basically broke up with me because he didn't care for me and didn't want to be with me long term. Even after the break up, he would call and s... (580 words)

I broke up with him, went with a rebound and now want my ex back!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with a man that I was TOTALLY in love with...because he said he was not "in love" with me after 10 months of seriously dating. I broke up with him as soon as he confirmed this. I did this because another man who had been after me was quite in my face at the moment. I ... (127 words)

My separated wife says she hates me and that she never loved me

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im in need of serious help, do to a heart break. My wife and i been married for 3 years and together 4. We have 1 son together. we been seperated for almost 5 months now. I still love her with all my heart and want her back. Shes says that she never loved me and hates me. I ... (316 words)

Broke up with my fiance, he said he's call me, but he hasn't

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunts and uncles its been 5 hours and i just ended things with my fiancé of 1 yr and 3 months whose in the army . He was caught off guard when i told him and told me that we would talk about this later he said he'd call me . and to be honest i was expecting a phone ... (180 words)

I need help on talking to my boyfriend's parents

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help talking to my boyfriends parents. I'm incredibly shy and so have trouble talking to people I don't know well. Can anyone give me any advice on how to keep a conversation? I'm very grateful to them as my BF and I were long distance and so before we move in together... (125 words)

Tips to dump my boyfriend because we are always fighting

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Can you plz give any tips to dump my bf of 3yrs because we always fighting, and he doesn't respect me, he says what ever he want,but i love him so so much,that my problem,i can see that i am just wasting my time with him, he told me that he doesn't trust me and he ... (78 words)

I slept with him and now he's cold to me

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some boy advice! Ok so on my course that I'm doing where I'm nursing or training. There's this boy who I noticed first day! Very cute! He kept looking at 'me and we spent 4 weeks looking over at each other in lectures! I finally did some research and found out who ... (585 words)

I'm tall and he's average height, is that ok?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy I'm totally in love with and I can't stop thinking about him! The thing is I'm really tall and he's average height. This has always been the problem in my relationships but I seriously like this guy and want to ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection because ... (63 words)

Is he gay and does he like me?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy at school that I've been crushing on for the past year and a half now. Lets call him "John" me and john are not best friends, but were pretty good friends, only online and in school though, i've never hung out with him outside of school or eaten lunch... (650 words)

Why do I let him BACK in my life because he has nowhere to go? I've got to get him OUT of HERE!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid: I am an educated,loving,generous widow with one adult child in college. I got hooked up with a man who was married to a family member I never really knew..who is now dead. He had a drug habit (meth), smokes, drinks, has NO ability to control what he says no matter w... (216 words)

Husband having sex with me while sleeping

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a happily married woman but lately I've been encountering problems with my husband.first a roving eye which caused me to have a very low self confidence,then a porn addiction to which I was livid with, which he overcame or so I thought but now its going abit deeper.while ... (191 words)

It bothers me that my boyfriend is taking drugs

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while, he's English and I'm Asian. Most of the time I try not to let cultural differences become our relationship problems. However, there's one thing that bugs me quite a lot: the fact that he will take acid every ... (291 words)

He wouldn't put into the relationship what I was so we broke up

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so 3 weeks ago my boyfriend and i seperated, after 14 months, 10 of those living together, I have 3 kids he has 1, my kids well behaved his a nightmare, i put 110% into him and his son even with out realizing pushing mine away, We loved each other very intensily but he ... (266 words)

My boyfriend is nice to me some days, but not so nice on others!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm hoping to attempt to make this question relatively short. I really need some advice because there's no one else in my life right now *sadface*. Soo I recently moved in with my bf and it goes well on some says, not so well on others. Sometimes he'll be so loving says he ... (156 words)

I love my ex but he wants to see what is out there

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres no simpler way to put it but i'm in love with my ex boyfriend . i can not ,eat sleep ,dream ,listen to the radio look at my photo albums talk about the best moments in my life because they all involve him in it . i fucked up real bad and i'm trying to move on but ... (430 words)

I've lost all my friends!

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19 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - ive lost all of my friends... or can i even call them friends because i would discribe them as bad influence( they like to be skip class every day and do stupid shit its like they dont care about them selfs)this schoool year for me has been heal i guess i can say... im an out ... (158 words)

All the girls just want to be my friend!

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been searching for agirlfriend quiet sometime but no luck they keep saying they want me to be their friend but i had a girlfriend before just that she's sturbon and also she threaten everyone that i meet so what must i do... (43 words)

My boyfriend hasn't called me in days!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend hasnt been talking to me... i dont get why really though... a week or so ago he had surgury... he didnt talk to me for like 5 days befor that cuz he didnt want me to worry about him then he called me and told me he was doing ok... its been 4 days sensce then....hes ... (84 words)

Ghostly goings on...

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry, but this is going to be a long one, but this is something that I'm really confused about and most of you that read this probably will either have no idea what to say or just think I'm crazy. Well I sense ghosts, I was able to repel them, and on rare occations have ... (1014 words)

27 year old female ... how to live up to 40 yr olds sex standards?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - For the 40 year old males... I'm 27... 5'6 130... athletic/toned...I have been talking w/ a good friend of mine who is 40 and at times the conversation has become sexual. It's not an official plan,but eventually sex is probably going to happen. But... I'm nervous.. I have no ... (103 words)

Why would he ignore me, then act interested, then ignore me again?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I talked with the guy I still like (he used to be interested in me also). We went to homecoming together and it all felt like it was going somewhere. Then tonight, I IMed him and we talked a bit cause he was doing HW. He then told me he had to focus and he'll talk to me later ... (163 words)

My best friend is skipping school!

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19 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i dont know wat to do nomore my best friend is skipping (or her friends push her to do it... well they dont really push her they just suggest it and she follows thru) class too much and i dont know how to help her... i mean i talked to her about it last time. and know i feel ... (80 words)

I haven't heard from him yet, is he not interested?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I added this guy on facebook a few weeks ago because I thought he was cute. We have one mutual friend and thats how I found him was on her list. We started talking last week for a few days. When we were emailing each other back and forth he was currently out of town for ... (186 words)

What hold does this married creep have on me?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay...so, I'm the one who asked how to truly rid myself of this married man. Well, he disappeared (or popped out) again and I have the nerve to be angry, hurt, upset, used, defiled, etc. What's wrong with me? What hold does this creep have on me? Why do I keep wasting my ... (65 words)

Never Been Loved

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19 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I'm going through a bad breakup.. I was off and on with this guy for 2 years...and he just told me he never loved me tonight. It was always a battle ground...but I thought he cared. I just found out he didn't, he was using me. This got me remembering all of my terrible r... (261 words)

Everyone knows I like this teacher!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well, i sorta have a prob. i like this teacher and everyone who knows has told him. i don't mean to be rude, but i get nervous now when he talks to me because i know all eyes are on me! and thats including other teachers too! what should i do?... (51 words)

Does receiving a BJ from many people too often reduce sensitivity?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm a 35 years old guy who addicted to receiving BJ. Since when I was 23 years, I started receiving BJ from many gay men(I'm a good looking lad). I average getting two to three BJ per week from different guys. From the age of 23 to 28, half of my orgasm came from... (292 words)

I've been so stupid

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19 October 2010 (M)

age - ive made such a mess of things and I dont know what to do next.My wife and I just started a business running a bar together and have been working 18 hours a day 7 days a week.Its going really well. However I got it into my head that she was starting a relationship with one of o... (270 words)

Was I wrong in getting back into a relationship with my ex?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my ex boyfriend got back together but now its seems like its all the same things from the first reason we broke was i wrong for getting back into this relationship, should i just have moved on? how can you move on from someone youve been w/ for 4 yrs nd was da first for ... (59 words)

How do I overcome my embarrassment?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so i've recently started dating a guy and i'm a super shy person and get embarrassed quite easily. my boyfriend also works away for 3 weeks at a time and would like to see me on skype but i'm embarrassed of showing him my body although he's seen it 100 times in person. how ... (66 words)

How can I ask her out without feeling hurt that she rejected me?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I ask a girl out who probably doesn't even like me because of how I look but doesn't know how I am in the inside? How can I ask her in a way where it won't hurt as much if she rejects me? Why do most girls now a days look for what's on the outside and not the inside ... (70 words)

If we don't have sex every day there is hell to pay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, we are married from last 7 yrs and have a 6 yrs daughter. I have to manage house and work, infact everything so i get exausted by the end of the day. my husband wants to make love almost everyday and when i refuse he overreacts and makes the next few days hell for me. pls... (69 words)

Shaved or trimmed?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys and girls what do you like? Do you like a shaved pubic area or trimed or natural on your partner or on yourself?... (25 words)

Do women make camel toes to get attention?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Im a guy and I was wondering if women know when they have camel toes or not? Or is it done intentionally to get guys to notice?... (29 words)

Girlfriend decides no sex until "I'm ready" because I was afraid she got pregnant

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are both 28, and we have been together about 9 months, and our sex is great. A few months ago she told me in her past relationship she and her ex never used condoms, while in my past I have always used condom. I guess I was trying to please her so fo... (457 words)

I like my best friend's big brother!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I like this guy whose 15 and he's really nice and cute. I know he likes me because his friends tell me and he is always looking at me, he'll b waitin for me at the bus stop and he'll stand at my locker for ever waitin for me. Also when I'm goin to first period, his ... (118 words)

Do I need to clarify or just let it be?

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19 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Today i was talking to a girl that i like via email. We were exchanging notes for close to four hours. We got into a conversation about a friend of hers who loves to talk about her ex husband on facebook. we both think its funny. but then she said something that hit a nerve. ... (229 words)

He doesn't want to get married again even though he says he's marry me

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! Going out with seperated man with 2 kids for the last 2 years. Initially I was skeptical and worried would it work out with his baggage, etc. I know we all have baggage but I suppose I always thought I would meet someone single like me and get married...; We kept ... (1586 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, is it too soon to visit him?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i cheated on my boyfriend. we're in a long distance relationship, so i'm making a trip down there in a weeks. I've been planning this trip for about 3 weeks now. And a couple days ago i cheated, and i told him. He's very understanding, and he forgave me. But i don't know if ... (119 words)

How to overcome social anxiety?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How does one overcome anxiety from socializing with others?... (9 words)

Opinions on back massages?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women appreciate back massages? Do you view it on a sexual or affectionate level?... (15 words)

How to ask if she's seeing other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for about two weeks, I'm 20 and she's 21. We have done everything but sex however she said she already wants to have sex. I told her i wanted to get to know her better and she agreed. The other night she invited me to the bars and we were both ... (152 words)

My boyfriend danced with and texts another girl!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Having problems with boyfriend and another girl he just met? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. Were both college students, only 45 minutes away. But the other night, my family was up for family weekend so i couldn't see my boyfriend for the weekend, which i... (472 words)

Why would she text me asking to be friends after she broke up with her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my ex just dumped her boyfriend. She txts me two days later. I have not spoken to her in 4 or 5 months. Her txts says, " Are we ever going to be friends again?" Whats this all about guys? Does she still have a thing for me cause why the heck would she txt me just to e... (101 words)

She wants to pick out her engagement ring, but I want it to be a surprise!

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - After years of dating I have decided it is time to take the next step and ask my girlfriend of six years to marry me (many years of school has kept me very occupied). I intend on asking her during or just after the holiday season this year. Personally, I would really like ... (183 words)

My boyfriend wants me to give my cats away!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who wants to marry me, wants me to give away my 2 cats whom i love so much because the cat hair disgust him alot. He loves to spend the night with me, but isnt comfortable because of all the cat hair. Should I give them away? PS he laid on my bed to take a nap ... (79 words)

I moved to a new place, want to make friends but have very little contact with others!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hola everyone, I´m an aunt here on this site. I really enjoy helping people, but I really need advice about how to deal with loneliness. I just moved to Queretaro, Mexico, where I´m a TEFL teacher. I really love my job and Mexico is amazing... I studied abroad in C... (280 words)

How to make your boyfriend and your parents get along?

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend thinks that my parents hate him but they don't they just don't like the fact that i hide it from them the first couple weeks then they found out. they took my phone away and said i could never talk to him again until i ran away and after that they accepted him as ... (131 words)

She can't decide what she wants, should I even bother anymore?

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, first off sorry for the length. Here's the preface. I'm a 23 y/o virgin. The girl in question knows this before we start hanging out, thanks to an ex-friend I have since cut out of my life. So I tell this girl I've been hanging out with every day for the past 3 mo... (1627 words)

I want to find an older woman who doesn't think I'm too young to have sex with her!

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19 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - I wish I could find an older woman who doesn't say I am too young to have sex with her. I am 21 by the way. I have been attracted to older woman. We go out on dates and do fun things. When the sex thing comes up they always say I am too young to have sex. Ladies do you ha... (80 words)

I want to end the FWB relationship but hes scared I'll talk bad about him

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to end my casual relationship,fwb,booty call or whatever you wish to name it. im scared to end it though. i dont know how to end it. we already lasted a while. im scared he would bad talk about me. i dont want to end it on bad term where we are going to hate each other ... (84 words)

We always sleep together and cuddle but no more sex!

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, and we get on great and i love him loads.. its just we dont have sex as much anymore, and i dont know why.. when i want it he doesnt, and when he wants it i dont. we love eachother soo much, i just want to know whats wr... (79 words)

I'm not as physically attracted to her as I used to be!

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So this question goes primarily out to guys, but girls can answer as well. I am 16 and have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months. And for some reason I'm finding myself not being as attracted to her. At first I didn't know why, but as i looked into it more i noticed a few ... (138 words)

I'm worried about losing my virginity to a girl with experience

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19 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I feel really embarrassed asking this but I'm a guy who has been going out with this girl for a while now. And we have decided to maybe have sex together. The only problem is is that I'm worried about losing my virginity which I have read does not hurt but she has had sex with ... (139 words)

Getting over a broken heart... I don't understand what's wrong...

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19 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Two years ago, a man moved into my apartment (we had been talking over the phone for a month before he moved to the state and there were already sparks). When he moved in, we were immediately intimate and close and for about 7-8 months we spent all of our time together and ... (516 words)